Seeking Arrangements

[SamPeter71]

Yes, GDL definitely has lot less availability on SA.

Thanks for your note MTY. I will check that city.

Let's meet in cdmx if we happen to be at CDmX at same time.

I stayed at NH collection in Centro last time. Mostly I will stick to the same unless I find any other better options.

M.

I am having great success with SA in MTY and M. City. Unfortunately it did not work that well for me in GDL. I love GDL, but was a little disappointed with the quality of the Chicas. I met some really hot girls in Tijuana from GDL, but when I arrived in GDL it was a was a let down. Great food and weather there, but for girls there are better destinations in Mxico.

[NeilGeorge]

The first girl I met in person said she only did coffee dates first. Theoretically it seems good because you don't have to sit through any awkward dinners and aren't on the hook for much besides a coffee but I also see your momentum argument. Have you had any bad dinner experiences?

I also wanted to ask how you guys filter out pros / semi pros.

Usually some red flags are: they want to control the process by telling you how things will occur, like the girl saying she only did coffee dates first. This means she has a lot of experience on the site and wants things done her way, and she is not flexible to do things YOUR way, its a bad start. Another red flag is when you pick a restaurant to meet at and they want a more expensive restaurant. Probably NO, I tell them I pick the restaurant if I am going to pay and maybe a more expensive restaurant on a later date. Or they want money to meet, because their time is valuable or they want to know if you are serious. NO. These are methods they learn from their girlfriends of taking advantage of you. Another red flag is if they have no car and want to get in your car immediately, or want to uber to your house and you pay for uber. I tell them to pick a restaurant close to their house, and I can reimburse them for their uber fee, I do not get the uber for them, or they can have a friend drop them off or bike to the restaurant near their house. Beware, a lot of women's photos are older, slimmer, and of other people. 50% of the women on SA do not have accurate photos, or they are trying to get money from you before you meet them, and they will not show up at the restaurant at all. I used to require a phone conversation first, but few women will do that, they all want to text and swap a couple more photos, then meet in person.

[AmericanPi]

Honestly, I've found that money talks.

I don't want the BS of a girl figuring out if she's down to play after coffee. That would ruin my precious night and I don't have many to spare.

So I offer a very generous arrangement. Usually 250-300 dollars in developing countries and 400-450 in developed countries. But it's for drinks / dinner and a trip back to the hotel. All or nothing. If you do drinks but no hotel I'll cover the drinks but nothing else.

I've never had to cover only the drinks.

I also weed out girls that are clearly looking for a serious benefactor. If I see pictures in front of luxury stores and posing by fancy pools with expensive sunglasses. Next.

The first girl I met in person said she only did coffee dates first. I also saw it suggested on the reddit sugar forum. Theoretically it seems good because you don't have to sit through any awkward dinners and aren't on the hook for much besides a coffee but I also see your momentum argument. Have you had any bad dinner experiences?

I also wanted to ask how you guys filter out pros / semi pros. The first girl I did ppm with, which didn't go well, turned out to be a semi pro in that she was relying on seeking to pay her bills. She came prepared and had condoms and even lube when we got to the room. The second girl, even though she came back with me the same day, was doing seeking while going to school. While we were driving back to my place she mentioned she hadn't traveled much so she'the be much easier to impress as well while the first girl told me about a sd who took her on a private plane. I'the obviously prefer the latter but I don't see any way to determine that from chatting.

[GoingDumb]

As regards you spent an hour and went to the room. Did you get lucky? Nope. That is the way it works? Dinner or drinks and hit the room! My fastest ever was probably 15 minutes. She was late and I didn't have much time. We had a quick drink and I said "want to get out of here?" she said "wow your really confident aren't you?" And I said "yep let's go" and boom we are fucking 10 minutes later. She's a reg now. Hahaha. But you should PLAN on spending one to two hours max and get on to fucking!

And my advice remains skip the coffee date and go for the SNL (single night lay). Coffee date may work for some believe Cane did a platonic meet and greet with his gem before getting down to business. But this never worked for me. Just have an amazing dinner or drinks make them laugh sweep them off the feet and hit the hotel!

