Medellin Reports

[Surfer500]

Well my Tomboy finally showed up Saturday afternoon, and I have been evaluating her cleaning skills the past two days as I don't have a housekeeper, and this is a service I expect of the ones I allow in my place, and this one has taken like a duck to water and will get to return.

She was wearing this see thru top while mopping the bathroom floor, and her titties were flopping around, and she was shaking her little ass, while pushing and pulling on the mop, and I imagined penetrating her in doggie and could not resist mounting her on the bed, shame on me!

[Elvis 2008]

And to all you sugar daddy's out there, I have tried talking some sense for over 2 fricken years now and as recently as yesterday, with my good buddy from the States. He comes once every 5 months to Medellin and he has 2 sugar babies, one from Manrique the other from Santo Domingo and he send 3 to 4 million a month to each one. He is doing better because he use to have 3 SB Urrrrrrrrrrr. But despite what I tell him he believes that they both are being true to him. My gawd what has this world come to. I have met both girls and nothing special, both have 2 and / or 3 kids, both late 20's, both he met at the massage casas in centro. Can anyone give me a shout-out as we watch this train wreak in the making! He is returning next week to Medellin.

I love you TM, but you are wrong about what a sugar daddy is. A sugar daddy is someone who is interested in something more than just sex for money. For the woman it is giving sex and emotion. For the men, it is giving money and having emotion.

Are the women you hang out with just in it for money or do they hang out with you even when there is no chance of getting a dime? Then you are their sugar daddy.

Do you push the women away from you when you are done having sex with them and have no interest in them outside of sex? If you are not doing that, then they are sugar babies.

Yes, a working girl-john relationship is 100% about money for sex. A pure BF-GF is supposed to be 0% about money for sex. Why is there not room for something in the middle?

As for your buddy, he is a fool looking to delude himself into using money to get a supposedly pure BF-GF relationship. He is paying for affection and the women are more than happy to take his money and to feed into that delusion.

There is a saying in the alpha manosphere "A woman is not yours. She is your turn. " More than ever, men do not own women. That first part of her being yours, which is what your buddy is paying for, is his first mistake. You cannot control what the women do when you are not around, and you should just enjoy them when you are around them because that is when it is just your turn.

The monthly allowance is an American invention to skirt prostitution laws. There is no purpose for it where prostitution is legal, and the monthly allowance is not IMO what defines a sugar relationship.

As for the phrase, the only honest woman is a prostitute, I like it because I think people twist themselves into a pretzel lying to themselves trying to say there is no money for sex component to a relationship, but I think you are missing how you are putting yourself down with that phrase.

You are pretty much saying any woman who wants to hang out with you or fuck you is either out for money or dishonest. That is not just a cynical outlook but you are putting yourself down. It is a defense so you will not get hurt again, and I get it.

Most marriages I see were based on mutual attraction, but time after time, they evolve or rather devolve into basically parasitic relationships where men would get better value for their money dumping their spouses and seeing hookers. How many wives have gone from giving good head to (as Rodney Dangerfield would say) giving good headache?

The reason I like the SB SD relationships is because there is an emotional component and I do allow myself to care about the women but if the women become bad company, start to shame or nag, and are no longer interested in sexually performing, they are gone.

I do not know why we are trained to marry for richer or poorer and for better or worse. The women do not behave like that is true, and men should not either. The women only love us when we perform, and we should be the same way with them.

[Elvis 2008]

Yeah, the only thing the older men who do not speak Spanish have to offer hot Colombian women is cash. Seriously?

I think what is so funny about that is that I am teaching the women around me without even knowing I am doing it. One of my gals was talking about retiring by building apartments and renting them. I talked to her about the rule of 72, currency risk, and interest rates just by telling her what yield I would need to get in such venture rather than just putting money in a REIT that paid dollars versus apartments paying pesos. I was not even telling her what she should do but telling her what I would need to see before putting money in. I was showing her a superior thought process without even realizing I was doing so. It changed her future plans.

