Seeking Arrangements

[Gfefan]

Not sure if you all are experiencing this. SA prospects have been relatively slow to materialize for me. Between Dec and Feb, I had met with 10 and fucked 6. Two were repeat. We fucked around a lot.

I got back on SA couple weeks ago. Yet to have even one turn to meet and greet. Wondering if it is to do with things opening up.

I am in Europe.

[WyattEarp]

Maybe. But let me tell you my situation. I'm actually a fairly attractive guy and quite a good conversationalist. But my weakness is I like 20-25 year old women, and I'm mid 40's. I have to be honest with myself. No matter how good I am, they would rather be banging a 25 year old dude. So I can't just rely on my wit and looks to get a girl to elect to stay the night for free. If that's what I want I feel I need to make it clear that's the exchange I'm looking for. It works for me but it's unique to my situation.

If all this is true about yourself, you should be fine with 20-25 women. Many women in their twenties like mature men in their forties for many reasons. I don't think it's just about money, but also how a mature man carries himself and lays out the date. When I was in my forties, I even had young women comment about my decor. A young man might have a good job, but not know how to carry himself and have post-college tastes. I would also add that in my opinion a fortysomething male is still close to his peak appearance if he keeps himself in shape and hasn't lost too much hair.

That being said, I don't think walking into a bar and hitting on young women is going to go too well. There guard is up. They are likely with friends.

I found that I met them through business, the gym, the coffee shop, etc. Anywhere, I could have a one-on-one greet and flirt. That's my take. I live in a large city. My neighborhood has many young women so the chance to interact is a daily, regular thing.

When I was in my forties, I have had young women literally say "you're fun and we don't have to worry about where this goes".

[AmericanPi]

Yeah that's a lot to deal with.

I once talked to a SA chick in CDMX who said in our initial chat that due to a physical condition sex is not a possibility but she's a great companion and would like a SA relationship based on that. I was super nice about it. But I just wanted to say I don't think you understand how much you're fishing in a desert with that approach, on this website.

I am open to learning, god knows I have plenty of opportunities to practice.

As for her physical problems:

A) She explained an inoperable back issue. At least she was told to give her relief from back pain, surgery was risky.

She opted for pain killers, I didn't read the bottle and it was injected.

B) Loose abadnen skin and stretch marks indicating extreme weight loss.

She has no children, that leads to issue #3.

C) Eating disorder. As in she is concerned about how much she eats to the point of having a smallish meal once a day.

I know fasting as become more in vouge lately but I don't think that applies here.

The positives:

29, no children, never married, European decent, English speaker minimal errors writing or speaking.

I met her walking into the wrong hostel where she was working.

She instantly liked me and it was mutual.

[DJ FourMoney]

Curious: what kind of physical ailment?

Regarding language, it's really worth taking the time to learn Spanish. It's a Category 1 language, which is the easiest to learn. As someone who learned it, trust me it's not that hard once you get past the initial push.

I am open to learning, god knows I have plenty of opportunities to practice.

As for her physical problems:

A) She explained an inoperable back issue. At least she was told to give her relief from back pain, surgery was risky.

She opted for pain killers, I didn't read the bottle and it was injected.

B) Loose abadnen skin and stretch marks indicating extreme weight loss.

She has no children, that leads to issue #3.

C) Eating disorder. As in she is concerned about how much she eats to the point of having a smallish meal once a day.

I know fasting as become more in vouge lately but I don't think that applies here.

The positives:

29, no children, never married, European decent, English speaker minimal errors writing or speaking.

I met her walking into the wrong hostel where she was working.

She instantly liked me and it was mutual.

[Simplii]

I do not normally share, but happy to provide there information.

Hey! Thank you! I just sent you a Private Message!

[AmericanPi]

Curious: what kind of physical ailment?

Regarding language, it's really worth taking the time to learn Spanish. It's a Category 1 language, which is the easiest to learn. As someone who learned it, trust me it's not that hard once you get past the initial push.

Question:

Are you leveraging the differences in currency values and do the women in CDMX understand this nuance?

I was in CDMX back in January and I met somebody but she has physical ailments I am not willing to deal with, her one positive is that she speaks English very well.

Attractive women are all over CDMX not sure who speaks English (besides hotel and airport ticket desk employees).

Methinks I can narrow things down a bit with Seeking to get 7 or better on the classic scale, speaks English with minimal accent and under 30 (I'm 51) that may entertain a LTR if things go swimmingly..

[DJ FourMoney]

I had some successes and failure this trip, but one major step accomplished. My landlord on Airbnb has agreed to deal with me directly, so I cut out the middleman. This will save $100-200 each trip, so those that say I am reckless with my money, maybe you are wrong, just like most of your posts!

I am leaving tomorrow, and will be back Sunday. I wii go work my ass off and return to CDMX.

This place is amazing, you do need to be careful it can get expensive fast. Amazing how some leave this out of there reports.

Question:

Are you leveraging the differences in currency values and do the women in CDMX understand this nuance?

I was in CDMX back in January and I met somebody but she has physical ailments I am not willing to deal with, her one positive is that she speaks English very well.

Attractive women are all over CDMX not sure who speaks English (besides hotel and airport ticket desk employees).

Methinks I can narrow things down a bit with Seeking to get 7 or better on the classic scale, speaks English with minimal accent and under 30 (I'm 51) that may entertain a LTR if things go swimmingly.

I live in LOS Angeles making visits to Mexico very affordable, the conundrum has been speaking Spanish.

