Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[Member #4691]

Respected Seniors and fellow mongers,

Hope everyone mongering well and this forum giving lots of valuable information which related to it.

Have some of the questions and doubts which many people have in their mind may be. Have tried getting answers from google and got some healthy answers and some needs personal suggestions from the seniors and the people who are following.

1. using double condom during sex usually I was doing it before and recently saw some reply from seniors and also searched google and found it is very dangerous. Due to friction it can tear. I had many encounters consider some 30 using double condom but it was not happened for me. I remember during my second encounter with girl my condom was teared immediately I stopped the encounter and cleaned it using soap even though it was burning me. 3 years crossed and even I had HIV testing also and safe. My question in this in case of any serious intercourse what kind of treatment immediately we need to take to avoid getting STD after condom broken and had contact with girl vagina is there any tablets or injection or treatment we should take to avoid STD if so Do suggest best in Chennai..

1. Double condom always dangerous bro use latex materialized condom which almost impossible to allow the HIV virus even some of the premium condom are non latex so chose wisely latex and vigorous or light intercourse without protection or condom break will won't allow you to sleep until HIV report comeback which usually takes 90 days so always play on safe side.

2. DFK and BBJ almost equally carries the risk of STD most specifically herpes based on looks we can't assess the girl risk criteria and there s no specific vaccine kinda thing available for STD To prevent it.

[MySecretLife]

Dear community members,

Can some please guide how much shall be average time for penetrative sex. And how to get that improved. Even after dapotexine I never had more than 4 min. Any help. Will be highly appreciated. As these things can't be asked publicly.

SandyCool Brother,

From your previous posts, I presume you are from Delhi or NCR region. You need to consult an Andrologist or Urologist. You can post a query in the concerned city forum requesting recommendations for any Andrologist.

I assume you are taking Dapotexine with medical advice. IMHO, you should consult an Andrologist.

Regards,

MSL.

[SandyCool]

Dear community members,

Can some please guide how much shall be average time for penetrative sex. And how to get that improved. Even after dapotexine I never had more than 4 min. Any help. Will be highly appreciated. As these things can't be asked publicly.

[RandomIndiDude]

Dear all,

I would like to know if there are any sex therapists.

/ coach who provide experiential sex therapy to improve your skills, especially help in dealing with premature ejaculation and reticle dysfunction.

This is different from the traditional sex therapy as the latter one is purely clinical based while the former is medical plus Experientially training. It is common in the west but IDK about it here.

[MySecretLife]

Hi SaranMonger31,

Dear Seniors.
Is it safe to have uncovered blow job?
And DATY or other sort of sexual intercourse with out protection may lead to serious illness like HIV and many more STDs.

1.) With uncovered blow job, the chances of contracting HIV is very less or NIL unless the receiving person has any open-cuts / wounds / sores / abrasions on the penis. However, there is a chance of contracting many other STIs and UTI from a BBBJ. Same is the case with DATY also. You can use oral-dam as a barrier for DATY. You can convert an unused condom as a oral-dam. There is a plenty of online reading material about converting an unused condom into a oral-dam.

2.) With a commercial sex worker, it is not advisable to have a penetrative sex with out condom. Apart from risk of infections, there is a risk of pregnancy.

Help juniors by sharing your FR and what all are the precautions need to be taken or these kind of BJ / DATY should be avoided?

Most of the time STIs are asymptomatic till they manifest as STDs. For example, consider HSV, if there is an outbreak, you might see HSV sores, else, it might not have any visible and noticeable symptoms. Avoid DATY or BBBJ when either of you has any active ulcers / sores in the mouth or bleeding gums. Also, avoid DATY, if there is a foul smell near the genitalia of the provider.

I have seen Thailand and phil forums many foreigners doing sex with out cover and I don't know how they are free from STD or is there any tablets should be taken before and after deed and how the girl allow them to enter with out cover feeling surprised.

There is no silver bullet here. After all, it is an individual choice and the extent of willingness to take a risk. You might also want to read through the Safe sex thread of the corresponding countries you mentioned, where people report contracting UTIs and other STIs.

Note:- I am not a qualified medical professional.

[SaranMonger31]

Damage 8 k 2 hrs + Room 1. 5 k, Based on her FB Update "People who were asking for deepthroat BJ, Cum in mouth and rimming and fingering (Giving) !! Do inbox. I don't host. This is for people who can host " Meet her by booking a Room in K mangala. Good Deep Throat BJ without Cover, and Cum in mouth and good anal licking and fingering!! Sad part she only takes but she sd strict no to give or nor allowed me to fuck her butt hole.

Base: 8/10 . She has a lovely big soft butt.

Friendliness. 8/10 She is sweet.

Face. 6/10.

