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**Member #4705** · 06-05-21 12:52

Just Googled for spa locations and most of them show that they are open. I guess as long as there is a spa within a radius of 5 kms you can still enjoy with a risk. I wonder whether they are getting any business and we maybe able to get better deals due to the lack of customers.

**GBabuGee** · 06-05-21 06:08

Folks,

Do any of you do upi transfer for benefits? I am worried about disclosing mobile number. Any suggestions on intermediary platforms for these kind of transactions?

If a solution doesn't exist maybe a good startup idea?

Please share your methods of exchange other than cash.

**FunForSandy** · 06-05-21 05:22

Originally Posted by Minnypo [View Original Post]

Sex / sexual activities with wife increases during lockdown as we get more time to spend with each other. We get less time for each other when there is no lockdown as we will be in office most of the day. And also, will be tired from commute and work. So it will be mostly weekends fun then.

With wife, intercourse is lesser as other activities give more fun to both of us. We enjoy oral sex more. So I can say 1 fuck session in a week. DATY, BJ, HJ, 69, Fingering are more common and happens almost every alternate day. Sometimes if horny, almost daily. And no CIM. I don't like to do it with her and even she doesn't like it.

Started enjoying sex crazy soon after marriage. Continued for a two to three years. But then gradually declined because of work and all. But again increased, mainly due to lockdown. And it continued to be like that during the break between first wave and second wave. The pattern days it continues. He he.

Also, good thing is, if I ask for a HJ or BJ anytime, she never denies. Always happy to give them. So I end up missing masturbations during lockdowns, LOL.

But whatever said and done, there is some pleasure mentally that we men derive when fucking or getting service from another chick. I think most men and not just mongering men would agree to this. Polygamous is fun. Don't think anyone would deny to this, at least in this forum. Ha ha. I just love meeting as many chicks as possible (if body type is to my liking) and like to enjoy their body as much as possible. Boob lover and love nudity.

Outside biryani is mouth watering even though food at home is best.

Agree with you. We all need some variety, as they say it's the spice of life. By mongering one gets to enjoy different types of girls / bodies. Also we can live out some of our fantasies as well as do those things which aren't available at home.

Cheers.

**FunForSandy** · 06-05-21 05:20

Originally Posted by BlrBoi [View Original Post]

Its been 7 years since marriage and we started fucking the moment we got engaged. She was living alone in Blr and so was I, so enjoyed crazy sex like it never ends, we used to take leave to just fuck. Then got married. It became a little bit slow. Then after 2 years of married life. She moved to UK for her masters. So for next 2 years. We used to meet once in 4-5 months and again sex was crazy.

But then once she came back, we started fucking like before marriage, almost everything. HJ, BJ, CIM, Swallow, COF, COB. It went on for 5-6 months. Later we got so much busy that sex became almost once in a month activity but she gives me HJ or BJ. Or the best which I like is she gives me her boobs to suck and let me jerk off.

These days its just once a month and 2-3 times she will help jerk off or give me BJ and I lick her till she comes. Over all going ok ok.

Best thing is we decided to not to have kids.

Lucky you to get CIM and swallow at home. Good going, keep it up.

**Minnypo** · 06-05-21 02:57

Sex / sexual activities with wife increases during lockdown as we get more time to spend with each other. We get less time for each other when there is no lockdown as we will be in office most of the day. And also, will be tired from commute and work. So it will be mostly weekends fun then.

With wife, intercourse is lesser as other activities give more fun to both of us. We enjoy oral sex more. So I can say 1 fuck session in a week. DATY, BJ, HJ, 69, Fingering are more common and happens almost every alternate day. Sometimes if horny, almost daily. And no CIM. I don't like to do it with her and even she doesn't like it.

Started enjoying sex crazy soon after marriage. Continued for a two to three years. But then gradually declined because of work and all. But again increased, mainly due to lockdown. And it continued to be like that during the break between first wave and second wave. The pattern days it continues. He he.

Also, good thing is, if I ask for a HJ or BJ anytime, she never denies. Always happy to give them. So I end up missing masturbations during lockdowns, LOL.

But whatever said and done, there is some pleasure mentally that we men derive when fucking or getting service from another chick. I think most men and not just mongering men would agree to this. Polygamous is fun. Don't think anyone would deny to this, at least in this forum. Ha ha. I just love meeting as many chicks as possible (if body type is to my liking) and like to enjoy their body as much as possible. Boob lover and love nudity.

Outside biryani is mouth watering even though food at home is best.

Originally Posted by Tubelite [View Original Post]

Guys,

Let's discuss something new during this lockdown to kill boredom. I know there are many married men are here, How is your sex life with your wife. /? During lockdown, we have to be with family all the time, have your sex life, number of times sex improved? Do you ask / get BJ, HJ apart from intercourse from your wife? Have you done any time CIM on your wife? I know this is personal stuff to discuss but anyway, we don't have to feel shy as this website maintains anonymously. Cheers!

**BlrBoi** · 06-04-21 22:21

Its been 7 years since marriage and we started fucking the moment we got engaged. She was living alone in Blr and so was I, so enjoyed crazy sex like it never ends, we used to take leave to just fuck. Then got married. It became a little bit slow. Then after 2 years of married life. She moved to UK for her masters. So for next 2 years. We used to meet once in 4-5 months and again sex was crazy.

But then once she came back, we started fucking like before marriage, almost everything. HJ, BJ, CIM, Swallow, COF, COB. It went on for 5-6 months. Later we got so much busy that sex became almost once in a month activity but she gives me HJ or BJ. Or the best which I like is she gives me her boobs to suck and let me jerk off.

These days its just once a month and 2-3 times she will help jerk off or give me BJ and I lick her till she comes. Over all going ok ok.