Thanks.

[DramaFree11]

I had some successes and failure this trip, but one major step accomplished. My landlord on Airbnb has agreed to deal with me directly, so I cut out the middleman. This will save $100-200 each trip, so those that say I am reckless with my money, maybe you are wrong, just like most of your posts!

I am leaving tomorrow, and will be back Sunday. I wii go work my ass off and return to CDMX.

This place is amazing, you do need to be careful it can get expensive fast. Amazing how some leave this out of there reports.

[DramaFree11]

Monday I have a great afternoon session with this hot 21 year old, from, Senora. Very nice, but maybe a little to calm for me, but great afternoon. I had an late afternoon meeting, the girl she made reservations, for a nice restaurant. I show up on time. She is very late. She say's she is arriving, great. Then she, said her friend is with her, I responded with a, "Hell No! Reminded of my Kiev dayes this happened all the time. She called me, asking if it was okay after I said, no. I hung up. I have another meeting a 9 pm. Life is good. Take the good, with the bad.

[DramaFree11]

I love fat chicks. I like how they can handle long BJs. Could you please provide their usernames? Thanks!

I do not normally share, but happy to provide there information.

[Simplii]

So, in the last 7 days, I have had 3 meeting set-up at my favorite Rest. , in CDMX. Unfortunately, 2 fat chicks, I could not have sex with them for free and now tonight a no-show, maybe it is time to move on. On the bright side, I spent the afternoon with a super hot 23 year old. Amazing sex and great company. More good then bad!

I love fat chicks. I like how they can handle long BJs. Could you please provide their usernames? Thanks!

[DramaFree11]

So, in the last 7 days, I have had 3 meeting set-up at my favorite Rest. , in CDMX. Unfortunately, 2 fat chicks, I could not have sex with them for free and now tonight a no-show, maybe it is time to move on. On the bright side, I spent the afternoon with a super hot 23 year old. Amazing sex and great company. More good then bad!

[DramaFree11]

It is too bad that that confidence is a feeling and not a fact. It is that feeling, that confidence that so many guys do not get. Sure, I am a nice and fun person but even though I am older and less attractive now, the confidence makes up for it.

It is funny how so many guys on here say, "Don't pay her and see how long she stays. " On my second date with my current gal, she fucked my brains out, and I paid her nothing, and she said nothing. I realized then that she may have been a rarer type of gal. We planned a trip to Cancun, went on it, and at the end of it, she was crying. She said, "Am I never going to see you again? And I promised her I would. After seeing her tears, I said to myself, "Holy shit, this woman is in love with me."

And she is not the only one. I have met at least 4 beautiful women in their 20's proclaim their love for me, and in each case, I think they meant it. Sure, there are a lot more women just out for a buck, but guys need to be open to the fact that there are hot women out there really interested in just being with us.

So true, I was with a super Hot chick in CDMX today. I started getting nervous, but I calmed down. I could have blown it, but she was totally into me.

Holly shit what a date, we had sex for 2 hours and then went to dinner. She could not thank me enough. Truly an amazing day. Now, I also had a no-show and cancellation, but banging a hot 23 year old more then makes up for it.

The combination of SA and CDMX is so good, anyone claiming differently is just dumb. They can say whatever they want and make all the excuse in the world, but there posts make no sense unless you are into banging ugly girls and paying them.

CDMX Rocks! MDE sucks! Bad advice even sucks more, especially when others cover up for there crappy advise.

[DramaFree11]

Thanks for sharing your negative experiences. Shit happens. Guys who are new to SA need to understand that SA is not rainbows and unicorns, and bad dates happen. CDMX is a great city, and the talent is so diverse, you can meet girls of all shapes, races and backgrounds, unlike in Colombia, for example. If you are into white European slim girls, CDMX got them too. Food is awesome, shit ton of things to see and to do, love it. Can't wait to go back some day.

Yep, CDMX is amazing. The sky is the limit here. So many beautiful women and food, wow simply amazing.

[MiamiBoy1]

Exactly, I am 52, soon to be 53 and killing it. It takes time and work, but this is the best time in my life. I am meeting girls in the there early 20's and they love being around me and I feel the same.

I am in CDMX now and just an amazing place and yes, you should use SA in CDMX and all other On-line platforms. The guys that complain about this are either jealous or just do not get it. There is single girls every where in CDMX. Kind of starting over from my initial trips and I was not planning on the Model breaking up with me, but time to move on. I have a feeling I will see her again, no sense burning bridges, I have learned that lesson the hard way.

Unfortunately, I had another bad date last night. My flight was late, I agreed to meet a girl at the same Restaurant that I gave the last girl I gave the boot. She definitely was not my type, but it was Saturday and late, so I decided to make the best of it. We had nice conversation, but I did not want to have sex with her. I told her I had to work in the morning and that did not work, also she wanted to go dancing. I was done. I told I would be back in a week and we could do, whatever she wanted, "Lie". She then wanted to be paid for her time, I said, "Hell No" She kept talking and told her she had to go. Finally she left. Today is a new day and I have 2 new girls lined up.

Thanks for sharing your negative experiences. Shit happens. Guys who are new to SA need to understand that SA is not rainbows and unicorns, and bad dates happen. CDMX is a great city, and the talent is so diverse, you can meet girls of all shapes, races and backgrounds, unlike in Colombia, for example. If you are into white European slim girls, CDMX got them too. Food is awesome, shit ton of things to see and to do, love it. Can't wait to go back some day.