Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

**FordRocker** · 01-15-23 09:08

I have seen quite a few posts regarding some of the fellow mongers worried about STD specially HIV. Some have gone paranoid and lost sleep about it and some went on Prep after a risky encounter. This actually inspired me to write this post. I felt I need to write about how Risky is to get STD in mongering based on my long mongering experience. I am an Indian origin man in mid forty's with 20+ years of mongering experience in India, USA and Mexico. My total encounters may be around 300 as of today. If I have to classify the encounters based on the risk, this is how it is -.

1. Around 40 (GB Road. Delhi, Budhwar Peth. Pune).

2. Around 20 (WG in India).

3. Around 150 (WG in USA / Mexico).

4. Around 70-80 (SB in USA).

5. Around 10-12 (Dating, Casual Encounters with non pro).

Out of these encounters, around 50 were when no protection was used. Until 2018 I had only 4 unprotected encounters (1 with WG in USA, 2 with non pro in USA and 1 with a non pro Indian girl). But these 4 encounters really made me paranoid at times and whenever I was sick I got sleepless nights thinking I caught HIV from any of those 4 unprotected encounters. I did not get tested due to fear and social stigma associated with it. After 2018 I found out SB world and slowly got into more unprotected sex. I got involved into so much that protected sex became unattractive for me.

At times few SB's asked me to get tested and shows the results before they do anything with me but I kept avoiding due to fear. First time in 2019 I got fully tested for STD when a SB forced me to have the testing done. I still remember next 3-4 days after the test were pure horror for me while waiting for results. I was worried that with so much of risky behavior I definately would have caught something. When the result came back I was really surprised to see everything clean except the HSV1. Doctor told me that 70-80% (95% of adults) of global population has HSV1 so its nothing to worry. HSV1 also spread thru sharing drinks and food. By the time I had my first STD test in 2019, my total unprotected encounters were around 15 or so. That actually encouraged me to get more into this unprotected habit.

First time when I got one STD was when a working massage girl rode over me without condom in USA. It was hardly for a minute or so. But I had burning feeling in penis after 3-4 days. I think I got either chlamydia or some sort of UTI thru that encounter. I did not get tested but got into the antibiotic treatment for chlamydia. After a week or so I was fine. I had done a full STD test again after 3-4 months and it was all clear. This was the only time so far when I got a STD in my mongering career. I have continued my habit of going for unprotected sex so far but also adopted the habit of getting tested for STD after every few months. Few points I want to tell to my fellow monger friends based on my experience -.

1. It is extremely hard for a hetrosexual man to catch HIV. Its because of Anatomy. Once I met a HIV positive women at a testing center in USA. I got into conversation with her while waiting to get tested. She told me that she had unprotected sex with her husband hundreds of times before she found out that she is HIV positive. Her husband is still HIV negative. She told me that women can not transfer HIV to man based her experience and also mentioned that she had met 20+ more HIV+ woman and they also share the same story.

2. Most common STD you can get thru risky sex is chlamydia but it is treatable with one week of antibiotics.

3. STD is not the only risk of unprotected sex. Pregnancy is another. I had one pregnancy scare last year when one of the SB I saw got pregnant. I had gone thru vasectomy to avoid it in future.

4. Most risky sex in terms of HIV exposure is for a gay men (anal sex) at receiving end. Statistically HIV is more common in homosexual men. Homosexuals are also at most risk because they are in smaller population in the society (small group of people) therefore more likely to get an encounter with hiv+ man compared to hetrosexual people (Larger pool of people).

5. One of the reason I am more into unprotected sex is because of my age. I am in mid 40's and I feel that I should enjoy most now since It may be few more years now before I die or become too old for mongering. LOL. If I were young like in 20's or 30's then I might have played safer.

Going on Prep if a condom broke is insane in my opinion also getting paranoid is no solution. Getting tested regularly is important if you are active into unprotected sex.

Disclaimer -.

1. Intention of My post is not to encourage people to get into risky sex but to make them aware of what they might be looking at if they get into this.

2. Whatever I have described in my post is purely based on my experience. I am not a medical doctor or expert of STD. Please do your own research also related to this subject.

Happy mongering.

**PlentyOfJoy** · 01-14-23 13:31

Originally Posted by PrinceJoffery [View Original Post]

#link (https://pharmeasy.in/online-medicine...ection-3716666).

I have been vaccinated for HPV by buying Gardasil from pharm easy in India. Prescription is mandatory but there is a free online prescription generation feature also where your prescription is generated after a call with a doctor and you just have to bull shit the doctor on call. I am not even sure if the person on call was a doctor indeed. So all in all it was easy to get the vaccine delivered at home. I was also able to purchase the vaccine from a medical store but it was expensive comapred to online prices.

