Bangalore

[Mr Doe]

Very valid points and well written.

...And always my take. If its too good to be true it probably isn't. And this is for locanto ads. Remember they are more seasoned than all of us here. And also if you get stuck up never try to fight and threaten them. At the same time don't get frightened as well. Maintain your composure and exit as fast as you can. Try the best excuse of let me collect cash from my car etc or walking out with mobile. Which ever works. Worse case always remember that you will loose all the cash in your wallet. Much better than getting stuck in the bylanes of SG, Kolkata. You may get ripped of your underwear as well there!

This is a comprehensive list of dos and don'ts. Good to keep reminding ourselves of these guidelines, especially for newbies.

Well said Doe.

Majority of the scams are happening via LOC and craiglist. Avoid it.

And avoid any MP's which offer extras on call.

Avoid MP'S without a proper landline numbers (mostly such MP's are fake).

Thanks guys and good points too.

Wish we had sticky threads / posts feature here. We could've had a bunch of these posts on top (There are some more in another section that are well written for all of us).

[Attila1201]

Can someone share SP A's digits?

Thanks in advance!

[Mr Doe]

I do agree.

At one point if nobody is ready to share any contacts and this is one path which you get contact obviously you go.

I understand your situation and so do other Sr. Members around here as we've all been through that stage but you also need to understand why Sr. Members are hesitant in sharing any info with newbies and that is because, there are folks that aren't genuine and trust worthy and unfortunately, we can't figure out who is who and there are way too many accounts that are silent digit collectors, SPs, LE, scammers, resellers and the latest hybrid pimps these days and newbies with fresh Vitamin M getting credited into their accounts and them ending up spoiling the market due to lack of experience and the new experience sending them to the different world due to the new kinda dopamine.

Time and again, I've posted and reminded newbies on how to get started here as a newbie when no one is helping you and you have zero contacts. But I'm sure that post is lost somewhere deep behind several pages which unfortunately the newbies won't RTFF. Hence, I'll share this again.

The key to getting started here on ISG is to build a rapport and make yourself trust worthy enough for others to be comfortable to share digits with you. How do you do that? Simple, By RTFF.

In case you don't know what RTFF means, then check out the Abbreviations page, The link is in the top bar next to the Photo Gallery, you might want to read every now and then until you get a hang of it.

You got to spend hours searching and RTFF. Focus on one subject and that is, MP Scene in our city. That's the best and easiest way to get started. You don't need any digits or anyone's help (Hint: There are posts with full MP names openly written, Go start digging and you'll find your way through it).

You can have 4 tabs open. One for Shri. Google. Two for Son of Google, Maps. Three for Coupon Site aka NB (Search the forum to decode) and Four for ISG. Read the clues and start the research process to help you decode it. If you're unsure about whether that's the same MP based on your decoding, then it's for sure that's the one (Trust yourself here because it's not hard to decode). Start shortlisting MPs and get yourself moving to try one by one.

Every time you try a MP, come back and report about it. Not all FRs here are about success stories. FRs are personal experiences of each individual. Whether you failed or had success is a secondary thing and doesn't matter, try and share your experience. What you liked, what you didn't, how was the ambience, overall service, cost aka damage, your thoughts, etc.

Now as you keep doing this, you'll also automatically get to learn various aspects of the scene and mistakes you make along the way. Don't stop RTFF as it's a treasure full of knowledge. And not only you're learning and growing but also contributing to the forum and building your profile here.

Few genuine FRs and you'll already see folks sharing useful stuff with you. The key to success is your reputation and contributions here.

In no time, you'll also become an experienced member and build a network and join the trusted mongers club automatically and get access to many perks that you might not even have clue about right now.

If this post scares you and makes you think, it's too much work and you're lazy to do it and not willing to contribute or work on your profile. Then I believe, you should just get yourself hitched and settle down and forget this hobby as it might not be your cup of tea. But if this is something you can do it, then don't waste your time and get started already.

I hope this is helpful enough for you and other newbies to get started.

P.S. Never pay anyone for digits. Instead of doing that, work on what I've said above and you'll be glad yourself for long-term.

P. P.S. Always read about the counter and tips damages and maintain the same range. Think from brain, not from the Jr. Negotiate hard or back-off if you have to, you'll thank yourself later for not thinking from the Jr's brain.

[ThousandMiles]

I am not justifying the actions of many in this forum. But frankly I have shared contacts several times and those who have been around know that I never ask for contacts in return. In fact there have been couple of times when I got a PM mentioning that I will give a contact if you share one. And my reply always has and have been that I never trade contacts. I don't use ISG in that manner. Never needed to as well. People have been really nice whom I have my network here. Coming back to sharing; frankly I have been disappointed after sharing it several times. No FRs; leave alone that when I checked with the girl she said she got multiple pings and several queries asking for pictures and questions but none really took it forward. Some said they referred some one else etc etc. When this happens we loose that contact and also it gets tricky to refer again for any one else. Some times if the contact is raw we end up getting blocked. Again I am not saying every one does this. But mostly I ended up in this scenario. Don't understand if some one doesn't want to meet why ping, discuss, negotiate and then just disappear.

