Seeking Arrangements

[Wanaf]

Beyond being patient and slow, one advice I learnt is that don't mess with razor on the day or 2-3 days before you are planning to meet someone. Any sign of cut, redness can become a big no for some girls.

First things first. Anyone who says it doesn't matter has clearly never done it. It matters A LOT to the girls and honestly it improves the feel of BLS by about 2 X. Win win. But I thought it might help to share some about the mechanics and tips from the school of hard knocks (been doing about six months)

Do not skimp on razor and do not attempt with a mens double blade. Get a Venus five blade with the built in lube strips. Do not ignore this part. It is probably the single most important part.

Don't shave that small area between your balls and your leg. This is unnecessary to shave and causes problems with ball sticking to leg, jock itch development etc. Shaving the balls is sufficient for the benefit.

To do the actual shaving:

Get a slight chub on. You want to get the slack out of your sack. Particularly if you are old like me.

Apply cream with same hand as razor. Keep your left hand dry.

Use that dry left hand to pull your dick up and otherwise provide tension to the sack.

[Elvis 2008]

In a chat with a SB this week, she made this comment:

What observations do you guys make from that statement?

AP,

IMO 80% of women in general and on seeking are batshit crazy, and my goal is to get rid of the crazy ones. It is hard to wean out a lot of the ones online especially the ones who may be substituting being nave for being a scam artist.

Get their number. Text them and then move to the time of a meet. Schedule coffee. It is cheap and fast. Within 5 minutes, I know whether or not I wanted to pursue the woman.

80% of women through greed, stupidity, or lack of motivation do not even get to the meet. And how many am I going to cut out because when I meet them I do not like them or because sexually they are going to underperform? A bunch more.

I do not care if you have not been on a meet before. If you say you are going to meet me, you do not get a pass if you say, "It was my first time, and I was scared. " If you want to put up with that shit, have at it, but I never did.

I know the women are young, but I never regretted upholding my standards, and I regretted relaxing them time and again.

If you say you are going to show up, show up. If I am paying you to perform, perform. I know some of these women are young and want to use excuses, but I am not holding them to any standard I do not have to meet myself.

[Ggekko2009]

In a chat with a SB this week, she made this comment:

What observations do you guys make from that statement?

I actually got more than a few girls in the Bogota section who told me straight up that they have in fact never done this before, and therefore do not know how to approach this and how much to ask. They are in it hoping to get some financial assistance. They are regular girls who are mostly college students.

[TeFab456]

In a chat with a SB this week, she made this comment:

What observations do you guys make from that statement?

Give her an experience.

[AsianPursuits]

In a chat with a SB this week, she made this comment:

I am not experienced, I don't know how to do this coz I'd never done this before. Am not a *****.

What observations do you guys make from that statement?

[Steve 9696]

First things first. Anyone who says it doesn't matter has clearly never done it. It matters A LOT to the girls and honestly it improves the feel of BLS by about 2 X. Win win. But I thought it might help to share some about the mechanics and tips from the school of hard knocks (been doing about six months)

Do not skimp on razor and do not attempt with a mens double blade. Get a Venus five blade with the built in lube strips. Do not ignore this part. It is probably the single most important part.

Don't shave that small area between your balls and your leg. This is unnecessary to shave and causes problems with ball sticking to leg, jock itch development etc. Shaving the balls is sufficient for the benefit.

To do the actual shaving:

Get a slight chub on. You want to get the slack out of your sack. Particularly if you are old like me.

Apply cream with same hand as razor. Keep your left hand dry.

Use that dry left hand to pull your dick up and otherwise provide tension to the sack.

Avoid nicking the seam up the middle.

Make sure to go under a ways. Because some girls will go there.

Now that you are squeaky clean I guarantee a good BLS experience especially NOT with pros. I've only ever had a pro refuse (and that was pre shave). Never had a Seeking girl refuse. And some BLS virgins are quite good and get into it.

Final tip. The way I typically initiate is during BJ. I gently slip it out of her mouth and pull it up against my tummy and say "can you do down here" indicating my balls area. And down they go!

Have fun!

[Gfefan]

So, recap. I had the best with Miss the in city 1. Miss K in city 2. Miss M in city 2. All these in a span of 4 days. Miss K is a model like figure.

Day 6 (last day of trip) I was supposed to meet Miss O traveling about 120 kms one way. Was a little edgy and canceled on her. Went out with the boys and spent the day at beach.

Glad I did that. Miss K knew I was leaving the next day. She texted me at around 8 pm and asked if we could meet AGAIN. I was like "yeah. Baby. Come to puppa".

I told her I had a great time with her, I would love to but it will be great if we could ditch the condom. She responded yes, we can. I have come to trust you. Game on.

She showed up at 10 PM. We had some drinks, casual chat, same balcony. Sea breeze. I like it when these babes initiate. She leaned over, gently kissed me and whispered "you know I haven't had a man in over a year and two days ago, you made it awesome. Now, you make me want more". I said "I am all yours. Do wahtever you want to".

She proceeds to kiss more, unbutton my shirt, lick my chest, bite me gently and proceeded down to give me a blowjob. Slow at first and then, wet and sloppy. At some point, I tell her "lets go inside". She shook her head and said, I want it right here. Proceeded to remove her panties, lift her skirt up and mounted me while I am sitting on the chair. No FIV, no DATY. She was already wet. She rides me like a wild horse rigut there in the balcony. We fucked there for maybe 10 minutes. I lifted her up, while still inside her (I am strong), pumped her standing for a few strokes. Then, carried her inside all the while inside her. Placed her ass in a table and fucked her while standing. This allowed for deeper penetration. Wow. I'm fucking a model on the table.

