Sexual Wellness and Safe Sex related Discussions

**Cocr Brotheler** · 12-02-23 02:42

"more sad for men who don't have constant companionship and sex offers by everyone around them all day everyday like 85% of all woman get. ".

Mongering completely transformed my life for the better. Completely levels the playing field.

**GentileBear** · 12-01-23 23:14

I have had High BP for many years. Seen a MD specifically for it and did blood tests, etc. Dentists won't give me Novecain due to my HBP without a current note from MD.

I provide that background because I now stick with Amlodipine + Losartan Potasium. This combo works for me. I was put on Cozar and also Lisinopril HTZ and the Lisinopril is GREAT to reduce your BP but for me it puts me to sleep. I stuck with it 10 days and went back to Losartan. Some BP meds cause fatigue and put me to sleep.

So for me. At least. Losartan + Amlodipne. Works and I can function just fine. Cialis when I need it!

P.S. I have an opinion about high BP being more psycho semantic than others may have. Read into it. Read about White Lab Coat syndrome . Basically some people - like me - get physically nervous to the point of extreme spiking BP only around medical offices. Also. What an MD had me do was wear a wrist band BP monitor and have it measure me 2 x a day and log all measurements. Our BP can spike for many issues. Oh! And I also repeat MD because they will do / order heart tests and blood tests. Whereas a Nurse might just throw meds to you and say "good luck. ".

Hope my posts adds to your question. I have been dealing with 185/110 + for many years. *but much lower with losartan and even lower with Lisinopril*.

**Jackie888** · 12-01-23 19:17

Originally Posted by Scbb1 [View Original Post]

I have been taking blood pressure meds since 2021 because my BP was to high to pass my boxing physical to compete. I now take 60 MG of Telismartin daily and have no side effects to speak of. I take vitamins and have no impedance in sexual performance. There are many types of BP meds, which one are you taking and at what dose?

The ER gave me Lisinopril 10 MG. It's a generic for Prinivil; Zestril. But I see my primary doc in a week where I can ask for different meds if this one fucks up my system.

**Scbb1** · 12-01-23 18:07

I have been taking blood pressure meds since 2021 because my BP was to high to pass my boxing physical to compete. I now take 60 MG of Telismartin daily and have no side effects to speak of. I take vitamins and have no impedance in sexual performance. There are many types of BP meds, which one are you taking and at what dose?

**Jackie888** · 11-30-23 21:12

Well fuck. I now officially been diagnosed with high blood pressure. Any of you guys have issues with mixing high blood pressure meds with Vitamins? Any meds you recommend to avoid to protect myself from permanent limp dick syndrome?

**Dogers69** · 11-22-23 08:08

Originally Posted by Hargow20 [View Original Post]

Many of the girls have hard lives and do not enjoy having sex with customers. In my mind you are paying for service and having to deal with emotional / personal issues in their lives. Now this is entirely different where they held hostage in a brothel etc. This something that I object to of course. As for age the smart ones work for awhile and move on to something else.

You guys don't care about the cum boys who probably live on just your 1 dollar tips after uvpay $150 to bang a girl for 10 minutes. None of these girls have to bang all these men. In fact any one of them can #1 find a man with a good job #2 just bang 1 or 2 guys on a inkling basis for $1000 month each and get herself a job in Tijuana for the other 1 k a month. If a girls had a rough life, that's not gona be any more or less likely just cause she's working banging guys in Zona. Norte 3 months a year. Every girl I got to know a bit had paid in full houses cars, lots of international vacations, opening business. Etc. And guess what? They don't have to eat taco bell or frozen pizza as much as possible to save $$ do they can fly to Tijuana and pay girls to fuck them. Od more more sad for men who don't have constant companionship and sex offers by everyone around them all day everyday like 85% of all woman get.

**Hargow20** · 11-21-23 20:37

Many of the girls have hard lives and do not enjoy having sex with customers. In my mind you are paying for service and having to deal with emotional / personal issues in their lives. Now this is entirely different where they held hostage in a brothel etc. This something that I object to of course. As for age the smart ones work for awhile and move on to something else.

Originally Posted by FlapJacK [View Original Post]

I hope this is a good place to express my recent thoughts. I have been thinking about the psychological effects of working in the sex industry on women.

What brought me here? Maybe my getting older in age? Or from spending more time with my favorite and her opening up with me about a few things that bother me. I guess it's a cold reality.

Everything from being abused as a child or a teen into adult life Her being pulled out of school as a young child and made to work in the fields into her teens with her family to help make ends meet. Never able to finish a basic education LVL. *.

Having sex with unpleasant people, being chocked by customers with sick fetishes, and who knows what else has been done to her.

I can only imagine the PTSD, flashbacks, emotional numbing, hyper-alertness to certain things, irritability, anger, fear, the existential sense that life no longer had any purpose, depression, and thoughts of suicide. She's probably not capable of ever having a normal, healthy, loving relationship with anyone. What happens to these women later in life, after 40,50+? It just seems like a very bleak outcome. I'm sure a few might find an escape, but certainly not the norm.

