Seeking Arrangements

[VanessasClient]

My views on this are so exactly identical to yours. I have delusionally "loved" these single moms in the past, because they performed so well, but then I eventually realized they didn't give two sh! Tz about me. They were just performing superbly for their kid's sake. But now it's all good. I now keep seeing these single moms and enjoy it. They are very reliable.

The other thing is. Most of the single moms don't want to get themselves into trouble. Because if they wind up in jail, or some other trouble, then they won't be able to look after their kid, leaving the only potential alternative to turn the kids over to family or relatives to be raised. Not all the single moms are cautious, but many of them are. By the way, Seeking just removed their Instagram verification badge, and redesigned their desktop site. IT might be part of new changes.

[Midwestern]

In the manosphere, the single mom is a huge red flag as far as having her as a GF or wife. The reason is the woman will always choose the kid over you, and if the father is in the kid's life, that is potentially double the trouble. So for the guy, the SB thing makes a lot more sense with the single mom than having her as GF / wife, and the woman has an added incentive to perform. She is pleasing you for her child's sake versus the latest makeup, drugs, or shoes.

My views on this are so exactly identical to yours. I have delusionally "loved" these single moms in the past, because they performed so well, but then I eventually realized they didn't give two sh! Tz about me. They were just performing superbly for their kid's sake. But now it's all good. I now keep seeing these single moms and enjoy it. They are very reliable.

[KCK12]

I have been just browsing for the past month so far and my primary targets are South America countries. There has been less and less women and what I expected are a lot more pros maintaining there own profile. How do I know because they are the same ads in escort sites. I might want to try sometime later to buy a membership and give a review in other countries.

[Steve 9696]

Great report KM and so good to see using Seeking all over. I am aligned on your view of the US tho I target the 22-25 age group. Very interesting about Jakarta. I was going to go there because the clubs sound amazing but I got the vibe that a lot of the girls are trafficked and that turned me off to it. But if Seeking is good maybe I will go. Love me an Indo girl but never been with one.

[The Cane]

Been a while since I've done a home girl writeup and the other night was super great so thought I'the write it down.

G is my home girl and has been for about six months, having beaten out nerdy girl and fuck bunny for my full time attention when in town. What broke the tie and has proven critical to us continuing is her outstanding BJ and submissive nature, having coached her up on BJ at date 2. She is truly great now and loves to do it. So intro BJs of 20+ minutes are common and finishing CIM swallow a standard finish.

Our last date was epic. We'the been itching to do Korean BBQ which she had never done and it lived up to expectations. We ordered more than enough food (she likes to have take home since she's from the hood and food is precious) and I even sprung for the Waygu which turned out to be a whopping $130 for a small portion. It was legendary tho and she saved a piece of Waygu for her mom since she's of course never had it.

Finishing dinner I am reminded that she is just 21 in her drinking habits. She's on her second strong cocktail and we are readying to go. She says "oh let me finish this", pointing to her 2/3 full drink. So I settle in for a few more minutes. Nope! She chugs it in five seconds! So 21.

Whatever happened to her?

[Steve 9696]

Been a while since I've done a home girl writeup and the other night was super great so thought I'the write it down.

G is my home girl and has been for about six months, having beaten out nerdy girl and fuck bunny for my full time attention when in town. What broke the tie and has proven critical to us continuing is her outstanding BJ and submissive nature, having coached her up on BJ at date 2. She is truly great now and loves to do it. So intro BJs of 20+ minutes are common and finishing CIM swallow a standard finish.

Our last date was epic. We'the been itching to do Korean BBQ which she had never done and it lived up to expectations. We ordered more than enough food (she likes to have take home since she's from the hood and food is precious) and I even sprung for the Waygu which turned out to be a whopping $130 for a small portion. It was legendary tho and she saved a piece of Waygu for her mom since she's of course never had it.

Finishing dinner I am reminded that she is just 21 in her drinking habits. She's on her second strong cocktail and we are readying to go. She says "oh let me finish this", pointing to her 2/3 full drink. So I settle in for a few more minutes. Nope! She chugs it in five seconds! So 21.

