Bali

[BKKguru]

So my question is about stamina during sex. I know it may not be the exact forum page to post it, but I thought I'd try. Excuse me if I'm being irrelevant.
I get normal erections. With no premature ejaculation or any ED issues. But there's one period when I have an erection that fades:

The period when my penis is erect and hard. Then I go to put my condom on for penetration. This is when the erection fades during that 4-5 second period. And doesn't easily come back.
Is that normal? Do you go through it?
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I can assure you that you are NOT the only one. I have a friend who has the same problem. His erection fades by the time the condom goes on his dick.

Increasingly, I am seeing this happen to me too. It is annoying and hard to explain to your partner.

You did not mention your age. Are you 50+?

~BKKguru

[Offshore Swell]

Hello mongerers,

So my question is about stamina during sex. I know it may not be the exact forum page to post it, but I thought I'd try. Excuse me if I'm being irrelevant.

I get normal erections. With no premature ejaculation or any ED issues. But there's one period when I have an erection that fades:

The period when my penis is erect and hard. Then I go to put my condom on for penetration. This is when the erection fades during that 4-5 second period. And doesn't easily come back.

Is that normal? Do you go through it?

Again, I get normal hard ONS during foreplay, bare blowjobs (so it is not a blood flow problem). But it just doesn't last long when I go to put the condom. Is it a focus problem? An exhaustion problem? Is there a way to avoid it?

It's been happening 80% of the times and it is annoying for me and my partner.

Thanks in advance for any feedback on this.

That's easy, dump the condom and enjoy the bliss of BBFS.

[Pez612]

I had a great experience in the Sway joint recently. Google Maps say they close at 8 pm so I fist contacted on WhatsApp. Quick response and confirmed they close at 12 pm.

It's hard to get there, specially if you don't go through the bigger roads. Maps can send you through some really small alleys (like almost too small for a scooter), but once you get there the place and surroundings are nice. Better to go with a scooter or scooter grab. A car will get lost and will take you forever.

Good service from the reception. She explained very clearly the service on detail. No BS, no hidden fees. Then she told me to wait for the fishbowl. I sat for 5 minutes and was called to this blue neon room where 8 or 9 girls in lingerie were waiting. I'd say they were all around 6/10 body. Some had better faces or boobs, but nobody got me too excited except for this absolute stunner that I picked.

Then I was taken to the room. Nice enough, red lights and mirror. Also good shower.

I showered and was waiting for the girl. At this point I was thinking maybe I didn't see the girl right, or my first impression of the girl was wrong, but when she walked into the room OMG. She was even better. I can easily give her a 9/10 body and 8/10 face.

Very nice attitude. She introduced herself and during the massage she did a little chit chat but nothing intrusive, was quite nice. The massage was not bad either. After that there was a bit of cat bath and boobs massage. Then the flip. Really great service afterwards. She let me do pretty much anything I wanted, except for "not inside". BJ for a 400 tip, non-negotiable, which I didn't take. FS also non-negotiable.

At the end 1 full hour service, no clock looking, no hurry. Just amazing. We showered together and I tipped her 100.

Total damage was 800 k maybe? I'm not so sure. I remember they also had a cheap option with no b2 be and the receptionist clearly said no undressing. They also have 4 hands available for 1. 3 M I think.

Thanks the report. I've been looking into Sway. See pist below. So good to hear a good experience.

[Mgp23]

I had a great experience in the Sway joint recently. Google Maps say they close at 8 pm so I fist contacted on WhatsApp. Quick response and confirmed they close at 12 pm.

It's hard to get there, specially if you don't go through the bigger roads. Maps can send you through some really small alleys (like almost too small for a scooter), but once you get there the place and surroundings are nice. Better to go with a scooter or scooter grab. A car will get lost and will take you forever.

Good service from the reception. She explained very clearly the service on detail. No BS, no hidden fees. Then she told me to wait for the fishbowl. I sat for 5 minutes and was called to this blue neon room where 8 or 9 girls in lingerie were waiting. I'd say they were all around 6/10 body. Some had better faces or boobs, but nobody got me too excited except for this absolute stunner that I picked.

Then I was taken to the room. Nice enough, red lights and mirror. Also good shower.

