Jakarta

[Thampi62]

Just to show that dating in Jakarta really is a minefield, some girls would just agree to meet but just flat out reject if you're not within their area. Like if they were in South and I was in North Jakarta as you get the sense of how enormous the city is. Really is humunguous.

Dating in Jakarta you need luck. So always move with Plan B, while exploring Dating sites. Open your eyes widely to see the oppurtunities around you. If you have a friend go through her friends photos and collect their numbers. Everybody know it runs for lust not love. If one is getting bored go to a brothel or a bar, the time can change at any moment.

By the way not much reports of brothels from South Jakarta. Wish to stay once there and go for hunting.

[SuperLove]

I think sleeping alone in Jakarta or not getting the opportunity to fuck is cardinal Sin IMHO. Jakarta is a mongering heaven and if the girl ghosts you why don't you just grab your way to classic / emporium and have the time of your life, what's stopping you bro. Yes I do understand online could be a minefield of talent in terms of looks and service but involves a lot of time & energy. I always say this, punters cannot afford to waste time & energy in a mongering trip, its priceless. Cheers.

Also forgot to mention it's really swings and roundabouts as I found out this time on my Jakarta trip. I mentioned my last trip was pretty successful as I scored some quite hot locals but this one I was firing blanks. I was swiping around a week beforehand on bumble and actually had 4 girls lined up in the 1st 4 days.

Girl 1.

Said can I call her a taxi, then said it's raining can we wait til later. Ended up it just kept on being delayed and I wasted my 1st night waiting, just had dinner alone after I gave up.

Girl 2.

We arranged to meet a few days prior, even text her when I arrive and said see you tomorrow. But lesson learnt from previous day, you have to assume they won't show up and just go about your business. So I went to Classic and had that 3-some before the date. Guess what? She ghosted me LOL.

Girl 3 & 4.

I kinda got jaded a bit after that and with the next 2 dates one did show up and we had dinner but she had to go at 9. No action but a few days later she asks me to invest in her fledgling business.

Just to show that dating in Jakarta really is a minefield, some girls would just agree to meet but just flat out reject if you're not within their area. Like if they were in South and I was in North Jakarta as you get the sense of how enormous the city is. Really is humunguous.

And I was saying that Bangkok is kinda going down, spent 6 days in Jakarta firing blanks, then ironically had 3 dates in 3 days in Bkk and scored twice with pretty hot civvies.

[Rocketeer666]

Hi fellow mongers!

This is my first post on ISG on this account. I deleted the former account many years back when I thought I was going to be married for life. Now I understand better and I'm happily divorced since a couple of years back. I was thinking of going to Thailand or Colombia this autumn, but then I started to read on this Jakarta forum that I have visited before on rare occasions.

Thailand is just too easy and accessible, and nowadays getting too pricy, too crowded and too much silicone. And Colombia is for me, too far away with the long flight distance.

I actually love the hunt when I'm mongering and I thought that Jakarta could be an adventure when looking for nice young ones with big milkers, so now I'm planning my trip to Jakarta in November and I thought it would be great to hang out with anyone of you, to share some war stories together with some cold ones and then go hunting. I'm in my late 40's from a Scandinavian country.

Hey bro lets catch up, this Thursday around mangga bessar! I'll DM you.

[Rocketeer666]

Tried to message you but you don't seem to have it enabled?

I'm activated again! Dm bro I'll be around mangga bessar Thursday all day.

[Sychip1]

Why I don't do online sh1t. Hope you at least had a nice hotel room since that's where you spent 4 straight days.

It was quite a contrast.

Decided to try Redstar Hotel. The price was unbelievable plus I mentioned in my earlier post I really want to give Hotel Travel a good crack this time. But minimum charge 200 k, I said to them no thanks. Thought it was quite interesting there was a sign at the Redstar lobby in Indonesian but not English. I used google translate and it said " No Smoking and No Guns". Maybe tells you more about the clientele.

Then I moved to Novotel Gaja Meda. This is useful for exploring Lokasiri and Mangga Besar which is a big street food area. Trouble was there's no decent restaurants nearby within a 2-3 mile radius, as mentioned it's either street food or very local restaurants. So if you suggest these places to a date they'll probably counter with someplace else.

Some girls will ask for you to pay for their taxi there and presumably return journey as well. So along with the price of forking out for a meal it may not make a lot of sense to date civvies on a trip unless you do like going on dates and chatting to locals. Which I actually quite like but when they only show up 25% of the time, pretty annoying.

[Banana Boi]

Girl 1. I wasted my 1st night waiting

Girl 2.
She ghosted me

Girl 3 & 4.
we had dinner but she had to go at 9. No action but a few days later she asks me to invest in her fledgling business.

Why I don't do online sh1t. Hope you at least had a nice hotel room since that's where you spent 4 straight days.

[Sychip1]

Also forgot to mention it's really swings and roundabouts as I found out this time on my Jakarta trip. I mentioned my last trip was pretty successful as I scored some quite hot locals but this one I was firing blanks. I was swiping around a week beforehand on bumble and actually had 4 girls lined up in the 1st 4 days.

Girl 1.

Said can I call her a taxi, then said it's raining can we wait til later. Ended up it just kept on being delayed and I wasted my 1st night waiting, just had dinner alone after I gave up.

Girl 2.

We arranged to meet a few days prior, even text her when I arrive and said see you tomorrow. But lesson learnt from previous day, you have to assume they won't show up and just go about your business. So I went to Classic and had that 3-some before the date. Guess what? She ghosted me LOL.

Girl 3 & 4.

