Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

**Grieshman** · 01-23-23 07:02

Hi,

I am putting this question for a friend of mine who is facing problems. 38 M Married recently and has problems with his sex life. He use to masturbate a lot watching porn. Now he is getting erection only when watching porn and nothing much in presence of his wife in spite of all the emotions he has for her. Initial few moths of marriage was find and all good.

**Bangalore Bomb** · 01-23-23 03:34

Hi guys,

While I don't need tabs generally, I want to try it so I can get hard multiple times in a night. Generally I take 4 to 6 hours between sessions and that also with difficultly. Any sufferings on safe tabs.

**RexRhex** · 01-22-23 16:49

Namaste Members / Seniors.

I have a curiosity. Are some / most of you vaccinated against HPV? Or, just going Covered, that's it?

Plus, is it possible to avoid every fluid contact? I mean we finger the lady, then finger can touch any other part of body where we may lick later. Plus, I may like to kiss the girl.

Any insights would be appreciated.

Thanks.

**MyPrivateLife** · 01-19-23 13:19

Thanks a lot sir for your info and support. Felt relaxed now. So we have to take action only when condom broke case or any any cut with blood, correct? Thanks.

Originally Posted by KoolDude28 [View Original Post]

There's a very low possibility of getting sti this way. However for anyone active in this lifestyle it's recommended to have a full std panel check once a year irrespective of whether you have any symptoms or not. You can skip herpes test incase you don't have any symptoms as if you get herpes you won't be able to do anything about it. You have to live with it. So if you don't have any symptoms it will just add stress to your life. However for other stds like gonorrhoea, chlamydia it's better to catch early incase you don't have any symptoms. At the end as long as this particular incident is considered I don't think you have anything to worry about.

**KoolDude28** · 01-19-23 09:08

There's a very low possibility of getting sti this way. However for anyone active in this lifestyle it's recommended to have a full std panel check once a year irrespective of whether you have any symptoms or not. You can skip herpes test incase you don't have any symptoms as if you get herpes you won't be able to do anything about it. You have to live with it. So if you don't have any symptoms it will just add stress to your life. However for other stds like gonorrhoea, chlamydia it's better to catch early incase you don't have any symptoms. At the end as long as this particular incident is considered I don't think you have anything to worry about.

Originally Posted by MyPrivateLife [View Original Post]

Hi Guys.

After finishing sex in missionary position I have seen my condom rolls half way from up but didn't broken. Is there any possibility of STD's. Should I be worried or need doc consultation?

**VikingLord1** · 01-18-23 10:29

Too much of any activity is bad.

Drink some electrolytes and take multivitamin supplements, you should be fine.

Originally Posted by TuffGuyhSome [View Original Post]

Is too much masturbation bad?

These days after masturbating, my knees get weak.

Right now, I am feeling pain near my right ball.

This pain coming in cycles. Last time (November) I checked with urologist, he said some infection and prescribed doxy-st. I used it for a full course, now the ball pain has started again.

Experiencing erection in middle of night and by morning I am getting pain in the right ball.

**KoolDude28** · 01-18-23 04:51

1. Unprotected sex should never be practised unless you are 100% aware of the other person's health status. Period. Doesn't matter what statistics say.

2. If you feel you have been exposed to HIV always go for PEP within first 72 hours of getting exposed. Again doesn't matter what statistics says. It's true that getting HIV even after vaginal sex with a HIV+ patient is very low, but you don't know when bad luck will knock your door. So always practice safe sex.

Consider this situation. You get infected by a sti like gonorrhoea or chlamydia and don't get any symptoms. Yes it's true. Just like herpes you can have gonorrhoea and chlamydia and yet don't have any symptoms. Now you pass that to your wife or girlfriend unknowingly and they get infected and have symptoms. On investigation it will come back to you who infected her. Think about the consequences. So better practice safe sex than being sorry later.

Originally Posted by FordRocker [View Original Post]

I have seen quite a few posts regarding some of the fellow mongers worried about STD specially HIV. Some have gone paranoid and lost sleep about it and some went on Prep after a risky encounter. This actually inspired me to write this post. I felt I need to write about how Risky is to get STD in mongering based on my long mongering experience. I am an Indian origin man in mid forty's with 20+ years of mongering experience in India, USA and Mexico. My total encounters may be around 300 as of today. If I have to classify the encounters based on the risk, this is how it is -.