We bop over to the rooftop bar at the Hilton which is a favorite venue. She's got her ID which she proudly gives to the reception girl who gives us the stink eye throughout the seating process. I don't think G notices and I couldn't give a fuck. The waitress on the other hand is nonplussed by our 40 year age gap and very attentive.

G orders a Pinot Noir as she is trying to get used to wine especially red wine. Well it must agree with her because she slugs it down in no time and orders a French 75. She's getting a bit loopy but in a fun and affectionate way. And it's off to the room we go after finishing our drinks.

She's definitely lit more than usual but that's good because her inhibitions have lowered and her fun side comes out. They've given us a large room with a lounge chair and she says won't that be fun and climbs on in doggie postion with her dress tight against her ass.

Well you don't have to ask me twice. I take the hint and start dry fucking her from behind and get her to rear up so I can feel her tits. Damn. This feels nice but would be even better naked.

So we lose the clothes and she says "do u want me to give you head in the chair?" She's a shy girl and would never normally say this. But I like G a little tipsy. Yes Maam. I will have some head. Thank you maam.

So I settle in and man this is one super great head session. Shaft gobbling. Harmonica. BLS. The whole buffet. And I know she loves this because she will do it till I stop her. But that's not now! I let her go at it for quite a few minutes and I ask her to open her eyes and look at me while she blows me (normally an eyes closed girl). She does and it's great. Eventually she swaps back to eyes closed but that's fine too. I didn't clock it but at least 20 minutes of outstanding BJ.

I feel it's time to reciprocate and tell her it's her turn in the chair. But to my surprise she goes into doggie. I attempt a slide in but damn she is tight tonight for some reason so I tell her to sit and let me do her. I've gotten to know what she likes in DATY and she's gotten more involved, pulling up on the skin above her clit to give me better access. So it isn't long before some sloppy gspot work and lips tongue clit circles give her a good O.

It's not her most earth shattering O but that is good because that usually puts her in a fetal position nap for 10 minutes. LOL. And I know that if I fuck her now she can continue to build. So I have her mount up RCG. I hate RCG in the bed due to my upswing but in a chair it's heaven. We hadn't done it before but damn she fucks me good.

At one point I have her lean back so I can feel her tits and she is literally on her back on top of me. Neither of us can move but this is kinda sexy just being inside her and feeling her tits. I can feel myself grow harder and eventually get back to RCG.

I can feel the build in RCG but there is something about me driving the finish that is viscerally more satisfying than a girl getting you off from on top. So I swap her to the bed for a mish finish.

I mount up and start a nice moderate pace. I pull her face to mine and we make out as I drive myself in and out. Oh fuck. This is so fine. I feel the build and she is squeaking and moaning too and I let er rip. Damn that was a fine night!

[KrisMonger]

Just wanted to share my take on seeking after being on it for a few years (on and off).

Within US. Works in a choppy fashion on both East and the west coast. Most of them have been PPM (350-500 range). Best profile suited for long term seems to be a single working mom (with a majority of them Latina) that is in the 26+ age group. Most of them have a job (or two) and are looking to supplement income. These are not the ones that want to go to fancy restaurants as they are so busy with their kids life -but want to just go out for a few hours and then go inside for action and get paid for it.

Outside of US.

Jakarta is the best by far. Women in all price ranges (and even close to free as someone else mentioned elsewhere in Jakarta forum) short term or long term (in this case length of the trip). These girls can talk great English, great company and are awesome in bed.

Madrid. Pretty decent. Mostly PPMs.

Panama. Mostly Colombia / Venezuela chicas but quite a few are good company and can speak English and Latinas are always solid in bed.

San Juan. Decent but the girls here don't respond that fast for some reason.

Morocco. A lot available and found at least 2 that you could negotiate for the entire trip. Complexity here is that you can't Airbnb and you have to book two rooms in a hotel (your SA girl can actually help here).

This year I am planning on exploring Slovakia / Hungary / Warsaw area and could use some Intel from the forum.

