Medellin Reports

[Mr Enternational]

I looked and see a taxi parked down stairs. The girl in the taxi was not my girl, but she was attractive and obviously arriving for a date. My first thought was that my girl sent a friend in her place. I was confused but thought but was kind of cool. Then two people started talking to us out of a second story window. They came downstairs. Turns out my girl was upstairs with a guy who had been downstairs waiting on his girl to arrive.

Man that is some funny shit. Like something from a movie scene.

[Chicafan]

IMO, that's a dick move. To us it all fun and games, to them it's their livelihood. And while most are not what we would call professional in their punctuality or flakiness, it's still how they feed themselves.
If you book a girl and she flakes, don't book her again. And if she reaches out, tell her the reason you are no longer interested. Always have plan be ready, but double booking is wrong IMO. There are many guys with no class or decency that will do this often, but what happens when they both show up? One will be pissed and hopefully all she does is leave peacefully. Think of how that can go wrong and then decide if you would want to deal with that.

Nice post and you are right. None of us want to be treated as if we deserve to be taken advantage of but that goes both ways and if an otherwise decent girls misses on a payday it's a big deal. The worst that can happen to us if a date does not work out is we delay our gratification for a few hours. We can be decent people in this process. Once I make a date and set a time I always explain that I am done communicating with other girls and will not change my plans but that she has to stay in touch and communicate. If she disappears or projects to be hours late I have canceled. We have fall backs like casas by day or strip clubs at night so there is no need to panic. Yes, nice to have a girl at the apartment and something more like a real date but double booking is cheap.

In December a girl I really wanted to see said she was on her way but would not have data on her phone. So I was waiting on her knowing that I was going to be out of touch and in the dark until she hopefully arrived. Waiting. Waiting. An hour or more after she was supposed to arrive I had given up but then get a long string of messages from her that had clearly been in cue waiting on an internet connection to send from her phone to mine. I looked and see a taxi parked down stairs. The girl in the taxi was not my girl, but she was attractive and obviously arriving for a date. My first thought was that my girl sent a friend in her place. I was confused but thought but was kind of cool. Then two people started talking to us out of a second story window. They came downstairs. Turns out my girl was upstairs with a guy who had been downstairs waiting on his girl to arrive. He has seen my taxi wondering around slowly and thought my girl was his and took her upstairs. His girl was being sent by a girl he knew so he didn't know what she looked like. My girl knew there was a mistake and waited there with him until she could get a message to me. Long story short, good thing I had not double booked or sent a derogatory message cutting off communication because we had an awesome time.

[Mr Enternational]

There are sex shops all over town. I'm still taken aback when I see a chica that looks 16 working behind a showcase full of dildos LOL.

One of those things that nearly everybody does, but most people are shy about. Ask them questions and they explain everything to a T without batting an eye.

[Magaman]

I recommend that you get the DVD collection of the telenovela "La Munecas de La Mafia," the one with subtitles. The actresses are gorgeous, a lot of it was filmed in Medellin and Bogota, the storyline is good, the production values are excellent. You will learn the local dialect and idioms. Oh, did I mention the actresses are gorgeous?)

Oh crap, mine doesn't have subtitles. LOL The intro music is kinda annoying, but you're right about those actresses. Wow!

[Kavin76]

Hi guys,

First time posting and finally pulled the trigger and booked my trip.

I'll be in MDE from Feb 4 - 11, anybody want to have a drink and share information and stories? I know other countries and locations but MDE will be my first trip.

Salud.

I will be there from the 7th to the 18th. We could meet up.

[Turgid]

IMO, that's a dick move. To us it all fun and games, to them it's their livelihood. And while most are not what we would call professional in their punctuality or flakiness, it's still how they feed themselves.

If you book a girl and she flakes, don't book her again. And if she reaches out, tell her the reason you are no longer interested. Always have plan be ready, but double booking is wrong IMO. There are many guys with no class or decency that will do this often, but what happens when they both show up? One will be pissed and hopefully all she does is leave peacefully. Think of how that can go wrong and then decide if you would want to deal with that.

