Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[Tally Wacker]

My first Filipina. Man what a lesson I learned from that one. "I love you. I love you. I love you. It's one thing to read about Filipina dishonesty, quite another when you see it with your own eyes, in incontrovertible evidence.

I wouldn't take your experience with a local **** and convey that on all "Filipinas" because its not accurate. If she did a search on your personal computer and found that you are a member of ISG does that mean you are a liar? Are you looking for a wife or a hooker? Maybe you need to reevaluate your plan before your next visit.

[Roll Aides]

My first Filipina. Man what a lesson I learned from that one. "I love you. I love you. I love you. " Three weeks in she asks me for some help on the computer. I had been letting her use my laptop. In the course of checking it out I happened to look at the browser history. Good grief. Date in Asia, Cherry Blossoms, etc. I get her password out of her to "help" her, and proceed to check out her yahoo messenger, email, facebook, etc. Apparently while I am sleeping in the next room, she has a large variety of other guys on the hook, cam shows, the whole nine yards.

After this little episode, I did some research on system monitoring software. The one selected after some comparison shopping, is System Surveillance Pro. http://www.gpsoftdev.com/ This is invisible to anyone who doesn't know how to access it, and it lets me see what anyone using my computer has been doing, in detail. Screenshots, anything typed, sites visited, chat monitoring.

Now, one of the first things I do, is make sure a girl has (what she assumes is) alone time on my computer. Then I check out the hijinx and shit she has been up to while I was out of the room or asleep. Incredibly revealing. I can't recommend this program highly enough. It's one thing to read about Filipina dishonesty, quite another when you see it with your own eyes, in incontrovertible evidence.

The hilarity which ensues when you confront her with her online activity versus her obvious lies is worth a hundred times the cost of the program. After one has been in the Philippines a while, one realizes that the girls lie all the time, about everything, almost like it's a bodily function. But how they react when you catch them at it is even more revealing, in a way, of their national psychology. Somewhat of a study of the squalid, but 100% necessary if you want to survive here, IMO.

It's often fortuitous when a girl uses your computer and doesn't log off - turn off your wifi in your place before she arrives so she's less likely to use her phone. A friend just broke up with her overseas boyfriend. She was hiding her social activities but got caught. What she was doing is using a dating site profile without any photos. She'd browse the guys and send them a message telling them that she was looking for a shag. They would then exchange emails with photos attached. Her boyfriend made a profile with another guy's photos and she contacted him. Surprise!

Anyway, I read some of their emails (the girl and bf) and found this excerpt revealing:

"I was just honest to you because you deserve honesty. This is the real me that I was hiding from you, . I was unfaithful since the first time I got a boyfriend until I dated you and become loyal, I love doing it to you because I can feel the love. . . But you were not here for a long time already this is the reality, girls are more horny than guys and once girls got use to having sex every other day we / I will going to find ways to look for it, I love doing it with you because I love you, but you are here satisfy my needs. . I've never been honest like this before thank you for letting me know myself better...

[Member #4387]

Hahaha I got the fuck you from a girl a couple weeks ago after I had broken my foot, had it casted and was on crutches and showed her all of that on cam. She said I was a liar. Like I'd go through all that to break a date.

Haha unbelievable how some of these girls can manage to creat drama. And even if some are obviously spending a lot of time in hotelrooms around they are jelous as hell. Beats me. I myself do like the quite life without any dramas but as some others here it is quite nice and humoristic to follow from a distance. I have added quite a few hundreds in a facebook account and from them there are a solid number of what I would expect to be BG's. It is funny when they press like with their other or even third account telling you upfront they only did have one. I like to investigate my way to their "real" account as from this one they have real friends and the ones I like to feast from (even if it is not a perfect science).

And this early in the morning: I love you Joe.

Afternoon: I love you Steven.

Evening: hate you Joe.

Midnight: I feel frustrated.

No wonders if you ask me, haha.

[Slippery]

From my humble adobe in a bustling East Asia city, I can enjoy Filipina drama just by browsing around FB.

An attractive woman from Bacalod writes on her timeline: You can come here anytime I show you everything I do. Then you realize what's your saying against me..

It's unclear who she is writing to, but looking thru her pictures it is easy to identify at least one AC hotel room. The gal seems to spend a lot of time in hotel rooms. The friend list shows she has no shortage of foreign male friends. She has the kind of FB profile which would put her right up there near the top of my list. And I surely wouldn't be saying things "against her".

Five days later she posts again: I hate you. The time you are here I'll text you many times you didn't txt me back.

And now you are leaving.

You txt me and say you going to Miss me and hope see me soon fuck you I'm not born yesterday..

Drama is more fun in the Philippines!

