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[PhilJoy]

Is free sex cheap sex??

I think financially, it's a wash and I'm likely breaking even. Sex-wise she's pressing all the right buttons and after a long visit I was over the nightly online dramas and scatter brained 19 year olds.

It will be interesting to see if there is a long game at play but so far so good.

Enjoy. G.

Like the way you operate G.

I've found you can bypass the bar-fine route and the young money grabbers and get return sex and long play.

Some guys are looking in the wrong places.

I befriended a regular bar waitress (not a go-go girl) a few years ago and always return to see her in Sabang. I'll be back there next month.

It's not a relationship, just friends with benefits. And yes, I reward her about 1000 p per day.

In March, I'll be taking her to Boracay, so I'll be paying for her meals and cheap Red Horse but accommodation is the same for one person as it is for two.

Compare the costs of taking a girl out for a meal and drinks for a night out in Australia, America, The UK and Europe without getting action at the end of the night, and it's a bargain in comparison.

Got to love The Phils _ Phil.

[Aml3740]

Google kumu meaning in phiippines.

I just know the meaning in Hawaiian. I can't see what it means in Philippines. It just says kumusta ka?

[KumuMan]

Acroynm for To Each His Own.

Google kumu meaning in phiippines.

[KumuMan]

Tail End Hop Off? Had to google.

Acroynm for To Each His Own.

[Goferring]

Tail End Hop Off? Had to google.

Thanks. That makes the original post so much clearer. 😜.

G.

[KenjiYoshioka]

To each his own.

[WestCoast1]

Waht is TEHO?

Tail End Hop Off? Had to google.

[Goferring]

TEHO It was great the first 2 weeks, then just see each other once every 2 weeks, then just once a month. My appetite just needs change.

Waht is TEHO?

[WestCoast1]

Who's tracking whom. 24 hours of websites tracking me. #Didjaknow?

[KumuMan]

Is free sex cheap sex??

Recently I have been hooking up with a girl who has a good job and her own money. She's 29, good looking, no kids so her body is still pristine and, I haven't paid for any allowances, inflated "taxi money" or fiscal "emergencies". Her only requirements are that she will not be seen going in and out of a cheap hotel for hookups with a foreigner and that I have to fit in with her work commitments. Frankly, the latter is not insignificant and organising one off dates, meals etc was a PITA. She's in my recent posts as the corporate girl.

So what has this "free" sex cost me?? I've moved out of a cheap Red Doorz to a Airbnb (+1000 p / day), I'm booking her Grab to and from work (+120 p / day). Food is a zero nett as 2000 p in groceries lasted nearly a week but she did the cooking so no restaurants or Grab Food.

The benefits?? After a lot of ground work, sex is on tap for 5 nights a week including most of the weekend that she stays here. I'm not getting any daytime infills. I was paying 2 k for two STs or one LT per day. However, this wasn't always straightforward with the usual online flakes, scammers, and misrepresentations.

I think financially, it's a wash and I'm likely breaking even. Sex-wise she's pressing all the right buttons and after a long visit I was over the nightly online dramas and scatter brained 19 year olds.

It will be interesting to see if there is a long game at play but so far so good.

Enjoy. G.

TEHO It was great the first 2 weeks, then just see each other once every 2 weeks, then just once a month. My appetite just needs change.

[Old And Ugly]

Also, if the guy chooses someone half decent then she will provide savings partially offsetting the costs.

Eg, she came home from the office for lunch. 58 p for Chow King plus a Mountain Dew. Contrast that to I don't know how many huge meals I've bought when eating with the daily catch off the internet. She wants to save money. Others want to impress by spending mine.

Cheers. G.

Mine has a business with 3 employees and few side gigs online, but still, her money is chump change compared to a modest US income, therefore I don't let her pay for nothing (but sometimes she still buys stuff from her own money) and as I mentioned before, most of my expenses are the same with or without her, and some are less, because she cooks, the only problem is that the filipino cuisine compared to the rest of SEA is the most fattening and unhealthy, and in one year of living together I gained 25 lb. She doesn't like eating out, we do it rarely or when traveling.

About trying to change the filipino mindset, about how things really are in this world: I'm still working on that, making very little progress.

[Goferring]

It sounds like you're enjoying yourself. Live it up. Just be careful about catching feelings.

Thanks but it will never happen to me. I'm way too smart for that.

Famous last words. 😜.

[Goferring]

I'm doing this for over a year now, it's not free, sometimes seem to be more expensive, even if you're not paying directly for it (but is exclusively my choice to pay for some of her expenses), but according to my calculations I ended up spending only 1/3 pussy money, compared to the prior years. Of course I didn't factored in the occasional 3 some or my escapades to AC.

Also, if the guy chooses someone half decent then she will provide savings partially offsetting the costs.

Eg, she came home from the office for lunch. 58 p for Chow King plus a Mountain Dew. Contrast that to I don't know how many huge meals I've bought when eating with the daily catch off the internet. She wants to save money. Others want to impress by spending mine.

Cheers. G.

[Aml3740]

Is free sex cheap sex??

Recently I have been hooking up with a girl who has a good job and her own money. She's 29, good looking, no kids so her body is still pristine and, I haven't paid for any allowances, inflated "taxi money" or fiscal "emergencies". Her only requirements are that she will not be seen going in and out of a cheap hotel for hookups with a foreigner and that I have to fit in with her work commitments. Frankly, the latter is not insignificant and organising one off dates, meals etc was a PITA. She's in my recent posts as the corporate girl.

So what has this "free" sex cost me?? I've moved out of a cheap Red Doorz to a Airbnb (+1000 p / day), I'm booking her Grab to and from work (+120 p / day). Food is a zero nett as 2000 p in groceries lasted nearly a week but she did the cooking so no restaurants or Grab Food.

The benefits?? After a lot of ground work, sex is on tap for 5 nights a week including most of the weekend that she stays here. I'm not getting any daytime infills. I was paying 2 k for two STs or one LT per day. However, this wasn't always straightforward with the usual online flakes, scammers, and misrepresentations.

I think financially, it's a wash and I'm likely breaking even. Sex-wise she's pressing all the right buttons and after a long visit I was over the nightly online dramas and scatter brained 19 year olds.

It will be interesting to see if there is a long game at play but so far so good.

Enjoy. G.

It really depends on what you are looking for. Are you just wanting to dump your load and run, or do you want something more than that? I'm not talking about having a relationship, though it could go in that direction if you wanted it to. I think you have to factor in, too, the quality of the woman you are getting. It is nice to have a woman who can carry on a conversation and who has the skills to support themselves, whether or not you give them money or not. And, honestly, it is good to have a woman who hasn't slept with half of the men in their town.

That being said, sex is never free. You have to work for it and pay for it in one form or another.

[Old And Ugly]

I don't think anyone kids themselves that XLT it's cheaper to rent than buy.

I've learnt the hard way that it's much better for it to be in their own interest to behave and want you to stay vs give me the shitz until I pay them more.

Corporate girl is well aware that I'm here for a few weeks more only, not months or years, and that for me to return, this stay need to be an enjoyable experience.

Enjoy. G.

I'm doing this for over a year now, it's not free, sometimes seem to be more expensive, even if you're not paying directly for it (but is exclusively my choice to pay for some of her expenses), but according to my calculations I ended up spending only 1/3 pussy money, compared to the prior years. Of course I didn't factored in the occasional 3 some or my escapades to AC.