Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

**GuyNextDoor9** · 08-22-22 07:08

Originally Posted by Aarun21 [View Original Post]

The monthly allowance varies from 30 k to 40 k.

Plus occasional gifts and trips if you can manage.

I'm into a monthly arrangement at 40 k. I spend a week in a month having 4/5 sessions a day. We did 2 trips as we both love traveling. She's more of a paid girl friend now and done some of the craziest of sex like by the river on white sand beach on a full moon night. Dancing car in mid of the pitch dark Mahabaleshwar jungle. In the Jaccuzi with backdrop of great Himalayas. Soft sex in the infinity pool overlooking Vembanada Lake.

It's always VFM if can be afforded as it reduces STD chances and also per session cost comes down.

This is awesome. And the main reason is the safety bro and I need that connect. Was this an exclusive arrangement?

**GuyNextDoor9** · 08-22-22 07:04

Originally Posted by Aksmn [View Original Post]

I never did monthly allowance nor I asked anyone about the rate. And I suppose for ppm in India the normal rate is 8 k to 25 k for 3 to 4 hours of meet. Most deals are done between 10 k to 15 k range.

This is an Idea of rates in other countries.

Some are okay with 40-50 k monthly allowance for a mutual number of meets, however some quotes 75 k to more than a lakh.

The reason why I look for a monthly arrangement is the safety and connect.

**Aarun21** · 08-22-22 06:41

Originally Posted by GuyNextDoor9 [View Original Post]

How much is the typical monthly allowance for a long term one and how many meets do you propose?

The monthly allowance varies from 30 k to 40 k.

Plus occasional gifts and trips if you can manage.

I'm into a monthly arrangement at 40 k. I spend a week in a month having 4/5 sessions a day. We did 2 trips as we both love traveling. She's more of a paid girl friend now and done some of the craziest of sex like by the river on white sand beach on a full moon night. Dancing car in mid of the pitch dark Mahabaleshwar jungle. In the Jaccuzi with backdrop of great Himalayas. Soft sex in the infinity pool overlooking Vembanada Lake.

It's always VFM if can be afforded as it reduces STD chances and also per session cost comes down.

**Aksmn** · 08-22-22 06:14

Originally Posted by GuyNextDoor9 [View Original Post]

How much is the typical monthly allowance for a long term one and how many meets do you propose?

I never did monthly allowance nor I asked anyone about the rate. And I suppose for ppm in India the normal rate is 8 k to 25 k for 3 to 4 hours of meet. Most deals are done between 10 k to 15 k range.

This is an Idea of rates in other countries.

https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifest...read_20212022/

**SymonWestt** · 08-22-22 04:44

Hi Friends,

Any review on these two SA Birds.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...1-7420fece82f2

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-72ad059e1518

Thanks.

SW.

**Phil50** · 08-22-22 04:30

Originally Posted by Qganesha [View Original Post]

Car? FD? Next is what. Your house in her name?

Please stop this madness guys, be a master, not a slave.

I don't think you got my point. I completely agree (as all my previous posts suggest) that we pay way too much for the girls. There are ways to reduce this in a creative manner.

The EMI for a car (which remains in the man's name) is about 12 k a month.

If I keep a FD in my bank anyway, extending a temporary bank guarantee costs me barely Rs 1000, for which she's quite happy to spend a night with me without asking for PPM.

**GuyNextDoor9** · 08-21-22 14:52

How much is the typical monthly allowance for a long term one and how many meets do you propose?

**Member #4796** · 08-21-22 14:46

Originally Posted by Aksmn [View Original Post]

Did she told that she need money upfront while inside the hotel room?

My condition is payment after the deed. But she did not agree. She told she is ok with no-advance but needs payment before anything.

I passed her as may be she will start nakhras after getting the money or I donot know what new trick will be invented or may be everything will be ok. But why to take risk? If she thinks I will not pay after the deed, then I choose not to meet.

After reading so many posts, I have become very strict to to following terms:

1) No advance in any form. If anyone asks, then I will never meet her although later on she tell that she does not require advance. Any mention of advance means I will avoid the profile fully.

2) I will book the hotel myself and the hotel will be a reputed brand which allows unmarried couples or visitors officially. I try to book the hotel which allows free cancellation till the final day. Will not share the room number.

3) Will meet her at the hotel lobby at first and then do the check in and proceed to the hotel room.

4) Payment in cash after the deed just before leaving.

Fortunately, it is all working fine with me. By the grace of GOD, never faced any problem till now.

Actually no discussion around advance at all. Like you, I also have a no-advance policy. She just stopped responding to messages at about the time of the meeting and finally responded 4 hours later.