Hahaha I got the fuck you from a girl a couple weeks ago after I had broken my foot, had it casted and was on crutches and showed her all of that on cam. She said I was a liar. Like I'd go through all that to break a date.

[X Man]

From my humble adobe in a bustling East Asia city, I can enjoy Filipina drama just by browsing around FB.

An attractive woman from Bacalod writes on her timeline: You can come here anytime I show you everything I do. Then you realize what's your saying against me..

It's unclear who she is writing to, but looking thru her pictures it is easy to identify at least one AC hotel room. The gal seems to spend a lot of time in hotel rooms. The friend list shows she has no shortage of foreign male friends. She has the kind of FB profile which would put her right up there near the top of my list. And I surely wouldn't be saying things "against her".

Five days later she posts again: I hate you. The time you are here I'll text you many times you didn't txt me back.

And now you are leaving.

You txt me and say you going to Miss me and hope see me soon fuck you I'm not born yesterday..

Drama is more fun in the Philippines!

[Wicked Roger]

Roger, you are just looking to mix it up aren't you? I wanted the flame war to burn out, but you want to keep going? Fine?

Funny how are you are sticking up for CM now. It seems like just a few days ago you are your girlfriends were piling on him, the way that cowards do. You guys have spent so much time hanging with uneducated girls that you have adopted their clique, gossipy ways. Say what you like, but I'll be waiting for the day when you and your buddies run out of retirement cash, and you jump off the balcony of some fleabag hotel in Manila to finally end your misery. Yeah, you know what I'm talking about.

Manny,

I suggest you read the FR properly and understand the jist and satire of what was written before claiming that me and others have the brains of idiots and will commit suicide as we will run out of funds (ever hear of the word 'pension' - as this is what many who live in the country use however big or small).

If you can't understand the jist of the post the basic facts are CM is not a favourite by any means in fact I would put him on the Ignore List but I like to read the rubbish he spouts (as I do your FMs) as life is full of variety so why make it boring.

BTW, few girls read the form IMHO so who are the 'girlfriends' you refer to unless you mean fellow members who you disagree with. Enlighten us please as to which members you call a girl? As my girlfriends never read ISG and you don't know them as well so who are you referring to, please.

[Manny51]

Agreed.

But unlike Manny CM has been there done tat and got the t-shirt, he knows a lot about STDs and spreading the gene pool which IMHO is a tad unfortunate (the last bit I mean).

Always good to see how fellow mongers treat and respect the pinays. Manny would learn if he ever come here but that seems remote LOL.

Roger, you are just looking to mix it up aren't you? I wanted the flame war to burn out, but you want to keep going? Fine?

Funny how are you are sticking up for CM now. It seems like just a few days ago you are your girlfriends were piling on him, the way that cowards do. You guys have spent so much time hanging with uneducated girls that you have adopted their clique, gossipy ways. Say what you like, but I'll be waiting for the day when you and your buddies run out of retirement cash, and you jump off the balcony of some fleabag hotel in Manila to finally end your misery. Yeah, you know what I'm talking about.

[Soapy Smith]

ChochaMonger is one of my favorite contributors on ISG. My favorite post was his comparison of a typical Filipina family's daughters to pigs being fattened up for sale. They would hopefully bring in old age social security, a monthly supply of San Miguels and other goodies for the parents when married off to some foreigner.

I'm starting to see the light. So thanks to Manny for resurrecting this recent post. I confess I read it too quickly the first time and missed all the good stuff. Having grieved over all the Pinays with whom I never got more than a few nights of lust, how could I have been so naive not to realize they were looking for greener pastures after I told them I'd had a vasectomy. Besides, all the foreign inbreeding will lead these women to have yet larger daughters, thus making it easier to fatten them up for the next generation of foreigners. When you stop and reflect it just makes so much sense--this incessant craving of foreign sperm.

[Wicked Roger]

ChochaMonger is one of my favorite contributors on ISG. My favorite post was his comparison of a typical Filipina family's daughters to pigs being fattened up for sale. They would hopefully bring in old age social security, a monthly supply of San Miguels and other goodies for the parents when married off to some foreigner.

Agreed.

But unlike Manny CM has been there done tat and got the t-shirt, he knows a lot about STDs and spreading the gene pool which IMHO is a tad unfortunate (the last bit I mean).

Always good to see how fellow mongers treat and respect the pinays. Manny would learn if he ever come here but that seems remote LOL.

[Member #4351]

Wow! Great post. Might be the most interesting post I have ever read on the forum.

ChochaMonger is one of my favorite contributors on ISG. My favorite post was his comparison of a typical Filipina family's daughters to pigs being fattened up for sale. They would hopefully bring in old age social security, a monthly supply of San Miguels and other goodies for the parents when married off to some foreigner.

