Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[Shukracharya]

Yes bro 12-15 k per meet is the right price. Anything over and we guys overpay. I am guilty of overpaying too but I limit myself to a max 20 k nothing over that. Just one time paid 35 k and I feel I paid too much to that kat and she still acts like she gave up her kat to me on the cheap LOL. But I made a promise not to go over 15 k no matter what now.

You are right going to Thailand and mongering there is much more better as well as stress free than in India. It's even better than mongering in USA, Canada or even Europe. Guys have to pay astronomical amounts for just 1 hour there while Thailand offers a lot of variety on the cheap. That's why all the firang guys land up there to monger instead of their own countries.

And I'm not going to bang the boss's wife bro. I was just in a dark place when I wrote that and she was msging me about her husband gone to Singapore. I am not sexually attracted to her nor do I wish to get involved with her in any which way. She's the one looking to get it on with me. Will just not go over to her place until the boss is at home.

I took a conscious decision of very aggressive and heavy business targets; my principals are Europeans. The reason of this was to clearly to divert my mind from my sugar babe as I was blank faced and sad which only I could feel and knew. My business commitments, social obligations and family responsibilities were such that I was not justifying. I was physically present but mentally absent. I just could not go on like this, I was simply existing but not living my life. My business entails me to travel domestically and abroad which is my passion apart from my work (I love what I do) and mongering, LOL..

[Shukracharya]

Yes very true. Don't have empathy for them Kats. Most of their stories are all BS anyway. They just make shit up on the spot.

Depending upon how you are interacting with them.

Well said Bro, I have gone through this same roller coaster on mongering and SA. I look for long term and when one ends I feel an emptiness emotionally. That leads me to make decisions I never would.

In my professional life. Like advancing money and then see the girl ghosting (after first having a couple of dates and believing she's the real thing). Then I meet some short term kats which don't give.

Me the same feeling, after which I decide SA is not for me. I have learnt the hard way not to be emotional about any relationship on SA. If someone does not give you what you are looking for, move on.
Don't feel sorry for their situation, or hope they will change in the way you want.

[CryptoDude91]

100% scam.

Was going through this SA ID.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...6-22943ad69439

After initial chat, quoted 5 k for 3-4 hrs. However, asking for 1 k advance, even not ready for VC before the advance, which is definitely a red flag. Not able to decide if the risk is to be taken or not, looking at the pic of the kat.

Anyone met her. Or any advice?

[Rkshyd]

Thank you. .

Lucky you. Please agree on the Allowance before hand. If this is your Long Term Arrangement then you do not need to give her extra other than some shopping. Be careful with your money and personal stuff and keep them in Safe. Stay at nice hotel and enjoy your trip.

[Rkshyd]

Thank you so much for the advice.

Yet to discuss the financials.

Bro I have not mongered in Goa so can't say much but there are too many places available. It's quite chill there if you are taking a kat with you there. People usually find problems with finding Kats there to monger around with easily. Stay in any Airbnb rented villas, they give full privacy.

Anyway how much isur sb asking for the 3 day trip?

[UCantcMeBro]

It did start with the same 70 k but I negotiated hard and since I can actually charm the person well I eventually made her make another exception in me with the same amount as yours She was worth it one of the prettiest ones I've met from the site.

Alright bro, hope the kat you met before she left to Mumbai didn't pass on her p inflation to your wallet.

[FunToosh6045]

Thanks bro,

As for this Instagram social media in general, sooner or later govts will have to ban social media altogether if we want to continue as a civilization. Or th govt will fully bring them under bureaucratic control like tv where one would need a license etc to be on social media.

They way things are cannot continue for long. Same with the whole bitcoin thing. Govts will just not let tech take away their power. They will regulate such tech or ban it to ensure they remain in control.

As for females and males in general, I don't think we are ever going back in time when females used to be subservient to men in er households. All those men rights movement guys are kidding themselves. Females make most of the voters and expect more crazy laws to pass in India just like they are being passed in usa, western world that will be all against men.

Only thing that will change this growth of feminist ideology is world war or crashing populations, end of families which will force govts to resort back to the good old days.

Again your observation is to the point. West has already started controlling big-tech by various means.

I started this hobby fairly recently. I wonder what kind of deep pockets one need to maintain this hobby!

Regards.

[WaterBoy747]

Thanks bro,

In your case the lady involved had some issues and wasn't looking to smash with you but here my problem is that the boss's wife wants to smash. I am going through some tough times mentally thanks to my ex wife tryin to take my kid with her to Bangalore and I'll be honest I'm in a dark state of mind.

I'm thinking I'll go over and smash the lights out of the boss's wife. My empathy for the boss is going and so is mental balance.

Well even if you do decide to smash the boss' wife. Just make sure you don't have any chats related to that with her after the event. Talk nothing about it over the phone, make sure her phone is not in the same room as you two, no cameras in the room where you're doing it. Plausible deniability.