Anyway, if her rule is to take advance, then I guess it is good that the meeting did not happen.

**Aksmn** · 08-21-22 11:07

Originally Posted by RipVanTinkle [View Original Post]

Had fixed to meet her yesterday evening. Had been speaking to her for a couple of days prior to that. Came across as well educated and decent.

Settled for 12 k and obviously, no advance or anything.

Also shared her real ID for me to give to the reception so that check in would be smooth when she came. (I cross checked the ID with her socials and seemed genuine).

However, she just didn't turn up at the designated time. Stopped responding to messages and her telegram didn't have calls enabled.

Pinged me after 10 pm saying she wasn't feeling well and fell asleep.

Anyway. Either I dodged a bullet, or in hindsight, maybe I should have been the one asking for advance payment. LOL!

Did she told that she need money upfront while inside the hotel room?

My condition is payment after the deed. But she did not agree. She told she is ok with no-advance but needs payment before anything.

I passed her as may be she will start nakhras after getting the money or I donot know what new trick will be invented or may be everything will be ok. But why to take risk? If she thinks I will not pay after the deed, then I choose not to meet.

After reading so many posts, I have become very strict to to following terms:

1) No advance in any form. If anyone asks, then I will never meet her although later on she tell that she does not require advance. Any mention of advance means I will avoid the profile fully.

2) I will book the hotel myself and the hotel will be a reputed brand which allows unmarried couples or visitors officially. I try to book the hotel which allows free cancellation till the final day. Will not share the room number.

3) Will meet her at the hotel lobby at first and then do the check in and proceed to the hotel room.

4) Payment in cash after the deed just before leaving.

Fortunately, it is all working fine with me. By the grace of GOD, never faced any problem till now.

**Qganesha** · 08-21-22 05:40

Originally Posted by Phil50 [View Original Post]

There are creative ways to structure deals with girls who have apparently outrageous demands and you want to see long term.

I know a guy who 'gifted' a car to his girl. But, it was a loan where he was paying the EMI, which would continue as long as she was his exclusively. The cost per session would be lower than the average ask on SA.

My girl wanted me to finance a bank guarantee (needed for her new job). Rather than pay her 1.5 lac her bank was asking her to deposit, I got my bank to do it. It cost just 0.75% of the amount because I have more than that amount as a bank FD anyway.

Car? FD? Next is what. Your house in her name?

Please stop this madness guys, be a master, not a slave.

Negotiate a fair price, which is mutually beneficial and don't become like my married relative, who within few years lost everything to mongering and became a pauper. I beg you, please have some control over prices, for your own / people like my relatives, sake. Please. Please.

**Bhamsookh1** · 08-21-22 05:39

With these prices I'd rather have a trip to Myanmar, Phuket or Moscow. For this money may even get a virgin in South America, Eastern Europe and South Asia!

Tinder works well in Mumbai, Delhi and Kolkata but Pune etc need SA big time.

**DesiGuy3** · 08-20-22 21:22

Originally Posted by Phil50 [View Original Post]

There are creative ways to structure deals with girls who have apparently outrageous demands and you want to see long term.

I know a guy who 'gifted' a car to his girl. But, it was a loan where he was paying the EMI, which would continue as long as she was his exclusively. The cost per session would be lower than the average ask on SA.

My girl wanted me to finance a bank guarantee (needed for her new job). Rather than pay her 1.5 lac her bank was asking her to deposit, I got my bank to do it. It cost just 0.75% of the amount because I have more than that amount as a bank FD anyway.

That some people does not understand. If you like someone and she knows you, you do not need to explain your expectation every time. It is like meeting your GF without no commitment (NSA).

**DesiGuy3** · 08-20-22 21:04

Originally Posted by Cvvv21 [View Original Post]

I'm dealing with this kat. Asking 30 k for night. Down them 20 k and confirm services. FR from any members will be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...9-0d119c761ff0

Was chatting with her. The pic Payal send me is not what I am looking for. Please try her and let us know.

**Cvvv21** · 08-20-22 20:00

I'm dealing with this kat. Asking 30 k for night. Down them 20 k and confirm services. FR from any members will be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...9-0d119c761ff0

**Phil50** · 08-20-22 05:05

Originally Posted by AjayGunner [View Original Post]

Any reviews on her? Definitely hot and nice to talk to. Any reviews would be much appreciated. I think I had seen a review earlier but couldn't find it. Ask is 30 k for a few hours.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...7-bd6a46e2249e

I messaged her. Not worth it for 30 k. There are girls with similar looks available at 15. She got sarcastic when I said I could not meet her price.