Seeking, Tinder.

[Francis10]

After a bit of lurking decided to share a few of my own reports from my visit in January. My Spanish is subpar, so I am sure you can do better with more time and better Spanish skills.

(1) Mar K.

I'd stay away from this one. She was one of the first girls I met and she's initially pleasant. However, I'd let my guard down by the second date and she ended up bolting with my wallet. Also has semi-pro vibes and is always online. Attaching pics from her profile.

(2) Cosmic.

A graduate student, speaks very good English and can hold a conversation. Pics are accurate. We had good chemistry, and I would recommend.

(3) Ana43.

Fun girl. Takes a bit to open up but once she does, it is an authentic experience if that's what you are looking for.

I met with two more and one was fantastic. Her name was Fernanda, 25 years old, very open, stayed overnight. I can't find her now, but I'll check again later and follow up.

[MrBuckley]

Has anyone ever met sofiarr before on seeking?

[Kevin Richards]

Thanks Sol12 and MexicanCuban, I see that I don't have much to fear and will just chill and relax. Hopefully she won't ghost me last minute, as MexicanCuban suggested is a possibility, though I think the rather generous amount I'm giving her will make that less likely. I've been going the Seeking route on my regular business trips to CDMX for more than a year and am pretty well seasoned, enough to see that these women are all so identical and practically interchangeable, they mostly vary in terms of age and archetype, really. This one just has a real unique look, looks much better than avg. And is exactly my type, which is why I am willing to do this.

To contribute to the thread: I would highly advise against entering a "vanilla" relationship with any of these women. The first gal I met through this website (SUPER pretty young India) in 2023 hit me up a few months ago out of the blue wanting to be in a serious relationship and wanting to marry me and start a family. We kinda had already been that way, as when we "dated" last year I had hardly ever given her all that much, she never brought up money, we never had an arrangement, and I just gave her some cash / gifts here and there for months; she felt way more "real" than any other chica I met on there. Well, I took her up on her offer a few months ago and we were doing the "real dating" thing for months, we were going to get married, I even had an expensive honeymoon booked, lots of arrangements made and then, just a few weeks ago. She ghosted me, completely, on every platform. I did some snooping and found she got back with her abusive ex-BF (she might have been fooling around with him this whole time). You'd think maybe it was to scam me out of money, but I barely gave her anything this time around and she let me hit it bare and was really desperate to get married and pregnant. Thankfully, I got most of my money back and frankly, it's all for the best, as she was pressuring me more to hurry up and marry her, buy a house etc. And I found out her life is a total mess along with lots of unsavory things about her. As I've learned over about 1. 5 years, so many of these ladies have local boyfriends (even when their social media says they're "single") who are usually total losers in addition to having several other daddies. You're probably not that special no matter what she tells you. Miracles happen and there are always exceptions, but I've gotten to know several of these ladies very, very well and I would highly advise you to just use them as escorts you get to take out to dinner. Avoid any complications or commitments. In fact, one of the drawbacks to Seeking, I feel, is that the line between P4 P and real love gets blurred a lot more than with other types of sex work and it is easier to fool yourself into thinking a chica really likes you.

Also, lastly, there is a petite spinner in her 40's currently living in Puebla (but readily travels to CDMX) whose Seeking handle is "Chica" or "Chick" or something like that (she goes by Jessica), who I would really recommend. Really sweet MILF who looks really cute and doesn't look too old as long as she has makeup on. Good performer and would give it to me bare and do overnights with me, though YMMV. Treat her nice and for a few thousand MXN she'll be good to you, maybe for a whole night. Very recommendable.

[Uncountable]

Hello dude,

Some chicks in mexico fly to other mexican cities, but she might get cold feet in the end, how much are you paying her per day? That could change her mind.

If the chick is from sinaloa or monterrey, those chicks are not scared easily.

If you arrive to cdmx and you still need a sugarbaby, the seeking scene over there is average, there are many fake profiles, in other cities there are more real profiles than cdmx.

I've had many sugarbabies for the weekend in cdmx, guadalajara, cancun, monterrey, sinaloa etc and I've learned a lot about each city seeking scene.

Cheers!