She reminded me the other day that she learned so much being around me. We must be living in different worlds JJBee because the women I see are dying for guidance, kindness, and wisdom. What I have found is you show women a path to a better life and they cannot fuck you fast enough.

[DeepXliv]

Newbie here, preparing for my first trip.

Does anyone have a packing list for what to pack and wear to fit in with locals during the day (jeans, Nikes, and t-shirts or polo shirts?) and for going out at night for dinner and dancing? Dressing to not attract the thieves or repel the ladies. .

Plain t shirt (navy, black) jeans and nikes are fine. Don't wear a watch. Just be confident and walk like you know what you're doing.

[Turgid]

...Non-pro: A woman who is interested in engaging sexually with a man with no monetary compensation, required relationship or expectation of financial gain......

Dude all women want material gain from a man in some form or fashion unless they are old and butt ugly which I suspect are the ´non-pros´ you have been in bed with.

[Surfer500]

The experiment would only work if the Verizon phone is unlocked, I posted the article that talks about how to unlock it.

I knew there were was at least one BM here way above my pay grade and technically savvy when it comes to phones, and the information you posted should be very helpful to the younger guys as I am totally old school and walk the streets of Medellin with my $ 30 USD dum dum burner phone, yet it is a NOKIA with an extremely long battery life and hasn't fallen apart. I was gone from mid March of last year until November and it immediately fired up and while I was gone every two months I would re-charge it with 5,000 Pesos from the USA so I didn't lose CLARO my number.

I think the real issue about phones for guys that monger is what happens if they have a USA cell with them, and they lose the phone, will they be able to immediately replace the phone with their same number, hence having two phones makes sense, but for guys who can remedy this situation like you can immediately because your technically savvy then no need for it.

Unfortunately with the advent of smart phones and how we literally conduct are lives with our phones, losing one with everything on it would be like losing your legs, hence mine stays locked up, and this trip I have a second I phone with a separate USA number in case I lose my primary phone while travelling intecountry like to other Cities, if I were to lose it, I have a backup phone with all my Apps which I can utilize.

So with my dum dum burner phone I have three phones, one for the streets, one for exclusive use in my place and when I travel intercountry, and an emergency American I phone back up. This may sound extreme to some paying for two Verizon phone lines, but actually because I have a business account I ended up with two I phone 12 P Pro's for the price of one, and the second phone line for no charge which I don't really need as I could just slip in a Verizon SIM card which I brought as well.

[Mojo Bandit]

It is easy to experiment. Borrow an ATT SIM card to try on your Verizon phone to find out.

The experiment would only work if the Verizon phone is unlocked, I posted the article that talks about how to unlock it.

[Mojo Bandit]

According to this article linked below, Verizon only demands that your phone be locked to their network to the first 60 days. This article also addresses how to get it unlocked.

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https://www.whistleout.com/CellPhone...nlocking-guide

[JjBee62]

There are no networks left that are only 3G or earlier. There are no phones left that are only CDMA or only GSM. All phones made in the last few years have a multi-band modem supporting all networks. All you need to worry about anymore is that your phone is not "locked" because you bought it on a monthly contract plan from your service provider. Personally I buy a new one each year or two at Ktronix in Pablado for about $100 worth of pesos. Like Surfer my real phone is always in the room safe.

You might try shopping at Centro Comercial Monterrey, right across from the Poblado metro station. There are probably 30 stores selling phones in there. It's about the best place around to get good prices on electronics.

[JjBee62]

Truer words than this expression have never been stated, which is "the only honest woman is a prostitute" and this is especially true here in Medellin.

I had a discussion with my gringo buddy this morning about this topic and he is finally coming around to the truths about life and culture and women here in Medellin.

