Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

**Phil50** · 05-19-25 11:48

I wanted to call out some Bangalore profiles, which were rude, when I declined their offer.

I have been around long enough, to know feelings are involved and I don't do anything which might hurt them, If I'm not interested, I politely thank them and say i'll get back if interested,
or if the ask is too high, I decline. I am transparent about my age and what I'm looking for in my profile and first message.

Ana & Funmiss were abusive for no reason. In the latter case, the lady said she was working at an ad agency, seemed reasonably educated. When I told her I'll get back to her she told me she
had others waiting and I needed to confirm right away, When I declined and told her I had no problem if she met others, she just turned abusive and then blocked.

There are invariably some of these girls for whom some minor thing can set them off. I guess it would be a lot worse when you have paid and expect intimacy without the toxicity.
These are women who have been around for at least a year. My earlier point of they being jaded. They know there is always someone who will meet their needs.

We come here to have a fun time and not walk on eggshells when talking to these girls. I think we should have zero tolerance for such behaviour.

**Phil50** · 05-19-25 11:26

Originally Posted by Kommodo1 [View Original Post]

Hi,

Does anyone has feedback / review about below Bangalore SA profiles.

Janabi.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-274d922fd8a5

BonzaiSpirit.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...1-60ddf5d9f64a

Disha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-47956938b0dc

Girishma.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...1-48ae7107d52b

Janabi looked like a cheap escort and is 35+.

Bonzai Spirit quoted 30 k. Looks were average (for me) so I had no reason to discuss further.

Disha. There are two Disha's, they are the same person. NE girl who wanted me to quote a rate first, which I don't do. I got GPS vibes.
She says she's new, but has been around for some time.

Girishima. Athletic body. Wanted 25 k which is more than what I do and not looking for a long term GFE, which is what I wanted.

**Kommodo1** · 05-19-25 09:29

Hi,

Does anyone has feedback / review about below Bangalore SA profiles.

Janabi.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-274d922fd8a5

BonzaiSpirit.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...1-60ddf5d9f64a

Disha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-47956938b0dc

Girishma.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...1-48ae7107d52b

**Psybram** · 05-19-25 04:34

We are just a country of desperate involuntary celibate men. Online mediums have empowered women who are willing to sell. I see rates go up from 2 k to 40 k. This is not just here. Head over to tango. There are simps spending 20 k on a fully clothed young woman.

Originally Posted by Phil50 [View Original Post]

I joined SA Bangalore in 2016 and had been in Delhi before that, so I had an idea how this worked. I had some good relationships in Bangalore earlier.
My current girl and I have been together since 2018 and I rejoined since she is leaving. However, in the last few years, things have been downhill. There is hardly anyone like the kind of SB the site
is supposed to attract. While pre covid I could meet 6-8 girls for a first casual meet, see 2-3 again and have a long term arrangement with 1, it is now difficult to even find 1 person for the 'meet & greet', if one is not looking for a professional escort.

Compared to earlier, there are fewer 'toe dippers' who don't know what SA is about, but more WGs, SPs, women you would not look at twice on the street, or girls who are deluded about the money they can get on SA. There are more people who are making multiple profiles, fake pics etc.

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**JustLikeThe** · 05-19-25 03:37

Just was echoing your narrative with a tad of my journey!! .

Cheers Mate!

Originally Posted by Phil50 [View Original Post]

I joined SA Bangalore in 2016 and had been in Delhi before that, so I had an idea how this worked. I had some good relationships in Bangalore earlier.
My current girl and I have been together since 2018 and I rejoined since she is leaving. However, in the last few years, things have been downhill. There is hardly anyone like the kind of SB the site
is supposed to attract. While pre covid I could meet 6-8 girls for a first casual meet, see 2-3 again and have a long term arrangement with 1, it is now difficult to even find 1 person for the 'meet & greet', if one is not looking for a professional escort.

Compared to earlier, there are fewer 'toe dippers' who don't know what SA is about, but more WGs, SPs, women you would not look at twice on the street, or girls who are deluded about the money they can get on SA. There are more people who are making multiple profiles, fake pics etc.

**Phil50** · 05-19-25 03:21

Originally Posted by JustLikeThe [View Original Post]

I have had wonderful memories in Bangalore. In fact, it was the place I started in 2018. It was no surprise to me living there in the past, that the ladies would embrace this unconventional dating and it was so great back then (still is with a smaller ratio). Mum, Kol, Del. Each having its own dynamics.

In the past, My experience was down to simple filtering (and theirs) if we shared similar expectations, chemistry, Vibes and so forth, kinda straightforward. When I started in 2018, Luckily for me in a week of messaging I was down with girl that was so warm, respectful and caring. Just a normal organic girl you would meet in day to day life. Life followed with many such nice folks I have successfully shared time with. Albeit. There we some instances as well, my gut feel didn't come out good, I was not disciplined and that's all across not only confined to blr. Still life springs new surprises haha!

I joined SA Bangalore in 2016 and had been in Delhi before that, so I had an idea how this worked. I had some good relationships in Bangalore earlier.
My current girl and I have been together since 2018 and I rejoined since she is leaving. However, in the last few years, things have been downhill. There is hardly anyone like the kind of SB the site
is supposed to attract. While pre covid I could meet 6-8 girls for a first casual meet, see 2-3 again and have a long term arrangement with 1, it is now difficult to even find 1 person for the 'meet & greet', if one is not looking for a professional escort.

Compared to earlier, there are fewer 'toe dippers' who don't know what SA is about, but more WGs, SPs, women you would not look at twice on the street, or girls who are deluded about the money they can get on SA. There are more people who are making multiple profiles, fake pics etc.

**JustLikeThe** · 05-19-25 03:08

I have notion of featured profiles, It could be wrong. BrilliantMizz, Crystal, and many more. You get the drift. All were genuine folks but pro.

