Seeking, Tinder.

**Cocr Brotheler** · Today 05:03

Originally Posted by LuvMexicanas [View Original Post]

The poster you replied to said, "Scammers abound". That's not much of a revelation. Going on a platform where sex is being sold (hence, it's called seeking arrangement) and being surprised there are unscrupulous people on it preying on desperate, delusional or gullible men is like going to the beach and encountering sand.

I was going to create a separate post for my being scammed very recently but saw this thread first. I just returned from 7 days in CDMX and Puebla. Overall a very nice trip but did get scammed from a contact in 'Extranjeros Solitarios CDMX' Whatsapp group. The scammer is 'Nicole Petite' that posts daily hot images of herself. We arranged for services and I made the modest deposit of 200 MEX however she never appeared at agreed time nor further contacted me. I not bother to follow up since if she missed the appointment not even showing up late is this someone I would enjoy being with?

Not much I really care to do with this since if report it the scammer will just create a new profile and milk as many of us as they can. $10 here, $10 there several or more times a day can really adds up in their bank account. So this $10 loss taught me successfully to filter them out if they request deposit. Or can tell them "Sure bb I will pay the 200 MEX when you arrive into the reception of my hotel". There are plenty who will show and perform without a deposit.

**LuvMexicanas** · Yesterday 07:35

Originally Posted by KenjiYoshioka [View Original Post]

You really know how to rub salt in the wounds. Thanks for that.

The intent wasn't to rub salt in the wounds. Instead it was to illustrate the point of caveat emptor so others who read this thread can avoid the same pain.

**GuiGui123** · Yesterday 00:04

Originally Posted by CrimsonPanda [View Original Post]

Hey friends,

Going on my first solo trip to CDMX and could use some advice. Been reading through the forums and it seems seeking has been good for most members so I got a subscription. Would love to get some tips on how to.

Approach the seeking scene and if anyone is willing to share profiles that would be greatly appreciated as well. I have reached out to the godfather JC as well and he has provided some helpful advice.

Feel free to dm me.

Thanks.

If you like the girls you see on Seeking go for it but be warned it is full of fakes, scams and time wasters. I would recommend you go the escort route for a first trip. Much less chance of things going wrong.

**KenjiYoshioka** · 05-31-25 14:30

Originally Posted by LuvMexicanas [View Original Post]

The poster you replied to said, "Scammers abound". That's not much of a revelation. Going on a platform where sex is being sold (hence, it's called seeking arrangement) and being surprised there are unscrupulous people on it preying on desperate, delusional or gullible men is like going to the beach and encountering sand.

You really know how to rub salt in the wounds. Thanks for that.

**KenjiYoshioka** · 05-31-25 14:29

Originally Posted by Sol12 [View Original Post]

I haven't contacted anyone on Seeking but do look at it from time to time and I wonder if the problem you are having is trying foreign girls like those from Colombia or Venezuela? You might have better luck specifically only looking for Mexican girls.

Actually, I only talked to Mexican girls. I turned down a Colombian girl in Tokyo a few weeks ago, and I've never met a Venezuelan girl that I liked apart from this bartender I met in Lima (but she had a BF).

**CrimsonPanda** · 05-31-25 00:33

Hey friends,

Going on my first solo trip to CDMX and could use some advice. Been reading through the forums and it seems seeking has been good for most members so I got a subscription. Would love to get some tips on how to.

Approach the seeking scene and if anyone is willing to share profiles that would be greatly appreciated as well. I have reached out to the godfather JC as well and he has provided some helpful advice.

Feel free to dm me.

Thanks.

**MexicanCuban** · 05-30-25 23:06

As for sugardating, mexican girls use the seeking website almost all of them.

Sites like whatsyourprice or sugardaddymeet or others don't have many members really.

There are some that use tinder and write in their bio like SD or SB, meaning theyre looking for that.

Guadalajara is a better seeking place than cdmx, less fake profiles and prettier chicks (guadalajara is a very student / university city, so that's a good place to get college chicks). I was there last week and got to meet 3 SBs. Can't wait to go back.

When I go to mexico city, I usually switch my sugar dating mode to escorts mode, because cdmx is the best escort place in mexico.

Cheers.

Originally Posted by GuiGui123 [View Original Post]

Has any one had any luck with other sites than Seeking? Things like sugardaddymeet?

Last time I went to CDMX Seeking was full of hotties and I see that is no longer the case. Very few pretty girls and a lot of scams.

**GuiGui123** · 05-30-25 00:06

Has any one had any luck with other sites than Seeking? Things like sugardaddymeet?