Amongst the ones you listed, which city would you say is the best for seeking?

[MexicanCuban]

Hello dude,

Some chicks in mexico fly to other mexican cities, but she might get cold feet in the end, how much are you paying her per day? That could change her mind.

If the chick is from sinaloa or monterrey, those chicks are not scared easily.

If you arrive to cdmx and you still need a sugarbaby, the seeking scene over there is average, there are many fake profiles, in other cities there are more real profiles than cdmx.

I've had many sugarbabies for the weekend in cdmx, guadalajara, cancun, monterrey, sinaloa etc and I've learned a lot about each city seeking scene.

Cheers!

So I connected online really well with a chica on Seeking who is totally my type but she was initially only going to come to CDMX after I would be there. So, I bought her a plane ticket so she can be there when I'll be in town (next weekend) and offered to let her stay in my Airbnb for the weekend. I was so caught up in the excitement (she looks like something from my dreams and has a really ideal attitude too) I never asked myself: how dangerous is this? What are the chances she'll steal from me or have some boyfriend (a lot of these SBs have local boyfriends who are often really sketchy) or other male friend assault me for money? She was initially kind of hesitant and didn't agree until some time after I proposed getting her a plane ticket (that's a good sign? She also let me see her Insta and Linkedin and we did a video call and she seems like a totally normal woman with a normal life just looking for fun. She is currently in a northern state, but one with relatively low crime and cartel activity. I know all her real vital info (had to know it to get her plane ticket, BTW, she lied about her age what a surprise LOL) and she seems very nervous about this. I'm a very successful guy with a lot to lose, should I just send her a "cancellation fee" and ghost her? Never had any kind of working chica stay with me in a hotel room, so please tell me how risky and stupid this is and if I should just bail.

[Sol12]

So I connected online really well with a chica on Seeking who is totally my type but she was initially only going to come to CDMX after I would be there. So, I bought her a plane ticket so she can be there when I'll be in town (next weekend) and offered to let her stay in my Airbnb for the weekend. I was so caught up in the excitement (she looks like something from my dreams and has a really ideal attitude too) I never asked myself: how dangerous is this? What are the chances she'll steal from me or have some boyfriend (a lot of these SBs have local boyfriends who are often really sketchy) or other male friend assault me for money? She was initially kind of hesitant and didn't agree until some time after I proposed getting her a plane ticket (that's a good sign? She also let me see her Insta and Linkedin and we did a video call and she seems like a totally normal woman with a normal life just looking for fun. She is currently in a northern state, but one with relatively low crime and cartel activity. I know all her real vital info (had to know it to get her plane ticket, BTW, she lied about her age what a surprise LOL) and she seems very nervous about this. I'm a very successful guy with a lot to lose, should I just send her a "cancellation fee" and ghost her? Never had any kind of working chica stay with me in a hotel room, so please tell me how risky and stupid this is and if I should just bail.

She is going to fly to spend time with a complete male stranger and you are scared or worried about her? She is the female and statistically speaking the chances of something happening to her are far greater than what she could do to you.

If you are worried about her stealing something or trashing the place you should just change to a hotel but I sincerely doubt she would do anything. Just go and have fun and don't overthink things. In fact I'm sure when you see her you could bring up how you felt nervous about meeting a stranger and that made you realize how she must feel and hopefully that will help break the ice between the two of you and put her more at ease.

[Kevin Richards]

So I connected online really well with a chica on Seeking who is totally my type but she was initially only going to come to CDMX after I would be there. So, I bought her a plane ticket so she can be there when I'll be in town (next weekend) and offered to let her stay in my Airbnb for the weekend. I was so caught up in the excitement (she looks like something from my dreams and has a really ideal attitude too) I never asked myself: how dangerous is this? What are the chances she'll steal from me or have some boyfriend (a lot of these SBs have local boyfriends who are often really sketchy) or other male friend assault me for money? She was initially kind of hesitant and didn't agree until some time after I proposed getting her a plane ticket (that's a good sign? She also let me see her Insta and Linkedin and we did a video call and she seems like a totally normal woman with a normal life just looking for fun. She is currently in a northern state, but one with relatively low crime and cartel activity. I know all her real vital info (had to know it to get her plane ticket, BTW, she lied about her age what a surprise LOL) and she seems very nervous about this. I'm a very successful guy with a lot to lose, should I just send her a "cancellation fee" and ghost her? Never had any kind of working chica stay with me in a hotel room, so please tell me how risky and stupid this is and if I should just bail.

