Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[Shukracharya]

Thanks bro,

In your case the lady involved had some issues and wasn't looking to smash with you but here my problem is that the boss's wife wants to smash. I am going through some tough times mentally thanks to my ex wife tryin to take my kid with her to Bangalore and I'll be honest I'm in a dark state of mind.

I'm thinking I'll go over and smash the lights out of the boss's wife. My empathy for the boss is going and so is mental balance.

A dark mind can lead to bad choices. Let's see if I can get my mind straight and hopefully not go and smash the boss's wife. She sent me a text that her husband left for Singapore and she was looking forward to me visit their place. Total ho.

Last night I met this Japanese kat in the hotel restaurant where I'm staying. We chatted a bit as we 2 were the only ones in the restaurant. I like asain Kats and usually I would have tried to convert the talk into a smashing session. But I was so off mentally that I didn't even talk to her properly just grinned and said few word replies to her questions. After a while even she was like wtf is wrong with this guy and said bye and left.

After my months long arrangement with haryanvi kat even I'm in no mood now to meet Kats. I can totally relate with you saying that you rnot meeting Kats and still doing great. I think this mongering business just creates a lot of stress in one's life. Not only financial or mental but also emotional. So guys should look to monger only when other aspects of their lives are going smoothly. Otherwise guys end up in bad spots with bad choices.

First things first. Below is my individual point of view, some guys may agree or disagree. I am even ready to get a few brick bats down the line for sharing my opinion below. It's not spicy and sex laden, so please do not care to read and ignore. Dunno, if it'll be loaded here on forum.

I am aware it's not psychology class lesson. Yes, It is sex forum, to share chicks we banged and our sexual escapades. But, is that all for us Gents or there is more to life. Shukracharya, Absolutely, do not hesitate to share your feelings, mental and emotional turmoil here on open forum. I wrote earlier we all have some emptiness in life. It could be of any sort. We can learn from each other's life experience, yes, not only sexual experience. So, carry on mate and share as much as you can. I have read your this FR at least twice before writing here.

Shuk, Buddy you've done exceedingly well in thwarting the sexual advances of your Bosses wife. I was in a similar catch 22 situation wherein someone from my family was going through a turbulent married life. A very beautiful and educated lady married early into a rich business family who happened to be my uneducated rich relatives. One fine day both Mom and her daughter who is also now 25, met me in their home individually where both cried and shared their shit life. Mind you, they have plenty of money and the lady herself came from a filthy rich background and her father's left her a fortune. I referred her to Apollo hospital to a doctor friend as she was not getting proper treatment at home as uneducated in laws. Her daughter I met her in a coffee shop in South Delhi, counseled her and shared my piece of mind. She's become like my buddy and confides in me and not in her father / mother. I took a decision of not meeting the lady alone either at her home or any social gathering and my this strategy paid really well. They just celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary; she saw me, pulled me on the stage and openly declared in front of her husband and in laws that this man saved my life. If I wanted, I could have taken advantage of her as she was very vulnerable, emotionally and mentally at that time, kept in touch with me on phone, shared all but I was clear headed not to indulge in any thing which will haunt me in future. You did well. Kudos for it and sharing it here.

As far as your personal life is concerned, man; I just have to say that Time and patience will be your biggest friend. Wait and watch. I personally have gone through a lot of shit, seen poverty and too much of wealth. Ultimately, god's been kind. Money is a means not an end. You yourself are a mentally sorted guy and I know you'll tide over it. Keep sharing. I can feel you man. Family life, no doubt gives that happiness and what a joy a father playing with his child and vice versa. No amount of wealth can get you that kind of happiness as it cannot be purchased.

I'd also like to add here for all that I have not met any SA chick in Delhi since the last 3/4 months, not an SA premium member. I am contended and satisfied. Been focusing on work, travels and personal growth.

Regards.

[Shukracharya]

Thanks bro,

As for this Instagram social media in general, sooner or later govts will have to ban social media altogether if we want to continue as a civilization. Or th govt will fully bring them under bureaucratic control like tv where one would need a license etc to be on social media.

They way things are cannot continue for long. Same with the whole bitcoin thing. Govts will just not let tech take away their power. They will regulate such tech or ban it to ensure they remain in control.

