Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[DesiGuy3]

Friends,

An indian student I've known earlier in Pune, now living in USA made an offer to me.

On-line fun every week and physical meets every six months whenever she's in India.

Asking me to make the initial offer.

I am clueless about what shall I offer. Per on-line session and per physical meet.

Can anyone in this forum with such experience in India or USA offer me suggestions?

Going rate in US for physical meet is $300-$500. Good Luck.

[DesiGuy3]

Thank you. Your advice is taken in right spirit.

I've waited for 3 years for her to agree to physical meet. The on line meets are the means to the goal for me.

A few of the mongers may understand my situation 🙂.

Wow man. She might be very Beautiful that you waited for 3 years on Online relationship. Sorry I do not have that kind of patience. I agree with some fellow mongers that Online is waste of Money but it is your choice.

[Rkshyd]

Thank you. Your advice is taken in right spirit.

I've waited for 3 years for her to agree to physical meet. The on line meets are the means to the goal for me.

A few of the mongers may understand my situation 🙂.

Yes this online and virtual is just waste of money. Why any one does that when tons of porn in all kind of version is available on net. For young adults its ok, veterans have passed that stage.

[Shukracharya]

Yes bro, these Kats are more sorted than men. But men become ruthless with these Kats too if they get burned by these Kats a couple of times. After this haryanvi jat kat pulled the whole milk everything out of this shukracharya guy game with me, putting me in doubt, anxiety over her pregnancy. And later accepting she's not preggers after she got the fridge and microwave delivered to her place. I decided to go ruthless on her.

We decided to meet one last time on Christmas, where she would collect her monthly 50 k payment (even though she was meeting me just for the 2nd time only in the month instead of the 3 meets per month that we had agreed upon at the start).

She says she can only meet during the the day as she has plans with her GFS for xman night party. I said sure no problem. I had decided to mercilessly smash the lights out of her one last time.

She came around 1 pm saying she has to get back by 5 pm to get ready for the party. She even told me that this was the last time she would ever meet me and if by chance we were to ever encounter each other in the world anywhere, she would treat me like a stranger and so should I. I said brilliant, exactly what I wanted to hear.

As for smashing I smashed her lights out then for the next 5 hours. Went 4 rounds with her to the point that my balls and jhonson started hurting. Smashed her on the bed on the couch in the bathroom on the floor pulled her hair and smashed her ass red. She was initially all like why are you being so rough by the 3 round asking me smash her harder LOL. I mad ensure to have double protection on this time. She was complaining while leaving that I have smashed her too hard but took the money said bye and asked me to delete her number.

I said sure. And now I'm getting myself a new phone number so that if by mistake she ever wants to reach me then she can't. I'm done with her. But me deciding to cut her off completely is pale here as she herself is sorted enough to ensure that I don't try to talk her up now as she is marrying some army dude and doesn't want her fun time with me coming out in the open.

She's not a WG or a Regular SB, was just some random college girl being forced to marry young at 22-23 by her mother. She wanted to have a wild time before she got married and experience some luxury. She did that and now is sorted enough to just cut me out like that. Good thing is I've been burned before thanks to my ex wife so I was never going to fall in love with her or any other kat for that matter. Least I expected from her was some sincerity. But didn't even get that so decided to go ruthless with her but she's apparently more ruthless here than me LOL.

I agree with Both RoniG and Shukracharya. SA is all about exchange of money / gift for something men need and these chicks provide. But, somewhere down the line when you keep on meeting a particular chick on a regular basis, a kind of bond develops; although it is FWB but still that trust and a kind of camaraderie coupled with sexual fun. That fondness or that liking for a friend.

We, men are carnal creatures but certainly not animals, you know what I mean and have a heart but we do get hurt if our kind gestures apart from money are not reciprocated. I have learnt it the hard way that these young chicks wish to milk you the max and are more sorted than men are. That is why men are called the weaker sex. They don't give a fuck about you and care a damn. Either it is their young age or their true nature. 99% belong to this category. 1% are good, not greedy and grounded. I had one or two like them but took a pledge to have my heart in place and emotions in check. Man, miss one of them like anything but moved on since a year..

[DevSagar]

I agree with Both RoniG and Shukracharya. SA is all about exchange of money / gift for something men need and these chicks provide. But, somewhere down the line when you keep on meeting a particular chick on a regular basis, a kind of bond develops; although it is FWB but still that trust and a kind of camaraderie coupled with sexual fun. That fondness or that liking for a friend.

We, men are carnal creatures but certainly not animals, you know what I mean and have a heart but we do get hurt if our kind gestures apart from money are not reciprocated. I have learnt it the hard way that these young chicks wish to milk you the max and are more sorted than men are. That is why men are called the weaker sex. They don't give a fuck about you and care a damn. Either it is their young age or their true nature. 99% belong to this category. 1% are good, not greedy and grounded. I had one or two like them but took a pledge to have my heart in place and emotions in check. Man, miss one of them like anything but moved on since a year.

I have learnt my lessons the hard way, by getting milked, by getting dropped and by them moving on the next day after duping me. It's easier for these young pussies but at least not for all men.

