Seeking Arrangements

[VanessasClient]

"hey, I'm currently going through a lot of things in life, and would need to keep us on pause. Hopefully we should reconnect at some point in the future! I appreciate you, and hope you stay as lovely as you are".

Don't go the negative route. Don't want anyone pissed off at you for any reason.

Interesting you should mention that. Some years ago I was referred to a real estate agent who was a buffoon. I tried to work with him for a little while, but he wanted to do things his way, rather than catering to the customer. So I fired the idiot, and found another realtor. The 2nd realtor handled my closing. Now, the 2nd guy was much younger and less experienced than the first. So my initial inclination was to send the first realtor some screen shots showing what would have been his commission, being paid to fledgling, junior agent. But, before doing so, I stopped and thought "Yeah, this guy is a fag, but what if one day I get a flat tire and my cell phone battery is dead. What if he happens to be the only person who drives down the deserted road I'm stranded on?" Of course, that's an incredibly unlikely scenario. Point being, if somebody is not a sworn enemy already, it's probably better not to make them one. Of course if they are, feel free to take revenge on them. But that whole thing about "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned". If the girl is not really on your bad side, I don't see what benefit could come from pissing off a woman who might be mentally unstable, and inclined to retaliate, even if they don't have your personal info at the moment.

[Voodoo Jones]

I only use Seeking abroad, but had some left over time on my membership and decided to take a look at the NYC options. Let me just say my feelings for not using it in the US we're validated because you get the same shit as online dating here: time wasting, fickle, and not knowing what they want. Like my time is limited and I'm not renewing my membership until I'm planning another trip. Many of these women have been on the site for years still asking for stupid ass demands like they're the prize on a site where they want you to finance their empty lifestyles. Now that's not to say I have a few true hits and will see where they take me, but American women are such a pain to deal with even on Seeking.

[ForTheRealm]

How did you end a relationship with a SB without to much drama and backlash response from her?

"hey, I'm currently going through a lot of things in life, and would need to keep us on pause. Hopefully we should reconnect at some point in the future! I appreciate you, and hope you stay as lovely as you are".

Don't go the negative route. Don't want anyone pissed off at you for any reason.

[VanessasClient]

Claim you are experimenting with the gay sex lifestyle

That's the first time I've heard of that. Very interesting, and it could prove to be quite effective.

[HumbleHal]

How did you end a relationship with a SB without to much drama and backlash response from her?

Tell her an old girlfriend just contacted you and is offering herself for free.

Claim you are experimenting with the gay sex lifestyle, tell her if she wanted to do anal with you it might be the same! LOL.

[HumbleHal]

How did you end a relationship with a SB without too much drama and backlash response from her?

Say you are out of money. Or just ghost her, block her number and let someone else have her.

[Stirling]

I am curious to see responses to this one as I will be out there towards end of September. I am assuming Bratislava which is about an hour from Vienna may be a better place to connect but I may be wrong.

Thanks for the feedback gents. I will definitely let you know how this turns out in the end and will detail my experiences.

Stirling.

[KrisMonger]

I'm not sure if this was address to someone specific, or a general question. But one important thing is to not give out your personal info. If you never want to see her again, you can just say "Sorry, but things are no longer working out" Then block her.

If you are not using a burner phone use one. Just say sorry, block and go. Everyone has their own life to deal with and unless you have someone that is super pissed you will be fine.

[KrisMonger]

Heading back to Vienna in a couple of weeks. I've used Seeking in a few European cities before with some success, and typically reactivate my account when I know I'll be traveling. I've been chatting to 2 ladies in Vienna, both early 30's. The response has not been what I expected. Tonight one of then asked for 2000 Euros for the evening and the other one 1500. WTF. Am I missing something here. No way am I going that high.

Stirling.

I am curious to see responses to this one as I will be out there towards end of September. I am assuming Bratislava which is about an hour from Vienna may be a better place to connect but I may be wrong.

[FilthyBeaver]

In my experience the only girls who ask for that kind of money are pros. Keep looking, it's not supposed to be easy except for a few exceptions in the world. Those of us with credible reports can attest to that.

Heading back to Vienna in a couple of weeks. I've used Seeking in a few European cities before with some success, and typically reactivate my account when I know I'll be traveling. I've been chatting to 2 ladies in Vienna, both early 30's. The response has not been what I expected. Tonight one of then asked for 2000 Euros for the evening and the other one 1500. WTF. Am I missing something here. No way am I going that high.

Stirling.

[Stirling]

Heading back to Vienna in a couple of weeks. I've used Seeking in a few European cities before with some success, and typically reactivate my account when I know I'll be traveling. I've been chatting to 2 ladies in Vienna, both early 30's. The response has not been what I expected. Tonight one of then asked for 2000 Euros for the evening and the other one 1500. WTF. Am I missing something here. No way am I going that high.

Stirling.

[VanessasClient]

How did you end a relationship with a SB without to much drama and backlash response from her?

I'm not sure if this was address to someone specific, or a general question. But one important thing is to not give out your personal info. If you never want to see her again, you can just say "Sorry, but things are no longer working out" Then block her.

[Nachoy]

How did you end a relationship with a SB without to much drama and backlash response from her?

[AmericanPi]

I am not sure. I binned my account as we'd agreed to something and I just have a feeling that all is not what it seems.

If only there was a community of like minded individuals, and that community had a private direct messaging system, and that system could be used to ask a simple favor like "can you just see if xyz account is active. " Alas, fantasies. Back to life.

[Mawgan]

I am not sure. I binned my account as we'd agreed to something and I just have a feeling that all is not what it seems.

Is her account active? If so she's taking offers. There's zero chance a girl has an active account (like if you sort by recently active and see her) she's not taking offers. And if she is not active she's not getting messages.