Best thing is we decided to not to have kids.

Originally Posted by Tubelite [View Original Post]

Guys,

Let's discuss something new during this lockdown to kill boredom. I know there are many married men are here, How is your sex life with your wife. /? During lockdown, we have to be with family all the time, have your sex life, number of times sex improved? Do you ask / get BJ, HJ apart from intercourse from your wife? Have you done any time CIM on your wife? I know this is personal stuff to discuss but anyway, we don't have to feel shy as this website maintains anonymously. Cheers!

**FunForSandy** · 06-04-21 13:44

Originally Posted by Tirrence [View Original Post]

Must say you are a lucky man. Your marriage looks to be not more than 5 years. Make hay when the sun shines 👍.

Yes buddy, definitely I am lucky. And we are older than what you think 😉.

**Intercourser** · 06-04-21 12:10

Women get a lot more "offers" for sex. In this social media age, if a woman is willing then she can easily sleep with as many as she can handle. It is a myth that men are more powerful.

Read Rollo Tomassi's Rational male on intersexual dynamics.

Originally Posted by OLoveIt [View Original Post]

No, I am single, I want to know how much equality indian men are ready for, as you don't feel guilty about cheating your wife, how would you feel if she is doing exactly what you do?

**VinodBlr** · 06-04-21 07:52

Originally Posted by OLoveIt [View Original Post]

Do you guys expect your wife to be like sati savitri type devoted to you, and what if one day you find out she is also having a secret sex life like yours?

How would you respond, would you just ignore or do something crazy like being violent or taking divorce.

Honestly, the people in this Forum have no right to expect their wives to be Holy Cows. Women are also just like us although they generally have more self control in such matters. If you are into this then she has every right under the sun to do the same (Heard of the Golden rule? IMHO, you must ignore it unless it takes a romantic turn and she decides to leave you (It happens in very many cases as for women it is just not sex but emotions also play a Major role). If you want to confront her, do it in a nice way and be understanding. Force, violence, etc all are immature reactionary things.

**OLoveIt** · 06-04-21 05:34

Originally Posted by ECity045 [View Original Post]

You are asking a very strange question. Are you in this situation?

No, I am single, I want to know how much equality indian men are ready for, as you don't feel guilty about cheating your wife, how would you feel if she is doing exactly what you do?

**Suresh Luv** · 06-04-21 04:56

Originally Posted by Taddap [View Original Post]

I visited their branch in Kalyan nagar few weeks back (before serious 2nd wave), was randomly assigned a lady. Her name is British princess who died in car crash. In early 30's, well built and she somewhat looked like porn star Karina white.

She was direct and exposing her boobs right from washing the legs in reception and little tickle. Once inside the room, she immediately started the conv about extras. The quote was extra ordinary, but have to bring her to senses about the prevailing rates.

The next 1 HR was a bliss, nude massage with firm boobs, dry ride (cautious not to insert), BJ at table and shower etc.

Will definitely repeat.

Please confirm the name of the spa bro, thanks in advance.

**Tirrence** · 06-04-21 02:27

Originally Posted by FunForSandy [View Original Post]

If you were getting everything earlier, you can resuscitate the fun again. Pamper her, cajole her. I am sure you will get the mojo back.

Me and wifey used to have pretty regular stuff early on. But over a period of time I was able to get her to give HJ and BJ and now she does it on her own and passionately. The only thing missing is CIM. We have now tried all kind of positions too. And multiple locations too including once in the balcony when we could see some girl in the flat below.

Must say you are a lucky man. Your marriage looks to be not more than 5 years. Make hay when the sun shines 👍.

**ECity045** · 06-04-21 00:22

Originally Posted by OLoveIt [View Original Post]

Do you guys expect your wife to be like sati savitri type devoted to you, and what if one day you find out she is also having a secret sex life like yours?

How would you respond, would you just ignore or do something crazy like being violent or taking divorce.

You are asking a very strange question. Are you in this situation?

**OLoveIt** · 06-03-21 22:37

Do you guys expect your wife to be like sati savitri type devoted to you, and what if one day you find out she is also having a secret sex life like yours?

How would you respond, would you just ignore or do something crazy like being violent or taking divorce.

**ItsMark** · 06-03-21 19:53

Originally Posted by JustiKyzer [View Original Post]

I never understood the fun in cams. Plus lots of free cams are available with foreign chicks.

So what do you ask them to do which makes your time worthwhile? For you to take paid cam services? (Honest Open question to everyone).

Given the current scenario. Wife / live-in partner / porn / cams are the only options for release.

In contrast to watching porn, virtual cam sites allow you to direct and control the performance. There is a feeling of control when the performer follows your instructions or gives you (the tipper) more / sole attention over other freeloaders. Similar psychology applies to dance bars too. The highest tipper gets the control and attention of the girls. The girls obviously use this to their advantage. They flirt and lead the people who tip to compete against each other to vie for her attention and obedience. Tip-controlled vibrators (a win-win for both the tipper and the cam model), levelling up, points, badges (Knights, King, etc.) and other gamification strategies used by cam sites, keep members hooked into buying more credits and spending them!

Apart from these, you can also fulfill some of your extreme / dark fetishes and fantasies virtually. Which you or your partner or WG may otherwise be uncomfortable trying out in real life. Eg: watersports, bondage, domination, dirty talk, humiliation, etc.

On a side note, has anybody here tried VR porn or cam sites? Would love to hear their experience.

Also, with cam sex, there is somewhat lesser guilt too. So you don't really feel that you are cheating on your partner. In case you get caught with your pants down, you can always close the screen / hang up the phone and claim you were only watching porn. The lesser evil when compared to cheating with another woman! LOL!