BTW- I have had 2 no call / no shows in 8 trips, so a high flakiness rate may be a reflection of the person it happens to.

True. These girls have numerous commitments, obligations, children to have looked after, etc. What if the baby sitter, who may herself have commitments, does not show? They want the money more than you want the p...y. If they could be on time they would. They need to be given some slack.

[LikeItTight]

Has anybody been to the gangbang parties in Medellin? I saw these listed on World travelers map and contacted a few, but not sure how safe and fun they are.

Hi guys,

First time posting and finally pulled the trigger and booked my trip.

I'll be in MDE from Feb 4 - 15, anybody want to have a drink and share information and stories? I know other countries and locations but MDE will be my first trip.

Salud.

[Blklouky]

Well, now that I know where on Calle 33 you're planning on going, I can save you a trip. There's nothing on Calle 33 at UPB worth your time. There's some cheap restaurants, Medellin's only laundromat and not far away is a block full of barbers and hairdressers. The night clubs are further away to the east and it's not an area where gringos typically go.

On the other side of UPB is Carrera 70 and you get a lot of college students at the bars and clubs there, but good luck finding anyone on 33.

JjBee62 is right, I went to a night spot on Calle 33 with a chica I know there, and I was the only gringo in the spot. I got many looks. No one started any trouble, but.

I definitely wouldn't go back by myself.

[Blklouky]

So I've been staying at the San Peter Apartments in Laureles. Its in a nice area, reception doesn't really bother me with girls, just checks their ID, but the bed and wifi is terrible. I also want to try staying in Poblado for a change.

I've recently found a studio apartment right on the street next to poblado park on cr. 43. This would mean total freedom in terms of who goes and comes. No ID checks, no receptionist, no security as the guy who rents them doesn't in Medellin. It seems to be in a decent part of town. The girls I see are facebook girls mostly whom I trust to an extent, so I don't think I need reception or security. The guy who rents them seems to be anti prostitutes but what's to stop me from saying their just guests, since guests are allowed and theres no one to check otherwise. Does anyone have experience with these street level apartments?

I've been staying in San Peter Apartments too, never had an issue with the beds, but the WiFi really does suck. I cannot get any work done remotely while I am there, but I love the location. I will be going back in Feb. I am addicted to MDE LOL.

[JjBee62]

I always bring a couple of toys to have fun with the ladies and improve the quality of the performance. I am always amazed at how "selfish" the local guys are. Wham bam thank you ma'am without caring the least about whether the girl is enjoying herself. To me it seems pretty obvious that the hornier the girl is, the better the session. And let's face it guys, there's no way we can compete with them little engines!

Not sure my wallet could take giving a vibrator to every single chica though.

This is all part of doing your own thing. Somewhere out there there's a guy who brings along a complete Mrs. Doubtfire costume for girls to wear, because that's his thing. Guys bring shoes or pantyhose, or lingerie, or bondage gear. It's whatever they need to get the most enjoyment out of their sessions.

You bring toys to use, but it's not really for the girls. It's part of what you enjoy. I understand. You get more pleasure when they get more pleasure. These aren't gifts or barter items, they're part of the person's desires. It all fits in with trying to normalize the encounter. Note that "normal" varies from person to person.

Bringing gifts is another attempt to make it seem more normal. You don't often meet a girl and immediately start fucking. You talk, flirt, go out and do something, spend a bit of money and time and then comes the payoff. That's all difficult when your Spanish sucks and you feel uncomfortable in public with a girl 30 years younger. So, you pour them a drink, give them a couple of little gifts and now it seems normal.

If this works for you, I'm all in favor of it. Even if you're one of the guys buying motos and apartments for the girls. If it means you wake up happy, then it's worth a few guys whining that you're spoiling the market.