Last time I went to CDMX Seeking was full of hotties and I see that is no longer the case. Very few pretty girls and a lot of scams.

**DramaFree11** · 05-19-25 22:47

Originally Posted by Sol12 [View Original Post]

I haven't contacted anyone on Seeking but do look at it from time to time and I wonder if the problem you are having is trying foreign girls like those from Colombia or Venezuela? You might have better luck specifically only looking for Mexican girls.

Colombia and Venz. Girls are instant blocks for me. Just a waste of time and they are usually way more expensive. I am not attracted to Colombian girls at all, I avoid all of them.

Stick with the Mexican girls they are the best.

**LuvMexicanas** · 05-19-25 16:59

Originally Posted by Sol12 [View Original Post]

I haven't contacted anyone on Seeking but do look at it from time to time and I wonder if the problem you are having is trying foreign girls like those from Colombia or Venezuela? You might have better luck specifically only looking for Mexican girls.

The poster you replied to said, "Scammers abound". That's not much of a revelation. Going on a platform where sex is being sold (hence, it's called seeking arrangement) and being surprised there are unscrupulous people on it preying on desperate, delusional or gullible men is like going to the beach and encountering sand.

**Sol12** · 05-18-25 20:27

Originally Posted by KenjiYoshioka [View Original Post]

I can't vouch for Guadalajara, but I can concur with MC about CDMX. Scammers abound. Bitches be flaky. I was fooled into thinking this was a happy hunting ground. Now that I'm here, I've been ghosted and bullshitted by over half a dozen "girls" if they are girls indeed. Some girls are changing their tune and trying to change the terms of our meetings now that I'm here. What a cesspool.

I've got another half dozen to try, but I'm not going to hold my breath.

I haven't contacted anyone on Seeking but do look at it from time to time and I wonder if the problem you are having is trying foreign girls like those from Colombia or Venezuela? You might have better luck specifically only looking for Mexican girls.

**DramaFree11** · 05-18-25 03:48

Originally Posted by KenjiYoshioka [View Original Post]

I can't vouch for Guadalajara, but I can concur with MC about CDMX. Scammers abound. Bitches be flaky. I was fooled into thinking this was a happy hunting ground. Now that I'm here, I've been ghosted and bullshitted by over half a dozen "girls" if they are girls indeed. Some girls are changing their tune and trying to change the terms of our meetings now that I'm here. What a cesspool.

I've got another half dozen to try, but I'm not going to hold my breath.

Sorry, I have the complete opposite experience. I have been killing in CDMX for a couple of years now. I have a very low scammer rate, compared to MTY, honestly I have given up on MTY, it was great, but that ship has sailed.

As far as GDL, I like the city, but there is no comparison to SA in CDMX. CDMX is way better, not even close. GDL has some cool strip clubs, but for girls stick with CDMX.

**LuvMexicanas** · 05-17-25 17:45

Originally Posted by KenjiYoshioka [View Original Post]

I can't vouch for Guadalajara, but I can concur with MC about CDMX. Scammers abound. Bitches be flaky. I was fooled into thinking this was a happy hunting ground. Now that I'm here, I've been ghosted and bullshitted by over half a dozen "girls" if they are girls indeed. Some girls are changing their tune and trying to change the terms of our meetings now that I'm here. What a cesspool.

I've got another half dozen to try, but I'm not going to hold my breath.

Tinder worked well for me leading up to my visit several months ago. I met two very nice girls both mid-20's who were down to earth and a lot of fun. We enjoyed drinks and food and each showed me around. I had sex with one and got close with the other. If I lived in CDMX, I'd actually see each whenever I had the time. Both were looking for something long term and that's not me so we drifted apart, albeit I will get a message from time to time on when I'll be back in CDMX.

**KenjiYoshioka** · 05-17-25 14:36

I can't vouch for Guadalajara, but I can concur with MC about CDMX. Scammers abound. Bitches be flaky. I was fooled into thinking this was a happy hunting ground. Now that I'm here, I've been ghosted and bullshitted by over half a dozen "girls" if they are girls indeed. Some girls are changing their tune and trying to change the terms of our meetings now that I'm here. What a cesspool.

I've got another half dozen to try, but I'm not going to hold my breath.

**MexicanCuban** · 05-15-25 16:51

Originally Posted by Uncountable [View Original Post]

Amongst the ones you listed, which city would you say is the best for seeking?

I would say guadalajara is the best city for seeking, I've fucked dozens of sugar babies over there, mexico city seeking scene is full of fake profiles, but there are some good finds if you can get past the fake scamming profiles. Also cancun / playa del carmen is a good seeking arrangement scene.