[Phil50]

I can totally relate with you saying that you rnot meeting Kats and still doing great. I think this mongering business just creates a lot of stress in one's life. Not only financial or mental but also emotional. So guys should look to monger only when other aspects of their lives are going smoothly. Otherwise guys end up in bad spots with bad choices.

Well said Bro, I have gone through this same roller coaster on mongering and SA. I look for long term and when one ends I feel an emptiness emotionally. That leads me to make decisions I never would.

In my professional life. Like advancing money and then see the girl ghosting (after first having a couple of dates and believing she's the real thing). Then I meet some short term kats which don't give.

Me the same feeling, after which I decide SA is not for me. I have learnt the hard way not to be emotional about any relationship on SA. If someone does not give you what you are looking for, move on.
Don't feel sorry for their situation, or hope they will change in the way you want.

[LightMan1988]

I think I know who you are talking about. I have talked to her, she told me she was looking for a long term commitment. That's whyi didn't pursue because I just got out of a long term arrangement with a young college kat and didn't want more of that drama.

She did not ask for long term from me. I guess I was able to convince her.

[SmartAshi84]

SB wants me to take her to Goa for a 3 day trip.

Never been to Goa like this.

Any suggestions for Stay and places to visit will be appreciated.

Few months back I had taken one SB to goa for two nights. It was good because she was a good girl. Had quite good time, except her usual chatterbox attitude. Smashed the daylight of her in those two nights.

If you are planning to take anyone to goa, agree on allowance first. Also fix the limit of shopping beforehand otherwise these babes will milk you dry. Also be careful with your belongings and put them in a safe. Don't share the return ticket with cat until you drop her to airport. That will ensure she stays at her best behaviour till last moment.

[DevSagar]

I took a conscious decision of very aggressive and heavy business targets; my principals are Europeans. The reason of this was to clearly to divert my mind from my sugar babe as I was blank faced and sad which only I could feel and knew. My business commitments, social obligations and family responsibilities were such that I was not justifying. I was physically present but mentally absent. I just could not go on like this, I was simply existing but not living my life. My business entails me to travel domestically and abroad which is my passion apart from my work (I love what I do) and mongering, LOL.

July, 22 onwards I had very heavy schedules and this Local Sugar babe meets requires you to start pinging a few chicks, a lot of planning, chasing, fitting into their schedules (pussy power or craving), then shitty experiences, hotel bookings (prices are mind boggling of 5 stars), oh my god these chick quotes, their drama; I don't do this and that and prices as I always look for max 15 K but my sweet spot is 12 K. It's not that financially I cannot pay but I simply do not; that's my mindset. On an average the total expense of a sugar babe experience is 25 k /30 K and a full day gone with a lot of planning before hand to plug the pussy. I decided just fuck it man and gave up on meeting chicks in Delhi. It was too too much of mental stress for me. I just came back from Thailand and fucked 5 girls in 4 days; hehehe, horny fucker I am which included an 18 year Thai chick. Her moans still rings in ears. I was fuck weary but greedy.

Yes, you're right about the lady not wanting to get laid but she was very vulnerable and shared her entire life thread bare inclusive of her private one. She was very vulnerable and if I wanted, I could have. You too I am sure will think umpteen times before you drill your bosses wife. But, ask yourself only one question before you do what you do- Will your this action of fucking bosses wife help you mentally, emotionally and mind fuck that you currently going through right now? Will it be over or just another addition to your conquests?

2nd question I am posing as a friend; don't take it otherwise, will it be a one time smash or develop into a regular continuous thing? I know difficult to comprehend in advance and revert as one step at a time but that first step is a major one, a very bold one.

Think over my friend; not once, umpteen times before you take the plunge. These women have an edge. You know this.

My apologies, it's your personal life but still took the liberty of sharing my piece of mind.

Good luck and stay strong.

Regards.

Thanks bro,

In your case the lady involved had some issues and wasn't looking to smash with you but here my problem is that the boss's wife wants to smash. I am going through some tough times mentally thanks to my ex wife tryin to take my kid with her to Bangalore and I'll be honest I'm in a dark state of mind.

I'm thinking I'll go over and smash the lights out of the boss's wife. My empathy for the boss is going and so is mental balance.

A dark mind can lead to bad choices. Let's see if I can get my mind straight and hopefully not go and smash the boss's wife. She sent me a text that her husband left for Singapore and she was looking forward to me visit their place. Total ho.

Last night I met this Japanese kat in the hotel restaurant where I'm staying. We chatted a bit as we 2 were the only ones in the restaurant. I like asain Kats and usually I would have tried to convert the talk into a smashing session. But I was so off mentally that I didn't even talk to her properly just grinned and said few word replies to her questions. After a while even she was like wtf is wrong with this guy and said bye and left..

[Shukracharya]

I think I know who you are talking about. I have talked to her, she told me she was looking for a long term commitment. That's whyi didn't pursue because I just got out of a long term arrangement with a young college kat and didn't want more of that drama.

KAT is from the hills Bro. NRI expats believe everything can be solved by Dollar. Art of grinding is lost.

