Stupid shit in Medellin

[JjBee62]

Yes but in the PM he didn't say he wanted to meet me at the Aranjuez Exito or offer a different place to meet. He also didn't say what day or time he wanted to meet either. All he said was this is my phone number you can contact me via WhatsApp.

And what I said originally and the reason why I chose that particular place was a reference to when I told miamiboy to meet me there back in June but he declined.

What I said was "I'll meet you anytime you want maybe you have more balls than miamiboy and want to meet me at Exito Aranjuez".

Originally I chose that location out of convenience, I wasn't thinking it was a place that someone would be afraid to go to. I often go there to use the ATM when I'm pressed on time and can't make it all the way down to Centro to use Davivienda. I've never had a problem there at all. I do some shopping there sometimes as well and even eat empanadas from the street vendors there outside and never once have had a problem it feels even safer than Centro in my experience.

Again subcmdr never specifically said "I want to meet you at such and such place at such and such time" all he did was give me his contact info. So how is he 100% correct?

He's 100% correct because once you said you would meet him, the onus is on you. He gave you the option of picking a date and time, or of discussing your differences privately. Whatsapp is definitely better than the PM system here. If you changed your mind about meeting him, you could have simply replied to his PM. That would have ended it.

To me it's about standing behind what you say. Of course people often get caught up in the moment and say things they don't mean to say. In those cases, you can either bite the bullet and follow through, or you can calm down and let the other person know you said something you didn't intend to back up.

That's just my opinion on the matter and the related matters which pop up here quite often.

Most visitors to Medellin know only Poblado, Laureles and El Centro, and half are afraid of El Centro. Personally, I'd meet up just about anywhere, as long as it's at a reasonable hour, but I've ventured further out than a lot of guys.

[Mr Enternational]

If pussy is pussy, why do you even have a GF? She is not special if pussy is pussy.

Please tell us you are over there getting high. If not then your only excuse must be that you are stupid as fuck.

Pussy is pussy when you are just fucking strange. Having a girlfriend says that you are not only with her for fucking. Unlike you, who the only interest you have ever mentioned about your girl is good sex, normal people enjoy other qualities about their mates and THAT makes them special. Nobody gets all giddy like a high school girl because they are having sex with their girlfriend except you. For everybody else it is a normal thing that comes with the territory. The same as we can be eating dinner with our girlfriend, we can be having sex with our girlfriend. No special assembly required or kudos needed and especially no rent needing to be paid.

I do not give a fuck how or what a hooker is doing, stalking them all over instagram and facebook and shit like many guys. But I am interested in my girlfriend. I want to know how her day went and the shit that may be bothering her and the shit that made her smile. That is why she is special. When pussy is pussy I am paying and out of the door. I don't love them hos, hoes, hores, hoars, or however you want to spell it.

And most people whose name is not Elvis realize that their girlfriend's pussy is not magic and feels no different than other pussies that they may have fucked in their lifetime, just like shaking your boss's hand was pretty much the same as shaking your pastor's hand. It is a fucking hand and everyone has one. Do you want to tell us that hands are not hands and there are some that are more special than others?

[Huacho]

If you live with pussy is pussy mentality, you fuck anything that moves. Ugly, cute, fat, skinny, etc doesn't matter, anything with a hole works.

The one does not follow from the other. Even if one agrees that pussy is pussy, the face and body surrounding that pussy still matter. For example, I'd rather fuck ugly than fat. That would be true even if I thought their pussies were fungible.

[MiamiBoy1]

Now that the usual suspects are frothing at the mouth I'll explain.

People are people, men are men, women are women, toes are toes. The value of a person is not limited by any particular part of the person, nor is it defined by some minor detail. A black person isn't of less value than a white person. A tall person isn't better than a short one, unless you're Randy Newman.

Pussy is just one, relatively minor part of a woman, as long as she has one. Would you marry a fat or ugly girl simply because you think her pussy is the greatest? Would that pussy overcome personality defects? I hope not. As long as it's clean and not in danger of prolapse, it's not that important.

