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[PopamRaj]

Dude. Did this work out?

Not yet. Unfortunately work has been crazy hectic on both sides! Hoping to make this happen next week.

Will definitely update the group.

[Blood Red]

Joined SA at the start of the month to start my research on the availability in Dubai and have gotten a few offers from all the messages. These girls went straight to the offer part. The others are on a "let's chat when you get here" part.
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To each their own, but some of these women need to get their head checked with their ridiculous demands. Most of the women I came across SA (so far) seem like regular Dubai hookers that signed up on SA as another forum to find customers. Note, it is free for women to sign up and message unlike men (as far as I know). So might as well go to one of the good clubs and find a stunner for a full night from 1 K to 1. 5 K. Anyway, will keep looking.

[JyinJapan]

This is exactly the kind of info that is required. Good variety. Let us know where the deal settles. Cheers.

Joined SA at the start of the month to start my research on the availability in Dubai and have gotten a few offers from all the messages. These girls went straight to the offer part. The others are on a "let's chat when you get here" part.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...4-26b27eec0919

Wants me to pay her $700 USD per day to stay with me at my hotel while she figures out her living situation since she can't fly back to Ukraine and her apartment release ends this month. Nope. I want variety.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...7-4ac51ff1919a

The one suggested 3 k for a few hours with no rising or alarms. Haven't really came back with an offer because I will negotiate when I get into town.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...1-285ac078e42b

Suggested 5 k to spend the weekend with me at the hotel. But I have a feeling this one is a scam. I have three that look eerily similar to each other.

Anyway. If this isn't where I am supposed to share offers, I apologize.

[Anaggie]

Joined SA at the start of the month to start my research on the availability in Dubai and have gotten a few offers from all the messages. These girls went straight to the offer part. The others are on a "let's chat when you get here" part.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...4-26b27eec0919

Wants me to pay her $700 USD per day to stay with me at my hotel while she figures out her living situation since she can't fly back to Ukraine and her apartment release ends this month. Nope. I want variety.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...7-4ac51ff1919a

The one suggested 3 k for a few hours with no rising or alarms. Haven't really came back with an offer because I will negotiate when I get into town.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...1-285ac078e42b

Suggested 5 k to spend the weekend with me at the hotel. But I have a feeling this one is a scam. I have three that look eerily similar to each other.

Anyway. If this isn't where I am supposed to share offers, I apologize.

[Want More]

Thanks Want More, that's great advice. Let's see how this plays out as next time I've suggest she brings the dog over so she doesn't need to rush off. Else, may have to consider going down this road.

Dude. Did this work out?

[Want More]

So, I caught a very promising opportunity at the tail end of it.

Long story, but I was invited at a ex Soviet sphere state for a business event. It is a tiny country and my client has big plans. My trip there a few months ago was very successful and the govt was super welcoming. They were visiting with their ministers and we were invited. It turned out that only 5 people showed up instead of the 20 or so expected. So we were treated even better.

When I want market Intel, my favorite question is to ask who are you competing with. They mentioned a country and I was walking past the Pavillion and had this special pass that lets me jump lines. Business delegate stuff. So I went there. Nothing much there some tech stuff. At the gift shop there was a cute but very bored looking MILF. They had some glass stuff, so chatted her up and got some things. She is from Czech, works for the govt, in Dubai for the expo. The stuff I got was heavy so asked if she can send it home or office. They didn't have the service so I said if she did it as a favor then I will make it upto her. She got where I was going and was game. So I waited until she got off, took her for shisha and snacks type stuff. She is single in late 30's well built. Has been living with 5 others from the same Pavillion is some expo special place. Asked her upfront what she did for male attention, I was the first guy she had been out with in Dubai, even though it was super basic.

Her off day is Friday, so on Thursday night after her shift asked her to come for dinner. Sending an uber was a pain so she made her way by herself with those glass vases. Put them in my car. Had a pleasant dinner at the french place. Post midnight and I am running out of energy but have blue balls. Finally everything is in place Vida is nearby and we are there. 2 rounds before sunrise, sleep and one before lunch. I need to get to work. She has mentioned how expensive Dubai is so she gets some cash to make it easier. Also asked her to shop for some lingerie that I like.

Got some good pics last few days, met late last night too. This night stuff is hard on me, hopefully on Friday will do a day thing.

I saw some pics of her roommates and other friends she has at the expos. Mostly mifl and quiet a few of them are hot.

What I gathered is that many want to spend April in Dubai before they go back. So SA should be filling up with expo folks soon.

Wish I had found this sooner. It is a target rich environment.

[Mawgan]

I'd not allow co-living; not been asked, but I like variety. Have in the past helped with rent; took a serviced apartment for a while for an ex who returned to Dubai for a short while with a girlfriend. That allowed pretty open access to her, but slightly annoyingly not to both.

