Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

**Shukracharya** · 12-17-22 23:38

My monthly arrangement with the haryanvi jat kat is scheduled to end at the end of this month as she's getting married in Feb. March. I gave her 50 k a month for 3 meets. In between we went out for 3 out of station trips and she shopped like crazy over there and almost shopped over 40-50 k in every trip. Plus she would take some 2-3 k as cab money etc every time we met. So in all and all I paid her decently all this while for 4-5 months.

But now as the arrangement is to end she got after me to buy her a whirlpool fridge and a microwave for her mother. I said ok and said f it, I'll pay for the fridge and microwave thinking of it as a gift from my end to her for marriage. I got her that.

As I mentioned before in the last trip the jat kat wanted me to smash her bareback which I did reluctantly. I've been worried sick that she may get pregerrs. She kinda senses that and keeps playing around that if she gets pregnant then she will need to get an abortion done. Wants me to be ready with 1-2 lakhs in case she needs to get an abortion. I'm sensing she's trying to milk me in any which way she can before we go our seperate ways. It's a shame because I have been very generous with her all throughout our time and treated her well. But now her behaviour is making me sick as I know she's trying to squeeze all that she can out of me. I'm disappointed but it confirms by belief that women cannot love men. All they love is the usefulness a man brings into their lives. We men care and love women unconditionally but women cannot love men the same way.

**Shukracharya** · 12-17-22 23:27

This kat https://members.seeking.com/member/3...9-77a5c4189727.

Doesnot want to smash only wants to talk all night. When I tried to get it on with her she started crying with her sob stories. Even told me if I smashed her she would cry as she doesnot want to sleep around with different men. I didn't even touch her after that, endured her for 8 hours playing her psychologist.

Next day asked her if she would like to smash sometime again. Her response was I can try!

So basically unless you want to have the same miserable time I had with her avoid her and stay clear of her psychological drama BS.

**Shukracharya** · 12-17-22 23:15

Why do you want to check in before her? I always ask Kats to check in with me but they have now started to refuse to do so and want me to check in first and then they will come later. I hate that and have cancelled metts with well 5-6 Kats because they refused to check in with me.

I belive if you check in with the kat then it's safer as you know whose coming and there is. Record as well that the kat came to the hotel with you and checked in on her own accord with you.

The whole check infirst and then tell the kat to come to room number etc is very dangerous. For all you know the kat sends some transvestite or her goons to scam you etc.

Would love to hear your take on it as to why you prefer to check in first.

Originally Posted by LightMan1988 [View Original Post]

Gents I will be in motherland next week. I have a Kat lined up for 29th. Did a vc with her. Looks like her pic says she deleted her profile as she lives with her parents. Claims air hostess with indigo. One last red flag I see is wants to check in with me together. I told her I will check in first and ask her to join me. Is there multiple red flags here or I am thinking with johnny?

**Kamashutra** · 12-17-22 22:54

Originally Posted by LightMan1988 [View Original Post]

Gents I will be in motherland next week. I have a Kat lined up for 29th. Did a vc with her. Looks like her pic says she deleted her profile as she lives with her parents. Claims air hostess with indigo. One last red flag I see is wants to check in with me together. I told her I will check in first and ask her to join me. Is there multiple red flags here or I am thinking with johnny?

According to me not a red flag. I have had that with couple of girls that they wanted to enter together and even wanted to leave hotel together.

**DesiGuy3** · 12-17-22 22:25

Originally Posted by Ramon85 [View Original Post]

Shukracharya & SmartAshi84 Brothers, no offence, itseems like these people spoiling mongering scene, but Seeking Arrangement is whatever arrangement works between them right, we cannot get mad or angry or punch someone just because they decided to have non-sexual arrangement between them. Most use it for sex doesn't make it Seeking Sex still it is Seeking Arrangement. Sex also one of arrangement not the only one right. I understand you guys venting out and sharing the emotions of many, but we cannot forget each one have their own need. Nowadays even we can see many profiles with platonic expectations, we ignore them, same way we can ignore these girls who are not ready for intimacy when we are looking for intimacy. We don't know others situation or needs unless we wear their shoes and walk their path. Peace ✌65039;.

Very well said.

**GrandMaster90** · 12-17-22 12:01

Hello fellow mangers, please be kind in sharing some SA Pune contacts. Will be happy to share my contacts in return as well.

Hoping for your reply guys.

My DM is open.

Regards.

**LightMan1988** · 12-17-22 07:34

Gents I will be in motherland next week. I have a Kat lined up for 29th. Did a vc with her. Looks like her pic says she deleted her profile as she lives with her parents. Claims air hostess with indigo. One last red flag I see is wants to check in with me together. I told her I will check in first and ask her to join me. Is there multiple red flags here or I am thinking with johnny?

