Medellin Reports

[Turgid]

I'm youngish (under 35) and see where you're coming from. The mongering life is the way to go. Get a senior membership so we can DM bro.

Cheers.

JW.

Mongering life has its obvious advantages. However, married life has advantages as well, the advantage is greater advancement at work. Mongering and chasing women take up a lot of time which could be devoted to working harder at your job and moving up the ranks.

[Nil Admirari]

A response to three recent queries from BMs about how the Governor's curfews and other restrictions have impacted a mongers modus operandi here in Medellin--or mine, at least:

Question # 1: One BM recently asked about home visits by chicas during curfew hours. Depending on their appetite for risk, I've found some ladies willing to travel to and from my apartment during curfew hours; others not. FYI, the official fine for violating the curfew (and the other restrictions) is a whopping 900 thousand pesos and change. (Spanish readers can check this link: https://colombia.as.com/colombia/202...70_476287.html#text=La%20 orden%20 de%20 comparendo%20 es, comportamiento%20 contrario%20 a%20 la%20 convivencia. &text=La%20 multa%20 tipo%204%20 equivale, total%20 de%201.161. 856%20 pesos).

During WhatsApp texting to set up visits, I've made sure that the invited lady really feels comfortable venturing out during the forbidden hours. Of my core stable of four chicas, three have visited during the curfews, while just one has demurred (a Venezuelan with cédula issues). I've had some second thoughts as to whether it's right for me to allow them to risk the fine, but horniness and lust has trumped any moral imperative. That said, in the (I would surmise, very unlikely) event any of their taxis got pulled over by the police and my chica couldn't talk (or flirt) her way out of a humongous fine, I like to think that I would volunteer to share in the cost, or perhaps pick it up entirely (assuming, of course, that she could provide paperwork to prove she actually had gotten caught and fined). A harder (hypothetical) call: What would I do if one of them would claim to have been stopped by a cop and then to have slipped him 200,000 pesos to let her off--but, needless to say, with no City of Medellin receipt to confirm the payment.

Question # 2: Yesterday BM HotRockIt asked "What's the word on places like New Life and massage parlors in centro? It's been awhile since I've seen anyone report on these places. Business as usual? Open? Closed? How have things changed during corona?

In my experience, if a casas remains open at all (and most do), it's pretty much business as usual within the working hours allowed by the curfew rules on any given day (with the minor exception, in a few casas, of a mandatory dose of hand spray on entry). I've window-shopped at Fantasias Energy twice, Eros once, and a week ago Tuesday made the rounds of the casas just to the north and east of El Centro: Las Casa de Doña Fanny and a nameless casa in the same block, Zandalay, Barcelona Sala de Mansajes, Traviesas Sexi, Dulce Compañía, Masajes Aiffe, and New Life all were open. A few were closed: Pamela's permanently; some others (Casa de Piedra / Lindas Chicas) at least on day a checked (I can't say if just temporarily). As I and others have previously reported, Luna Lunera seems to be operating pretty much as a 24/7 casa rather than a night club, except on evenings when the curfew began at 11 PM rather than 5 or 8 PM. When Some of the manasan style managers wore masks, but lineups were all unmasked, and the four or so times I have headed to a habitacióand with a chica, once the door has closed, it's, indeed, been very much business as usual.

Question #3. Yesterday RiceRocket99 shared information on Pico why cédula regulations, and reported having no problem (on his designated days) using a xerox of his passport to gain entry to grocery stores and banks. For what it's worth, over the past couple of weeks, I have been in and out of Exito Laureles why Exito Setenta on a number of occasions, and have also visited a couple of major shopping centers (UniCentro), usually on my assigned Pico why cédula day and with a copy of my passport in my back pocket--and not once have I been asked to show any ID to gain entrance. Nonetheless, if your errand requires a taxi rather than a walk around the corner, you're probably well advised to stick to your designated shopping day.

In respect to shopping during the Friday-Sunday 24 hour / day lockdown, here's a roughly translated quote in El Tiempo from the governor of Antioquia, Luis Fernando Suárez: "On whether you can enter supermarkets to stock up, Suárez clarified that these large stores will not be able to open and will only be able to provide services through a mobile application or homes."