Additionally I have also consulted a urologist about HPV vaccine and wether I should get it but the consultation was not helpful as he started explaining other STDs and how I should avoid sex with multiple partners. Then later he started giving religious reasons for the same. He did not have the vaccine and said he had never given the vaccine to anyone.

First time hearing about HPV. What other STI / STD I can get vaccines for?

**PlentyOfJoy** · 01-14-23 13:24

Originally Posted by Ulalaulala123 [View Original Post]

Just chill bro. As per some posts in Sexual Wellness thread, the chances of getting HIV is quite less from a random encounter. Although I take the necessary precautions, sometimes you need to let the snake out of the bag, to feel the beautiful holes it wishes to enter.

One such occasion was yesterday, celebrated the new year with a bareback session with a spa chick and today chilling with beer in hand. Hell I had bare session with a thai chick I picked from beach road in pattaya! I did check for any telltale signs of diseased pussy before both encounters. To be honest, sometimes I regret rejecting the bareback offers from pretty ladies in past just for the fear of infections!

As for the HIV report, do they really share such report before meetings. I have never experienced it!

What are these telltales signs of diseases pussy?

And do we check stealthily or just tell her we want to check?

**PlentyOfJoy** · 01-14-23 13:22

Originally Posted by BaldCape [View Original Post]

L-arginine is a natural occurring amino acid so no side effects. It increases blood flow. Its very safe in fact its given to females during pregnancy. It doesn't help in prolonging ejaculation time only you will get hard easily.

Should this be taken daily or only on days we are going to have sex? How much before sex to see the benefits?

So it helps in strong erections and also helps last longer?

**AKeller** · 01-14-23 09:43

Originally Posted by KingOfMan [View Original Post]

Find a new muse.

There only 2 ways to ruin your experience, 1. You are too attached to your previous one 2. You live in guilt.

Thanks, brother. We were talking like good friends, so I think it's your first point. It took me a while, but I've since found a distraction to take my mind off it and I'm slowly coming out of that attachment.

**TuffGuyhSome** · 01-13-23 10:36

Is too much masturbation bad?

These days after masturbating, my knees get weak.

Right now, I am feeling pain near my right ball.

This pain coming in cycles. Last time (November) I checked with urologist, he said some infection and prescribed doxy-st. I used it for a full course, now the ball pain has started again.

Experiencing erection in middle of night and by morning I am getting pain in the right ball.

**KingOfMan** · 01-13-23 04:00

Originally Posted by AKeller [View Original Post]

Well, this might sound silly to some, probably experienced brothers, but help me out a bit here. I'll throw it out in the open.

Has anyone of you felt a little heartbroken when your favorite therapist got married or moved on with her life? How did you cope?

I've been meeting a therapist for a while, and she has gone to her village now, and I kind of miss her. I know that's not the way this whole thing is supposed to go, so I'm trying to nip this thing in the bud. What is the best way to work this out? See other people?

Find a new muse.

There only 2 ways to ruin your experience, 1. You are too attached to your previous one 2. You live in guilt.

**Prince Joffery** · 01-11-23 17:57

Originally Posted by WaterBoy747 [View Original Post]

Is there a particular way to inject or just jab it into your arm and be done with it?

Gardasil is injected intramascularly. Which is same as covid vaccines. I got a jab in the arm. It can also be taken in the thigh. An adult person needs to take 3 shots (0 month, 2 month and 6 month).

**ViratM786** · 01-10-23 07:05

Originally Posted by MySecretLife [View Original Post]

1. I would suggest to meet an Andrologist and Urologist. Andrologist would try to ascertain whether PE is psychological and or physiological. Based on his / her diagnosis, the doctor will refer to a sexologist, if needed.

2. Regarding Phimosis, again, Andrologist or Urologist would try to understand whether you need circumcision or frenuloplasty based on the extent to which prepuce can be retracted. Have you tried applying tropical corticosteroid like Hydrocortisone?

3. I would suggest a physical examination and consultation than an online consultation.

PS: This is not a medical advice.

If it is phimosis, try to explore the option of circumcision. You would not regret for it.

Cheers.

**Lamboos** · 01-10-23 05:05

Originally Posted by Aman1431 [View Original Post]

Frds is there any thing which we can eat from normal kitchen grocery for delaying ejeculation. I get good erection but cums too fast in first shot. Second shot is always good. But is there anything for first shot. Don't want to take medicine which gives side effects in long term. Already taking dabur shilajit gold.

Please suggest.

Fap half an hour or so before you take the real shot. This should delay the first shot just like it happens with second shot which lasts longer because of refraction period.