**Phil50** · 12-17-22 05:35

Its common to see that a profile you saw earlier is no longer visible.

Girls change IDs often. Which is a red flag to me. However, the date of joining SA can't be changed. Paid members can hide it, but not the girls with free membership.

Search for a profile on joining date and age (which also can't be changed), unless she makes a new profile.

Profiles can disappear, because she has changed location. However, if you favorite it, the profile will be visible to you. Changed locations are usually the work of a pimp, or a high priced one, willing to fly out to meet clients.

**Roshan Singh** · 12-16-22 15:25

Originally Posted by Rahul7890 [View Original Post]

Hello friends,

A sinful act has committed by the girl having TG name as Ovi4495. I am attaching photos for reference. I was an active member of this group long time ago but now has forgotten my Login ID and password of the same so created new ID.

What happened with me is that on SA, I found this girl and exchanged by TG ID with her. Then we chat for some time and allowance was fixed for 30 k for night. Then I video called her to verify her identity, it was the same girl as in photo, then I booked a room in 5 star hotel and reached the hotel. She came to hotel around 10.30 and we had discussion for 30 min. Then she demanded the allowances and I gave her. After that I went for shower and she said me that she has got a call and will go down to pick the call, I said its ok you can go ahead. She flew away with money. Then she deleted my chat on TG and made her ID non searchable.

Dear friends, if any of you come across with this girl in Mumbai, be aware. I tried to search her again on SA but she is not there..

I think she has a new ID by the name of cindrella, had a chat with her and almost finalized but just checked the forum as she sounded to good to be true, so just blocked her from tele. Pic she shared is attached, different pic but m sure she's the same girl, as what all she said is too good to be true. Just beware of it. And also let me know if someone thinks she's different so that I can know that I m a fool.

**Ruckus2981** · 12-16-22 14:49

Originally Posted by SfoCowboy [View Original Post]

Please PM me her telegram or mobile number if possible. I'll post a message here once she is dealt with.

Have PM'd you sir! Let me know if I can help in any way!

**SfoCowboy** · 12-16-22 12:53

Please PM me her telegram or mobile number if possible. I'll post a message here once she is dealt with.

Originally Posted by MadHatter [View Original Post]

So she is on this forum and read my posts and voice messaged me with tons of threats against raping my mother, sending a gang of people to rape me and my mother.

She also said she will continue to scam all of us and there is nothing we can do as she will put a rape case on us. Also claimed it was a group of them scamming us guys together.

The funny thing is, her fake ass accent dropped when she started her cursing in hindi. Really showed me that she is nothing but a bhikari working girl.

Poor girl, does not realise that a lot of Seeking mongers are wealthy and seriously powerful people who can destroy her life. All it takes is one of us losing our cool and that's it for her.

**AjayGunner** · 12-16-22 10:13

I'm in a fwb situation with a girl I met on SA a few months back. We both really want to try doing a threesome (ffm) but haven't been able to find a girl willing to be the third wheel. Most girls we have approached have boyfriends and are looking for a female to join them and some willing to swap but not be the third wheel. We're ok doing a foursome as well as long as boundaries are decided and not overstepped. If anyone have any leads on how to find a unicorn (single girl) willing to be in a threesome or any advice would help.

**Ruckus2981** · 12-16-22 07:10

Originally Posted by MadHatter [View Original Post]

So she is on this forum and read my posts and voice messaged me with tons of threats against raping my mother, sending a gang of people to rape me and my mother.

She also said she will continue to scam all of us and there is nothing we can do as she will put a rape case on us. Also claimed it was a group of them scamming us guys together.

The funny thing is, her fake ass accent dropped when she started her cursing in hindi. Really showed me that she is nothing but a bhikari working girl.

Poor girl, does not realise that a lot of Seeking mongers are wealthy and seriously powerful people who can destroy her life. All it takes is one of us losing our cool and that's it for her.

Yep, I had posted earlier as well about this, there is group of them, this can be classed as extortion as it's a "gang' of them. Also her threats warrant a police case against her.

**Phil50** · 12-16-22 04:13

Originally Posted by RoniG [View Original Post]

SA buddies, any review on these three from SA BLR?

Lacy Dreams https://members.seeking.com/member/6...b-8354b555e294 (from Nepal).

Dedicada https://members.seeking.com/member/9...8-56021d85a90e (Bengali okay for coffee meet).

Spoorthi https://members.seeking.com/member/0...6-47b432a95b68 (20 k, it was offline for few months and looks active on SA most of the time).

I have been with Spoorti a year ago when she was a newbie. NE airhostess. She now quotes 20 but will agree to 15. She's offline a lot, or does not reply and is now seeing multiple clients. PM for details.