Medellin Reports

[Osteoknot]

Being a monger, there are risks that we take: getting robbed, people not liking us, diseases, etc. But now we have Covid. I'm curious in how many guys will see their normal girls and do the normal activities and how many will severely modify their behavior due to health risks.

But a mongerer lifestyle has inherent risks higher than COVID IMO. Yes, the risks are additive, but worrying about it too much is like an obese person obsessing on carbohydrates without losing a pound. For me, no behavior mod is necessary, but that is a personal decision and not a recommendation.

[DiavelLoco]

They look if it is positive or negative. They look for words PCR They see the collection time of the sample is within 96 hours. That is all.

Hey buddy. Nice seeing you around. Are you in medellin now?

[Showdown]

Simple question gentlemen-would you go to Medellin, the DR or Brazil (or another location) if you had a week long vacation (coming from the USA). I've got the money for the flight and the week off and I need a mongering vacation badly. It seems most countries are opening up and I am not going to let COVID stop me.

Showdown.

[Osteoknot]

It is a sugar daddy/baby website called Seeking Arrangement.

Considering how widespread and international "Seeking Arrangements" is, and is probably mentioned on most Forums here. Maybe Admin does not do it because it's commercial?

[Osteoknot]

This.

I can't remember where I heard it, but you don't pay women for sex. You pay women to leave afterwards. If you want a relationship, you shouldn't be paying. At least in the short-term. Relationships always ending up costing more in the long run LOL. FWIW, HarryD, you should easily be able to find what you're looking for through normal dating apps. The idea of a somewhat stable relationship with a financially independent foreigner is much more appealing to a lot of women than $250/ month.

The saying is you don't pay a puta for sex, you pay her to leave afterwards. And I agree a steady relationship is usually way more expensive than pay-for-sex.

[DavisLucJr]

It is because most people are not trying to be with the same paid chick long term like that, especially in a mongering metropolis like Medellin. The idea of paying is so you will have no hassles and can quickly change out chicks. People that want something long term would probably just establish a relationship with a normal girlfriend that they did not have to pay. Or at least that is my case. I pay to fuck hookers. Everything else (take trips, movies, dinner, etc) I do with chicks that are not hookers.

This.

I can't remember where I heard it, but you don't pay women for sex. You pay women to leave afterwards. If you want a relationship, you shouldn't be paying. At least in the short-term. Relationships always ending up costing more in the long run LOL. FWIW, HarryD, you should easily be able to find what you're looking for through normal dating apps. The idea of a somewhat stable relationship with a financially independent foreigner is much more appealing to a lot of women than $250/ month.

[Lugnut]

HarryD, you can definitely find what you are looking for. It may cost a little more than your ideal, but it is very doable. LOTS of women here would love an arrangement similar to what you suggest. I recommend Colombian Cupid. But my best advice, is study Spanish. This goes for any visitor. An hour spent studying Spanish at home, before coming to MED, is more useful than an hour messaging girls off of whatever app or webpage. The more Spanish one knows, the better connection can be had with the chicas. Come on down and good luck, I know you can find her.

My GF had a "boyfriend" for a few years when she was in university. Older dude who sent money every month ($1 k!) By everything she describes, it was a SB relationship, but to her, he was her BF. Colombian girls are totally cool with it. She's a big advocate to her friends, that they need to seek out gringos. A gringo BF can really improve a girl's lifestyle, and they are grateful.

I am a US citizen from New York City. I am divorced 8 years and 60 years old, but could pass for 45. I am white, blue eyes, athletic and I want to learn Spanish.

I am looking for a girlfriend in Medellin. Sex is NOT required. I am interested in someone 18 to 25, very beautiful and sexy for a long term relationship, love, affection and romance. I am lonely.

I would like to visit Medellin for a month once or twice a year. We would stay together in nice airbnb. I would give my girlfriend $250 USD each month we are together and $100 USD when we are separated however I would like to video chat or text message often.

I don't care if she's with other men when I am out of the country.

Does this sound realistic in terms of the compensation? Would Seeking Arrangements be the best website?

[HBoy54]

Fifth highest in world is right I think.

Colombia is behind US, Brazil, India, Russia and ahead of every other country in the world!

[Zeos1]

Fifth highest in LA / SA sounds about right. In the US we can social distance for the most part. The intention of being in Colombia is somewhat different. It's risky. Wish this thing would just go away.

https://www.statista.com/statistics/...n-inhabitants/

Fifth highest in world is right I think.

[Mojo Bandit]

I am getting a feeling that rather than $250 a month for a sugar baby, a starting price would be $1000. Is that reasonable? That is still a definite possibility for me. I am talking about using Seeking Arrangement. There seem to be tons of Medellin girls on there now.

I guess my feeling is that the difference between a sugar baby and a prostitute is safety. A sugar baby is going to be staying in a nice a condo with a man who she has gotten to know, who is clean (physically and also clean drug wise), polite, non-violent etc. She's not taking much of a risk of being beaten up or ending up with her dismembered torso in dumpster, which I assume is a factor which street walkers have to add into their prices.

Besides that, if she's a "regular" girl, in college for example, there isn't the stigma of walking the streets and being seen by people who know her. She's just hanging out with her American "papi". Maybe a little embarrassing, but no different than Melania Trump.