[NotRonMexico]

Seeking has some good stuff, but you have to work for it. A ton of flakes, non-responses, and the usual numbers game you'd expect. This also seems to be a bad time, as lots of girls seem to be out of town. Some of the students seem like they won't be returning until late January.

My typical script is a brief exchange on SA, move to WhatsApp, and try to settle on details. If I can get to an actual time agreement, so far success rate is 100% (knock on wood). I usually send an Uber for them as it's not that expensive and lets me know exactly when they'll get here. Typically 300 MXN or less one way even if they're towards the outskirts of town.

Time wasters and avoid:

GiGiAle, 24. Really great initial communication, seems to speak English. Scheduled to meet her same night my flight landed and she agreed to be flexible on time. Quoted me "something like $94 USD" for a meet. The day before she offered to sell me racy photos and I said I'd rather just see her in person. She still indicated the meeting was on, but ghosted me once I landed. I tried a few more times over the next few days and got no response. Maybe she's just there to try to make easy money on selling photos?

Vanessa, 23. My 3rd SA encounter. Smoking hot bisexual college student with great photos. She has a girlfriend and offered a threesome for 6 K MXN each. Oof. Although a lot of the hotter IG-type girls seem to be asking for that.

I asked to meet just her first to check the vibes, but she was adamant to bring her girlfriend. I was intrigued enough to pull the trigger. Vaness is a solid 8+, her girlfriend arrives and something like a 6 with a strange gum line.

I suggested we meet for drinks so their Uber rolled up to the bar. They ordered some food, which I didn't complain about as I'd rather them be fed, happy, and energetic to deliver a good performance. Ended up running a pretty high tab (3500 MXN). First red flag.

I'm also not getting much affection throughout the night. They're talking to each other and asking me the occasional question. I would get the occasional touch from the girlfriend, who was at least making some effort but the vibe was generally not sexy.

We get back to my place and I offer them some beers. They ask for the money upfront. Second huge red flag. This has never happened to me with Seeking before. I told them as such and they say they've had a lot of issues in the past. Third red flag and a telling self report.

I show them the money and tell them I'm really not feeling the vibes here and expect better attention for this to go down. But I actually want to give them this money for a job well done. We agree to leave it on the table, as if that will matter. They do go over and count it first.

We step in the bed room and things start off somewhat well with a double BBBJ. I notice the girlfriend is driving most of the action and the "main" girl (Vanessa) is reluctant at best. She's getting instructions from the girlfriend.

Next they start cuddling and kissing and I'm having trouble inserting myself anywhere interesting or useful. Drunk or tired, Vanessa is mostly just laying there cuddling her girlfriend. I put on a condom and try to fuck with girlfriend while it's happening but not really able to maintain. Between my frustration, being on my 3rd night of other encounters, and a day tour, I just didn't have it.

I ask for them to finish me with a double BJ and they pretty much ignore me. Eventually the girlfriend starts giving me a HJ and finishes me. They're already getting dressed to roll out. I don't complain because at this point I'm actually mad and just want them out of there.

Would not repeat, don't recommend. Don't be fooled by the offer of a threesome. It's overpriced and you will not be the centerpiece, performance issues aside.

The better stuff:

(DM me for profile names, as I don't want any scheduling conflicts while I'm still here).

First night: 26, doctor. Speaks perfect English. Messaged her on short notice and she changed her plans to come hang out. Quoted me 5 k. Best of Seeking here for me so far.

We met for drinks, as she says she screens people to make sure she actually wants to go back with them. Maybe just something she says, but she seems pretty put together and I could believe it. Great convo, lots of energy, playful. We end up making out at the bar. She's very complimentary of my physique. Total party girl. Loves the city, loves to dance and travel and club. We talk about life, drugs, music, etc.

