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**CoolGuy16** · 05-07-20 19:33

Can't agree more on this, don't want to be asshole so better go for paid and accept that you have to live it this way irrespective of skills you have.

Originally Posted by Rollox [View Original Post]

Unless you look like a Greek God, with great sense of humor, no girls is going to keep you as a FWB. Even for them I am not sure.

Only time I had FWB when I was younger, they were very strong intimidating women. And it was they who initiated.

I have tried to go the FWB no strings attached route with my normal target and my failure rate shot through the roof. Even someone who are horny as fuck didn't let me go past topless when I tried to let her know this was temporary FWB type deal.

You can't expect to be a saint and still score tons of sex.

Girls want love. That is the secret. 99.9% want love.

You need to show love if you want to get in her pants.

In other words, you need to be an asshole..

**CoolGuy16** · 05-07-20 19:32

I think I have pretty much same experience and can relate with you. All experience paid as don't want to get into trouble due to all the shit which may happen in India.

However got bored with all paid experiences and looking for nice / classy female company (no string attached) and build sexual tension (you know you play a game of pull / push) but lot of juniors in the office and don't want to dilute my image in the office, the great none said once "don't shit where you eat" so just holding my horses though look decent and can hold good conversations. Check seduction community in Reddit, lot of great post are there, may be helpful. However to apply in Indian condition you may to tweak the game.

Originally Posted by Vbz2014 [View Original Post]

I've been active monger for last few years, but most of my experience is paid, where you pay to get job done, I won't say it was always mechanical, there was GFE few times, but it's more of catch or miss.

I've been reading reports in this forum, and I fancy this non commitment sexual fun with known person or your co worker.

What I fear most is I might land up in some trouble as blackmail, or emotional drama, or clingyness or planning future or something.

**Turkish2** · 05-07-20 17:01

Originally Posted by Luckyguy7198 [View Original Post]

Sir, how do you intend to travel? Flights to the US may not resume so soon. End of June till mid July is summer vacations there, peak travel time. Assuming flights start, they will be prohibitively expensive and risky, moreso if you haven't already booked earlier this year.

Read the US forums: Many options in NY before the current pandemic.

I am currently in the US and as you are mentioning I have already been through all the recent posts on NY and NJ forum but couldn't find any good lead probably because of the current situation. I posted here hoping that any of my fellow monger could share there experience with me which could help me better when things get back to normal.

**Vbhasker** · 05-07-20 15:10

Hey guys.

I have used couple of dating app, got lucky once when I was at trump uncle's place.

I am still to try the above 3. Since the cost for SA is like huge is it worth. Would be very kind if the gang can give review for 1. 1. AFF (looks tempting).

2. SA (is it worth that much money).

3. M2.

**BhookhaPandit** · 05-07-20 14:04

I am a MILF lover that's why I tried Disha. She quite expensive and her rates are non negotiable. Her service is good but had better at similar price point. She is easily available on MR.

**BhookhaPandit** · 05-07-20 14:01

Tried Ritu for 1 shot in the end of January. Her number is easily available on locanto which I found using some hints from the forum. She is fair but her pics are old and she's a bit fat from the pics. During the act she has some Nakhras. Totally killed the mood. Just finished the job quickly.

Regards Bhookhapandit.

**Rollox** · 05-07-20 09:48

Unless you look like a Greek God, with great sense of humor, no girls is going to keep you as a FWB. Even for them I am not sure.

Only time I had FWB when I was younger, they were very strong intimidating women. And it was they who initiated.

I have tried to go the FWB no strings attached route with my normal target and my failure rate shot through the roof. Even someone who are horny as fuck didn't let me go past topless when I tried to let her know this was temporary FWB type deal.

You can't expect to be a saint and still score tons of sex.

Girls want love. That is the secret. 99.9% want love.

You need to show love if you want to get in her pants.

In other words, you need to be an asshole.

So, you need to first set your expectations right.

I love you. I can't stay a moment without thinking about you are sureshot panty droppers. Or, Money, if you meet the right girl.

Originally Posted by Vbz2014 [View Original Post]

I've been active monger for last few years, but most of my experience is paid, where you pay to get job done, I won't say it was always mechanical, there was GFE few times, but it's more of catch or miss.

I've been reading reports in this forum, and I fancy this non commitment sexual fun with known person or your co worker.

What I fear most is I might land up in some trouble as blackmail, or emotional drama, or clingyness or planning future or something.

**Oddeven123** · 05-07-20 09:41

Originally Posted by MagicBuddy [View Original Post]

That's good news as long as it lasts. All good spas which are not in malls are now open. Lets share our experiences.

Bro.

Although I think it's quite risky, have you tried any one post opening. Do share FR.

**DesiLover** · 05-07-20 07:06

Absolutely right brother.