Hi all,

Not sure why we are only blaming one person, if that person has asked for money then people also paid to get the list. If things would have been so easy to get contacts, people wouldn't have paid. But the real truth is Bangalore is dry hence we all are in secured giving contacts to others because they fear too much too demand may increase the rates of SP's and indies. Every paid member should entitled to get contacts and assistance. If you can't share then why worrying whether people charging or not. I have myself disappointed multiple times reaching out to Sr members asking for contacts but with not response. It should be individual choice then.

[Mr Doe]

What is the best way to get the Subscription with out revealing the credit card details.

There is none. You have to give a CC to get a subscription but instead of using your own, just buy a VCC from either online or pretty much any banks would let you get a VCC these days. Just remember to activate international transaction (if it doesn't come activated by default).

[STC 2017]

Could you please let me know who much we should pay for the FB group for outcals. Short time?

Shreya Blr & Riya Blr quoting for 8 K looks to be expensive, thought of checking here.

Should is subjective. I have not known any guy getting most of the FB girls significantly below 8 k in their first meetings in recent times. As mentioned earlier, I haven't met the latter.

[STC 2017]

They will give extra with extra money inside.

You can go for it bro. Assured extras.

Thanks SajanMallu & KrazzyKarthik1.

I guess people in this place strongly believe in "Six days work shall be done, but on the seventh day you shall have a Solemn rest". Landed Sunday afternoon for the cocktail party, the spa was closed. Team members from Bangalore did not stay overnight, and today the event was packed with talks and meetings. Was too tired to try again at the end of a day after those long lectures.

Making matter worse, skip level Caucasian guy was winking and saying, the place is 'good' and 'fun'. As of now not going there again as the]is office event is over, but would keep this mind as a future spa option.

[LoveRahu]

Hello everyone,

Request you guys to share few outcall indies contacts. Thanks in advance.

Thanks.

[STC 2017]

She changed her name to Apsara Shetty. Search for that name.

Even that profile seems to be blocked or deactivated for now.

[ThousandMiles]

I've been to SG in Kolkata many times over the years and never been ripped off. Same with NL Mumbai. The key is to do a bit of research, know the buildings, girls who give good service and work with the pimps. They never rip you off.

You misunderstood. I was referring to specific lanes there in SG. There is a map that was prepared long back mentioning those points. I was saying if you are stuck there then the consequences.

[DreamzIndia]

This is for SP A:

- Place: SP will let you know. Can't post it here for obvious reasons. But it's a decent den.

- Safety: So far so good but incalls should never be considered 100% safe anyway and this SP doesn't do out. So you got to keep that in mind and decide for yourself.

General Tips. Sharing for everyone's benefit, many of these are often recommended but it's a combined list based on personal exp. And forum:

- Never pay advance to anyone, no matter how lucrative the offer or the car might seem / sound / look. Don't be fooled if you hear some sweet voice over the phone and fall for it.

- Carry your own safety gears because the ones provided by them aren't as safe as you might think (Not always but many times). They might break due to cheap quality and put you at risk. SPs or the others don't care about you or your health. So do yourself a favor and carry your own.

Well said Doe.

Majority of the scams are happening via LOC and craiglist. Avoid it.

And avoid any MP's which offer extras on call.

Avoid MP'S without a proper landline numbers (mostly such MP's are fake).

Regards,

Rah.

[Smkd617]

Hi all,

Not sure why we are only blaming one person, if that person has asked for money then people also paid to get the list. If things would have been so easy to get contacts, people wouldn't have paid. But the real truth is Bangalore is dry hence we all are in secured giving contacts to others because they fear too much too demand may increase the rates of SP's and indies. Every paid member should entitled to get contacts and assistance. If you can't share then why worrying whether people charging or not. I have myself disappointed multiple times reaching out to Sr members asking for contacts but with not response. It should be individual choice then.

[AvinashAllu]

I managed to get few educated partime unmarried indies, but rates starts with 8-10 k only. We are left with no option either choose or loose. Morever hotel, cab charges food drink etc.

Would love to try. Can you share the digits bro?

[Vviacheslav89]

Your point is very valid. But its true that most indes these days are asking for nothing less than 7 K to 10 K. The market has been spoiled. All indes from FB are today quoting above 7 k to 8 k. This debate has happened earlier. Its finally buddy demand vs supply situation which is governing the rates. Your or my writing here will not help.

If all the guys who were giving 10 k if they stop giving it. I'm sure they will come down. Unity bro.

[Bangalore12]

Hello guys,

I had posted earlier asked for some help with Indies. I will be in Bangalore for a day in May and if someone can give me a legit contact of a good Indie they have met with. Thanks again for the help.