All I can do is be nice to her and try to do things to help her feel a sense of normal and put a smile on her face whenever possible.

I guess I just needed to ramble while thinking about this.

**Hargow20** · 11-21-23 20:24

The most we can or should do is to be kind to them & offer some words of advice. Occasionally the girl I see will message and says she needs money fo her hotel room. So occasionally I will go down a few days early or see her twice a week on every so often. I have a lot of extra food from the food bank. So I will bring her food at times as well. The good thing is that she does not simply ask to give her more money. She also has a very nice daughter. So I am happy to help.

Originally Posted by FlapJacK [View Original Post]

You guys are right, and I'm not being a sucker or trying to save anyone. I've known this chica for 13-15 years and never gave any of this any thought until recently.

I admit, I do care and feel some attachment with her. Best kept to myself and have fun in the moment.

**FlapJacK** · 11-21-23 18:18

Originally Posted by SeaBeeJoe [View Original Post]

Don't try to be a Captain Save a Hoe. They are working as sex workers for the money, no matter what hard luck story they are selling you. Save yourself don't trust a puta and be smart!

You guys are right, and I'm not being a sucker or trying to save anyone. I've known this chica for 13-15 years and never gave any of this any thought until recently.

I admit, I do care and feel some attachment with her. Best kept to myself and have fun in the moment.

**KBToys** · 11-21-23 00:02

Originally Posted by FlapJacK [View Original Post]

I hope this is a good place to express my recent thoughts. I have been thinking about the psychological effects of working in the sex industry on women.

What brought me here? Maybe my getting older in age? Or from spending more time with my favorite and her opening up with me about a few things that bother me. I guess it's a cold reality.

Everything from being abused as a child or a teen into adult life Her being pulled out of school as a young child and made to work in the fields into her teens with her family to help make ends meet. Never able to finish a basic education LVL. *.

Having sex with unpleasant people, being chocked by customers with sick fetishes, and who knows what else has been done to her.

I can only imagine the PTSD, flashbacks, emotional numbing, hyper-alertness to certain things, irritability, anger, fear, the existential sense that life no longer had any purpose, depression, and thoughts of suicide. She's probably not capable of ever having a normal, healthy, loving relationship with anyone. What happens to these women later in life, after 40,50+? It just seems like a very bleak outcome. I'm sure a few might find an escape, but certainly not the norm.

All I can do is be nice to her and try to do things to help her feel a sense of normal and put a smile on her face whenever possible.

I guess I just needed to ramble while thinking about this.

I think it is a big difference between those that are forced into the work rather than by choice. Most women probably burned in past by trying to rely on a man to support them and then realizing they are responsible for their own destiny. It doesn't help they come from rough economic backgrounds. Sometimes you meet ones that are educated, but just can't make ends meet in their country. The part that is difficult is when you make a connection with them and peel back layers of the onion. You start to hear their stories, meet family, etc. Most are trying to get themselves and their families out of their situation and some sadly go down the path of self destruction. Drugs, shopping, surgeries, etc. And it is a vicious cycle that chews them up and spits them out. The way I view it, men will pay regardless if in a relationship or transactional. I would guess that most would not do the work if they were in able to make decent salary or better background, but it just isn't in the cards for most in this world. Just think that $60 k puts you in top 1% in world for earners, but imagine trying to survive on $60 k in CA. It is just a reflection on how difficult life is for most. Also the statistics show a median income of $83 k in SoCal with a median home price of $1 M shows how difficult it is to make a decent life in SoCal. If $60 k is top 1% in the world, then when Americans visit these other lower income countries, no wonder the women think money grows on trees. Especially when they see how careless some mongers are throwing their monthly salary around in a few minutes time. I just hope whoever I run into in this life has the opportunity to achieve their better life. Most will not break through the barriers and sadly they make decisions on survival for short term rather than long term planning. Retirement for them is a foreign concept and most work until they pass from this world. Have fun and stay safe!

**SeaBeeJoe** · 11-20-23 22:40

Originally Posted by FlapJacK [View Original Post]

I hope this is a good place to express my recent thoughts. I have been thinking about the psychological effects of working in the sex industry on women.

What brought me here? Maybe my getting older in age? Or from spending more time with my favorite and her opening up with me about a few things that bother me. I guess it's a cold reality.

Everything from being abused as a child or a teen into adult life Her being pulled out of school as a young child and made to work in the fields into her teens with her family to help make ends meet. Never able to finish a basic education LVL. *.

Having sex with unpleasant people, being chocked by customers with sick fetishes, and who knows what else has been done to her.

I can only imagine the PTSD, flashbacks, emotional numbing, hyper-alertness to certain things, irritability, anger, fear, the existential sense that life no longer had any purpose, depression, and thoughts of suicide. She's probably not capable of ever having a normal, healthy, loving relationship with anyone. What happens to these women later in life, after 40,50+? It just seems like a very bleak outcome. I'm sure a few might find an escape, but certainly not the norm.