**WaterBoy747** · 01-09-23 07:24

Originally Posted by Atanu [View Original Post]

Hi Guys,

Its not a shame for me to admit but for past 1 year I am having a big problem of PE but not ED. I get erected normally. I am 35 now. I tried seeking out to a doctor via Practo but all that he suggested are common medicines. I am from KOLKATA.

I want to know if anyone had the same problem and any doctor in Kolkata (Ayurvedic / Allopathy / Homeopathy) which solved the problem. I don't want to be dependent on the medcines for lifetime.

Also, I have Phimosis, as per the read the foums. When I am erected, my Foreskin hardly retracts back, I feel its too tight. I tried lubricating gel but no effects.

Kindly PM if you don't want to reveal it in this public forum.

Regards.

AD.

Okay, so about the PE, have sex everyday or atleast have a massage and a handjob. ANd once you're done having sex, wait for a bit and try having sex again. This will get you used to sex which means you will stop getting excited soon and start fucking longer. Stop masturbating.

About phimosis, you can either stretch your foreskin in the shower (hold the tip of your foreskin, pull it till you can feel some slight discomfort and hold it for 30 seconds. Do the same for rest of the tips of the foreskin as well. This is a slow process but works (it worked for me). Otherwise frenuloplasty if the best method. You will recover in one month.

**Aman1431** · 01-09-23 03:12

Frds is there any thing which we can eat from normal kitchen grocery for delaying ejeculation. I get good erection but cums too fast in first shot. Second shot is always good. But is there anything for first shot. Don't want to take medicine which gives side effects in long term. Already taking dabur shilajit gold.

Please suggest.

**MySecretLife** · 01-08-23 16:14

1. I would suggest to meet an Andrologist and Urologist. Andrologist would try to ascertain whether PE is psychological and or physiological. Based on his / her diagnosis, the doctor will refer to a sexologist, if needed.

2. Regarding Phimosis, again, Andrologist or Urologist would try to understand whether you need circumcision or frenuloplasty based on the extent to which prepuce can be retracted. Have you tried applying tropical corticosteroid like Hydrocortisone?

3. I would suggest a physical examination and consultation than an online consultation.

PS: This is not a medical advice.

Originally Posted by Atanu [View Original Post]

Hi Guys,

Its not a shame for me to admit but for past 1 year I am having a big problem of PE but not ED. I get erected normally. I am 35 now. I tried seeking out to a doctor via Practo but all that he suggested are common medicines. I am from KOLKATA.

I want to know if anyone had the same problem and any doctor in Kolkata (Ayurvedic / Allopathy / Homeopathy) which solved the problem. I don't want to be dependent on the medcines for lifetime.

Also, I have Phimosis, as per the read the foums. When I am erected, my Foreskin hardly retracts back, I feel its too tight. I tried lubricating gel but no effects.

Kindly PM if you don't want to reveal it in this public forum.

Regards.

AD.

**Atanu** · 01-08-23 11:18

Hi Guys,

Its not a shame for me to admit but for past 1 year I am having a big problem of PE but not ED. I get erected normally. I am 35 now. I tried seeking out to a doctor via Practo but all that he suggested are common medicines. I am from KOLKATA.

I want to know if anyone had the same problem and any doctor in Kolkata (Ayurvedic / Allopathy / Homeopathy) which solved the problem. I don't want to be dependent on the medcines for lifetime.

Also, I have Phimosis, as per the read the foums. When I am erected, my Foreskin hardly retracts back, I feel its too tight. I tried lubricating gel but no effects.

Kindly PM if you don't want to reveal it in this public forum.

Regards.

AD.

**WaterBoy747** · 01-04-23 10:28

Originally Posted by PrinceJoffery [View Original Post]

#link (https://pharmeasy.in/online-medicine...ection-3716666).

I have been vaccinated for HPV by buying Gardasil from pharm easy in India. Prescription is mandatory but there is a free online prescription generation feature also where your prescription is generated after a call with a doctor and you just have to bull shit the doctor on call. I am not even sure if the person on call was a doctor indeed. So all in all it was easy to get the vaccine delivered at home. I was also able to purchase the vaccine from a medical store but it was expensive comapred to online prices.

Additionally I have also consulted a urologist about HPV vaccine and wether I should get it but the consultation was not helpful as he started explaining other STDs and how I should avoid sex with multiple partners. Then later he started giving religious reasons for the same. He did not have the vaccine and said he had never given the vaccine to anyone.

Then I discussed it with a gynecologist and she said that it is absolutely fine to get HPV vaccine even if age is greater than 16 years which is the ideal time to be vaccinated for both males and females. This is also fairly common in India for gynecologist to give HPV vaccine to women even as old as 55 years of age.

Stay safe and get vaccinated.

Is there a particular way to inject or just jab it into your arm and be done with it?