Stupid shit in Medellin

[SubCmdr]

Girlfriend: a regular female companion with whom a person has a romantic or sexual relationship..

I do not see any mention monogamy in the definition of what it means to have a girlfriend.

[Elvis 2008]

Girlfriend is an easy to understand label. It is somewhat ambiguous.

LOL. This is not just mental masturbation. It is contradictory mental masturbation.

It doesn't tell you whether or not we live together, or even if we have sex. However, it does tell you that we are together, on some level. Fuck buddy is disrespectful, often unacceptable, depending on the company. Friend with benefits is awkward. Just calling her a friend says there's no romantic connection. Girlfriend, is the easiest understood and accurate term.

Thank you for educating us on the vocabulary of the world. / sarc.

This is another situation where you don't get to make the rules. You're welcome to refer to anyone however you see fit.

Yeah, MiamiBoy is the problem. He is just not as enlightened as you. Yes, by all means, you get to define what a GF is. Tell you what. How about you tell your "girlfriend" that you are fucking hookers on the side and see if she agrees with your definition? My bet is we won't need to debate the term at all after that.

[Elvis 2008]

I'm assuming, and maybe I'm wrong, that if a girl is hot enough to work as a stripper, and is at shake shack, than she doesn't want to be in the sex industry. I assume they have some kind of moral compass that just wants to make an honest living as they say.

You think a woman would rather be flipping burgers, being hit on by managers, screamed at by people than making way more money and being wined and dined on the town? It just takes one girl friend of hers cashing in to change her mind.

The girl would be a top earner easily. I've seen some real pigs at strip clubs. Aren't most hookers or strippers molested or raped when younger.

Yeah if only she could find a place where she could meet men who did not molest women and rape them? If only someone would set up a website like that where the men are known and sometimes even screened.

[Mr Enternational]

And both didn't know shit about you fucking others. Just like you GF doesn't know shit about your sexual encounters when you are not together.

A few years back I was dating a chick in Thailand. One morning when she was leaving my place, she rode the elevator down with one of my neighbors. The guy was either European or American. When she got home she called me and said when they got out of the elevator that guy said that you have a different girl over every night. I said and what did you say? She said I told him that you should because you are a handsome guy.

Another story. I was in Brazil with a lawyer I used to date. That morning I had to go to the airport early so I told her to just turn in the key when she leaves. A chick I was also dating who owned a salon insisted on taking me to the airport but I told her no. Well she came anyway, but I was already at the airport. And guess who came to the door? To this day I am still friends with both of them and occasionally fuck them and we still have a laugh about that day.

I have plenty of stories along these same lines. Not everyone freaks out the way you assume they should.

[Elvis 2008]

You have to be a damn fool to let someone go who is taking care of you just because they fucked someone else.

How would you know?

Just as normal as a DUMMY coming on a hooker board everyday when he has an "elite" girlfriend. She must not be too elite since he can not stay away from this board.-

LOL. I know it is not normal. I also know when I was fucking hookers I was not a law abiding citizen. What is so stupid about you is you engage in morally deviant behavior and are so fucked in the head that you call yourself normal. Mr. E, you are anything but normal.

[Gabacho]

https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-34290981

See JjBee62 is way more intelligent than Miamiboy1. The stuff he says is backed up by scientific evidence! I always could tell JJBee was smarter than alot of the others who post here. It definitely can be seen in the intellectuality of his posts.

[CheckMate1]

I'm going to first go over some niche examples. Until around the 7th week of development embryos have no gender. They are neither male nor female. The primary sexual characteristics begin to form after that. However, there is a rare condition where both genders develop. The result is a person of ambiguous gender. Look up hermaphroditism. There is another rare condition in which primary sexual characteristics don't develop until puberty. A child who was listed as female at birth will, during puberty, develop a penis and testicles, or a boy will develop a vagina.

https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-34290981

[MiamiBoy1]

Both knew that I was not going to settle down with them.

And both didn't know shit about you fucking others. Just like you GF doesn't know shit about your sexual encounters when you are not together.

[MiamiBoy1]

Do you decide what is normal?

Is your behavior of fucking prostitutes normal? Would you detail your exploits to family and friends during the time you spend with them?

If you cannot not, then maybe you should reexamine your position. No, actually you do not as it is your just your opinion.

Why would I discuss my sexual life in details with my family and friends? Isn't it supposed to be an intimate topic? Doesn't matter if it is p4 p or not. When / if I start a relationship, my girlfriend will be introduced to family and friends. But until then, my encounters are not their business. I share some stories only with a select few of my bros, who are like-minded individuals.