The first girl I met in person said she only did coffee dates first. I also saw it suggested on the reddit sugar forum. Theoretically it seems good because you don't have to sit through any awkward dinners and aren't on the hook for much besides a coffee but I also see your momentum argument. Have you had any bad dinner experiences?

I also wanted to ask how you guys filter out pros / semi pros. The first girl I did ppm with, which didn't go well, turned out to be a semi pro in that she was relying on seeking to pay her bills. She came prepared and had condoms and even lube when we got to the room. The second girl, even though she came back with me the same day, was doing seeking while going to school. While we were driving back to my place she mentioned she hadn't traveled much so she'the be much easier to impress as well while the first girl told me about a sd who took her on a private plane. I'the obviously prefer the latter but I don't see any way to determine that from chatting.

[DramaFree11]

I was there at cdmx early this month. This is my 1st SA experience. I went to GDL from there. I was sticking to slim girls under 25. I paid between 1500 to 4000 peso. Almost all girls except couple of them were good. Most of them seems to be semi pro.

Overall I am satisfied with the type of girls I found on SA Mexico. I will be going again to cdmx in April 1st week.

I don't know Spanish. Knowing Spanish would definitely makes this more enjoyable.

It may be hard to move from SA to typical escort scene as I started enjoying the experience not just sex.

Please let me know if you have any other suggested cities in Mexico with good SA selection.

M.

I am having great success with SA in MTY and M. City. Unfortunately it did not work that well for me in GDL. I love GDL, but was a little disappointed with the quality of the Chicas. I met some really hot girls in Tijuana from GDL, but when I arrived in GDL it was a was a let down. Great food and weather there, but for girls there are better destinations in Mxico.

[Midwestern]

I will be traveling to Toronto for work. How is the SA scene in Toronto? What is the typical cost per meeting for petite girls under 25.

Thanks in advance.

I'm curious about Toronto as well. The great thing about TO is if a SA girl flakes the P4P scene is robust. It has an abundance of Plan be options.

A few years ago, I spent two months in the Toronto area and used SA extensively. It seemed like most of the Toronto SBs on the SA site were former Toronto escorts whose best years were behind them. That did not excite me. But then, I discovered that the SA scene in Niagara Falls (Canada side) was very good, which is only an hour drive from Toronto. At first, I was really surprised. But then I learned that the reason why SA is great in Niagara Falls is because so many people there work in the tourism industry, like casino workers, waitresses, hotel maids, etc. , and they are looking for extra income, especially when tourism is down (I was there during the frigid months of January, February, and March, and so almost no tourists in Niagara Falls, and hotels, bars, restaurants were pretty empty). 300 Canadian dollars was about the going rate, but that was a few years ago. So anyway, my suggestion is to look at the Niagara Falls scene too. I think you will find it to be better than the Toronto scene.

[WyattEarp]

I will be traveling to Toronto for work. How is the SA scene in Toronto? What is the typical cost per meeting for petite girls under 25.

Thanks in advance.

I'm curious about Toronto as well. The great thing about TO is if a SA girl flakes the P4P scene is robust. It has an abundance of Plan be options.

[SamPeter71]

I was there at cdmx early this month. This is my 1st SA experience. I went to GDL from there. I was sticking to slim girls under 25. I paid between 1500 to 4000 peso. Almost all girls except couple of them were good. Most of them seems to be semi pro.

Overall I am satisfied with the type of girls I found on SA Mexico. I will be going again to cdmx in April 1st week.

I don't know Spanish. Knowing Spanish would definitely makes this more enjoyable.

It may be hard to move from SA to typical escort scene as I started enjoying the experience not just sex.

Please let me know if you have any other suggested cities in Mexico with good SA selection.

[SamPeter71]

I will be traveling to Toronto for work. How is the SA scene in Toronto? What is the typical cost per meeting for petite girls under 25.

Thanks in advance.

[Steve 9696]

You've probably answered this elsewhere but how much time are you putting into it? Are you on daily? Weekly?

I felt more optimistic last week when the girl I met up with was ready to come back with me within an hour of meeting me hah. If they were all that easy it'd be amazing but seems like I got lucky.

I don't understand any of this discussion about profile boosts etc. I have no interest in women finding my profile. I totally ignore all women who favorite me. Fuck I don't even have a picture. I just browse by most recently active and mostly interact only with those currently on line.