Go back to my place and it's on. Enthusiastic BBBJ. She declines DATY because she says she's about to start her period. She asks about condoms but lets me go BB in the heat of the moment since I tell her I have clean test results (which is true) and I'm on Prep. She cums and seems legit appreciative of the fucking or is an A+ actress. Maybe both. Finishes me with BBBJCIM and we pass out for a bit.

Wakes up early in the morning, more BBBJ into more BBFS. She offers CIP since she's on the pill, but tires out before I can get there. Finishes me with another BBBJ. Send her home in an Uber. Would definitely repeat, though she's pretty busy.

Next night: 25, industrial engineer. Responded to me in English. Only one photo. Seems very shy, but unlike everyone else I couldn't close the deal with, setup a time and showed up. I offered 3 K. She asked for 4 K and I agreed. Very shy and reserved in person. Speaks a little bit of English, but it's challenging at times.

We met for a cocktail. Lots of awkward pauses. Seems like a sweet girl, but the language barrier was real.

Get back to the place and she wanted to turn all the lights off and stay covered up. Has an extremely tight stomach, but basically no cleavage. A little bit of BBBJ before she insisted I wear a condom for fucking. Took her in a few positions, she seems like missionary and claims to have cum though I'm not so sure. She eventually finishes me with BBBJ and lets me CIM though she doesn't swallow it.

Agrees to stay over for a bit since it's late. We don't sleep that well and wake up for more sex around 5 or 6 in the morning. Basically the same routine and same finish. She then gets dressed and asks me to call an Uber.

I'd be willing to repeat for the decent BBBJCIM, and the fact that she actually scheduled and showed up, which has been challenging for me so far. She's otherwise too reserved for my tastes.

Meanwhile, Tinder has been a few matches with no replies back. I got in touch with the legendary JC and no luck on scheduling thus far. Setup with Elizabeth but she canceled an hour before due to her period. So here I am writing a report instead of getting laid during one of my precious nights in CDMX. Clearly very chill about it haha.

Hope to make the most of my few remaining nights with some improved luck.

In general minimum price I've been quoted on Seeking has been 2. 5 k MXN, with most coming in higher. 6 K has been common for the girls with nice photos.

[JamieJones]

Heading to CDMX next week. Will try to hit up my prev girl from SA, but if not I'll need to start searching again and probably try some escorts as well. Can post report if anything interesting happens or if I have anything to share.

[GasparLeMarc12]

Traveling soon and been looking at some Seeking girls in CDMX. Had really good success (and some misses) a few years ago using SA. Anyone have any recent profiles that are good to check out?

Thanks.

[Kevinburnz]

I'll be arriving in cdmx this weekend. Got a handful of seeking girls lined up. Most are asking 5 k, and the range seems to be from 4. 5 k to 7 k for 8/9's.

We're waiting.

[WillTravel4]

Hi,

I'm visiting CDMX soon, and after reading through the Seeking / Tinder forum I have been wading through SA trying to make a plan. It seems like most profiles are fake so I'm hoping some kinds soul can share SA contacts / profile names with me. DMs open. Thanks a bunch.

[WillTravel4]

Hi, I'll be visiting CDMX for the first time and I'm going to try out SA. It's a bit daunting because it looks like a very high percentage of the profiles are fake. Any SA contacts that you recommend would be most appreciated. Thanks a bunch and have fun.

[DicedForm]

Just recently wrote a report about GDL but heading to CDMX soon. Read through all 9 pages of this forum so have an idea what to expect but any contacts / SA links appreciated and what works for you guys when messaging on SA. Airbnb recs would be appreciated too. Looking forward to posting a trip report. DMs are open thanks.

[Member #4802]

I use seeking extensively in CDMX and GDL. I never used tinder before. Just signed up for platinum.

I am trying to see if I score any on tinder. Tinder is much harder platform compared to tinder. Any tips on how to score the girls? In seeking I can easily take the discussion to whatsapp.

Any pointers on how to approach the girls in tinder? How do I find which one are open for sugar daddy type relationship? Shall I be direct or discreet on this?

Any points and guidance? Thanks in advance.

Sam, try asking if they themselves or any women they know, are moist at the time of opening your message. This will either be met with a time / place or instant ban. All the best #raw.