Do you consider all women just pussy? That's just sad. If not, then pussy is pussy, because there are 1,000 other factors which define whether or not a woman is attractive to you.

To each their own on this, but most guys, at some point in their life, just want someone to fuck. Just a wham, bam, thank you ma'am and out the door. At 2 am, when you decide you just want someone to fuck you and then fuck off, are you really going to spend months or even years trying to find the perfect lifetime companion? No. At least no for every honest man. In that situation, it's either the best available, the quickest available, or you go home alone and punch the clown. In other words, for that situation, pussy is pussy.

To beat the dead horse one more time, just change it up. Gallbladders are gallbladders. Ears are ears. Perineums are perineums. Recognizing that pussy is pussy says nothing about the type or attractiveness of the women you choose to spend your time with.

If you live with pussy is pussy mentality, you fuck anything that moves. Ugly, cute, fat, skinny, etc doesn't matter, anything with a hole works. And if you can fuck anything that moves, congrats, you have low standards (or no standards at all). And if you have no standards, then you don't need to invest time, effort, money etc to find the right person to date. And getting laid is even easier. Just pick a fuglie who also has low or no standards, and get laid.

[Igor54]

Now that the usual suspects are frothing at the mouth I'll explain.

People are people, men are men, women are women, toes are toes. The value of a person is not limited by any particular part of the person, nor is it defined by some minor detail. A black person isn't of less value than a white person. A tall person isn't better than a short one, unless you're Randy Newman.

Pussy is just one, relatively minor part of a woman, as long as she has one. Would you marry a fat or ugly girl simply because you think her pussy is the greatest? Would that pussy overcome personality defects? I hope not. As long as it's clean and not in danger of prolapse, it's not that important.

Do you consider all women just pussy? That's just sad. If not, then pussy is pussy, because there are 1,000 other factors which define whether or not a woman is attractive to you.

To each their own on this, but most guys, at some point in their life, just want someone to fuck. Just a wham, bam, thank you ma'am and out the door. At 2 am, when you decide you just want someone to fuck you and then fuck off, are you really going to spend months or even years trying to find the perfect lifetime companion? No. At least no for every honest man. In that situation, it's either the best available, the quickest available, or you go home alone and punch the clown. In other words, for that situation, pussy is pussy.

To beat the dead horse one more time, just change it up. Gallbladders are gallbladders. Ears are ears. Perineums are perineums. Recognizing that pussy is pussy says nothing about the type or attractiveness of the women you choose to spend your time with.

People have different needs and wants. Everything depends on what you want. Some people need a p* other people need a "Mom". There are people who need something else. If you are looking for a wife among prostitutes, the problem is, she will forever remain a prostitute, you cannot change her. But you can always try, Good luck.

[Gabacho]

Meeting at Exito Aranjuez is like meeting at Wal-mart, and on top of that, not in the nicest part of town. Who the fuck meets at Wal-mart? So weird. You should have offered to meet for brunch at Marriott, I would be more inclined to accept your offer if I was in town back in June (I left in May, came back in September, then left again).

Actually not really a weird place to meet. When I lived in Tijuana many people would use the DAX department store on la tercera and constitucion as a meeting place because of its central location.

Also there is a big huge park called Parque Aranjuez right there in front of the exito where people can be seen chilling drinking beers like all the time. For me coming from Santo Domingo it's a centralized location. I can understand tho if your coming from Laureles or Poblado it's not really a central location to you.

Brunch at the Marriott? Lmao a little overbudget for me bro. I don't maximize the length of my stays in Colombia by spending money at expensive restaurants or hotels. I live in an estrato 1 barrio and pay $100 usd a month for rent (now it's more like $120 LOL).

Anyways I'm more of a Presto man myself LOL.

If you want to meet next time your here tho if I'm here at the same time I'll buy you a Pilsen and you can try to convince me why SA chicas are so much better and maybe I'll show you some of my barrio chicas who I didn't find in Centro.

-Gabacho.

