Stupid shit in Medellin

[Gabacho]

All the sudden, now that the election is getting close, EPM has put all these new plastic garbage containers that look like little dumpsters all over these estrato 1 Barrios.

I've been living here in the barrio for like a year and a half and I have never seen these garbage containers before now (they appeared like 2 weeks ago). It used to be people would just pile their trash bags in designated spots on trash pick up days.

I wonder if it's just a last ditch effort to get more votes for the Upegui campaign as he is the extension of Quintero and the status quo. I say fuck Upegui and Quinteros people for putting up those barriers around botero plaza. Hopefully after Fico Gutierrez wins the election, those stupid barriers will be coming down.

[JjBee62]

I love how you Medellin morons make the definition of girlfriend and sugar baby / daddy personal definitions when they are societal ones. It is very convenient for you when you all are bullshitting yourselves. Of course, the definitions are not mine. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10....31121419875115.

Sugar dating was the most common type of sugar relationship as 31 percent of participants had this type of arrangement. Those involved in sugar dating engaged in a variety of activities with their benefactor including going out to dinner, getting drinks, attending work events, and traveling. Sexual interactions were also a predominant part of the interpersonal relationship script of sugar daters.

One of the most important characteristics of the sugar dating interpersonal relationship script was the expectation for benefactors to provide gifts and monetary benefits to female recipients. The monetary arrangements involved in sugar dating did not follow the "pay-for-play" format that is typically seen with prostitution. Consistent with the general subcultural sugar relationship script, I found that most participants emphasized having some sort of emotional connection and / or genuine liking for their benefactor.

The lives of sugar daters and their benefactors were not usually intertwined, as women typically preferred to keep their sugar relationships separate from their other, more conventional social roles. This stemmed from the general subcultural sugar relationship script that involved the expectation that both parties create and maintain an arrangement that was NSA. This meant that sugar partners were not expected to form committed or monogamous relationships with one another. In fact, most sugar dating relationships were nonmonogamous.

End of link.

So while sugar relationships pretty much default to nonomogamous, the GF / BF ones go the other way. The most common area this rears its ugly head is when a guy founds out his GF has a SD.

Almost all the advice given is to dump the girl when that happens because she is not committed to the guy.

https://dearwendy.com/the-girl-im-da...r-sugar-daddy/

https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/sho....php?t=6274530

I don't care what you all do. I just think it so funny how you Medellin morons swear up and down you are not sugar daddies when you obviously are.

Why do you speak of plurals when you're addressing 1 person? "Medellin morons", "when you are all" only apply when talking to more than 1 person. Who are these other people? I seem to be the only 1 posting on the subject. Is this like my fictitious "crew?

There are many people on this board who live in Medellin, or who spend up to 6 months per year there. Are you saying they are all morons? Other than 2017-2018, when I was there for almost 1 year straight, I've never spent more than 5 weeks per year in Medellin. This year, it was less than 2 weeks.

BTW, have you considered using a Thesaurus? The only insult you can come up with is "Medellin morons", and you use it multiple times in practically every post. A lack of creativity and inventiveness is a sure sign of low cognitive function, not that you don't already exhibit dozens of other sure signs.

Instead of pointing out your deficiencies, I'll just ask 1 question, which you will be incapable of answering. I can say this with 100% certainty because I've asked you 100's of questions and you've never been able to answer a single one.

The question is about your last paragraph. To paraphrase, after changing it from the obviously incorrect plural to singular, you say I'm swearing I'm not a sugar daddy when I obviously am a sugar daddy.

I haven't sworn to anything, I think since 1994, when I had to testify in court. I'm not even insisting that I'm not a sugar daddy. I've merely stated that I have a girlfriend.

The question is a simple one.

What is it about my relationship which makes it obvious that it's a sugar daddy, sugar baby relationship?

I'll wait patiently for you to go off in some obscure direction, quote completely unheard of sources and refer to mysterious groups of people without attempting to address the question.

[JjBee62]

"Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships" is pretty interesting and entertaining read on the topic.

