Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

**MrBeast2020** · 11-18-20 19:07

Dear brethren,

I have this peculiar problem of mine to which I want to ask solution for.

"I cannot cum when I am fucking while wearing a Condom." Yeah you have read that right. I don't know whenever I have sex wearing a condom I don't come. I usually finish when the girl gives me a blowjob after the deed or I jack off myself.

When I masturbate I don't have any trouble in reaching an orgasm but with a condom on I don't know what happens I can go for 30-40 minutes and nothing will happen.

Please share your views on this.

**JustTimePass** · 11-17-20 04:27

Guys.

I always use protection for anything. Recently I visited a spa for HJ. During the action she spit once on her hand and used same for HJ. What are chances for getting chlamydia or gonorrhea?

**Luckyguy7198** · 11-10-20 19:14

Originally Posted by LachhipurWala [View Original Post]

Can any user of penile pump may report about use, benefits and cons of penile vacuum pump for erection? Safe with wg?

Effective, non invasive, safer and cheaper than other interventions. Avoid if you have a blood clotting disorder such as sickle cell anemia or if you are taking any blood thinning medication. Please consult a registered and experienced sexologist before trying a penile pump.

Safe with WGs. She may be initially scared or uncomfortable if she does not know the intent. Most WGs now know of viagra and allied pills. Patiently explain and demonstrate to her that a penile pump serves the same purpose but is safer for you. Side effects include an erection and ejaculation that does not feel natural or spontaneous; Skin discoloration, bruising, numbness or pain may occur if not used properly.

Clitoral pumps are also available to stimulate her.

**Svagr0909** · 11-10-20 17:23

Just tell them I am having biting while I urinate. Then go see a doctor and I am sure doctor will recommend that option. As soon as he sees your penis.

Originally Posted by Ajet96 [View Original Post]

Guys,

I need advice, I discovered am suffering from phimosis last stage. I cannot pull my foreskin back at all. Been active in sex only since past 3 years. Once I got to have unprotected sex, but I saw that I was not able to penetrate even 1 millimetre, it hurt so much. I can only penetrate using only condom but that too hurts. I came to know about circumcision, am very young can't do this own my own. So my question was how do you I tell my Parents for operation so that they won't doubt. My fear is if I tell this problem, they will get to know that am sexually active. I want to get it done now, because lockdown no work, will get plenty of time to rest after operation. I want to know any way I can convince my parents with doubting?

.

**KevinDen** · 11-10-20 15:29

Originally Posted by CrazyGuyKK [View Original Post]

If you don't have phymosis (inability to retract the foreskin completely). The think you may experienced mostly balanitis. It means infection of foreskin. Some time it comes with pain and tip of penis. Which means infection at both. Balanoposthitis. You need 7 days antibiotics therapy. Take T. Augmentin duo 625 two times a day, lobate GM Ointment local application. It will settle down.

There is a black colour spot came on penis head suddenly on three places.

What is it?

I am confused is it sti?

**Lachhipur Wala** · 11-08-20 14:51

Can any user of penile pump may report about use, benefits and cons of penile vacuum pump for erection? Safe with wg?

**Member #4671** · 11-07-20 18:24

Hi brothers.

Just out of mind now.

I'm in this forum for a long time.

I'm always into MPs till now.

Got a MILF contact from a fellow friend.

Suddenly my heart is pumping and mind is going like hell whether to step into escort or not.

It is my fantasy to fuck a MILF. Now I'm having that opportunity. But, numerous questions going in my head. I'm feeling very nervous after getting that.

In fact, I was close to delete my account this, just to erase the number.

It is definitely a very weird feeling.

Please Need your advise and guidance brothers.

**MuscleHetero** · 11-01-20 05:59

Some STDS like herpes and viral warts can be transmitted through intact skin also.

Originally Posted by Vineett [View Original Post]

STD transmits via mucous membrane such as dick head, tongue, inside of mouth or via cuts on skin. As long as you don't have any cuts / open wound on balls, regular ones are safe. There is reason they are made this way till date. Thong condoms, I would say they must be marketing tactic.

**Vineett** · 11-01-20 05:45

Originally Posted by KevinDen [View Original Post]

Thong condom( that covers upto balls).People saying it is safer than normal condoms, is it true? I read that post in ISG only forget it, where I read that, can't able to find the post anyone used kindly share me the link where to buy it.

STD transmits via mucous membrane such as dick head, tongue, inside of mouth or via cuts on skin. As long as you don't have any cuts / open wound on balls, regular ones are safe. There is reason they are made this way till date. Thong condoms, I would say they must be marketing tactic.

**CrazyGuyKK** · 10-29-20 06:42

Originally Posted by KevinDen [View Original Post]

I don't know what iam experiencing due to covid I can't even go to see doctor. My penis tip skin (uncircumsised) was tight and it has swelling one side half.

