Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[RobertClive]

I suppose you are in Bangalore? No clues for that city. Have come across this profile in Pune.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...b-d336871bac40

I'm in a fwb situation with a girl I met on SA a few months back. We both really want to try doing a threesome (ffm) but haven't been able to find a girl willing to be the third wheel. Most girls we have approached have boyfriends and are looking for a female to join them and some willing to swap but not be the third wheel. We're ok doing a foursome as well as long as boundaries are decided and not overstepped. If anyone have any leads on how to find a unicorn (single girl) willing to be in a threesome or any advice would help.

[Morpheus134]

Bro, I see your point, but won't the kat be privy to your information if she is with you at checkin time? How to avoid that.

I tell the kat to sit in the reception lounge after taking her ID and then proceed to the front desk for check in formalities.

[Phil50]

I am concerned she will find out my real name and address and use that to blackmail me. She deleted her seeking profile is the other red flag I have. But the vc went well she looks like a poor man's alia Bhatt and asking for 20 k only. Hence I am apprehensive. Thoughts?

How will she find your name & address? At the time of check-in, I handover my ID proof and that of the girl, to the reception. At best she might know my name. She can't use that. The better class.

Of hotels, or one where you are a regular, or have a corporate booking, won't ever divulge the details of their guests. On the contrary, if she arrives later, she may be asked for the guest name and room no, which you will have to provide.

[LightMan1988]

Why do you want to check in before her? I always ask Kats to check in with me but they have now started to refuse to do so and want me to check in first and then they will come later. I hate that and have cancelled metts with well 5-6 Kats because they refused to check in with me.

I belive if you check in with the kat then it's safer as you know whose coming and there is. Record as well that the kat came to the hotel with you and checked in on her own accord with you.

The whole check infirst and then tell the kat to come to room number etc is very dangerous. For all you know the kat sends some transvestite or her goons to scam you etc.

Would love to hear your take on it as to why you prefer to check in first.

I am concerned she will find out my real name and address and use that to blackmail me. She deleted her seeking profile is the other red flag I have. But the vc went well she looks like a poor man's alia Bhatt and asking for 20 k only. Hence I am apprehensive. Thoughts?

[LightMan1988]

This kat https://members.seeking.com/member/3...9-77a5c4189727.

Doesnot want to smash only wants to talk all night. When I tried to get it on with her she started crying with her sob stories. Even told me if I smashed her she would cry as she doesnot want to sleep around with different men. I didn't even touch her after that, endured her for 8 hours playing her psychologist.

Next day asked her if she would like to smash sometime again. Her response was I can try!

So basically unless you want to have the same miserable time I had with her avoid her and stay clear of her psychological drama BS.

Any recommended profiles sir?

[LightMan1988]

My monthly arrangement with the haryanvi jat kat is scheduled to end at the end of this month as she's getting married in Feb. March. I gave her 50 k a month for 3 meets. In between we went out for 3 out of station trips and she shopped like crazy over there and almost shopped over 40-50 k in every trip. Plus she would take some 2-3 k as cab money etc every time we met. So in all and all I paid her decently all this while for 4-5 months.

But now as the arrangement is to end she got after me to buy her a whirlpool fridge and a microwave for her mother. I said ok and said f it, I'll pay for the fridge and microwave thinking of it as a gift from my end to her for marriage. I got her that.

As I mentioned before in the last trip the jat kat wanted me to smash her bareback which I did reluctantly. I've been worried sick that she may get pregerrs. She kinda senses that and keeps playing around that if she gets pregnant then she will need to get an abortion done. Wants me to be ready with 1-2 lakhs in case she needs to get an abortion. I'm sensing she's trying to milk me in any which way she can before we go our seperate ways. It's a shame because I have been very generous with her all throughout our time and treated her well. But now her behaviour is making me sick as I know she's trying to squeeze all that she can out of me. I'm disappointed but it confirms by belief that women cannot love men. All they love is the usefulness a man brings into their lives. We men care and love women unconditionally but women cannot love men the same way.

Bro I feel for you. It seems you paid her 2 lakh plus and she treats you like shit and an ATM. Her husband will burn. I pray you haven't gotten her pregnant. If she claims that, ask her for a report. Are you married or single? Women. Are vile.