Eg there is tribe that practices a group insemination, all men have sex with a woman publicly so the father is unknown by design, and the child will have many father-uncles to rely on.

If I remember correctly there are also explained biological defaults of the women -- basically fuck as many men as possible preferably one after another (and scream loud while being fucked to advertise readiness to other males), and let the best sperm win (which is why part of the semen is actually spermicide and shape of the penis evolved to clean out the pervious male semen).

Mosuo culture in China practices interesting arrangement today as well:

Mosuo culture the men and women have the ability to make love anytime and with anybody. Mosuo men and women are free to have multiple partners, and to initiate or break off relationships when they want.

Usually In the Mosuo culture when the girl reached age 13 - 14 or when she became mature, she will get her own bedroom. The special thing about this bedroom that it has two doors. One will open to the entire house and the second door will open to the street. This room to have a privacy and freedom to have sex.

Mosuo women they dont get worried if they got pregnant because the uncle, brother and mother will take care of the child. Usually they don't know who's the father and most of the father have no responsibility to raise a child.

On a somewhat related note, there's some interesting notes in sexual mores of the Native American tribes encountered by the Lewis and Clark Expedition.

Many of the tribes offered their women to the members of the expedition, with the men vying to get the strongest men to have sex with their wives. In particular demand was York, the black slave owned by William Clark.

Something else of interest, at least to me, in "Experiment in Autobiography", H. G. Wells wrote about a practice in Victorian England which he encountered. For those who don't know, during the reign of Queen Victoria sexuality was repressed. No sex before marriage, no sex except for the purpose of procreation, no public displays, even words like breast were considered taboo.

It's been a long time, so I might not get this exactly correct. Wells, as a young man was boarding at a house. There was also a single woman boarding at the same house. During a certain time, once per week, they were encouraged to engage in sexual play (without having sex) with each other. As in many other things, Wells was quite the rebel when it came to sex. It's an interesting insight into the waning years of the 19th century and the beginning of the 20th.

Here's something closer to our time. Thanks to a wild uncle who wrote a lot of letters to his girlfriend and later wife (who kept them all), and their storage in what was my bedroom for 9 months, I'm well informed about the practice of swinging dating back to the mid 1950's. More recently, between 1997 and 2010 I was a frequent participant in swinging groups, clubs and parties, with a few different girlfriends.

While it's not publicly acceptable, it's privately quite popular. From small Bible belt towns to big liberal cities, it's going on all the time. Wife swapping, orgies, gang bangs, threesomes and much more, are all happening right around the corner.

I've met cops, teachers, preachers, lawyers, and people from all types of backgrounds happily exploring alternatives to basic monogamy. All too often, the people condemning such practices get caught literally with their pants down, doing all the things they preach against.

[Gabacho]

You are the mother fucking bullshitter and you have been polluting this thread by talking a lot of shit and practicing what you preach since I have been posting about Colombia. Men in general are not monogamous nor are girls. In nearly all types of relationships men and girl enter into monogamy is the standard but not the practice. What many men do is practice non-ethical non-monogamy. I practice ethical non-monogamy.

The problem is that you (any many others of your type) want to take the ideas of your cultural background (you know the original pussy colonizers) and apply them to cultures where they do not apply or accept them. That makes you an International Moron and the dumbest of the dumb mother fuckers. Because you are posting about monogamy in a country where girls except that they are not going to get it from even their husbands. They may not like it but the majority of them make the trade off in order to get the financial security that come with the societal institution of marriage.

But you do. You want to force your views down the throats of others by engaging in personal attacks. Read Man Law 101 you DMF!.

https://www.frontiersin.org/articles...019.00230/full

https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/...s/70824743007/

"Most male mammals do not look after their offspring; humans are an exception in this respect. Like most mammals, humans are not strictly monogamic. A tendency to social monogamy has evolved, however, and is subject to strong reinforcement by cultural factors, particularly religion".

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12685340/

Yes, I can google and post links too. But I am not making the same logical fallacies are you are. Namely: Appeal to authority. Everyone fuck this dumb mother fucker with the handle of Elvis. Just DOWHATCHA like!