All I can do is be nice to her and try to do things to help her feel a sense of normal and put a smile on her face whenever possible.

I guess I just needed to ramble while thinking about this.

Don't try to be a Captain Save a Hoe. They are working as sex workers for the money, no matter what hard luck story they are selling you. Save yourself don't trust a puta and be smart!

**FlapJacK** · 11-20-23 19:14

I hope this is a good place to express my recent thoughts. I have been thinking about the psychological effects of working in the sex industry on women.

What brought me here? Maybe my getting older in age? Or from spending more time with my favorite and her opening up with me about a few things that bother me. I guess it's a cold reality.

Everything from being abused as a child or a teen into adult life Her being pulled out of school as a young child and made to work in the fields into her teens with her family to help make ends meet. Never able to finish a basic education LVL. *.

Having sex with unpleasant people, being chocked by customers with sick fetishes, and who knows what else has been done to her.

I can only imagine the PTSD, flashbacks, emotional numbing, hyper-alertness to certain things, irritability, anger, fear, the existential sense that life no longer had any purpose, depression, and thoughts of suicide. She's probably not capable of ever having a normal, healthy, loving relationship with anyone. What happens to these women later in life, after 40,50+? It just seems like a very bleak outcome. I'm sure a few might find an escape, but certainly not the norm.

All I can do is be nice to her and try to do things to help her feel a sense of normal and put a smile on her face whenever possible.

I guess I just needed to ramble while thinking about this.

**SenorTJ** · 11-16-23 09:19

Met a relatively new cutie from goodgirls last week. Offered to take some of her piss for an Everlywell test for chlamydia and gonnorhea. Results came back today: positive for both. Careful out there!

The test cost $50 on Amazon, took about a week.

**Geneva Guy** · 09-30-23 00:39

Originally Posted by Jayree [View Original Post]

About 3 weeks ago while in Houston condom broke I didn't notice until the I finished. * About a week later urniating became very painful so got myself checked out, found out this week positive for both G&see. * This morning went the pharmacy in Tijuana to get meds and was told I need a script. * Doctors office was next to pharmacy cost about 8 usd for prescription when back to pharmacy they gave me Ceftriaxone as an injection and oral pills Azitromicina totaling 161 usd for 5 days of each.

Kind of a surprise.

Went back to doctors office so he could show me how to use the inspection. * And then changed me 2 usd for that.

He told me I have to do an injection everyday for 5 days but reading online it say 1 injection only from multiple sources.

I am not sure if he gave me the right dosage.

Reading online:

Uncomplicated Gonococcal Infections.

Indicated for uncomplicated gonococcal infection of pharynx, cervix, urethra, or rectum.

Weight <150 kg: Ceftriaxone 500 MG I'm once.

Weight ≥150 kg: Ceftriaxone 1,000 MG I'm once.

If chlamydial infection has not been excluded, add doxycycline 100 MG BID x 7 days, or if pregnant give azithromycin 1,000 MG.

CDC recommends a single dose of 500 MG of intramuscular ceftriaxone.

The injection is 1 gram powder with 3. 5 ML solution that has to be mixed. * Which is double the recommendation.

Did he give me the wrong dosage for the injection?* I am leaning towards yes.

Please help with your knowledge and experiences.

For GC: Ceftriaxone a single dose of 500 MG for people <'150 kg.

For chlymdia: Doxycycline 100 MG twice a day for 7 days.

Per CDC.

GG.

**Jayree** · 09-29-23 00:07

About 3 weeks ago while in Houston condom broke I didn't notice until the I finished. * About a week later urniating became very painful so got myself checked out, found out this week positive for both G&see. * This morning went the pharmacy in Tijuana to get meds and was told I need a script. * Doctors office was next to pharmacy cost about 8 usd for prescription when back to pharmacy they gave me Ceftriaxone as an injection and oral pills Azitromicina totaling 161 usd for 5 days of each.

Kind of a surprise.

Went back to doctors office so he could show me how to use the inspection. * And then changed me 2 usd for that.

He told me I have to do an injection everyday for 5 days but reading online it say 1 injection only from multiple sources.

I am not sure if he gave me the right dosage.

Reading online:

Uncomplicated Gonococcal Infections.

Indicated for uncomplicated gonococcal infection of pharynx, cervix, urethra, or rectum.

Weight <150 kg: Ceftriaxone 500 MG I'm once.

Weight ≥150 kg: Ceftriaxone 1,000 MG I'm once.

If chlamydial infection has not been excluded, add doxycycline 100 MG BID x 7 days, or if pregnant give azithromycin 1,000 MG.

CDC recommends a single dose of 500 MG of intramuscular ceftriaxone.

The injection is 1 gram powder with 3. 5 ML solution that has to be mixed. * Which is double the recommendation.

Did he give me the wrong dosage for the injection?* I am leaning towards yes.

Please help with your knowledge and experiences.