[Huacho]

Meeting at Exito Aranjuez is like meeting at Wal-mart, and on top of that, not in the nicest part of town. Who the fuck meets at Wal-mart? So weird. You should have offered to meet for brunch at Marriott, I would be more inclined to accept your offer if I was in town back in June (I left in May, came back in September, then left again).

Um, you missed the point completely. It wasn't a lunch invitation.

[Elvis 2008]

Now that the usual suspects are frothing at the mouth I'll explain.

I think you confuse that with people laughing at how fucked in the head you three are. If pussy is pussy, why do you even have a GF? She is not special if pussy is pussy.

You three are just jealous hacks who cannot keep up. I mention getting my ass licked and dating beauty queens and you all freak out.

"I am getting that too, Elvis. ".

Yes, the law of supply and demand does not apply to pussy and time equals money do not apply to you, Mr. E, and Subcommander as well. What a crazy crew you have!

[Mr Enternational]

There was also an incident several years ago, if I remember correctly, which resulted in several accounts, all associated PMs and posts being deleted. Apparently, some guys were using ISG (or USASG) to exchange information on illegal activities.

Getting your account deleted is easy. If this doesn't get you banned, it will probably get you an email from Jackson or one of the admins.

You are talking about David 33 who is in a Peruvian prison for probably the rest of his life. But that was in the old days before the guy you mentioned (he would always respond to emails) sold the site. Remember he had zero tolerance for anything other than heterosexuality. Now it is fine to post experiences with the same sex and there are also banner ads catering to such on this site.

[MiamiBoy1]

Yes but in the PM he didn't say he wanted to meet me at the Aranjuez Exito or offer a different place to meet. He also didn't say what day or time he wanted to meet either. All he said was this is my phone number you can contact me via WhatsApp.

And what I said originally and the reason why I chose that particular place was a reference to when I told miamiboy to meet me there back in June but he declined.

What I said was "I'll meet you anytime you want maybe you have more balls than miamiboy and want to meet me at Exito Aranjuez".

Originally I chose that location out of convenience, I wasn't thinking it was a place that someone would be afraid to go to. I often go there to use the ATM when I'm pressed on time and can't make it all the way down to Centro to use Davivienda. I've never had a problem there at all. I do some shopping there sometimes as well and even eat empanadas from the street vendors there outside and never once have had a problem it feels even safer than Centro in my experience.

Again subcmdr never specifically said "I want to meet you at such and such place at such and such time" all he did was give me his contact info. So how is he 100% correct?

Meeting at Exito Aranjuez is like meeting at Wal-mart, and on top of that, not in the nicest part of town. Who the fuck meets at Wal-mart? So weird. You should have offered to meet for brunch at Marriott, I would be more inclined to accept your offer if I was in town back in June (I left in May, came back in September, then left again).

[Gabacho]

I didn't know this was a problem. If I linked to her mileroticos page it would have her whatsapp number. I did find her picture.

Its not a problem, I reviewed the FAQ section just this morning and it doesn't specifically have a rule against posting a phone number it just says email address, spam, links to competing websites. The problem is that when I posted a phone number my post got deleted and when you posted a phone number it was fine. That is the problem. The fact that the admin are biased towards me and cherry pick what they allow me to post even if it is not violating any rule.

[Gabacho]

I have no dog in this fight. However, on this one SubCmdr is 100% correct. When you said you'll meet at the Aranjuez Exito any time, his only options were to publicly decline, ignore your statement, or send a PM giving contact information. Is he supposed to just show up at the Exito and start asking everyone "eres Gabacho?

He sent the PM and gave alternate contact information. Makes sense. It gives you the option of contacting him and either discussing your differences privately, or setting up a time and place to meet in person. And that's exactly what you should have done.

Why pick Aranjuez? Other than its convenience to you. Was it because you figured nobody would be brave enough to venture there? If you're serious, there are hundreds of bars, coffee shops or other public spots to sit down with another person and discuss your differences, all more easily accessible for people who have less experience in Medellin.

I'm speaking from experience. I've met up with guys in Medellin who I've had a prior beef with (or the appropriate vegan beef substitute). Turns out, once you get off the keyboard and away from the internet chest bumping, most guys turn out to be alright.