Once again, my behavior of fucking prostitutes doesn't hurt anyone, because I'm single. And I rarely do hardcore pros these days.

[Gabacho]

Good example of centro rats insulting pobaldo guys:

I thought we were cool as of recently but now you are talking shit to me again. I didn't say anything to you at all but yet you feel the need to quote my post and chime in talking shit. You and your buddy SlantedEyes (Aka SandyNYC) need to shut the fuck up.

If you aren't going to contribute useful information then you keep your fucking mouth shut. It perhaps you need someone to shut it for you?

[MiamiBoy1]

Now to respond to the other part of this.

Define committed relationship.

Years ago I had 2 regular women and a lot of irregular ones. One lived in New York and the other in Arizona. Both had jobs, and supported themselves. Both knew that I was not going to settle down with them. When I was headed towards 1 of them, I would let her know and I would stay with her, whether just 1 night or several days. We would go out, do things, have sex and behave like a couple. When I left, they went back to their normal lives. My commitment to each was to give them whatever time I had available while I was there. They committed to the same thing. While I was away we kept in contact.

If I was in a conversation with someone and the subject came up, I might refer to them in different ways. The most respectful way, would be as "a girlfriend. ".

Girlfriend is an easy to understand label. It is somewhat ambiguous. It doesn't tell you whether or not we live together, or even if we have sex. However, it does tell you that we are together, on some level. Fuck buddy is disrespectful, often unacceptable, depending on the company. Friend with benefits is awkward. Just calling her a friend says there's no romantic connection. Girlfriend, is the easiest understood and accurate term.

This is another situation where you don't get to make the rules. You're welcome to refer to anyone however you see fit. I'll give you an example. Just a few days ago a guy I worked with remarked that another guy was an asshole. I responded that I thought he was a nice guy. No argument. He's welcome to his opinion, I'm welcome to mine.

All of this could be over and done with in an instant. For some obscure reason you constantly want to judge almost everyone on their morality, terminology, choice of women, methods of finding women, age and a long list of other things which don't pertain to you. Let it go.

Good example of centro rats insulting pobaldo guys:

Whether on the street on inside of the club called Gustos, $200 usd is currently more than $800'000 COP. Anyone paying that much money for a short time romp is a fucking simp and there is no wonder why these guys are getting robbed and killed like every week LOL.

I have no sympathy for these "Makin it rain" Poblado Fuckboys. I'm sure more of them will continue to come down here flashing their gold chains and their iPhone 15 Pro Max 512 gb phones and make it rain and they will continue to get robbed and killed.

Maybe if enough of these gringos get killed then the rest will stop coming and then the girls will have to lower their prices back down to reality to attract the business of the local parceros.

The only thing i agree with is that some weekend warriors act like monkeys, drawing unnecessary attention from the locals and thieves. Some deserve to be robbed.
I love Poblado though. It is nice, clean, very green, and some parts of it are quiet residential areas. Gabacho may continue to enjoy his 100 USD/month shack.

[Mr Enternational]

Do you rush off and tell your daughter, destroying her happiness, breaking up the family, putting the children through a divorce? Do you risk alienating your daughter, possibly even removing your grandchildren from your life? Do you talk to me about it? What tone do you take? Think before you respond.

It is called ego and the same selfishness that he tries to ridicule others for. It is okay to be selfish in this way, but not selfish in that way. He sees cheating as cheating and it is all bad. But for selfishness it depends on what kind of selfishness we are talking. Or for bragging it depends on what type of bragging it is. Okay for Instagram models to brag. Okay for him to brag and say he only likes 8's, 9's, and one 10 that he can not get. Not okay for other guys on a hooker board to brag about things they want to brag about. But we already know life is full of double standards and there is no one size fits all.

[Huacho]

BF or GF which implies exclusivity.

It implies exclusivity to you. Not to me, and I suspect not even to most posters on this board. Monogamy = monotony.

[Huacho]

At least that wouldn't be cheating, if both parties agree to fucking on the side. But in any normal relationship one partner would go nuts if they find out the other partner is cheating.

It's just so excellent that we have a stalwart such as you to tell us what is normal in relationships. You should hook up with Dear Abby.

[Mr Enternational]

Socialization tells us that our instincts are wrong. We should limit sex and we should be willing to give up our lives to protect others. We should allow others to make the rules which are often in conflict with our instincts.

Some funny shit. A girl that I went to high school with is a city council member. She went hard to have a law for no texting while driving. Who gets busted for texting while driving? It was all over the news. The policeman said I just pulled you over and you still are not going to put the phone down? The same as these other lawmakers that keep making all the laws they continuously break. Ie. Soliciting prostitutes.