So how to enjoy life here in Medellin? It is simple just follow these few basic fundamentals:

1. Never ever take any woman serious, period and end of discussion.

2. They are what they are, what their ingrained culture has placed into their DNA. You can not change them.

3. A barrio xxxxx, and my gawd we all love them, can never ever go outside her social economic status, so don't try, it will never work.

4. They all fuck around, they call them their gay amigos or primos or just a old school friend but they have and will return to their old fuck buddies, even the ladrones from the barrio because water seeks it's own level..

All of the above is something everyone should keep in mind. I won't say it applies 100% to every chica, but it helps to keep your perspective. Once you lose that perspective, it can get expensive real quick.

[Nounce]

There are no networks left that are only 3G or earlier.

The problem is prepaid SIM in some countries only support 3 G.

There are no phones left that are only CDMA or only GSM. All phones made in the last few years have a multi-band modem supporting all networks.

I am pretty sure this is inaccurate so I decided to look it up. These iPhone models are GSM only Model A1778, A1905, MWMC2 B / A. The last one is iPhone 11.

[Lucky Nuts]

I have not used Verizon or Spring for a while so my understanding maybe wrong. If the network support LTE, then it is supposed to work. If the network is 3 G or earlier, then it may not work because Verizon is on CDMA while others are on GSM. If you have a phone that supports both, then it will always work. It is easy to experiment. Borrow an ATT SIM card to try on your Verizon phone to find out.

There are no networks left that are only 3G or earlier. There are no phones left that are only CDMA or only GSM. All phones made in the last few years have a multi-band modem supporting all networks. All you need to worry about anymore is that your phone is not "locked" because you bought it on a monthly contract plan from your service provider. Personally I buy a new one each year or two at Ktronix in Pablado for about $100 worth of pesos. Like Surfer my real phone is always in the room safe.

[Mojo Bandit]

So your saying that a Verizon phone will work in Colombia with a local SIM card? I heard something different from another poster about this. But for guys with two phones that's very handy not needing to buy another phone in Colombia and get hammered by Verizon for $ 10 USD day. Regardless, my I phone doesn't leave my place, it's my lifeline to the USA, and I have a back-up I phone as well. The biggest issue is losing an American cell phone in Colombia and not being able to get the number back, hence my phones stay locked up, and having two phones, one as your lifeline, and the other as your mongering phone is the way to go.

Over the years Verizon phones have changed but it still depends on the actual model of the phone, I used Verizon for years and my phone would used be be useless in Colombia. I had a cheap Chinese Galaxy clone dual SIM I used to carry down there. It did not work because not only does / did Verizon us CDMA technology but Verizon had them locked. Then when Google made the first deal with Verizon to sell their Google Pixel Phone they required that Verizon sell the phone "unlocked". Google was also selling the phone themselves in their Google Store so each phone is made as a multi band to work on any network. Now other phones have followed and I am fairly sure that all phones made by major manufacturers that sell through Verizon are multiband and work on most networks. Google Pixel phones also have the capability of being dual SIM because they have an eSIM capabilty, so when I am traveling I can keep my original number in case people at home are trying to contact me, and I download an eSIM from Google Fi to use when traveling because they do not charge for roaming and the data is reasonable. This is really handy if you are traveling to more than one country. I am posting an image of the description of a Galaxy S21 5 G, Apple iPhone SE (2020), ad the cheapo Galaxy A01 . According to this article linked below, Verizon only demands that your phone be locked to their network to the first 60 days. This article also addresses how to get it unlocked.

All that being said, I am not going to argue with your reasoning of having one phone locked up for your lifeline and carrying a monger phone. It is a safe way to go. I would suggest to anyone that wanted a travel phone to go online and find a phone that works on Colombia's networks. According to medellinguru dot com -

https://medellinguru.com/cell-phones/#text=The%20 GSM%20850%20 and%20 GSM, will%20 not%20 work%20 in%20 Colombia.