[RoniG]

My monthly arrangement with the haryanvi jat kat is scheduled to end at the end of this month as she's getting married in Feb. March. I gave her 50 k a month for 3 meets. In between we went out for 3 out of station trips and she shopped like crazy over there and almost shopped over 40-50 k in every trip. Plus she would take some 2-3 k as cab money etc every time we met. So in all and all I paid her decently all this while for 4-5 months.

But now as the arrangement is to end she got after me to buy her a whirlpool fridge and a microwave for her mother. I said ok and said f it, I'll pay for the fridge and microwave thinking of it as a gift from my end to her for marriage. I got her that.

As I mentioned before in the last trip the jat kat wanted me to smash her bareback which I did reluctantly. I've been worried sick that she may get pregerrs. She kinda senses that and keeps playing around that if she gets pregnant then she will need to get an abortion done. Wants me to be ready with 1-2 lakhs in case she needs to get an abortion. I'm sensing she's trying to milk me in any which way she can before we go our seperate ways. It's a shame because I have been very generous with her all throughout our time and treated her well. But now her behaviour is making me sick as I know she's trying to squeeze all that she can out of me. I'm disappointed but it confirms by belief that women cannot love men. All they love is the usefulness a man brings into their lives. We men care and love women unconditionally but women cannot love men the same way.

It is a gross generalization. You are looking for women who love you unconditionally at a wrong place. SA by design is materialistic. Less or no emotion and mostly translational. Only reason for her to be on SA was to take advantage of men's needs which was beyond emotion or love which she did.

[BudgetMonger]

Bro, I see your point, but won't the kat be privy to your information if she is with you at checkin time? How to avoid that.

Why do you want to check in before her? I always ask Kats to check in with me but they have now started to refuse to do so and want me to check in first and then they will come later. I hate that and have cancelled metts with well 5-6 Kats because they refused to check in with me.

I belive if you check in with the kat then it's safer as you know whose coming and there is. Record as well that the kat came to the hotel with you and checked in on her own accord with you.

The whole check infirst and then tell the kat to come to room number etc is very dangerous. For all you know the kat sends some transvestite or her goons to scam you etc.

Would love to hear your take on it as to why you prefer to check in first.

[MySecretLife]

I'm disappointed but it confirms by belief that women cannot love men. All they love is the usefulness a man brings into their lives. We men care and love women unconditionally but women cannot love men the same way.

Though I am not trying to generalize, but I agree with you based on my life experiences!!

[MySecretLife]

For obvious reasons of popularity, she has jacked up her price to 20 K. She is like take it or leave it!

Met Ann today for 2 hrs.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-8801beff5aed

NE girl, Has a job in health sector, Lives in north Bangalore 15 in drive from KR puram RLy station.

Face: not so great, passable.

Figure: Very good for 29 yrs. Matches 80% of her SA profile pic.

Boobs: Medium, firm, dark nips. Let's you bite the nips hard and asks you to press boobs very hard.

See: moderately tight. I've seen better ones all along.

DFK: Top class.

Oral: good skills, tries to please you.

Let's you finger her and when she's too wet, goes overboard with moaning and encouraging you thru out. Came once during that (don't think she was faking).

15 K, 2 hrs.
At a hotel near Byappanahalli.

[Lamboos]

My monthly arrangement with the haryanvi jat kat is scheduled to end at the end of this month as she's getting married in Feb. March. I gave her 50 k a month for 3 meets. In between we went out for 3 out of station trips and she shopped like crazy over there and almost shopped over 40-50 k in every trip. Plus she would take some 2-3 k as cab money etc every time we met. So in all and all I paid her decently all this while for 4-5 months.

But now as the arrangement is to end she got after me to buy her a whirlpool fridge and a microwave for her mother. I said ok and said f it, I'll pay for the fridge and microwave thinking of it as a gift from my end to her for marriage. I got her that.

As I mentioned before in the last trip the jat kat wanted me to smash her bareback which I did reluctantly. I've been worried sick that she may get pregerrs. She kinda senses that and keeps playing around that if she gets pregnant then she will need to get an abortion done. Wants me to be ready with 1-2 lakhs in case she needs to get an abortion. I'm sensing she's trying to milk me in any which way she can before we go our seperate ways. It's a shame because I have been very generous with her all throughout our time and treated her well. But now her behaviour is making me sick as I know she's trying to squeeze all that she can out of me. I'm disappointed but it confirms by belief that women cannot love men. All they love is the usefulness a man brings into their lives. We men care and love women unconditionally but women cannot love men the same way.