1.5 to 2 K is usual. Europeans tend to ask for more, and I'll occasionally go above for a first meet, but rarely. Once in an ongoing process I'll help out a little more with expenses if the relationship is good and the need arises.

So everyone knows I have just had 1 disastrous experience with that scammer French * but I have exchanged messages with a handful of girls. Some wanted 1500 ppm, including a really hot Irani, others were quoting ridiculous figures of 3 k to 4 k (Europeans). I personally would not pay more than 1. 5 K per meet, if it's a relaxed date with good sex but to each their own. The idea of having a girl living with you in return for sex and a small allowance seems promising, provided you have a friendship / trust with the girl but haven't come across that opportunity yet.

[Blood Red]

Anyone else wants to share their experiences. Be specific especially with what you spend.

So everyone knows I have just had 1 disastrous experience with that scammer French * but I have exchanged messages with a handful of girls. Some wanted 1500 ppm, including a really hot Irani, others were quoting ridiculous figures of 3 k to 4 k (Europeans). I personally would not pay more than 1. 5 K per meet, if it's a relaxed date with good sex but to each their own. The idea of having a girl living with you in return for sex and a small allowance seems promising, provided you have a friendship / trust with the girl but haven't come across that opportunity yet.

[JyinJapan]

Thanks pal. It's the first time I am reading a contributor giving an actual number for what they pay on SA. Very helpful. Most of the other SA guidance is cryptic info which sounds good but not helpful at all. Thanks pal, we as a group owe you. If you do go to a monthly arrangement, and you are fine to share it would be great.

Here is my contribution to the noble cause. I am not on SA but a Russian girl who I think may be semi pro was asking 10 K monthly and then it's open access. There was another who wanted me to take care of her monthly rent 4 K and other expenses like clothes phone flights home and the rest. I did not bite either but that too was working out to be 10 k monthly. And finally another wanted to stay in my apartment and be paid 1 K each week and she would hook in nights as she has been doing. During her non hooking time, which is afternoon and evening, I could do my bit. Although she was a WG but kind of a friend too and hot, not past her prime.

Anyone else wants to share their experiences. Be specific especially with what you spend.

We agreed of AED 2 k on a PPM to start with and then move to a monthly set up if we decide to move to that. Is that too much? We've talked about her bringing her dog over next time (I love dogs too!) which should hopefully mean we should have more time.

[PopamRaj]

Whoaaa! How tall are you bro? Is she above 6 ft?

She is 6 ft tall! And still has a little "tall person gawkishness" about her, which is kinda cute!

[BurnInMoilite]

As promised, here's the report on my first proper SA encounter. This is what I was really really hoping for when I joined SA based on reading about all the experiences here. Indian single mom who definitely wants a very discreet NSA arrangement. She has a lot relatives in Dubai and wants to be very discreet! She's tall (about 6 inches taller than me! Super hot body and personality that oozes girls-next-door charm combined with a smouldering sexuality that gets me standing to attention every time, within minutes of meeting her. Likes the same music and food as me. She responded to the little joke on my profile with a joke of her own which was a great start and we traded banter for a couple of days before moving to WA for faster comms. Randomly she was attending a work thing near my apartment (not made up. I checked!) and so we decided to meet for a drink after that.

Finally meet her in person at the front of one of the well known top hotels in my part of town, and go up to the bar on the top floor. Find a cozy corner sofa in the cigar lounge and order cocktails for her and single malt for me. She starts talking and looks at me with her green eyes (realize later on that she likes to wear coloured lenses) - I'm ready to take her right there right then on the sofa LOL! But keep my cool and keep talking, a real get-to-know-you for 20 minutes. Music, Food, What do you do. She's had two Cosmos and is clearly tripping a little in a very cute way. Not drunk but just a little tipsy (Apparently she had a glass of champagne at the work thing already -I find out at our second meeting that she's started drinking inly a few months ago and just two drinks can knock her out). And then the talk turns to what we really wanted on SA and what kind of things turn us on sensually. Five minutes of that and I have my cue. I ask her "so"? And she responds, "let's go to your place". Check please! We're out of there like a shot, she holding my arm as she's a tiny bit tipsy. Luckily, I live a very quick cab ride away. We get to my apartment and spend 10 minutes. I kid you not. Doing DFK just inside the front door. Clothes are on the floor and I've somehow got both of us to the couch in front of my TV and we're having serious, heavy duty sex. Her weakness is having the nape of her neck licked. It's like pressing a button the just floods her pussy with juices.