Fuertes declaraciones sub-zero. You obviously don't know shit about you are talking about and have demonstratated that in your posts. Just today in the main Medellin thread you advised people to use money exchanges over atms and to not worry if they lose $50 usd because they already paid for their passports and plane tickets.

You're a real piece of work with your stupid ass quotes like "pussy is pussy"and "how you like me now".

Elvis has more expertise about Colombia than you will ever have. So do us all a favor and just stop posting unless if you actually have something valuable to contribute because all the shit talking is just annoying.

[JohnnieCash]

...monogamy...

"Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships" is pretty interesting and entertaining read on the topic.

Eg there is tribe that practices a group insemination, all men have sex with a woman publicly so the father is unknown by design, and the child will have many father-uncles to rely on.

If I remember correctly there are also explained biological defaults of the women -- basically fuck as many men as possible preferably one after another (and scream loud while being fucked to advertise readiness to other males), and let the best sperm win (which is why part of the semen is actually spermicide and shape of the penis evolved to clean out the pervious male semen).

Mosuo culture in China practices interesting arrangement today as well:

Mosuo culture the men and women have the ability to make love anytime and with anybody. Mosuo men and women are free to have multiple partners, and to initiate or break off relationships when they want.

Usually In the Mosuo culture when the girl reached age 13 - 14 or when she became mature, she will get her own bedroom. The special thing about this bedroom that it has two doors. One will open to the entire house and the second door will open to the street. This room to have a privacy and freedom to have sex.

Mosuo women they dont get worried if they got pregnant because the uncle, brother and mother will take care of the child. Usually they don't know who's the father and most of the father have no responsibility to raise a child.

[SubCmdr]

I love how you Medellin morons make the definition of girlfriend and sugar baby / daddy personal definitions when they are societal ones. It is very convenient for you when you all are bullshitting yourselves.

You are the mother fucking bullshitter and you have been polluting this thread by talking a lot of shit and practicing what you preach since I have been posting about Colombia. Men in general are not monogamous nor are girls. In nearly all types of relationships men and girl enter into monogamy is the standard but not the practice. What many men do is practice non-ethical non-monogamy. I practice ethical non-monogamy.

The problem is that you (any many others of your type) want to take the ideas of your cultural background (you know the original pussy colonizers) and apply them to cultures where they do not apply or accept them. That makes you an International Moron and the dumbest of the dumb mother fuckers. Because you are posting about monogamy in a country where girls except that they are not going to get it from even their husbands. They may not like it but the majority of them make the trade off in order to get the financial security that come with the societal institution of marriage.

I don't care what you all do. I just think it so funny how you Medellin morons swear up and down you are not sugar daddies when you obviously are.

But you do. You want to force your views down the throats of others by engaging in personal attacks. Read Man Law 101 you DMF!.

https://www.frontiersin.org/articles...019.00230/full

https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/...s/70824743007/

"Most male mammals do not look after their offspring; humans are an exception in this respect. Like most mammals, humans are not strictly monogamic. A tendency to social monogamy has evolved, however, and is subject to strong reinforcement by cultural factors, particularly religion".

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12685340/

Yes, I can google and post links too. But I am not making the same logical fallacies are you are. Namely: Appeal to authority. Everyone fuck this dumb mother fucker with the handle of Elvis. Just DOWHATCHA like!

[Elvis 2008]

What you said is that for a real relationship it needs to only be about money. Granted, you change what you say more often than most people change their underwear. So, from your most recently stated position, being emotionally committed means it's not a relationship.

I spend my money on many things. It's mine. I earned it. Daddy didn't give it to me. My girlfriend has no say on how I spend it. If she is busy doing other things and I feel like fucking someone else, it's my penis. She doesn't control that either. If I take the other girl to dinner, I'm spending my time, which is mine alone, my money, which is mine alone, to fuck with my penis, which is mine alone..