As for females and males in general, I don't think we are ever going back in time when females used to be subservient to men in er households. All those men rights movement guys are kidding themselves. Females make most of the voters and expect more crazy laws to pass in India just like they are being passed in usa, western world that will be all against men.

Only thing that will change this growth of feminist ideology is world war or crashing populations, end of families which will force govts to resort back to the good old days.

I have similar observation like you. The instagram Gen has become morally corrupt. Being in IT I can attest to the fact that girls are eager to be associated with you if you make it big. I had one female colleague. Intially she was cold to me but the day I was given a onsite opportunity everything changed. All these simping is uncomfortable.

And there are fortunate men to taste the bitterness of fake feminism and then there are more men who are less fortunate who even try to encourage that fake feminism and I am compelled to comprehend the fact that there are men out there who have no decency like the ITGuy and they need to be confronted without any pitty to maintain the balance.

BTW love reading your FR's and thoughts!

[Shukracharya]

Alright bro, hope the kat you met before she left to Mumbai didn't pass on her p inflation to your wallet.

Finally shukracharya bro thank you for acknowledging this.

Now you know why I gave you Jhunjhunwala title a few months back it was in good humour only but now you know

your FR's were really good which lead to lot of mongers reaching out to them ladies which led to P inflation.

Thankfully I was able to meet one of your FR's mentioned girl before she moved to Mumbai.

Hope you are doing ok bro, your life exp has been a great learning curve for all.

[Shukracharya]

Bro I have not mongered in Goa so can't say much but there are too many places available. It's quite chill there if you are taking a kat with you there. People usually find problems with finding Kats there to monger around with easily. Stay in any Airbnb rented villas, they give full privacy.

Anyway how much isur sb asking for the 3 day trip?

SB wants me to take her to Goa for a 3 day trip.

Never been to Goa like this.

Any suggestions for Stay and places to visit will be appreciated.

[DesiGuy3]

SB wants me to take her to Goa for a 3 day trip.

Never been to Goa like this.

Any suggestions for Stay and places to visit will be appreciated.

Lucky you. Please agree on the Allowance before hand. If this is your Long Term Arrangement then you do not need to give her extra other than some shopping. Be careful with your money and personal stuff and keep them in Safe. Stay at nice hotel and enjoy your trip.

[Rkshyd]

SB wants me to take her to Goa for a 3 day trip.

Never been to Goa like this.

Any suggestions for Stay and places to visit will be appreciated.

[MarshallS]

Was going through this SA ID.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...6-22943ad69439

After initial chat, quoted 5 k for 3-4 hrs. However, asking for 1 k advance, even not ready for VC before the advance, which is definitely a red flag. Not able to decide if the risk is to be taken or not, looking at the pic of the kat.

Anyone met her. Or any advice?

It's a scam. When you deny then the person would end up asking for a 300 mobile recharge.

[Mano112]

Hello Brothers,

Planning a trip to Delhi soon this Jan end. Looking for Telegram contacts of SA chicks who look good and are very service oriented as I'm not subscribed and short on time to filer. Will do my best if you come to Mumbai.

Will stay in Royal Plaza. Also please share a good weed dealer. Thank you and cheers.

Remember Brie SA ID Mumbai is a thief.

[Vj202]

Was going through this SA ID.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...6-22943ad69439

After initial chat, quoted 5 k for 3-4 hrs. However, asking for 1 k advance, even not ready for VC before the advance, which is definitely a red flag. Not able to decide if the risk is to be taken or not, looking at the pic of the kat.

Anyone met her. Or any advice?

It's 100% scam. Never came across on SA who is ready for 5 k meet and pics are too good to be true.

[Member #4784]

I am here in kolkatta since 2 days but didn't get any.

Luck so far. Any kind hearted, can hint SA profile or help in Kolkata.

Thanks.

Sagar.

[Phil50]

Not all premium profile are professional escorts. Look if the reason for premium is because they registered their University ID. I have met a premium profile in Bangalore who is a student couple of times and had good experience.

That's true but its rare in India that a girl will register with her University ID and claim free premium membership for that.

[CoolGuy16]

These are some great insights and I can visit this forum just to read these or similar FRs to get insight about life and for some life lessons.