[Manny51]

it is true that filipinas hate condoms and love raw nasty sex. guys who arrive in the philippines with sincere intentions to use condoms in each and every sexual encounter eventually find their resolve weakened if not crushed. filipinas will beg, whine and plead for some good old fashioned raw sausage complete with an injection of cream filling. foreigners are perplexed by this seemingly blas attitude filipinas have to being impregnated by complete strangers during casual sexual encounters. unlike western women who choose their impregnator based on his ability to pay a sizeable amount of child support for two decades, filipinas choose the father of their children based on genetics. desirable traits like intelligence, a long snout, eye color, height, a huge penis, etc. can result in filipina begging for your sperms.

"give me baby" is a request heard regularly by foreigners visiting or residing in the philippines. many guys acquiesce and add their genes to the philippine gene pool siring a number of offspring. filipinas are happy to be knocked up by foreigners even when financial support is not forthcoming. the craving for sperm diversity may confound the casual observer but a closer look at local communities provides some understanding of this phenomenon. a visitor to a typical provincial village would soon discover that most of the residents are related to each other. filipino men not wishing to shag their cousins must often visit other villages to find girlfriends or wives. [CodeWord128] is a common problem in the provinces. this may be part of the reason why filipinas prize impregnation by a foreigner. it brings fresh genes into the community and possibly discourages [CodeWord130] ambitions from relatives.

iuds may be an effective form of contraception but filipinas look on any form of contraception with deep suspicion. so, good luck trying to get them to go to a doctor and have some medieval looking hardware installed in their snatch. the religious zealots have done a good job of convincing women that contraception will harm their health and render them permanently barren. as for condoms, you would not have a problem using them to root bar girls but expect them to complain that it hurts their pussy and they don't fancy them. girlfriends are a different matter. they expect you to ride them bareback and cum in their snatch, to do otherwise would be considered an insult and any feelings of affection you express to them will be considered insincere. all you can do is be open to breeding them if you want to keep that loving feeling. you can try to fool them with a vasectomy but after a year or two of frequent sex the girls will start thinking that your dick is too weak to knock them up and they will get a man with intact stones to breed them on the side.

what about stds? if you're riding dirty with multiple sex partners you will catch them eventually. you can't ride the lighting and remain unrep001hed. i know mongers who caught their first dose of gonorrhea on their very first trip to the philippines from the very first girl they screwed and went home with a dick dripping custard as a souvenir. others have a dirty dick but they're asymptomatic and don't even know they're carrying diseases and spreading them around. then there are the lucky ones who haven't run into some sick pussy yet. in the end you pay your money and take your chances. filipinas have some cute euphemisms for stds though, i remember one saying, "my boyfriend gave me fever in my poosay. "

wow! great post. might be the most interesting post i have ever read on the forum.

[Hutsori]

It's often fortuitous when a girl uses your computer and doesn't log off - turn off your wifi in your place before she arrives so she's less likely to use her phone. A friend just broke up with her overseas boyfriend. She was hiding her social activities but got caught. What she was doing is using a dating site profile without any photos. She'd browse the guys and send them a message telling them that she was looking for a shag. They would then exchange emails with photos attached. Her boyfriend made a profile with another guy's photos and she contacted him. Surprise!

Anyway, I read some of their emails (the girl and bf) and found this excerpt revealing:

"I was just honest to you because you deserve honesty. This is the real me that I was hiding from you, . I was unfaithful since the first time I got a boyfriend until I dated you and become loyal, I love doing it to you because I can feel the love. . . But you were not here for a long time already this is the reality, girls are more horny than guys and once girls got use to having sex every other day we / I will going to find ways to look for it, I love doing it with you because I love you, but you are here satisfy my needs. . I've never been honest like this before thank you for letting me know myself better. . I am selfish, you cannot trust me with sex but I'm a good friend, I am silly, I am crazy but I know how to choose, I now know what I want and now know the real me. . I'm not the shy girl we both know. . I thought I'm a shy girl but I'm not, I'm confident and brave. . As you said I'm a smart girl. . Before I was doubting it but now I feel really I am. . I love you baby. Thank you for all. . I will miss you so much. You help a lot to improve myself. Yes your right, I don't deserve you, I don't deserve your trust."

A robust id there, eh? "You are here to satisfy my needs."

I like how the "honesty" only comes after she's been completely exposed. If you're going to be overseas, and expect your girl to be loyal (sheer folly, I think), you might want to verify whether she is. Tough to do though.

About year ago I met a Pinay who lives in Thailand with her Yank husband. He installed software on her mobile so he could track her location. She was on a home visit and passing through Manila for a couple of days. She couldn't come to my place because he'd know. Her solution: inviting guys to come to her hotel. D'oh! Seems the guy didn't get the right software, because there are programs that can be activated remotely such as turning on camera and microphone, capture all texts, etc.