1. Around 40 (GB Road. Delhi, Budhwar Peth. Pune).

2. Around 20 (WG in India).

3. Around 150 (WG in USA / Mexico).

4. Around 70-80 (SB in USA)..

**Ulalaulala123** · 01-17-23 19:44

Well you will need to rely on your intuition in such cases. Can't trust these bitches. They will lie to keep their business.

If I am suspicious, I usually finish the deed quickly or make some excuse to not continue. Once I faked releasing to get out of the place ASAP. There is very little chance of getting money back after payment.

Originally Posted by PlentyOfJoy [View Original Post]

I have noticed some white stuff on pussy before. The girl said she has applied talcum powder?

What about some patches, small and big on ass / bum? Could that be infection? They look like some people have birth marks means the patch is darker than rest of the skin.

They take off their clothes after payment only. So if we are suspicious how do we get our money back?

**Prince Joffery** · 01-17-23 19:12

Originally Posted by PlentyOfJoy [View Original Post]

First time hearing about HPV. What other STI / STD I can get vaccines for?

As far as I know, HPV is the only STD / STI for which there is a vaccine available.

In some cases HPV can lead to genital warts which are highly contagious and can multiply very quickly. It could be very difficult for all the married mongers to hide genital warts from their wives. These genital warts can take up to 2 years to clear on their own.

**ThoR101** · 01-17-23 18:02

Originally Posted by TuffGuyhSome [View Original Post]

Bumping.

Anyone knows the medical term for this condition. The moment, I touch the ball it pains (bearable) for 3-4 hrs.

It's medically known as epididymal hypertension. This happens to some people after prolonged erection.

**MyPrivateLife** · 01-17-23 11:55

Hi Guys.

After finishing sex in missionary position I have seen my condom rolls half way from up but didn't broken. Is there any possibility of STD's. Should I be worried or need doc consultation?

**TuffGuyhSome** · 01-17-23 08:57

Bumping.

Anyone knows the medical term for this condition. The moment, I touch the ball it pains (bearable) for 3-4 hrs.

Originally Posted by TuffGuyhSome [View Original Post]

Is too much masturbation bad?

These days after masturbating, my knees get weak.

Right now, I am feeling pain near my right ball.

This pain coming in cycles. Last time (November) I checked with urologist, he said some infection and prescribed doxy-st. I used it for a full course, now the ball pain has started again.

Experiencing erection in middle of night and by morning I am getting pain in the right ball.

**PlentyOfJoy** · 01-16-23 18:24

Originally Posted by Ulalaulala123 [View Original Post]

Damn! I didn't realize admin has moved this post from original forum (Pune) to here. Makes sense, although I didn't receive any notification.

Anyway to answer your question, common telltale signs I look out for are: a smelly pussy, any discharge (I think white discharge is considered ok but I usually avoid if I notice any discharge), suspicious discoloration, warts or pimples in or nearby genitals.

Usually I have a look when kissing the legs. The chicks I went BARE with had fully shaved ones, so didn't take much time for pussy validation to complete with a passing score.

I have noticed some white stuff on pussy before. The girl said she has applied talcum powder?

What about some patches, small and big on ass / bum? Could that be infection? They look like some people have birth marks means the patch is darker than rest of the skin.

They take off their clothes after payment only. So if we are suspicious how do we get our money back?

**ThoR101** · 01-16-23 11:46

Do you guys use protection in blowjob?

As far as I know, STD can be transmitted through oral sex.

**Ulalaulala123** · 01-16-23 11:17

Damn! I didn't realize admin has moved this post from original forum (Pune) to here. Makes sense, although I didn't receive any notification.

Anyway to answer your question, common telltale signs I look out for are: a smelly pussy, any discharge (I think white discharge is considered ok but I usually avoid if I notice any discharge), suspicious discoloration, warts or pimples in or nearby genitals.

Usually I have a look when kissing the legs. The chicks I went BARE with had fully shaved ones, so didn't take much time for pussy validation to complete with a passing score.

Originally Posted by PlentyOfJoy [View Original Post]

What are these telltales signs of diseases pussy?

And do we check stealthily or just tell her we want to check?