I showered and was waiting for the girl. At this point I was thinking maybe I didn't see the girl right, or my first impression of the girl was wrong, but when she walked into the room OMG. She was even better. I can easily give her a 9/10 body and 8/10 face.

Very nice attitude. She introduced herself and during the massage she did a little chit chat but nothing intrusive, was quite nice. The massage was not bad either. After that there was a bit of cat bath and boobs massage. Then the flip. Really great service afterwards. She let me do pretty much anything I wanted, except for "not inside". BJ for a 400 tip, non-negotiable, which I didn't take. FS also non-negotiable.

At the end 1 full hour service, no clock looking, no hurry. Just amazing. We showered together and I tipped her 100.

Total damage was 800 k maybe? I'm not so sure. I remember they also had a cheap option with no b2 be and the receptionist clearly said no undressing. They also have 4 hands available for 1. 3 M I think.

[Pez612]

Need some advice: My girlfriend arrives soon to join me in Sanur. She's very bi and is interested in having a threesome. She likes young, slim and pretty (who doesn't) and I'm wondering best way to go about it.

I'm thinking hitting clubs and finding a young hottie. Which will be expensive but I can live with that (I'm guessing 1. 5 juta? Or does anyone have any other suggestions? I seem to remember what of the spas does a couples massage (Sway perhaps) but not sure of quality of girls.

I've just hit 50 (although I'm in shape and looking younger) and my girlfriend is 30 but looks much younger than her years. Happy to hit the clubs but I don't like partying until the early hours now.

Thanks.

[CodeName47]

Hello everyone,

So I've been using Bumble, Tinder and Seeking Arrangement when in Bali. I found good matches on Bumble and Tinder, and great quality in Seeking Arrangement. Here's what I found:

1) Those on Bumble and Tinder do not always date for sex. They date for fun and can sometimes be prude and shy away from sex. Some are not even used to it. But dating them is free and without pressure.

2) Those on Seeking Arrangement are definitely there for sex. But they're expensive. Some ask for 10 million rupiah. Others for 5. Depending on the lady. Most have top quality and are designed for a sexual experience. '.

So my question is:

Shall I invest time in dating on Bumble and Tinder, with low expectations of quality ladies and quality sex? Or shall I invest in paying for a guaranteed quality sexual experience with an above-average babe on Seeking Arrangement?

What would be a good choice in your opinion?

Depends.

Girls have preferences. If you are <40 and good in dating. You have a lot of success rates than 70 years who asks to bed right after greetings.

Tinder serves most of everyones needs. Its all about expectations. If you are at 40+ but wanted to spend #2 mil for a quick 1 hour sessions there are for sure options. But most of the platforms used to work before are now following the trend of Philipines. 35 year old ladies pretending to be 19 years old.

I am not visiting this trip to bali but its spreading everywhere in indoneisa. Before pandemic online dating was good. But now they learnt or we thought them to ask money for iPhones and school fees.

[Pez612]

Jl. Cemara, Sanur.

Good selection of girls. No FS. 100 k massage + 200 k HJ.

[Irish Mongrel]

So my question is:

Shall I invest time in dating on Bumble and Tinder, with low expectations of quality ladies and quality sex? Or shall I invest in paying for a guaranteed quality sexual experience with an above-average babe on Seeking Arrangement?

What would be a good choice in your opinion?

When I used Tinder for trips to Jakarta I found some absolute beauties and although there was never a presumption of what I was looking for, all ended up in my hotel room by the end of the night. I would spend a couple of weeks connecting with ladies prior to my trip, culling before I got there. Weeding out the lady boys and obvious P4 P. You'd pick up hints of how the night is going to go in conversations. Uni sudents where always a good starting point.

[ShawarmaMan]

Yes Risca is open, not closed as it says on Google Maps currently. I've just edited google maps to reflect open status.

As for services on offer. Just read recent posts you will find all the information you need including prices.

Risca and Magic Hands were quite rundown. The selection was even poorer 3 girls at MH 3 at Risca all of them well in their late 30's maybe 40's.

At D88 now will report back.

[VonderJohn]

Hello everyone,

So I've been using Bumble, Tinder and Seeking Arrangement when in Bali. I found good matches on Bumble and Tinder, and great quality in Seeking Arrangement. Here's what I found:

1) Those on Bumble and Tinder do not always date for sex. They date for fun and can sometimes be prude and shy away from sex. Some are not even used to it. But dating them is free and without pressure.