[Mojo Bandit]

Okay. I am new here and plan on going to Medellin for the first time in the next month or two. I am an African American male, age 24. I have a great paying job where I am making 80 K USD as a single man. I was wondering how do I start meeting people on Seeking Arrangements. It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+. I mean, I am attractive and have a good built. Any suggestions? Like how should the initial convo start? Straight to the point like " hey, I need a companion for a day and will pay you 350 k to show me around and have some fun". Or less subtle like " Wow you are beautiful. Want someone to show me around."

Best,

And damn I see a lot of playa's on here so please put me on to game.

You definitely need to get a membership here on this site so we can private message you, once your membership is active you can click on anyone's name that is in dark blue where in their post and a dropdown menu opens up, then you can see if they are able to get and send messages, send me a private message.

[RacShack]

Having serious issues with Spirit airlines, does anyone know a corporate office fone number?

Google is failing me.

Muchas gracias.

Run forest run, gross horrible to zero customer service, please stay away, not sure where your from but jet blue is amazing! Good luck travel safe!

[Surfer500]

I'm youngish (under 35) The mongering life is the way to go.JW.

Yes indeed, unless you want to have offspring, getting married is a total waste of time.

And after you have been married and divorced, like myself, and get to bang anything and everything under the sun you will ask yourself, what the fuck was I thinking to get married to begin with, as a variety of new pussy is hard to resist.

The "mongering life" if you can afford it is like being a kid in a candy shop.

If I knew what I know now, I would of never gotten married.

[SlapShot10]

Okay. I am new here and plan on going to Medellin for the first time in the next month or two. I am an African American male, age 24. I have a great paying job where I am making 80 K USD as a single man. I was wondering how do I start meeting people on Seeking Arrangements. It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+. I mean, I am attractive and have a good built. Any suggestions? Like how should the initial convo start? Straight to the point like " hey, I need a companion for a day and will pay you 350 k to show me around and have some fun". Or less subtle like " Wow you are beautiful. Want someone to show me around."

Best,

And damn I see a lot of playa's on here so please put me on to game.

Surfer is right, but I wouldn't let others' experiences or beliefs keep you from trying SA. I've had several freebies off SA, which started off with normal chat and an invitation. As another poster said, I'd avoid the full day stuff. Now, to be fair, I think the SA freebies were hoping for the Disney movie fairytale, and only ended up with a fun night. It would have been easy to fall into something with a few of them, but that's not what I was looking for, and when I notice they are looking to hook a gringo, I'm out. On the flip side, one of the few times I've been tricked by photos was also SA. You're a young guy, so you should understand the concepts of photo filters and angles. If you notice too many of either, it's probably for good reason. As Surfer mentioned, I have used SA as a mid-30's into my late-30's and that might actually be a benefit. The age range of the freebies was typically the 22-25 range, where they think they know more than the newbie chicks and they have more to offer. As far as that is from the truth, that's their mentality. I'd say a week before your trip, get a month premium account, spend a few days mining for connections / likes / conversations. I always try to take the conversation to WhatsApp, and then in the contact, I save their name with SA + MDE + user name. This way, I have something to go back to if they don't have a clear profile photo on WhatsApp or don't send any photos there. I don't want to start the debate, but Spanish definitely has helped me. I can now tell stories and joke around, even though I can't understand everything they say. Good luck and do it your way!

For those feeling stuck and hopeless in Medellin, or looking for a different option, Mexico is the wild wild west. I carry a mask for the one step into a restaurant, store, or bar. Side note, my buddy that was in Medellin for a couple months left for the US to get his vaccination and handle some personal things, and ended up getting COVID. He left on a Thursday and got symptoms Sunday or Monday, so I'm assuming he got it while traveling. Good thing he had to pay to get a test before leaving! Anyway, he was in pretty rough shape. He is maybe mid-50's and in decent shape; no underlying health issues that I'm aware of. He ended up going to the hospital to get the COVID cocktail pump. Stay safe & cheers. With all that's going on, I'll probably hold off returning to Medellin until late May or June.