I am very soft by nature and the above is my personal experience.

Regards.

Yes I am aware sa is not the place to be looking for love. What I meant was Kats show no empathy or sense of gratitude no matter what you have done for them. They are all about the present, what in the present you can do for them or they can get out of you, that's all on their mind. Which is very disappointing but I am fully aware how this world is and how Kats are, they all won't change.

[MidtownGuy]

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Thanks DesiGuy3.

After reading your post created a new profile on SA. During profile creation they have a random question. Somethinf like "looking for successful members" or "looking for attractive members".

Selected the later and bingo!

[Kartiii]

If anyone contacted earlier.

Please provide the feedback on DynamicAngel.

[HituMonger]

Do you want to do something online? If you say so in your profile, you are likely to get interest by a lot of attractive women, who want online but nothing physical.

If you are only into real meets, you could tell her so and add that you could discuss a per meet arrangement, once she is in India. Priorities change and I don't see a point of.

Making an offer for a real meet so much in advance.

Yes this online and virtual is just waste of money. Why any one does that when tons of porn in all kind of version is available on net. For young adults its ok, veterans have passed that stage.

[Shukracharya]

Bro I'm divorced. But the good part is she's not pregnant. Once she had the fridge and microwave delivered to her place, she became too happy andbtold me she's not preggers or getting preggers. I mean I didn't know the fridge and the microwave work as contraceptive with greedy bit at #es. LOL.

Bro I feel for you. It seems you paid her 2 lakh plus and she treats you like shit and an ATM. Her husband will burn. I pray you haven't gotten her pregnant. If she claims that, ask her for a report. Are you married or single? Women. Are vile.

[Shukracharya]

Yes I am aware sa is not the place to be looking for love. What I meant was Kats show no empathy or sense of gratitude no matter what you have done for them. They are all about the present, what in the present you can do for them or they can get out of you, that's all on their mind. Which is very disappointing but I am fully aware how this world is and how Kats are, they all won't change.

It is a gross generalization. You are looking for women who love you unconditionally at a wrong place. SA by design is materialistic. Less or no emotion and mostly translational. Only reason for her to be on SA was to take advantage of men's needs which was beyond emotion or love which she did.

[Shukracharya]

That's a good technique.

I guess most of the times hotel people don't care if the kat is presentable and doesnot staright up look like a working girl. I don't meet wgs but one time on sa I got a little drunk and agreed to meet this kat who gave the wg vibe and dressed a bit too flashy. When we checked into the hotel, the hotel guy made some lousy excuse of hotel room needing rewiring of cables so can't give us a room LOL. I was furious with him at that moment but later realised what the deal was.

All the other times hotel guys have never ever made it awkward for me. It's always been smooth. But I'm always nervous and anxious even now whenever I have to meet a kat in a hotel. Until we check into the room and order some food there, I'm anxious like anything worrying about everything that could go wrong and playing games in my head what I would do if things go wrong LOL.

I tell the kat to sit in the reception lounge after taking her ID and then proceed to the front desk for check in formalities.

[Shukracharya]

Don't. He's a player too from what I gather and looking at his social. Nowadays marriages are just a show to keep up appearances. Her soon to be hubby plays all innocent but in reality is definitely smashing around.

But this haryanvi kat thinks that her soon to be husband will be all faithful and she will rule him. To each their own version of reality.

Last line was touching. I agree most women can't love unconditionally. They are too Transactional.

[DesiGuy3]

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I am a newbie to mongering world. Need help from fellow members.

Any of SA ID links I am trying to open is not working.

I keep getting to the message -.

"Profile Not Available.

This member's profile can no longer be found. The member might have deactivated their account, been suspended, blocked you, or been blocked by you. ".

Do I need to have a paid account to view profiles?

Please help me understand the workings of SA.

[Phil50]

Friends,

An indian student I've known earlier in Pune, now living in USA made an offer to me.

On-line fun every week and physical meets every six months whenever she's in India.
Asking me to make the initial offer.
I am clueless about what shall I offer. Per on-line session and per physical meet.

Can anyone in this forum with such experience in India or USA offer me suggestions?

Do you want to do something online? If you say so in your profile, you are likely to get interest by a lot of attractive women, who want online but nothing physical.

If you are only into real meets, you could tell her so and add that you could discuss a per meet arrangement, once she is in India. Priorities change and I don't see a point of.

Making an offer for a real meet so much in advance.

[DevSagar]

Buddy, you seem confused. Before you offer anything, ask yourself a question; whether you interested in online fun, you get a kick out of it and if the answer is yes, ask her expectations and you'll be much better off. Don't offer anything. Private meets, who's six months man, she might get a better prey or a richer dude to latch on to. These chicks are all money minded and you should be too.

My 2 cents, hope it helps you.

Rest it's your money and decision.

Regards.

Friends,

An indian student I've known earlier in Pune, now living in USA made an offer to me.

On-line fun every week and physical meets every six months whenever she's in India.

Asking me to make the initial offer.

I am clueless about what shall I offer. Per on-line session and per physical meet.

Can anyone in this forum with such experience in India or USA offer me suggestions?