Yes but in the PM he didn't say he wanted to meet me at the Aranjuez Exito or offer a different place to meet. He also didn't say what day or time he wanted to meet either. All he said was this is my phone number you can contact me via WhatsApp.

And what I said originally and the reason why I chose that particular place was a reference to when I told miamiboy to meet me there back in June but he declined.

What I said was "I'll meet you anytime you want maybe you have more balls than miamiboy and want to meet me at Exito Aranjuez".

Originally I chose that location out of convenience, I wasn't thinking it was a place that someone would be afraid to go to. I often go there to use the ATM when I'm pressed on time and can't make it all the way down to Centro to use Davivienda. I've never had a problem there at all. I do some shopping there sometimes as well and even eat empanadas from the street vendors there outside and never once have had a problem it feels even safer than Centro in my experience.

Again subcmdr never specifically said "I want to meet you at such and such place at such and such time" all he did was give me his contact info. So how is he 100% correct?

[C Builder]

This post I am quoting from the main medellin thread is proof that the admins of this site are biased. I posted a screenshot with a phone number and my entire post gets deleted but yet this guy posts a phone number and it is all fine and dandy?.

I didn't know this was a problem. If I linked to her mileroticos page it would have her whatsapp number. I did find her picture.

[Gabacho]

This is my understanding of how admins make decisions about specific posts and members.

1. When you first join your posts all require admin approval. After a set period of time and a certain number of posts, you come off the moderation list and your posts will immediately appear.

2. If you post something which violates the forum rules (or which an admin decides violates the rules), the post is either redacted (posted, with all content removed with an admin message), or deleted.

3. If you violate the rules your posts are placed back on moderation (requiring admin approval).

4. Too many violations in a short period of time can result in your account being banned.

5. Some serious violations can result in an immediate ban. Posting an email address, or making a credible threat are 2 of the serious violations.

I've been on moderation for 4 or 5 years now and at least once was close to being banned. If you posted a photo with another members phone number, consider yourself lucky you didn't get banned.

Just for the record, at least once before you offered to meet someone to settle your differences and they refused. When you call someone out, be aware that some guys will call your bluff.

I think they don't want to ban me because even through all this bullshit beef, I do post valuable information from time to time. I even have newbies in my PMs asking me for information. Just last night some guy PM'd me asking me for information about Santa Fe in Bogota.

Back in June I had gotten really pissed off and even messaged the admins asking to have my account deleted, I was really that pissed off. I messaged them thru PMs and on the form for reporting a post various times over several days asking for my account to be deleted and they completely ignored my request. Finally after a few days I decided I didn't want my account deleted after all.

And even if they do ban people what is to stop them from making a new account using a different email. For example how LoveItHere69 made a new account with the username LoveItHere?

[JjBee62]

Now that the usual suspects are frothing at the mouth I'll explain.

People are people, men are men, women are women, toes are toes. The value of a person is not limited by any particular part of the person, nor is it defined by some minor detail. A black person isn't of less value than a white person. A tall person isn't better than a short one, unless you're Randy Newman.

Pussy is just one, relatively minor part of a woman, as long as she has one. Would you marry a fat or ugly girl simply because you think her pussy is the greatest? Would that pussy overcome personality defects? I hope not. As long as it's clean and not in danger of prolapse, it's not that important.

Do you consider all women just pussy? That's just sad. If not, then pussy is pussy, because there are 1,000 other factors which define whether or not a woman is attractive to you.

To each their own on this, but most guys, at some point in their life, just want someone to fuck. Just a wham, bam, thank you ma'am and out the door. At 2 am, when you decide you just want someone to fuck you and then fuck off, are you really going to spend months or even years trying to find the perfect lifetime companion? No. At least no for every honest man. In that situation, it's either the best available, the quickest available, or you go home alone and punch the clown. In other words, for that situation, pussy is pussy.

To beat the dead horse one more time, just change it up. Gallbladders are gallbladders. Ears are ears. Perineums are perineums. Recognizing that pussy is pussy says nothing about the type or attractiveness of the women you choose to spend your time with.