First things first. Below is my individual point of view, some guys may agree or disagree. I am even ready to get a few brick bats down the line for sharing my opinion below. It's not spicy and sex laden, so please do not care to read and ignore. Dunno, if it'll be loaded here on forum.

I am aware it's not psychology class lesson. Yes, It is sex forum, to share chicks we banged and our sexual escapades. But, is that all for us Gents or there is more to life. Shukracharya, Absolutely, do not hesitate to share your feelings, mental and emotional turmoil here on open forum. I wrote earlier we all have some emptiness in life. It could be of any sort. We can learn from each other's life experience, yes, not only sexual experience. So, carry on mate and share as much as you can. I have read your this FR at least twice before writing here.

Shuk, Buddy you've done exceedingly well in thwarting the sexual advances of your Bosses wife. I was in a similar catch 22 situation wherein someone from my family was going through a turbulent married life. A very beautiful and educated lady married early into a rich business family who happened to be my uneducated rich relatives. One fine day both Mom and her daughter who is also now 25, met me in their home individually where both cried and shared their shit life. Mind you, they have plenty of money and the lady herself came from a filthy rich background and her father's left her a fortune. I referred her to Apollo hospital to a doctor friend as she was not getting proper treatment at home as uneducated in laws. Her daughter I met her in a coffee shop in South Delhi, counseled her and shared my piece of mind. She's become like my buddy and confides in me and not in her father / mother. I took a decision of not meeting the lady alone either at her home or any social gathering and my this strategy paid really well. They just celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary; she saw me, pulled me on the stage and openly declared in front of her husband and in laws that this man saved my life..

[RoniG]

If a profile is more than a month old AND the last login date is less than a week after joining, she is most likely a 'Toe dipper' who is no longer interested in SA. These are the type who will most likely ghost, or not reply.

If the profile is over a year old, its most likely an experienced escort. All premium profiles I have come across, are professional escorts. While they are not my type, a professional escort, is more likely to show up, not scam you and conduct business without drama.

Not all premium profile are professional escorts. Look if the reason for premium is because they registered their University ID. I have met a premium profile in Bangalore who is a student couple of times and had good experience.

[RoniG]

Hello Fellow Mongers, I recently got in touch with Baani and just want to have a feedback on the prices and the service if anyone has avail that.

The chick seems to be good but there is not hint of damage till now. If I can get a heads up, it would be easier to negotiate.

PM is working.

Also, just to share, I was able to connect to few girls on SA without paying subscription by posting my TG ID as profile ID.

Do share your feedback if the approach is fine as I feel saving 8 k a month is better than SA chicks being judgemental about the person for not being a paid member.

For Bangalore Mongers, I have shifted recently to the city from NEW Delhi and looking to get in touch with fellow city mongers.

I avoid anyone who message me first. In this case she messaged you to your TG, it is not you who initiated conversation. She may be genuine but she even messaged me without me initiating conversation and insisted on same day meet up. Even asked for financial help. She was very polite and while asking for financial help, I avoided her because she was not okay for coffee meet. She also didn't mention about alliance when I asked her. I didn't do follow up and avoided her.

[UCantcMeBro]

Finally shukracharya bro thank you for acknowledging this.

Now you know why I gave you Jhunjhunwala title a few months back it was in good humour only but now you know

your FR's were really good which lead to lot of mongers reaching out to them ladies which led to P inflation.

Thankfully I was able to meet one of your FR's mentioned girl before she moved to Mumbai.

Hope you are doing ok bro, your life exp has been a great learning curve for all.

This kat is from the hills or just looks like an apple?

True thing about the p* inflation. I don't repeat Kats but one kat I wrote a FR over she contacted me again and this time wanted me to pay her double! I said nah thanks but you are right posting links of Kats and their ids here just leads to p inflation.

Forget about p inflation I've had some older gentleman bro msg me from usa here offering to pay me some dollars if I can get him some really good girl who will give him a good experience LOL. I haven't replied to that bro but if he's reading this forum, bro I aint no sp.

I just vent out my experiences here because I can't sharevall this with anyone in my real life. In addition to that I help bros out of the goodness of my heart, plus the Kats who are in need to some money can benefit too. Not here to make a buck myself.