I kinda got jaded a bit after that and with the next 2 dates one did show up and we had dinner but she had to go at 9. No action but a few days later she asks me to invest in her fledgling business.

Just to show that dating in Jakarta really is a minefield, some girls would just agree to meet but just flat out reject if you're not within their area. Like if they were in South and I was in North Jakarta as you get the sense of how enormous the city is. Really is humunguous.

And I was saying that Bangkok is kinda going down, spent 6 days in Jakarta firing blanks, then ironically had 3 dates in 3 days in Bkk and scored twice with pretty hot civvies.

[Rajdasking]

Don't want to Jinx it for you but I stayed at Luminor for 4 nights and due to sickness and work commitments, didn't get to go to Emporium this time at all. Hopefully this doesn't happen to you.

Hope you got better mate, was it food poisoning? How would you rate Luminor and would you stay there again? I'm near committed to Movenpick (few extra dollars for a new hotel).

Thankfully no work commitments, I was going to start everyday with SB brunch (they may be a no show is the risk); then smash them if they are as horny as they seem to be on daily telegram chat; working a 5-6 list hard so if one dosent show maybe another will and if not been told Emporium open from 3 pm so will just go there. To be honest I wish there were other things to do in Jakarta but the lack of tourism is what makes it a purely punting destination and a gem.

[Goferring]

LOL. You are right. I now remember a girl telling me about those disposable underwears for oil massages a few years ago in Bangkok. I'm thinking they have to be a somewhat recent invention...

They've been in use for at least 20 years especially the higher end places.

[Nuttin Serious]

There is an option to just keep the girls for drinking companions. I think it costs the same 375 K. Some locals just want company and don't want to fuck. Its not a free hour of drinking and groping in any case.

That was correct last time I was there. 375 k whether you took her to a room or just kept her for company.

[Expat American]

I saw a couple of posts after this one criticizing that Expat's admonishments were too much. At first I thought that the criticism was simply rude and an ahole thing to say. But to be fair I don't know how Jakarta operates. I've seen a table full of local Indo guys sit with pretty girls and buying them beer and feeling them up for a loong time. No idea if they ever tipped or went upstairs with them. And if I never found out the answer, I really don't care.

There is an option to just keep the girls for drinking companions. I think it costs the same 375 K. Some locals just want company and don't want to fuck. Its not a free hour of drinking and groping in any case.

[Werqweq]

Eh this isn't completely accurate. Many a times the massage spa will hand you a disposable brief that's tightly bunned up in an individually wrapped package about 1 inch diameter by 3 in long. You strip naked and put this one size fits all brief shaped gauze around your goodies to avoid getting oil on any of your clothes. This is Jakarta. In Bali, those tourist robbing places just have you go naked or wear your own undies because they're going to try to upsell the crap out of your for a handjob.

LOL. You are right. I now remember a girl telling me about those disposable underwears for oil massages a few years ago in Bangkok. I'm thinking they have to be a somewhat recent invention, as before that I'd never heard of the thing, and back when I did get an oil massage now and then (I now only get thai massages), I was never offered a pair.

[Zippos]

Don't want to Jinx it for you but I stayed at Luminor for 4 nights and due to sickness and work commitments, didn't get to go to Emporium this time at all. Hopefully this doesn't happen to you.

Hence living next door to emporium LOL.

[Rajdasking]

Have a back up of a back up. These horny Jilbabs often disappears at time of meeting. But by the sound of it, you have done your leg work well.

Have fun and enjoy Jakarta.

Hence living next door to emporium LOL.

[BenderOver]

Thats not cool. If you bring the girls to your table you should take them to the room unless there is some deal breaker, which you should find out in the first couple of minutes. Bad behavior like this will make the girls more mercenary. Please don't spoil the playground for the rest of us by giving all Bule a bad reputation.

I saw a couple of posts after this one criticizing that Expat's admonishments were too much. At first I thought that the criticism was simply rude and an ahole thing to say. But to be fair I don't know how Jakarta operates. I've seen a table full of local Indo guys sit with pretty girls and buying them beer and feeling them up for a loong time. No idea if they ever tipped or went upstairs with them. And if I never found out the answer, I really don't care.

As far as the practice of feeling a girl up before the deed, I do what Expat does. I test the waters for two minutes and if I'm not getting a match up in energy, I release her back to the goldfish bowl.

The first few times I started trying this out it was pretty awesome. MMS introduced me to a pretty young girl and we went to introduce ourselves privately at a tall table in the corner. She stood right in front of me super close and we gently kissed, little tongue to tongue teasing, my hands were all over her everywhere and she only started to gently nudge my hands back when I tried to slip my hands into her panties. I took her upstairs.

The opposite was one time I was trying to get some good feels and this girl was a hockey goalie. I mean she pulled out defender gloves and just wacked every hand motion I had with a deadly counter. Any attempt I made to get my face close to her face was responded to with a look of disgust. Thanks, but if this is how you're persuading me to take you upstairs I already know the next hour is shit.

My favorite was a young 19 year old beauty. First month at classic and she later admitted that she was having a super slow night and simply was out of money showing me her last 5 k in her purse (this was after the hour spent upstairs). But in our introduction she really sold it and seemed to genuinely like me or did a hell of a job pretending to. Gentle kisses were received and responded to sexily. I mention this episode because I was getting such good milage caressing this girl that a few minutes in I found my hand up the backside of her skirt, palm inside her panties cupping her bare ass and my finger 3 inches in her butthole after it was lubed wet with a ton of excessive wetness dripping out of her the few minutes we were playing together.

That session went over the top upstairs, I tipped her 600 k, got her digits, and she's a friend with benefits at this point.