I do gifts differently. If I had a great time, which requires more than good sex, then I might invite her back for something longer. Maybe a shopping trip to buy her something to wear and not just something for my enjoyment. Maybe dinner and a movie, or something nice for her kids. My reasoning is, if I give her something to convince her to show me the best time, then I'm committed to that routine with her every time, and she'll start to expect it from others. But, if she gives me her best without expecting a bonus, then a reward might be in order.

If you're a business owner, look at it like this:

You don't give bonuses before the performance evaluation, you give them after.

However, loading up your suitcase with cheap (to you) crap, hoping to trade it for sex is demeaning. These are people. People with the same needs as you. They just have a difficult time meeting those needs. Ever try to feed a baby with a bottle of body lotion? Ever try to use lingerie as blankets? If you're wanting to trade something for sex, make it something they can use, like cash.

[Orgasmico]

I always bring a couple of toys to have fun with the ladies and improve the quality of the performance. I am always amazed at how "selfish" the local guys are. Wham bam thank you ma'am without caring the least about whether the girl is enjoying herself. To me it seems pretty obvious that the hornier the girl is, the better the session. And let's face it guys, there's no way we can compete with them little engines!

Not sure my wallet could take giving a vibrator to every single chica though.

There are sex shops all over town. I'm still taken aback when I see a chica that looks 16 working behind a showcase full of dildos LOL.

[Baudelairemod]

I like to bring gifts but for selfish reasons. A few vibrators, lingerie sets, & other toys make for a few fun sessions. Then they can keep them when done. The photos / videos are a gift for me.

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I always bring a couple of toys to have fun with the ladies and improve the quality of the performance. I am always amazed at how "selfish" the local guys are. Wham bam thank you ma'am without caring the least about whether the girl is enjoying herself. To me it seems pretty obvious that the hornier the girl is, the better the session. And let's face it guys, there's no way we can compete with them little engines!

Not sure my wallet could take giving a vibrator to every single chica though.

[Knowledge]

I remember that case of the guy getting murked by confederates of a girl he brought in. A good tip is to be selective about girls you bring into your personal space, be it an apartment, hotel room, or whatever. The hotels register visitors for everyone's protection. Everyone means you, the hotel, and other guests. Some girls are bad enough that they will take advantage of being in the hotel to commit all manner of crimes of opportunity.

Nothing personal, but I laughed out loud when I read the bit about facebook girls being safer or more reliable.

Yes they are not as safe as having a security guard register her. When a hotel asks for your guests ID its for YOUR safety. They will even tell you that as they register her if you ask them why its necessary. That way anything goes sideways the cops will know who was in there with you.

There's a story from a year ago, or thereabouts, of a guy being murdered in one of those street level apartments with no security. The chica he was with let her boyfriend in and things went south. He was stabbed if I remember correctly.

Just be careful.

EDIT:

I couldn't find the original story but here's one from January last year: https://thebogotapost.com/corpse-suitcase-found-nearby-medellins-hotspot-lleras/26632/

[ILuvThePussy]

Yes they are not as safe as having a security guard register her. When a hotel asks for your guests ID its for YOUR safety. They will even tell you that as they register her if you ask them why its necessary. That way anything goes sideways the cops will know who was in there with you.

There's a story from a year ago, or thereabouts, of a guy being murdered in one of those street level apartments with no security. The chica he was with let her boyfriend in and things went south. He was stabbed if I remember correctly.

Yeah. Probably won't be doing that anymore.

[Mr Enternational]

Yes they are not as safe as having a security guard register her. When a hotel asks for your guests ID its for YOUR safety. They will even tell you that as they register her if you ask them why its necessary. That way anything goes sideways the cops will know who was in there with you.

They even ask for YOUR ID when you check in. And you think they should let some random hooker in and out without knowing who they are? And what amazes me is that hookers will still do crazy shit knowing the people have a copy of their ID or even the actual ID. Many a chick in Thailand have been caught that way.