[Roll Aides]

i checked out the women on waves website. their method of putting the pregnant women on a dutch flagged yacht and sailing them out past the 12 mile territorial limit for an abortion in international waters is an interesting way of circumventing anti-abortion laws. i did not see any abortion voyages listed on their website for the philippines. perhaps, the difficulty in getting filipinas pass port controls is a factor. the navy and coastguard may be another. with the philippines being a vatican colony in all but name it is hard to imagine they would allow their female citizens to sail out to sea to kill babies. if the organization has a presence in the philippines it must be well hidden.

i think you might have missed something. the way it works, or at least as i have experienced, is they mail the pills necessary for a medical abortion, discretely, to an address where abortion is prohibited such as the philippines. the cost for is was around 5000 pesos, we got them within about a week via speed post from india.

overall i was very impressed by their level of professionalism, and the pre-screening and follow-up involved. obviously if you use this method you need to employ some intelligence. your girl will need to get an ultrasound first to make sure it is not an ectopic pregnancy (trivial, about 900 pesos.) etc. read the faq.

btw, this is not a method that can be used after the 9th week.

at the time, our options were to fly someplace else and have a standard surgical abortion (vastly, in fact, for me, bank-breakingly more expensive and hassle,) or women on waves. truly a lifesaver.

maybe they do the offshore cruise thing too, i don't know. it sounds a little involved to me.

if you use there service there is a.

[Chocha Monger]

I checked out the Women on Waves website. Their method of putting the pregnant women on a Dutch flagged yacht and sailing them out past the 12 mile territorial limit for an abortion in international waters is an interesting way of circumventing anti-abortion laws. I did not see any abortion voyages listed on their website for the Philippines. Perhaps, the difficulty in getting Filipinas pass port controls is a factor. The navy and coastguard may be another. With the Philippines being a Vatican colony in all but name it is hard to imagine they would allow their female citizens to sail out to sea to kill babies. If the organization has a presence in the Philippines it must be well hidden.

[Roll Aides]

There are different types of girls. Some who think their life is not complete till they have a child. Very few in Phi wait till they are 28 years old to have a child.

Partly it is because the whole family expects it. Abandoned father, nameless father, unknown father it does not matter. Phi people love children. Most of the ladies I met do not like to take pills. They think it does harm to their bodies. However I have convinced couple of girls who stay with me for a week at a time to go on the pill. These are young 18-19 year olds. Most 21-22 year old flatly refused pill or condom. These girls think I consider them dirty girls if I use condom.

I agree completely. Your mileage may vary depending on the girl. Obviously, as Amavida somewhat coarsely pointed out, education and social class can be be determinants, but in any event it's going to end up being a tug of war between emotions and reason. Filipinos LIKE babies. Reproduction is something of a national hobby. However, most girls are bright enough to realize if (another) kid will fuck up their life, if they think about it; that doesn't mean they don't WANT one. If reason wins out, an IUD is a great option because you can't forget to take your IUD. Also as I mentioned, the birth controls pills herewhich are available over the counter cheaply, by the wayare not the best, by which I mean that although effective, I wouldn't wish the common side effects on anyone I like.

Really, the main thing is the Filipina conviction that you consider her a dirty girl if you try to use a condom. Even some bargirls will get hurt ("I'm clean! I got tested every week! Whatever. The thing I like about IUDs is you can ride bareback with a girl who IS clean, she's happy, the little monger is happy, and foolproof contraception. Some women can find them slightly uncomfortable for the first a month or two; after that they don't even notice them.

I tend to go with older girls who know what they want, and are happy to jump at pregnancy-free sex, as long as it doesn't involve the dreaded rubber sheathes. I feel the same way, so that's cool. I also don't have any problem adding to the gene pool variety, as long as there's no chance that I'm going to be looked for as the daddy at some point. If a girl that's old enough to know better wants a "gwapo" mixed-race kid, and has no expectations, she's more than welcome to as much sperm as she can make use of. Bless their horny little. Umm. Hearts.

Frankly, if you are have a long term-girl that wants babies, and you don't, the reasonable move is to walk. I was not by any means condoning coercing contraception on anyone. On the other hand, if you make it clear to a girl that it's reliable contraception or bye-bye, she may suddenly "change her mind. " A lot of Filipina obstinance is purely seeing what they can get away with. My point was just that, it's a pretty good method, and it's reversible, which a vasectomy is not, and basically free from side effects, which the pill is definitely not.

Anyway, that's enough IUD evangelism from me. I just though it might help others, as I was totally clueless that such a thing even exists, before I moved here and found out how useful they are.