Basically looks matter. If your looks doesn't appeal then you will get match rarely.

Once I tried by putting a pic of a Caucasian guy, in India for business and I got plenty of likes.

If you will put pic of a negro guy with good body and your tinder bio looks genuine then also you will get few likes.

But if you are average looking in pics then you may get few matches but they will be very difficult to covert into real meet.

In short I realized that if you are not in category of smart looking dude then its better to spend money and fuck.

Originally Posted by Chevvy [View Original Post]

I tried gold for a year, didn't quite worked for me. Getting matches is other thing then converting them into meets is other thing. First of all getting matches is still difficult.

What you should try instead is delete your account, then reinstall and make a new account. In the starting you get some kind of boost. I tried and got 3-4 matches. But then recently someone shared checklist saying swipe right to 1/10 girls, I think gargano19 shared it. But you have to make new account. Otherwise none of it will work. I'm going to try same.

Also look for some tips online to make profile better:

1. Share a shirtless pic even if they write your abs don't matter they want to see body or such a pic.

2. Wear some color which girls like in 1st picture, say red.

3. Use the word 'love' in bio. (these I found on gaana app physiological talks radio.).

At the end if boils down to looks also, my handsome friend was matching besides me and almost every right swipe was a match for him. We don't know if gargano19 bro is in same category.

**Abhi9** · 05-07-20 06:43

Anyone else saw this Insta Group scandal that was reported in the news few days back? I heard all of them were identified.

**Chevvy** · 05-07-20 05:46

Originally Posted by CoolBobby [View Original Post]

Hi All,

I am planning to take Tinder subscription to find if something works at this time. I am using free version but didn't find any matches. Will there be any help with subscription or it is same as free version?

Please suggest if there are any better options.

Thanks in advance.

Be safe.

Cheers.

I tried gold for a year, didn't quite worked for me. Getting matches is other thing then converting them into meets is other thing. First of all getting matches is still difficult.

What you should try instead is delete your account, then reinstall and make a new account. In the starting you get some kind of boost. I tried and got 3-4 matches. But then recently someone shared checklist saying swipe right to 1/10 girls, I think gargano19 shared it. But you have to make new account. Otherwise none of it will work. I'm going to try same.

Also look for some tips online to make profile better:

1. Share a shirtless pic even if they write your abs don't matter they want to see body or such a pic.

2. Wear some color which girls like in 1st picture, say red.

3. Use the word 'love' in bio. (these I found on gaana app physiological talks radio.).

At the end if boils down to looks also, my handsome friend was matching besides me and almost every right swipe was a match for him. We don't know if gargano19 bro is in same category.

**Luckyguy7198** · 05-07-20 05:22

Originally Posted by Turkish2 [View Original Post]

I am simply doing a little research for future (somewhat around June-July) when things get back to normal.

Sir, how do you intend to travel? Flights to the US may not resume so soon. End of June till mid July is summer vacations there, peak travel time. Assuming flights start, they will be prohibitively expensive and risky, moreso if you haven't already booked earlier this year.

Read the US forums: Many options in NY before the current pandemic.

**Luckyguy7198** · 05-07-20 05:09

Originally Posted by Gargano19 [View Original Post]

I use free version and get atleast 20-30 likes everyday. Out of those I match only 2-4, because I just don't have time to chat many girls. So not sure if premium version adds anything. As far as I know, it gives you few super likes and one boost a month I guess. I would suggest to try premium for a month if it's available and see if you get some results.

Premium is a waste of money, particularly in India, just another racket. Tried couple of years back, got bombed by several fake profiles and roadside vendors with nothing to lose by hawking online.

**Luckyguy7198** · 05-07-20 05:03

Originally Posted by Vbz2014 [View Original Post]

What I fear most is I might land up in some trouble as blackmail, or emotional drama, or clingyness or planning future or something.

Now the place where I work has lot of young girls but I am kind of their boss, they always be nice with me, how do I know if someone is looking for fun or how do I approach someone just for fun?

How do I start conversation, what do I talk let's say at first meet over coffee? Or maybe lunch? How long shall I wait till I ask them for drinks?

How do I ask them to get sxual with me as in when do I know if it's right time to call them over?

How do I make sure it's not for long term?

Your fears are real.

Don't mess with the women who work for you. As their boss, they are expected to be nice to you, don't misread that as a personal invitation.

One way to hone your conversation, thanks to the current situation, is online dating. Learn from trial and error, be forthright with your expectations, accept failure, rejections are just lessons learnt.

**Turkish2** · 05-07-20 00:17

Originally Posted by NotoriousNinja [View Original Post]

Stay away from mongering in Ny or NJ.

Both the states top with the covid19 numbers.

Thanks for your concern brother but I am not planning to go out right now. I am simply doing a little research for future (somewhat around June-July) when things get back to normal. If you have any experience please do share.