[JohnnyWalker55]

Okay. I am new here and plan on going to Medellin for the first time in the next month or two. I am an African American male, age 24. I have a great paying job where I am making 80 K USD as a single man. I was wondering how do I start meeting people on Seeking Arrangements. It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+. I mean, I am attractive and have a good built. Any suggestions? Like how should the initial convo start? Straight to the point like " hey, I need a companion for a day and will pay you 350 k to show me around and have some fun". Or less subtle like " Wow you are beautiful. Want someone to show me around."

Best,

And damn I see a lot of playa's on here so please put me on to game.

I'm youngish (under 35) and see where you're coming from. The mongering life is the way to go. Get a senior membership so we can DM bro.

Cheers.

JW.

[MarquisdeSade1]

Having serious issues with Spirit airlines, does anyone know a corporate office fone number?

Google is failing me.

Muchas gracias.

[Tomasb]

This is not a forum for these topics and arguments. Nobody here gives a shit about what happens at your local townie bar in North America. Nor whether you are afraid of viruses, clowns, boogiemen, or dark spaces. Take it elsewhere.
See post #45473 to learn how to contribute properly to this forum

Drop dead, pal. I have contributed considerably more to this forum than you have, including MDE, and my response was to someone else's illogical arguments made on this page. If you have got a beef, then write to him (Marquis deSade1).

[RamDavidson84]

Okay. I am new here and plan on going to Medellin for the first time in the next month or two. I am an African American male, age 24. I have a great paying job where I am making 80 K USD as a single man. I was wondering how do I start meeting people on Seeking Arrangements. It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+. I mean, I am attractive and have a good built. Any suggestions? Like how should the initial convo start? Straight to the point like " hey, I need a companion for a day and will pay you 350 k to show me around and have some fun". Or less subtle like " Wow you are beautiful. Want someone to show me around."

Best,

And damn I see a lot of playa's on here so please put me on to game.

I am assuming you don't want to use FB for discretionary reasons which is why you are asking about SA. The biggest problem with SA is not your race or age, its the availability of the girls and you. Many will not want to communicate with you much until you are just a few days from arriving to the city because you are just one of a hundred guys they are communicating with on the SA platform. Medellin is saturated with beautiful girls willing to fuck for cash. If you have the cash, you will get some very beautiful women. If you put the time in, you will also make a lot of contacts on SA, but its really not necessary. You can easily just roll into Medellin with no contacts and immediately start scoring very high level girls from multiple different sources, Parque Lleras, FB, Milerticos, strip clubs, LOL cab drivers who know girls, etc. If you are really looking to spend a lot of time with a single girl for a few days and form a real friendship / relationship, then SA is a good option. Some girls will be offended if you are very forward offering money for cash as they want to be more discreet about what you are both doing, but the vast majority will not care and understand they want to get fucked for cash and have a good time just like you. Be yourself, be upfront with what you want, be respectful, be cautious, and enjoy the process and you cannot fail in Medellin. My best advice would be to learn as much Spanish as you can, its a life long skill that always gives back and you will enjoy your trips much more besides just the girls. I would also not recommend getting tied up with a single girl for a whole day, especially if your just starting out in your 20's. Your probably going to want to run the gauntlet once you see what you can get. Good luck.

[Surfer500]

Okay. I am new here and plan on going to Medellin for the first time in the next month or two. I am an African American male, age 24. I have a great paying job where I am making 80 K USD as a single man. I was wondering how do I start meeting people on Seeking Arrangements. It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+. I mean, I am attractive and have a good built. Any suggestions? Like how should the initial convo start? Straight to the point like " hey, I need a companion for a day and will pay you 350 k to show me around and have some fun". Or less subtle like " Wow you are beautiful. Want someone to show me around."

Best,

And damn I see a lot of playa's on here so please put me on to game.

Your probably one of the youngest posters here, as a lot of us here are "old farts", with I would say the majority of the members on the Medellin thread being over 40 years old.