[Shukracharya]

Thanks bro,

In your case the lady involved had some issues and wasn't looking to smash with you but here my problem is that the boss's wife wants to smash. I am going through some tough times mentally thanks to my ex wife tryin to take my kid with her to Bangalore and I'll be honest I'm in a dark state of mind.

I'm thinking I'll go over and smash the lights out of the boss's wife. My empathy for the boss is going and so is mental balance.

A dark mind can lead to bad choices. Let's see if I can get my mind straight and hopefully not go and smash the boss's wife. She sent me a text that her husband left for Singapore and she was looking forward to me visit their place. Total ho.

Last night I met this Japanese kat in the hotel restaurant where I'm staying. We chatted a bit as we 2 were the only ones in the restaurant. I like asain Kats and usually I would have tried to convert the talk into a smashing session. But I was so off mentally that I didn't even talk to her properly just grinned and said few word replies to her questions. After a while even she was like wtf is wrong with this guy and said bye and left.

After my months long arrangement with haryanvi kat even I'm in no mood now to meet Kats. I can totally relate with you saying that you rnot meeting Kats and still doing great. I think this mongering business just creates a lot of stress in one's life. Not only financial or mental but also emotional. So guys should look to monger only when other aspects of their lives are going smoothly. Otherwise guys end up in bad spots with bad choices.

First things first. Below is my individual point of view, some guys may agree or disagree. I am even ready to get a few brick bats down the line for sharing my opinion below. It's not spicy and sex laden, so please do not care to read and ignore. Dunno, if it'll be loaded here on forum.

I am aware it's not psychology class lesson. Yes, It is sex forum, to share chicks we banged and our sexual escapades. But, is that all for us Gents or there is more to life. Shukracharya, Absolutely, do not hesitate to share your feelings, mental and emotional turmoil here on open forum. I wrote earlier we all have some emptiness in life. It could be of any sort. We can learn from each other's life experience, yes, not only sexual experience. So, carry on mate and share as much as you can. I have read your this FR at least twice before writing here.

Shuk, Buddy you've done exceedingly well in thwarting the sexual advances of your Bosses wife. I was in a similar catch 22 situation wherein someone from my family was going through a turbulent married life. A very beautiful and educated lady married early into a rich business family who happened to be my uneducated rich relatives. One fine day both Mom and her daughter who is also now 25, met me in their home individually where both cried and shared their shit life. Mind you, they have plenty of money and the lady herself came from a filthy rich background and her father's left her a fortune. I referred her to Apollo hospital to a doctor friend as she was not getting proper treatment at home as uneducated in laws. Her daughter I met her in a coffee shop in South Delhi, counseled her and shared my piece of mind. She's become like my buddy and confides in me and not in her father / mother. I took a decision of not meeting the lady alone either at her home or any social gathering and my this strategy paid really well. They just celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary; she saw me, pulled me on the stage and openly declared in front of her husband and in laws that this man saved my life. If I wanted, I could have taken advantage of her as she was very vulnerable, emotionally and mentally at that time, kept in touch with me on phone, shared all but I was clear headed not to indulge in any thing which will haunt me in future. You did well. Kudos for it and sharing it here.

As far as your personal life is concerned, man; I just have to say that Time and patience will be your biggest friend. Wait and watch. I personally have gone through a lot of shit, seen poverty and too much of wealth. Ultimately, god's been kind. Money is a means not an end. You yourself are a mentally sorted guy and I know you'll tide over it. Keep sharing. I can feel you man. Family life, no doubt gives that happiness and what a joy a father playing with his child and vice versa. No amount of wealth can get you that kind of happiness as it cannot be purchased.

I'd also like to add here for all that I have not met any SA chick in Delhi since the last 3/4 months, not an SA premium member. I am contended and satisfied. Been focusing on work, travels and personal growth.

Regards.

[Shukracharya]

Thanks bro,

As for this Instagram social media in general, sooner or later govts will have to ban social media altogether if we want to continue as a civilization. Or th govt will fully bring them under bureaucratic control like tv where one would need a license etc to be on social media.

They way things are cannot continue for long. Same with the whole bitcoin thing. Govts will just not let tech take away their power. They will regulate such tech or ban it to ensure they remain in control.

As for females and males in general, I don't think we are ever going back in time when females used to be subservient to men in er households. All those men rights movement guys are kidding themselves. Females make most of the voters and expect more crazy laws to pass in India just like they are being passed in usa, western world that will be all against men.

Only thing that will change this growth of feminist ideology is world war or crashing populations, end of families which will force govts to resort back to the good old days.

I have similar observation like you. The instagram Gen has become morally corrupt. Being in IT I can attest to the fact that girls are eager to be associated with you if you make it big. I had one female colleague. Intially she was cold to me but the day I was given a onsite opportunity everything changed. All these simping is uncomfortable.

And there are fortunate men to taste the bitterness of fake feminism and then there are more men who are less fortunate who even try to encourage that fake feminism and I am compelled to comprehend the fact that there are men out there who have no decency like the ITGuy and they need to be confronted without any pitty to maintain the balance.

BTW love reading your FR's and thoughts!