Figure. 6/10.

Not a time watcher.

Best Position. Cowgirl (Very good in Butt shaking) .

Dear Seniors.

Is it safe to have uncovered blow job?

And DATY or other sort of sexual intercourse with out protection may lead to serious illness like HIV and many more STDs.

Help juniors by sharing your FR and what all are the precautions need to be taken or these kind of BJ / DATY should be avoided?

I have seen Thailand and phil forums many foreigners doing sex with out cover and I don't know how they are free from STD or is there any tablets should be taken before and after deed and how the girl allow them to enter with out cover feeling surprised.

[DarkDevilsGuy]

Hi,

I came across this old site today. Just wanted to share.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/bangalo...w/36615940.cms

[Member #4622]

I love both experiences but I read there risks of STD via BBJ, DATY and DFK. How do you evaluate this risk?

Also do you do regular STD tests? Which labs do you use and how often? How much does it cost and how do you ask them? Thanks!

Hi friend,

Apart from HIV, there are other things to consider like syphilis, herpes, hepatitis etc. They can easily transmit if we are using condom also. So be cautious about the girls you are choosing. I think you try this only with high range escorts because many times it's safer and also decent college girls.

There are test available on some private on this thing.

Play it safely bro.

[BellWeather]

Siddha preparation poonaikali is the worst ED medicine. Please never advice anybody to try this. Did you crack a fast one. It gave me a loss of night sleep. I also had excretory issues.

No Tirrence. Don't mention about medicines which I have not had. The Siddha drug is a powerful nerve tonic and it helped me in achieving and retaining erection for around 6 to 8 minutes. Not sure if you had any other condition which you did not mention in the post. Also for any of Siddha medicines to give benefit it will take 21 days at minimum. You can't have symptoms of drugs immediately and hope you bought Poonakali from IMcops or any authorized pharma company.

Regards.

[MySecretLife]

I love both experiences but I read there risks of STD via BBJ, DATY and DFK. How do you evaluate this risk?

Also do you do regular STD tests? Which labs do you use and how often? How much does it cost and how do you ask them? Thanks!

Hi DecadentGuyy,

You can read through earlier posts of sexual wellness thread, also you can read through my earlier posts. If you still have any questions, feel free to PM me and please note that I'm not a medical professional.

Regards,

MSL.

[Decadent Guyy]

I love both experiences but I read there risks of STD via BBJ, DATY and DFK. How do you evaluate this risk?

Also do you do regular STD tests? Which labs do you use and how often? How much does it cost and how do you ask them? Thanks!

[MySecretLife]

Can anybody suggest me good STI panel test across NCR region and how much is cost?

Samuel123 Brother,

Lal Ji's Pathology Laboratory has branches across New Delhi, Noida, Gurgaon / Gurugram and an STD panel test costs around INR2800. Also, do an online search for dr safe dot com.

I'm from Bangalore. I've availed services from both of them using my mongering phone number and e-mail. My experience was good with both the laboratories, reports can be viewed online providing privacy and discretion.

Note:-

I.) In no way, I am neither associated with any of the above mentioned organizations, nor endorsing / advertising them for any commercial or financial gains.

II.) In Bangalore, while availing STD panel test, one need to sign a HIV consent form.

III.) While giving sample, you might want to consider window period of at-least 4 weeks after your last deed / encounter for accurate results.

IV.) If you are availing tests from doctor safe, check about the referred lab reputation and ensure that it is NABL accredited.

Regards,

MSL.

[AnupamGuy]

Hey bro,

Absence from sex and relying on masturbation leads premature ejaculation and quite common. Consult sexologist and they give medicine and advise you to improve frequency of sex to improve this. It works.

Cheers.

Hi,

I am thinking you are having some psychological non confidence. Because you haven't had sex for sometime it will take some time to gear it back. So don't worry do some meditation. You'll be OK. Just as yourself deeply. All the best.

[Samuel123]

Can anybody suggest me good STI panel test across NCR region and how much is cost?

[Member #4622]

Hello members,

Just wanted to share few observations and know your experiences or thoughts.

After breakup I've been less active sexually (except masturbation), like once in 7-8 months or so.

Recently I'm trying to grt bck on track but have figured a typical thing. While making love (foreplay) which I like more than sex, precum keeps leaking without erection and after erection is achieved, shot takes hardly a minute for the first time. Thus I get less enjoyment I feel. Next arousal is not as hard as the first one so again lesser fun. Unable to strike a balance here.

Would appreciate your thoughts and experiences.

Hi,

I am thinking you are having some psychological non confidence. Because you haven't had sex for sometime it will take some time to gear it back. So don't worry do some meditation. You'll be OK. Just as yourself deeply. All the best.