P.S. I did have a chat with her in tg, ppm discussed, no photo shared.

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Originally Posted by AlexDani6103 [View Original Post]

Hey fellows,

Anyone met below profile, if could share pics or experience, will be greatful.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...9-892cb67ebed5

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**KynkarX** · 05-18-25 19:54

Hot Techie:

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...a-9ca2149fa572

Mentioned in profile that she is only there for a few days in Bangalore but avoids the question in chat. Takes time to respond but is too chubby for my liking though she sent titillating pics.

**KynkarX** · 05-18-25 17:39

Originally Posted by FunForSandy [View Original Post]

Do you mind sharing the profile name if this girl?

Will do if I can't connect with her again or if she is not interested. Give me sometime to see if this can still be viable option for me.

**FunForSandy** · 05-18-25 17:36

Originally Posted by KynkarX [View Original Post]

Felt exactly the same. The lady in this instance did not ask for any allowance for the meet or was even hesitant to order more drinks or more food. Wonderful conversation and we talked about a lot of things. She was blushing at some point of time as well. Nice impression that I was even thinking long term at some point during the conversation as well. She asked a few hundred bucks for return cab but she declined when I offered some cash for cab when coming to the restaurant earlier. If she was a scammer she would have got more cash from me but she didn't. Left me perplexed though I wasted some money on the hotel booking. Will see if I can connect with her later and pick up from where we left.

Do you mind sharing the profile name if this girl?

**JustLikeThe** · 05-18-25 17:18

I have had wonderful memories in Bangalore. In fact, it was the place I started in 2018. It was no surprise to me living there in the past, that the ladies would embrace this unconventional dating and it was so great back then (still is with a smaller ratio). Mum, Kol, Del. Each having its own dynamics.

In the past, My experience was down to simple filtering (and theirs) if we shared similar expectations, chemistry, Vibes and so forth, kinda straightforward. When I started in 2018, Luckily for me in a week of messaging I was down with girl that was so warm, respectful and caring. Just a normal organic girl you would meet in day to day life. Life followed with many such nice folks I have successfully shared time with. Albeit. There we some instances as well, my gut feel didn't come out good, I was not disciplined and that's all across not only confined to blr. Still life springs new surprises haha!

Transition. There are a bunch and combination of reasons we all can clearly make out for the current state. In hindsight, maybe we should have seen this coming (buy hey, When your enjoying how it was. I wasn't going to ponder LOL) The same strengths of social, culture and economics has been the bait for greedy non-stakeholders.

Future. Are the golden days coming back? One common denominator we might share is. Yes, we want it as it was back then or back in a time machine with our learnt wisdom. The sad truth is the ship as sailed and it is a new sailors game with rough waters. Optimistically waiting for better weather. Will it?

Originally Posted by Phil50 [View Original Post]

Perfectly sums up my view. I am leaving SA (Bangalore) for good. The last 2 times I subscribed against my better judgement. I was lucky to find one person last time.

This time I haven't even found one person for the coffee meet. I did finalise with one, but she ghosted.

**Kommodo1** · 05-18-25 12:37

Originally Posted by Phil50 [View Original Post]

She wasn't in Bangalore earlier. The profile only just appeared, though the joining date shows Oct 24.

Yeah I also felt like that. Not able to make sure if it's independent or SP operated. Though by chatting it felt like genuine.

**Phil50** · 05-18-25 12:26

Originally Posted by JustLikeThe [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-0e804799b6e0

Moved to text last year and exchanged texts for a week. Her location at that time was Punjab or something like that and second pic (Not the same but identical). Everything was looking good over text and she said she could travel cause I could not travel to her location. Silence after that and I kept seeing multiple profiles with identical photos.

Multiple ID & locations is usually the SP trying to get business from multiple locations.

Or an independent (if it is one profile) who moves to a city for a few days for new mongers. There are not that many who will pay upwards of 25 k, so if she is in a smaller city, clients are few.

If someone had to travel only to see you, you cost goes up.

**Phil50** · 05-18-25 12:21

Originally Posted by Kommodo1 [View Original Post]

Hi,

Does anyone has any feedback about SA Bangalore below profile.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...0-e68623997daf

Any review / feedback is appreciated.

She wasn't in Bangalore earlier. The profile only just appeared, though the joining date shows Oct 24.

**KynkarX** · 05-18-25 11:55

Originally Posted by FunForSandy [View Original Post]

3. Like you I also had a case of the girl developing cold feet at the last moment. She in an engineer and was working with a reputed MNC. We met over lunch where she was very nervous to begin with and she stayed back till almost 10 pm With me. Post lunch we went for long walks, had coffee and ice cream. She revealed her real name, the name of her employer, held my hand while walking. At some point she suggested that she wanted to get intimate. I asked her to reconsider and said we should do it only if she is very sure. After sometime she asked me to book a room. We went all the way to the hotel, and that's when she apologized and said she wants to back off. I obviously respected her decision and she went back. But she never met me again. We had great chemistry, she didn't ask even for cab fare. I had offered to buy her a dress when we were walking past a Vero Moda store, she refused that also. So I don't know what her motivation was, certainly it wasn't money. But yes, such things happen.

Felt exactly the same. The lady in this instance did not ask for any allowance for the meet or was even hesitant to order more drinks or more food. Wonderful conversation and we talked about a lot of things. She was blushing at some point of time as well. Nice impression that I was even thinking long term at some point during the conversation as well. She asked a few hundred bucks for return cab but she declined when I offered some cash for cab when coming to the restaurant earlier. If she was a scammer she would have got more cash from me but she didn't. Left me perplexed though I wasted some money on the hotel booking. Will see if I can connect with her later and pick up from where we left.