I love how you Medellin morons make the definition of girlfriend and sugar baby / daddy personal definitions when they are societal ones. It is very convenient for you when you all are bullshitting yourselves. Of course, the definitions are not mine. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10....31121419875115.

Sugar dating was the most common type of sugar relationship as 31 percent of participants had this type of arrangement. Those involved in sugar dating engaged in a variety of activities with their benefactor including going out to dinner, getting drinks, attending work events, and traveling. Sexual interactions were also a predominant part of the interpersonal relationship script of sugar daters.

One of the most important characteristics of the sugar dating interpersonal relationship script was the expectation for benefactors to provide gifts and monetary benefits to female recipients. The monetary arrangements involved in sugar dating did not follow the "pay-for-play" format that is typically seen with prostitution. Consistent with the general subcultural sugar relationship script, I found that most participants emphasized having some sort of emotional connection and / or genuine liking for their benefactor.

The lives of sugar daters and their benefactors were not usually intertwined, as women typically preferred to keep their sugar relationships separate from their other, more conventional social roles. This stemmed from the general subcultural sugar relationship script that involved the expectation that both parties create and maintain an arrangement that was NSA. This meant that sugar partners were not expected to form committed or monogamous relationships with one another. In fact, most sugar dating relationships were nonmonogamous.

End of link.

So while sugar relationships pretty much default to nonomogamous, the GF / BF ones go the other way. The most common area this rears its ugly head is when a guy founds out his GF has a SD.

Almost all the advice given is to dump the girl when that happens because she is not committed to the guy.

https://dearwendy.com/the-girl-im-da...r-sugar-daddy/

https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/sho....php?t=6274530

I don't care what you all do. I just think it so funny how you Medellin morons swear up and down you are not sugar daddies when you obviously are.

[MoonShot]

If you are dealing with online girls visiting you, some have mentioned that they tend to be late. If you tell her to meet you at 8 pm, she may show up at 9 pm or later. Very rarely will she show up at 8 pm but if she gets there before 8:30 pm, it's like she's on time. Someone mentioned a technique that I have been using, setting the date an hour earlier than you want and then chances are that she will show when you actually want. So if you want her to show up at 8 pm, ask her to meet you at 7 pm and it is likely that she will show up closer to 8 pm. Now, every once in a while, a girl screws everything up and actually shows up on time, but that is only once in a while.

Some may say it is rude but it is more that time is very casual here and the girls treat these meetings as social events even though it is really a business transaction.

Now, I do get girls who are very late, and I just tell them it is too late for me and cancel the date if they have not left yet and it is already one hour past. Usually they beg you to change your mind, and then they actually make more of an effort to get going.

[Haxagonus]

A little further on this so others can better understand what your saying is that Colombians try to avoid confrontation, so instead of being blunt or speaking their minds, they will say one thing to avoid confrontation and do something else which is hard to accept and something you cannot really change when dealing with Colombians which I struggle with at times.

Another cultural item here which I find maddening in step with what you have brought up is communication.

Typically they will say they will meet at a certain time whether they can make it or not, and then when they don't make it, they don't even contact you to tell you there not going to make it or advise you if they are going to be late.

This is probably one of my biggest frustrations dealing with Colombians, and for them, it's totally normal in their culture.

And probably the biggest frustration mongers have here myself included.

On many occasions over the years I have had to discipline some Chicas for showing up late by giving them a deadline to arrive, and if not blow them off, and typically after they miss a payday, they become more punctual.

I love Colombians. All of them excerpt the mean rolos. 2 things I don't like about the culture is when you ask for the check at a restaurant hey only bring the receipt and then they leave for 3 hours and don't bring the dataphono so you can pay. It's like broski I said bring the check so I can pay not so I could admire it.

And the other thing is when you go to the store like a clothing store and you're just there to look at things. The girl ornguy whi works st the store just follows you sround and looks at you while you look at the items. Its like broski can inlook at the items in piece I dint need your helo and I'm not going to steal anything.

Aside from that I love paisas. The tardiness thikg is kinda whack too tbh but I learned that when you tell then be somewhere at 4 to them it means ok got it ill leave my house at 4. So I judt tell them to come an hour before were supposed to meet and I get there on time and it works. And if they are early, in another timeline they wouldve been late LOL.