I feel more sorry for the poor sod she is going to get married to, if at all, all that is true.

[HituMonger]

My monthly arrangement with the haryanvi jat kat is scheduled to end at the end of this month as she's getting married in Feb. March. I gave her 50 k a month for 3 meets. In between we went out for 3 out of station trips and she shopped like crazy over there and almost shopped over 40-50 k in every trip. Plus she would take some 2-3 k as cab money etc every time we met. So in all and all I paid her decently all this while for 4-5 months.

But now as the arrangement is to end she got after me to buy her a whirlpool fridge and a microwave for her mother. I said ok and said f it, I'll pay for the fridge and microwave thinking of it as a gift from my end to her for marriage. I got her that.

As I mentioned before in the last trip the jat kat wanted me to smash her bareback which I did reluctantly. I've been worried sick that she may get pregerrs. She kinda senses that and keeps playing around that if she gets pregnant then she will need to get an abortion done. Wants me to be ready with 1-2 lakhs in case she needs to get an abortion. I'm sensing she's trying to milk me in any which way she can before we go our seperate ways. It's a shame because I have been very generous with her all throughout our time and treated her well. But now her behaviour is making me sick as I know she's trying to squeeze all that she can out of me. I'm disappointed but it confirms by belief that women cannot love men. All they love is the usefulness a man brings into their lives. We men care and love women unconditionally but women cannot love men the same way.

Last line was touching. I agree most women can't love unconditionally. They are too Transactional.

[Phil50]

Why do you want to check in before her? I always ask Kats to check in with me but they have now started to refuse to do so and want me to check in first and then they will come later. I hate that and have cancelled metts with well 5-6 Kats because they refused to check in with me.

I belive if you check in with the kat then it's safer as you know whose coming and there is. Record as well that the kat came to the hotel with you and checked in on her own accord with you.

The whole check infirst and then tell the kat to come to room number etc is very dangerous. For all you know the kat sends some transvestite or her goons to scam you etc.

Would love to hear your take on it as to why you prefer to check in first.

My regular partners will always check in with me for the reason you mention.

If I am already in the hotel, because I'm on a business trip and fix a meet with the Kat later, I ask to meet for coffee / drinks at the hotel or a nearby place. Then if we are both up for it, we go to my room. You have the option of checking her in at the front desk, or, if you have booked the room for 2 (which does not cost more) they often don't bother who else is with you for a short time.

If I don't want to go ahead, I tell her I have an urgent meeting and will catch up the next day. I compensate for her cab fare.

Don't see the Kat for the first time only when she comes to your room.

[Shukracharya]

My monthly arrangement with the haryanvi jat kat is scheduled to end at the end of this month as she's getting married in Feb. March. I gave her 50 k a month for 3 meets. In between we went out for 3 out of station trips and she shopped like crazy over there and almost shopped over 40-50 k in every trip. Plus she would take some 2-3 k as cab money etc every time we met. So in all and all I paid her decently all this while for 4-5 months.

But now as the arrangement is to end she got after me to buy her a whirlpool fridge and a microwave for her mother. I said ok and said f it, I'll pay for the fridge and microwave thinking of it as a gift from my end to her for marriage. I got her that.

As I mentioned before in the last trip the jat kat wanted me to smash her bareback which I did reluctantly. I've been worried sick that she may get pregerrs. She kinda senses that and keeps playing around that if she gets pregnant then she will need to get an abortion done. Wants me to be ready with 1-2 lakhs in case she needs to get an abortion. I'm sensing she's trying to milk me in any which way she can before we go our seperate ways. It's a shame because I have been very generous with her all throughout our time and treated her well. But now her behaviour is making me sick as I know she's trying to squeeze all that she can out of me. I'm disappointed but it confirms by belief that women cannot love men. All they love is the usefulness a man brings into their lives. We men care and love women unconditionally but women cannot love men the same way.

[Shukracharya]

This kat https://members.seeking.com/member/3...9-77a5c4189727.

Doesnot want to smash only wants to talk all night. When I tried to get it on with her she started crying with her sob stories. Even told me if I smashed her she would cry as she doesnot want to sleep around with different men. I didn't even touch her after that, endured her for 8 hours playing her psychologist.

Next day asked her if she would like to smash sometime again. Her response was I can try!

So basically unless you want to have the same miserable time I had with her avoid her and stay clear of her psychological drama BS.