"The GSM 850 and GSM 1900 bands are used in Colombia for cell phones. If your unlocked cell phone supports GSM 850 and GSM 1900 bands it should work in Colombia. Most noteworthy, a CDMA phone will not work in Colombia. ".

For people that travel between multiple countries I suggest finding a phone that advertises as dual SIM and "quad band" or "global phone" etc because these work in most countries.

Lastly if a person is traveling between different countries and wants flexibility, if you do the research on compatible phones they could look at buying a used cell phone that is compatible with Google Fi, cost for service is 20 USD per month for service then 10 USD per GB data, there are no contracts so I cancel after one month, the advantage is no matter which country you land in you can use the same SIM and at most have to turn your phone off and on to lock into a signal when you land in a different country, I have used Google Fi in the Colombia, UK, Mexico, France, Spain, and the Czech Republic. The last three all in the same trip and the same SIM.

[MaddTraveler]

Rich men are alpha males. Alpha females like only alpha males. Non alpha females would like to be with alpha males but there are only so many alpha males to go around.

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I personally know many Rich women whom you'd consider alphas that are dating poor men. A good acquaintance of mine is in her early 40, looks 30, rich with multiple own businesses. And now dating a buddy of mine who's only 26 yrs old, has no college edu and only couple hundreds in the bank.

Being an Alpha has nothing to do with money. I consider my buddy also an Alpha, cause he's confident, works out and women falls for him, and dude is funny as hell. Being an Alpha has to do with your confidence, your charm, look / charisma overall. Yes your finance matters but matters less if she has her own. Also no one. Men or women has all qualities to be Alphas, but you should have one or masterd one really well or a combination of a few.

For example women will fall for you for being rich even if ugly / fat, or same women or even better women will go for the poor dude with a big dick and six pack and will settle to live with you in your hut; or you have no money at all and average look but you're funny as hell, you have a wonderful personality etc. Yes our values and status in society matters, and yes most women do want a man with a title / career. But go way beyond the description of what this is. We're talking and naming Bill Gates and 1 in a Billion type of people and it's ridiculous. All real men basically are Alphas, someone who works hard, pay his damn bills, take care of his women and children and doesn't whine like a sissy, can throw a punch and defend his flock to protect his own.

Think of it like a scale of 1-10 in looks, and and another 1-10 in everything else (personality, money, etc.) - We men and women do the exact same. We will sacrifice look and go down to a 6 in looks if she's a 10 in personality, or if she's a 3 in personality, the look better be a 9-10. Women look at us the same way. There's no exact math or science, love is matter of the heart, and since bills must be paid, women (as they mature) usually will balance their love finding with what you can offer. Note that I mention "as they mature" this is important because the younger and the immature the woman, she will only go for vanity hence your look will matter more. Because at young age, she's in high school, college, living with parents with little to no responsibility, looks to them and your dance move in the club is what will attract them. But once mature and once life begins with all its hardships and surprises, they will give up the popular high school jock who's broke and they'll turn to the nerd that never got laid. Cause now the ugly fat belly nerd has money and has his own dominance.

Our current Sugar daddies are those guys, who can afford $5-$10 k allowance monthly for any beauty they want. Of course most men fall in between the Bill gate nerds and the poor jock who never left town, still riding dads' 1970 truck, no passport, working min wage and can barely read since never paid attention in school (somehow still was Prom King LOL). Bottom line, If you're not rich or successful you better look good or be one hell of guy. Alpha simply means you handle your biz as a man, one way or another and it's not only about rich money (Meaning average money and average working man still fall in the same category).

[Nounce]

So your saying that a Verizon phone will work in Colombia with a local SIM card? I heard something different from another poster about this.

I have not used Verizon or Spring for a while so my understanding maybe wrong. If the network support LTE, then it is supposed to work. If the network is 3 G or earlier, then it may not work because Verizon is on CDMA while others are on GSM. If you have a phone that supports both, then it will always work. It is easy to experiment. Borrow an ATT SIM card to try on your Verizon phone to find out.