Plus you are "buying in bulk" which should get a discount.

About sex, I mean it's not a must for me. For that, I can just watch porn and masturbate. We'll see how we feel about each other. I am looking mainly for the emotional connection. That's important.

Please comment if I am getting this right or not.

I think $1000 is probably too much, I said double the 250 not quadruple it LOL, this is Colombia we are talking about you don't have to scale up that much.

Street walkers in Colombia charge less because there is so much competition, remember it is legal in Colombia. The fact that you are buying in bulk is actually going to have reverse effect because for the time that you are there they are going to have to sacrifice a lot time with family and friends etc, a street walker does not sacrifice more than an hour at a time. You say you want an emotional connection but I will tell you that you may never know if you actually have one because they will pretend, which would be fine with me if I were looking for a sugar baby.

I think what some other members are telling you is on point. Instead instead of asking us guys who only do pay and play on a single time basis because we like a variety and we like to see them leave in the morning or sooner. You need to start talking to the chicas. Get yourself on the actual dating sites. Stay away from SA for now, just get on Colombian cupid and Latin American Cupid and start talking. I have been talking with latinas for over 15 years and used these sites frequently. I tried different things in describing myself to try to get their attention. Like romantic and affectionate etc but if you want to get those semi-pros to pay attention use the word "generous" in your description. I was younger when I used these sites a whole lot and they were a better source when I was younger just to find chicas who were willing to date a gringo that was blowing through town, the best luck I had there was Mexico City, once I started on Colombia and I was older I discovered that many or most of the chicas that interacted with me were pros or semi-pro. One of the first chicas I banged in Colombia was off Latin American Cupid. Gorgeous! - There was never any discussion about money while we talked online just about how great it was going to be to meet and I probably steered the conversation to how much I wanted her etc, then when she showed up at my apartment the morning after I got to Colombia, she walked in the door and I took her clothes off in the foyer and carried her to the bed and then after as we were we getting dressed she explained to me that she needed an outfit for her son for the upcoming Easter holiday activity so I walked with her to the ATM and gave her like 100 k cop and she got in a taxi and I never saw her again.

I feel like your best bet is to find a semi pro. You want to be upfront about what you are looking for and you have to be prepared to talk to a hundred chicas. There are hundreds of them online so it can be a full time job just trying to talk to them. Plus you you are constantly having to copy and paste in Google Translate so you are going to pick up some Spanish while you do. There are at least 6 cities in Colombia to choose and they all have their pros and cons, for mongering it is Medellin and Cartagena that are the most popular but for your purposes you can pick any major city and just start talking to chicas there. Bogota, Medellin, Cali, Cartagena, Santa Marta, Bucaramanga (Bucaramanga has over a million people and a Goldilocks climate like Medellin. Not too hot not too cold) Cartagena is the most beautiful and also the most hot and the most expensive. Bogota probably has the nicest walkable neighborhood but its elevated and kind of cool weather I think if you do you are likely to find what you want, but then you have to actually get your ass down to Colombia and research in person to see what you are actually dealing with, so I would hedge.

The reality is that what you are looking for may not be what you like when you find it. Or to put it another way you may find something that you like that you did not look for. That's not some philosophy off a fortune cookie, that's just how life works out sometimes but for sure you are not going to know if you do not start communicating with some chicas there and you do not have to leave you house to do that. Just sign up to the sites I mentioned and start talking. Be prepared to have to just keep moving from one girl to the next and do not be discouraged when you have to.

[Bookie77]

One thing to keep in mind, if you buy a home it is yours, plus with your mindset of retiring girls when they turn 21 or 22, you must never allow them to know where you live, as generous as you claim that you are, you will never get rid of them and they will continue to try and see you regardless of your retirement plan for them. Many chics tell me that they came by my old place every time I visit Centro and I remind them that I no longer live there and my girlfriend lives with me now, so I will not allow anyone to know where I live. Not only this, if the girl knows where you live she has unlimited time to plan on how to have her friend rob you and extort you. If mongering is your main objective, it will always be best that you have an AirBnb or an apartment for a short time. The less these girls know about you the better, Pollo Negro is out!

I don't get it. I pay a hooker for a couple of hours and then it's possible to come to my place again some other day whether I want to or not? Doesn't she understand that it's business and nothing more? If someone lives in an apartment with security or in a condo how can she come to my house and rob me uninvited? I am just asking those questions to understand how it works.

[Vitrea]

What did they look at when checking the PCR test? I just did a PCR-RT test to check how long my lab took and they took around 3 days, which is less than the 96 hours the Colombia gov requires but still a little close for comfort. I'll do one again 4 days from my flight. How thoroughly do they check the test? Do they call the clinic up to make sure everything matches up or is it more of a wave through?

They look if it is positive or negative. They look for words PCR They see the collection time of the sample is within 96 hours. That is all.

[Mr Enternational]

Please pardon the interruption in the regular programming but can one of you find chaps please translate SA? Thanks in advance!

It is a sugar daddy/baby website called Seeking Arrangement.

[Wolf662]

Please pardon the interruption in the regular programming but can one of you find chaps please translate SA? Thanks in advance!

Sugar Daddy website, called Seeking Arrangements.

https://www.seeking.com/

[MedellinLove]

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