If I am traveling to a new city I might spend an hour a day poking around till I find some active girls. Probably get active chat with ten and narrow down to one or two. And then just light text every night or two.

The girl I met last night in Buenos Aires we texted for 6 weeks. She was super sweet. Looked like a solid 8 in pics. Was a TEN in person. Holy fuck I about dropped dead on the spot. Okay 9. 5 with clothes off. Ten face and hair. OMG. So all this shit pays off.

As regards you spent an hour and went to the room. Did you get lucky? Nope. That is the way it works? Dinner or drinks and hit the room! My fastest ever was probably 15 minutes. She was late and I didn't have much time. We had a quick drink and I said "want to get out of here?" she said "wow your really confident aren't you?" And I said "yep let's go" and boom we are fucking 10 minutes later. She's a reg now. Hahaha. But you should PLAN on spending one to two hours max and get on to fucking!

And my advice remains skip the coffee date and go for the SNL (single night lay). Coffee date may work for some — believe Cane did a platonic meet and greet with his gem before getting down to business. But this never worked for me. Just have an amazing dinner or drinks make them laugh sweep them off the feet and hit the hotel!

[AmericanPi]

Just my experience but I don't mind that my profile isn't blasted. If someone reaches out to me I'm suspicious. I do the initiating with the ones I'm interested in.

Honestly, I don't even have a picture up. (Discretion due to career). Girls who are serious I will upload a pic to in chat. This has been a problem for some of them, but not most of them.

I'm aware of all of the tricks these dating sites use to keep suckers on the hook. Not going to work with me as I'm tired of all of the bullshit on Seeking. It's just like you say. Foreign "women" (maybe) filling up your "favorited me" queue, scammers trying to get at your money, and greedy, lazy, arrogant women who think they're going to eat and drink on your dime and get paid to do it too, all in exchange for nothing but their "valuable time". Well fuck that! Once my three-month membership expires I'm done! If I hadn't met Abby in the early weeks, I might have just thrown in the towel much, much earlier.

[GuyPerson]

Thanks for the info. Seems like I got you beat. One chick wants 400 just to go to lunch.

I was there a month ago.

I found my best and she did not ask anything at all. I paid her 300 E for overnight. And, she told me next day that I paid her more. Very sweet girl and for her attitude, I don't mind paying that much.

On the other hand, there were some I dropped and did not meet. One asked for 500. Another asked for 200 for meet and greet. Obviously, I told them to fuck off.

Start about a week early. Pick those that seem nice, talk to them and take it from there.

Good luck.

[The Cane]

They give your profile a blast the first day you join. Then the day your subscription is over, they give your profile another blast so you will get a lot of messages and renew to open the messages.

In between you get all the foreign woman trying to sell you photos online and local women trying to scam you and get you to pay them for a first meet and greet.

I'm aware of all of the tricks these dating sites use to keep suckers on the hook. Not going to work with me as I'm tired of all of the bullshit on Seeking. It's just like you say. Foreign "women" (maybe) filling up your "favorited me" queue, scammers trying to get at your money, and greedy, lazy, arrogant women who think they're going to eat and drink on your dime and get paid to do it too, all in exchange for nothing but their "valuable time". Well fuck that! Once my three-month membership expires I'm done! If I hadn't met Abby in the early weeks, I might have just thrown in the towel much, much earlier.

[AsianPursuits]

They give your profile a blast the first day you join. Then the day your subscription is over, they give your profile another blast so you will get a lot of messages and renew to open the messages.

In between you get all the foreign woman trying to sell you photos online and local women trying to scam you and get you to pay them for a first meet and greet.

For a while I noticed a hack where you g into settings to Deactivate or Delete your account. As I mouse over the link, I receive an offer of a 5 day free boost. I would then accept the offer and activate the boost.

[NeilGeorge]

I've been on the site about 2 1/2 months now, and I had my absolute greatest success within the first two weeks. After that, nothing has come close.

Try posting new photos a few weeks in or changing your headline and profile significantly. When one searches the new profiles and those who are recently active can be searched. The new women are less likely to be seasonsed pros and more likely to be first timers. Maybe the women think the same about us men. Some women have had their profiles up there for years, you can see the year they joined, unless it is hidden, they can see your date joined too, unless hidden.