A few minutes later, we move to bed, completely undressed now. We fucked like wild dogs. At some point, I asked her where she wants my cum. Tummy or face. She goes, I want to taste it.

We flip, she cimbs on top. Few more strokes. She pulls off and proceeds to give me the same sloppy blowjob. I am building a crescendo. I warn her I'm about to cum. She kept going. No hands. Only tongue and lips. I shoot a load in her mouth. She takes it all and slowly let it flow back on my dick. She continued sucking me.

Then, she walked in the bathroom, brings a towel, wipes me clean and lies down on my chest. Wow!

We grab some more wine. Keep chatting. About 15 minutes later, I go clesn up, with lots of soap and rinse my dick.

Resdy for roubd 2. I come back out, she is sprawled on my bed. Those boobs, that model face, that flat tummy and toned legs. I tell her I like her fit body and toned legs. She gently spreads her legs and goes "you like my legs and I like you between my legs" and invites me.

Instant erection. I jump on her, kiss her, gently bite her neck and proceed down to her tummy (remember she doesn't want me to play with her nipples), and then DATY. She is still wet but I decide to do it anyway. Few minutes, she has a O.

I climb back up and slide my dick back inside again. Different positions, more intense fucking this round. She had come three or four times before I shoot my load on her tummy.

Amazing sex with a hot model.

I'm glad I did not go to see Miss O.

We are still in touch texting once a while. Will be back to City 2 in few months. I know where to go.

[Gfefan]

Incidentally, I discovered this last week with my SB even before I read this.

We had some nuce teasing foreplay in a sauna (more later) and she was so wet that she wanted to move to the room saying "I want you inside me. RIGHT NOW" and we went to the room.

More FIV and DATY. She is super wet. I took my dick and just before sliding it in, I teased her a little bit. She threw her head back and started moaning. Stopped for a brief two seconds and she goes "that was aqesome. Keep doing that". I go back to rubbing her clit with my now full hard dick. In just about 10 seconds, she exploded. Legs shaking, body curling, orgasm. It was amazing.

I guess the first highlight was clit rubbing with dick. I'the never done this before but got to thinking that a dick makes an awfully good clit massager. So after some great FIV and fucking I was in the Steve position and pulled out and started using my dick to slide it up and down and around on her clit. She really liked this. I'the slip in for a few strokes and come out again and do dick clit massage and back in. Really recommend this. When doing her clit it feels great but a bit of a tease. So when you slip back in it feels wonderful. Same for her.

[Midwestern]

Fair warning that women want you to LISTEN to their problems but NOT try to solve them. Watch "It's not about the nail" on YouTube. So true! I have found this soooooo true with my 22-24 year old babies. They get super worked up and resentful when you present solutions. Just listen and say "oh that must be tough" etc. Haha women!

You just summarized the entire book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. " Many years ago, I read that book, and pretty much the main takeaway of the book's entire thesis can be summarized in your first sentence.

[AsianPursuits]

Has anyone been in contact with SA customer service? I made a ticket and it said 24-48 hours but it's been a week. Anyone who actually got a response?

I had an issue where I had accidentally created an account as a SB. I sent them a message and they switched the account to SD. Was all done within a day or so.

I had actually paid a subscription. I suspect they differentiate support calls to those that have active subscriptions and those on free accounts, if that helps.

[The Cane]

Fair warning that women want you to LISTEN to their problems but NOT try to solve them. Watch "It's not about the nail" on YouTube. So true! I have found this soooooo true with my 22-24 year old babies. They get super worked up and resentful when you present solutions. Just listen and say "oh that must be tough" etc. Haha women!

Yeah, yeah then baby spread them butt cheeks wide LOLOLOL!

[Ggekko2009]

Fair warning that women want you to LISTEN to their problems but NOT try to solve them. Watch "It's not about the nail" on YouTube. So true! I have found this soooooo true with my 22-24 year old babies. They get super worked up and resentful when you present solutions. Just listen and say "oh that must be tough" etc. Haha women!

So funny and yet so true. Wait till they start crying in front of you.

[AmericanOxygen]

Has anyone been in contact with SA customer service? I made a ticket and it said 24-48 hours but it's been a week. Anyone who actually got a response?

[Steve 9696]

Thank you for the thoughtful reply. I have one specific girl in my mind that I want to tame her expectations. My last few visits were 2 hours listening to her and resolving her life problems and 1 hour of great sex. But she still has financial needs so I haven't been back to see her. I guess I have nothing to lose as I won't continue with her current expectations.

Fair warning that women want you to LISTEN to their problems but NOT try to solve them. Watch "It's not about the nail" on YouTube. So true! I have found this soooooo true with my 22-24 year old babies. They get super worked up and resentful when you present solutions. Just listen and say "oh that must be tough" etc. Haha women!

[Elvis 2008]

I've seeing few gals here in my home town. I've found that their financial expectations decreases over time.

I started with $400-$500 per night but they now have a lower expectation.

Hopefully they feel it is less risky and I'm more reliable. OR I was always overpaying.

I prefer the first reason.

Do you guys find that the same girls will lower their financials needs as time passes.

AP, the hard part for women is seeing that you are real. There are so many scammers on the site looking for free sex. I do not know how they afford the fees. Maybe they steal passwords?

So yeah, once a girl knew I was safe, disease free, and had the ability to pay, I would make some excuse to pay less. I had so many women at one point that usually they would text me, and I would say yes but for a lower price. Many if not most of the women were broke and had no choice.

The women who come from money or have some socked away may say no, but I would say I was able to lower what I gave the women three out of four times.

And the ones who wanted the most $ were the ones I saw the least.