2) Those on Seeking Arrangement are definitely there for sex. But they're expensive. Some ask for 10 million rupiah. Others for 5. Depending on the lady. Most have top quality and are designed for a sexual experience. '.

So my question is:

Shall I invest time in dating on Bumble and Tinder, with low expectations of quality ladies and quality sex? Or shall I invest in paying for a guaranteed quality sexual experience with an above-average babe on Seeking Arrangement?

What would be a good choice in your opinion?

[Pez612]

If you use Telegram (which is like whatsapp) then a new feature is to look for people nearby. The 'people nearby' list will also include groups that are relevant to the locality.

There are WGs using this feature. You can look them up yourself, and some will reach out to you via the app if you have made your profile visible.

[Granite St8]

Thanks for this buddy.

Couple of follow up questions. Risca Sanur on Google maps says it's permanently closed is this the one? Magic Hands looks like it's close some guessing it's the one just making sure.

Is there more than just HJ's on offer at either MH or Risca, specifically BBBJ's or at the very least a covered BJ?

Again thanks in advance.

I think in these types of places where there is no set extras menu, availability of BJ always depends on whether the girl offers it or not. I went to Magic hands and the girl I chose didn't do BJ but maybe the other girls do. I feel like 50% of the time the girl offers it. At Magic hands you'll get a halfway decent massage with extras available and Risca looks like the type of place where its more about getting down to business, again BJ depending on the girl.

If you want to make sure you get what you want you could always go to a place that has a set menu. There is D88 Spa in Renon, close to Sanur, and another similar spa or two just around the corner. Happy hunting.

[Pez612]

Thanks for this buddy.

Couple of follow up questions. Risca Sanur on Google maps says it's permanently closed is this the one? Magic Hands looks like it's close some guessing it's the one just making sure.

Is there more than just HJ's on offer at either MH or Risca, specifically BBBJ's or at the very least a covered BJ?

Again thanks in advance.

Yes Risca is open, not closed as it says on Google Maps currently. I've just edited google maps to reflect open status.

As for services on offer. Just read recent posts you will find all the information you need including prices.

[ShawarmaMan]

Whilst not a Sanur expert. I'm just on a long holiday here. I would say refer threads on Risca and Magic Hands below. MH has a bigger selection of girls, of couple of which are reasonably hot.

Thanks for this buddy.

Couple of follow up questions. Risca Sanur on Google maps says it's permanently closed is this the one? Magic Hands looks like it's close some guessing it's the one just making sure.

Is there more than just HJ's on offer at either MH or Risca, specifically BBBJ's or at the very least a covered BJ?

Again thanks in advance.

[Pez612]

As promised, here is a short report from my recent visit to Risca. Visit was early afternoon. They only seem to have 2 girls working in early daytime, and the one that was available showed me to a room:

Room was a bit shabby but had good privacy as well as a fan. Massage was poor. Just pushing oil around really. A bit of teasing but nothing to write about. After the flip was a bit of negotiation and settled on an extra 200 k for the HJ. I'm not sure what else she was offering to be honest as I couldn't quite understand her, so just told what I wanted (HJ).

Compared with Magic Hands across the road it was an inferior service, both in quality of girl and the massage / HJ. I'll try both places again over the next couple of days, but at this point Magic Hands appears to be the better establishment.

Dropped into MH again today and had a great experience. Firstly, I asked for a cubicle away from the AC unit. The temperature was much better than last time.

The massage was pleasant, but obviously she is not trained in massage (the downside to these establishments).

However, I did something different to my last visit which really paid off: Instead of waiting to be offered services, I had a bit of cheeky chat with the girl early on and made some rather forward suggestions in a jokey way. She really opened up and the top came off and she delivered one of the best HJs I've had (not rushed at all), also allowing me to spend quite some time exploring her assets. She was very pretty and loads of eye contact and flirting. Loved it.

One nice thing was there was no mention of money at all. When I came to leave I gave her 100 k for the massage, and 300 k for the HJ, top off with all the touching etc. She indicated that was the correct price. I love it when there is no haggling to be done.

WIR? Yes, probably in a couple of days. And will try to see the same girl.

The other thing I learned today is the open the shop from 8 am, which is great for me as a I love a bit of morning action to put e in a good mood for the rest of the day.