By the time I've made the journey from her neck via her breasts and those amazing nipples, down for for DATY, she's so wet it's crazy. A few minutes of my special DATY (I've been told by multiple sources that I'm very good at it!) and she's panting and wants me in her, NOW! Coitus Interruptus as I run to my bedroom and grab some protection but she's ready and waiting when I come back. A few minutes of pounding and an amazing climax for both of us. I cannot believe what has just happened! We get up to freshen up a little and she calls her babysitter and begs her to stay the night (that's a good sign! We make it to the bedroom after that. Get into bed, cuddling and chatting away like we've known each other for years and fall asleep after 30 minutes. I wake up at 3 am, ready for action. Start licking her neck and she's awake too. Round two. Wow, this is big. I'm at the age when round two needs a 12 hour reloading time! Sleep again and wake up at 8 am. With her lying next to me, looking at me with her green eyes. I can feel a stirring down below and a few kisses and a BBJ later, I'm ready for round three. Round Three within 8 hours of Round One. This has not happened for quite a few years guys! An hour later, we get out of bed and head to the shower together. I would have happily done it again but while the mind was willing, the flesh was weak! Dry each other off and I order some breakfast. We spend the rest of the morning talking. Turns out she's not had sex for a while. She separated from her hubby about six months ago and while she hooked up with someone from SA for a month, it fizzled out. What an idiot he must be! She's been with me well over 12 hours and looks like she's in no hurry to leave. We're playing some nice music on the stereo and sitting on the couch, completely naked and I've got my hands wandering all over her in a very lazy, touchy-feely way. She's twirling my chest hair. Clock strikes noon and it's time for her to leave.

She get's dressed while I order an Uber, slip an envelope into her bag and she's gone. I'm sitting there in my birthday suit wondering what just happened! Have met her three times since. Each time has been the same if not better!! The sex is great and but combined with the conversation, the flirting and teasing. This is unlike anything I've had from mongering in the clubs in a very very long time. This is fantastic. For slightly more than what I would pay for a 5-6 hour session for a girl from Moscow, I'm getting to hang out with and have sex with women-next-door types who are genuinely smart, articulate and really sexy in a non PSE way. Between her and my Middle Eastern Siren I've not been to the clubs now for almost four weeks. I may never go back.

Whoaaa! How tall are you bro? Is she above 6 ft?

[PopamRaj]

There's some possibility she's only into you for the money. Which makes her a true 100% pro. But more often than not I find there is something actually to the relationship with the dollars being a part but not all of it. The fact she has a real job is good. I think you could have this conversation.

For me I don't like discussing money face to face. It cheapens it. I also find I can discuss sex over chat more readily than face to face. I'the suggest u put her first but let her know it's a stretch. Like below. The vibe below is just my vibe with my girls. Use whatever is comfortable for you.

Babe. You know I adore you and being with you is absolutely the best part of my week. But I have to confess that our current arrangement is a financial stretch for me. In the end I want to do whatever is best for you. But if we could do xxx instead of yyy it would really reduce my stress. Please let me know.

I think if she cares about you. And she prob does. She may well bite. She's human too. Depends on her situation of course.

That's great advice. Much appreciated. I'm hoping there "love me love my dog" approach will make things work!! If not, then this will be the way to go.

[Steve 9696]

Quick update on my Middle Eastern Siren! Have seen her twice since. The same girl-next-door experience every time, a shared bottle of wine, lots of conversation and GFE sex after which she falls asleep cuddled in my arms. Only problem is she's super busy at work and so our time together has reduced. She comes straight from the office at around 9 pm and wants to leave at 2 am as her dog is alone at home. I totally get it and really like her. But the financials are a bit rich at just a five hour session. How do I broach the subject of reducing the monetary consideration? She's clearly not a pro. Has a very tough but interesting full-time job and I like her personality. And suggestions O Seeking Gurus?

There's some possibility she's only into you for the money. Which makes her a true 100% pro. But more often than not I find there is something actually to the relationship with the dollars being a part but not all of it. The fact she has a real job is good. I think you could have this conversation.

For me I don't like discussing money face to face. It cheapens it. I also find I can discuss sex over chat more readily than face to face. I'the suggest u put her first but let her know it's a stretch. Like below. The vibe below is just my vibe with my girls. Use whatever is comfortable for you.

Babe. You know I adore you and being with you is absolutely the best part of my week. But I have to confess that our current arrangement is a financial stretch for me. In the end I want to do whatever is best for you. But if we could do xxx instead of yyy it would really reduce my stress. Please let me know.

I think if she cares about you. And she prob does. She may well bite. She's human too. Depends on her situation of course.

[PopamRaj]

I don't think there is anyway to reduce the money without ruining a good thing. If you really want to do it then the way I would play it is not to link it to anything she has done but rather it's you. Somethjng like. We are meeting so often, how would you feel if we kept it at xx so we can be more regular. The objective being that you will pay less per meet but overall she gets more in her pocket as you meet more often.

It is risky to do it but she will agree. In my experience, after the 3rd meet, her comfort level tremendously increases and she is not going to want to search for someone else.

Thanks Want More, that's great advice. Let's see how this plays out as next time I've suggest she brings the dog over so she doesn't need to rush off. Else, may have to consider going down this road.

[Want More]

I have a massive Egyptian itch. Are there any good ones on SA now days?