[VanessasClient]

It's not mandatory if you already registered before they starting self verification. But, I think girls may be less likely to communicate with guys who don't have the badge. You can make the verification picture private, but if you remove it all together, then the badge disappears. I don't know how complex the technology is right now, but some articles online claim there are certain types of masks that can fool facial recognition. Others claim that it's very difficult to fool with the newest iphones and face recognition technology. The government wants the technology anyhow to help them identify people, be it criminals, or other "unwanted" individuals. I'm sure that with time, it will become harder and harder to spoof. Just like the old $100 US bill did not have color changing ink. When counterfeiting became more of a problem, they released a new bill, which made it that much more difficult to forge.

[Berol Loz]

The new verification system works like this. You click on the link in Seeking and your phone takes a comprehensive scan of your face that has to be in good lighting, and you have to hold still. Once finished, you upload a picture, and the system compares your scan to the picture...

Certainly not 100% fail safe proof, but just one more step scammers will have to take to cheat the system.

Yes, I'm sure scammers will find a way around it, but maybe it slows them down for a bit.

[Berol Loz]

They are requiring this for all accounts or just new ones.

If all accounts I'm out and moving to a different site. Not worth having my face on file. Going to nope that.

I think SugardaddyMeet.com is doing this for new accounts, but it's still optional for now. I've had an account with SDM and Seeking for a few years, usually just pay-up for a month if there's a girl I want to get her contact into. Didn't to get verified on SDM last month, will see if Seeking wants my photo next time.

[HumbleHal]

If all accounts I'm out and moving to a different site. Not worth having my face on file. Going to nope that.

Seeking cooperates with law enforcement whenever requested. I would avoid.

[AmericanPi]

The new verification system works like this. You click on the link in Seeking and your phone takes a comprehensive scan of your face that has to be in good lighting, and you have to hold still. Once finished, you upload a picture, and the system compares your scan to the picture.

I believe it is similar to face unlock for phones. Using someone's face as a "password" can be fooled by various methods, such as similar looking people like relatives or twins, a face of a mannequin, or certain kinds of high quality photographs, depending on the facial recognition technology being used. Depth perception technology would make it harder to use images, but some old phones and even a few newer ones don't support this, and no guarantee Seeking is using this technology.

Certainly not 100% fail safe proof, but just one more step scammers will have to take to cheat the system.

They are requiring this for all accounts or just new ones.

If all accounts I'm out and moving to a different site. Not worth having my face on file. Going to nope that.

[VanessasClient]

The new verification system works like this. You click on the link in Seeking and your phone takes a comprehensive scan of your face that has to be in good lighting, and you have to hold still. Once finished, you upload a picture, and the system compares your scan to the picture.

I believe it is similar to face unlock for phones. Using someone's face as a "password" can be fooled by various methods, such as similar looking people like relatives or twins, a face of a mannequin, or certain kinds of high quality photographs, depending on the facial recognition technology being used. Depth perception technology would make it harder to use images, but some old phones and even a few newer ones don't support this, and no guarantee Seeking is using this technology.

Certainly not 100% fail safe proof, but just one more step scammers will have to take to cheat the system.

[Voodoo Jones]

Today I was perusing profiles on the site and saw one for a guy. Occasionally that happens, and I usually just attribute it to a glitch or something. But this guy said he "accidentally" signed up for a woman looking for a man, and that he found it impossible to fix so, "I'm down with it if you are". WTF? I should have reported his ass. As much as the site sucks, I'm glad that at least the gays have not been able to ruin it like I've seen them do to others. The straight women on Seeking do quite an adequate job of ruining the place all on their own!

I've seen this too occasionally over the years. Just the other week someone weirdo with the name "BabyBoy" favorited my profile, so clearly it wasn't a mistake when he set up the profile. There also needs to be an option to filter out trans people because I assume 99% of users are not interested. Some of the ones who have messaged me have jawlines like Alex Pereira.

[Steve 9696]

Those prices weren't for overnight or day long dates, but dinner and sex. And when to take into consideration the price of dinner, it's just not worth it imo.

Yeah that is def waaay to high for an unknown girl and a few hours. Those are European prices. My point was only don't expect a lot lower from a top notch girl. You can def get amazing low priced girls in Brasil. But the cream of the crop can command surprising prices at the high end venues.