While I am applying coconut oil it get relieved; but not cured fully still having it

Iam experiencing pain sometimes / randomly in tip of penis; before these problems came I feel an vibration feeling in tip of penis for 5 days and it stops automaticaly then it all happens while urinating it feels good.

Please help me guys is it an sti?

If you don't have phymosis (inability to retract the foreskin completely). The think you may experienced mostly balanitis. It means infection of foreskin. Some time it comes with pain and tip of penis. Which means infection at both. Balanoposthitis. You need 7 days antibiotics therapy. Take T. Augmentin duo 625 two times a day, lobate GM Ointment local application. It will settle down.

**CrazyGuyKK** · 10-29-20 06:35

Originally Posted by VistaMan [View Original Post]

A combination of 2 creams (1) salicylic acid creams (2) I don't know the name, works. Visit a Dermatologist. If nothing works Cryosurgery is the last option.

If you don't want to meet doctor, get a sterile needle, open the lesion at the pointy site and remove the solid content. And apply antiseptic ointments.

**CrazyGuyKK** · 10-29-20 06:32

Originally Posted by Ajet96 [View Original Post]

Guys,

I need advice, I discovered am suffering from phimosis last stage. I cannot pull my foreskin back at all. Been active in sex only since past 3 years. Once I got to have unprotected sex, but I saw that I was not able to penetrate even 1 millimetre, it hurt so much. I can only penetrate using only condom but that too hurts. I came to know about circumcision, am very young can't do this own my own. So my question was how do you I tell my Parents for operation so that they won't doubt. My fear is if I tell this problem, they will get to know that am sexually active. I want to get it done now, because lockdown no work, will get plenty of time to rest after operation. I want to know any way I can convince my parents with doubting?

Phymosis is one of the common issue in boys. As a medico we used to do surgery in early days itself. In young boys mother's bring with complaints of ballooning of penis during urination. That's the common symptom. Next one s frequent urinary tract infection. You better go and consult a general surgeon or urologist. It's a very simple day care procedure. I undergone circumcision at the age of 6. My cousin at the age of two. And almost all the Muslim guys undergoing below the age of one. So tell your parents that you are getting frequent urine infection and doctor found you have phymosis and you need a minor situation procedure. That's it. Stay cool. And with phymosis it's difficult for sexual activity. So better do soon. Enjoy the life.

**Member #4671** · 10-22-20 16:59

Originally Posted by ExplorerBoy [View Original Post]

Bro, it's normal to feel like this especially when you just start doing it and if you haven't had any experience with girls. Love and sex are two separate things and just because you indulge in sexual pleasures outside does not mean you don't love your spouse or is betraying your family. We as a society consider everthying related to sex as Taboo. Majority of men would want to experience these pleasures but do it discreetly else MP business wouldn't have been flourishing. Keep enjoying your experiences, play safe and stay healthy.

Thank you so much brother. You are absolutely right Really appreciating your kindness.

**Traceur** · 10-22-20 11:11

Originally Posted by StarHunter [View Original Post]

Hi brothers,

I want to get your opinion for a problem in me for long time.

I am only into MP's.

After having extras like HJ, suddenly getting a feeling of depression and sadness which last for some weeks to months until next visit. The feeling is like I'm betraying my parents and my future wife like that. For the record, never had any GF.

I am getting more depression than relaxation at the end.

I wants to come out of that, want to feel more relaxation. I never forced any masseuse, always respect their views.

Please help me brothers.

Hey bud,

You feel depressed after getting a release? Don't worry about it man. We give too much weightage to what others are going to think about us (society, folks, even future wife). The only one you are answerable to is yourself. Well till you get married I would say. Mongering then becomes kind of an ethical dilemma. But till then its about satisfying your needs. Nothing wrong with a bit of controlled Hedonism. And don't think too much into into, as you grow older you'll be able to live it down.

**ExplorerBoy** · 10-22-20 07:14

Bro, it's normal to feel like this especially when you just start doing it and if you haven't had any experience with girls. Love and sex are two separate things and just because you indulge in sexual pleasures outside does not mean you don't love your spouse or is betraying your family. We as a society consider everthying related to sex as Taboo. Majority of men would want to experience these pleasures but do it discreetly else MP business wouldn't have been flourishing. Keep enjoying your experiences, play safe and stay healthy.

Originally Posted by StarHunter [View Original Post]

Hi brothers,

I want to get your opinion for a problem in me for long time.

I am only into MP's.

After having extras like HJ, suddenly getting a feeling of depression and sadness which last for some weeks to months until next visit. The feeling is like I'm betraying my parents and my future wife like that. For the record, never had any GF.

I am getting more depression than relaxation at the end.

I wants to come out of that, want to feel more relaxation. I never forced any masseuse, always respect their views.

Please help me brothers.