[TjBrazil]

Pursuing regular girls is a lot of work. Forget the time is money excuse people are using. We are lazy. It's like exercise. People always say they don't have time to exercise. That's a lie. We all have 10 minutes before bed to do sit-ups pushups and jumping jacks. The reason we don't do it, is because we hate exercise. I didn't start mongering until my 30's, and if I had to go back in time, I would have started at 18. LOL.

[Surfer500]

In Colombia almost everyone will agree with you. It's one of the things in the culture, they hate directly contradicting anyone. It can be maddening because someone agrees to meet at a certain time, or do a certain thing, but it never happens.

A little further on this so others can better understand what your saying is that Colombians try to avoid confrontation, so instead of being blunt or speaking their minds, they will say one thing to avoid confrontation and do something else which is hard to accept and something you cannot really change when dealing with Colombians which I struggle with at times.

Another cultural item here which I find maddening in step with what you have brought up is communication.

Typically they will say they will meet at a certain time whether they can make it or not, and then when they don't make it, they don't even contact you to tell you there not going to make it or advise you if they are going to be late.

This is probably one of my biggest frustrations dealing with Colombians, and for them, it's totally normal in their culture.

And probably the biggest frustration mongers have here myself included.

On many occasions over the years I have had to discipline some Chicas for showing up late by giving them a deadline to arrive, and if not blow them off, and typically after they miss a payday, they become more punctual.

[SubCmdr]

Let's get back to basics:

Man law 101

No real man is telling another real man how to spend his hard earned money or who to fuck.

Pussy is Pussy

All you need to do is go to a few different countries fuck the girls there to realize this. Now if you are the type of person that gets hung up on the pussy life support system, if you like it then I love it.

I have girlfriends in three different countries. I help them all out with money. And because they are my girlfriends I talk to them. I do not talk to prostitutes, I give them money to gain access to their mouth, pussy and ass without have to do that. And I am not going to let anyone hear on ISG or anyone that actually exists in real life to define my relationships for me.

Only wage slaves believe that time is money. I am an emancipated wage slave so I know this personally. Those who are financially literate know money is money. And you use money to make more money, not your time. Because your time is limited. Everyone gets the same 24 hours in a day, no matter how much or how little money that they have.

[JjBee62]

Obv some people agree w you but I put it to you that's its a biased sample. People that agree w you would comment to you. But likewise I see many comments from newbies to Colombia that the women are stunning. It odd don't you think, that there is no country in the world where mongers would say the standard of girls is getting higher. Not even spain or usa, where these millions of beautiful chicas have sposdely gone to.

In Colombia almost everyone will agree with you. It's one of the things in the culture, they hate directly contradicting anyone. It can be maddening because someone agrees to meet at a certain time, or do a certain thing, but it never happens.

[JustTK]

Strange. The foreigners and locals I spoke with have all agreed with me. Obviously you have not been reading the posts here that verify my assessment that the quality in street girls, spas / casa, and Lleras / Pobaldo are all down.
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Do you remember the first time someone bought you a box of assorted flavour xhocolates? It was quite amazing hey? All those great flavours to try out. What a great present!

But by the 4th or 5th time many folks will be thinking, oh no, not more choclates! Can't they offer me smthg else? Boring!

[JustTK]

Newbies do not know the before and after.

Some of the hot girls disappeared through food.
Many Western countries are marrying overseas girls and is increasing every day.

The incomes of many countries are increasing .

I never said newbies would know the before and after. I simply said they often find the women stunning, and this supports my overall claim.

Agreed that obesity is a problem worldwide but not at 5% per year. And it effects young people less, and the physically active sex workers less. Plus some guys prefer girls w some flesh. And very few girls turn from stunners to obese and unacceptable. Often its the puglies anyway.

Marrying- this is normal in the career of anyone. Its nothing new.

Incomes increase, so do costs. It has nothing to do with the percieved beauty of the people.