And as far as Seeking Arrangements, I have no experience with them, but from what I can gather it sounds like a sugar daddy site, hence the clientale are going to be older males versus someone your age, at least that is what I think.

So in thinking about this, this may be to your advantage in you that you may hook up with someone your own age which some of the women might also like besides an old, fat, and wrinkled dude.

Yet you have to keep in mind though that at the end of the day, it's going to be a monetary transaction.

And given your young and tender age, this whole mongering business must be very new to you.

Whatever you do, you need to be flexible, and consider maybe Facebook as an option as well. Lots of posts here, about how it works, along with pricing and some of the "pitfalls" you might encounter with it.

Regardless, when you show and if Medellin is not under any extreme lockdowns, there will be all kinds of casa's and clubs you can patronize as well. And even El Centro might be an option for you!

[SpiderRider]

You know what, my local bar in my home town in North America recently reopened after being shuttered most of the year. But they adopted a new policy, which requires proof of vaccination card to enter, though you can sit outside in the cold if you don't have a vaccination. I stopped in last week, showed my card info on my cell phone and went into the bar to enjoy a few cocktails without having to worry that the other patrons may be infected.

I frankly don't care that people like you feel inconvenienced. My health and safety and the success of the bar is much more important than whether or not you feel discriminated against.

This is not a forum for these topics and arguments. Nobody here gives a shit about what happens at your local townie bar in North America. Nor whether you are afraid of viruses, clowns, boogiemen, or dark spaces. Take it elsewhere.
See post #45473 to learn how to contribute properly to this forum

[Nounce]

Okay. I am new here and plan on going to Medellin for the first time in the next month or two. I am an African American male, age 24. I have a great paying job where I am making 80 K USD as a single man. I was wondering how do I start meeting people on Seeking Arrangements. It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+. I mean, I am attractive and have a good built. Any suggestions? Like how should the initial convo start? Straight to the point like " hey, I need a companion for a day and will pay you 350 k to show me around and have some fun". Or less subtle like " Wow you are beautiful. Want someone to show me around."

Best,

And damn I see a lot of playa's on here so please put me on to game.

There is another thread here dedicated to SA. You should look it up.

On seeking, the most common terms I have seen used is seeking "mutually beneficial relationship". They will tell you they want help economically. That is what you can start with if asked, and the girls know what it means. I think it is better not beating around the bush by asking them to show you around and stuff like that. You want to have sex on the first date and that is what you should focus on directly or indirectly. I have never met a Colombiana that has problem talking about sex.

It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+.

Where do you get this idea from? Never heard of it.

[SavePros321]

Okay. I am new here and plan on going to Medellin for the first time in the next month or two. I am an African American male, age 24. I have a great paying job where I am making 80 K USD as a single man. I was wondering how do I start meeting people on Seeking Arrangements. It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+. I mean, I am attractive and have a good built. Any suggestions? Like how should the initial convo start? Straight to the point like " hey, I need a companion for a day and will pay you 350 k to show me around and have some fun". Or less subtle like " Wow you are beautiful. Want someone to show me around."

Best,

And damn I see a lot of playa's on here so please put me on to game.

None of that matters.

The most important factors are:

1) Do you speak (passable) Spanish and can understand in written form enough to have an intelligible message exchange?

2) Are you going to pay the chicas on Seeking what they are asking for?

3) If you are not her "preference", keep moving until you find chicas who are more open.

[Paulie97]

You know what, my local bar in my home town in North America recently reopened after being shuttered most of the year. But they adopted a new policy, which requires proof of vaccination card to enter, though you can sit outside in the cold if you don't have a vaccination. I stopped in last week, showed my card info on my cell phone and went into the bar to enjoy a few cocktails without having to worry that the other patrons may be infected.

I frankly don't care that people like you feel inconvenienced. My health and safety and the success of the bar is much more important than whether or not you feel discriminated against.

You are preaching to the choir and completely misinterpreted my post. Hit up the guy the I was responding to, or make better use of the quote function. Cheers.