Seeking Arrangements

**HumbleHal** · Yesterday 02:56

Originally Posted by VanessasClient [View Original Post]

The "father complex" idea was invented by one Sigmund freud.

All you need to understand about Sigmund Freud is his theory about "Penis Envy. " Women wish they had a penis- because they envy yours, so be sure to give it to them. Long, hard, fast, slow. Put it in and take it out. Turn it all about, that's the hokey pokey!

**VanessasClient** · Yesterday 01:24

Originally Posted by Desin [View Original Post]

Well, it's abusing another person's developmental trauma, which she is re-enacting again and again. A girl who believes to be fundamentally bad and worthless (for Dad / men) will do things that keep that belief of her self-worth (lesness) alive and well.

Question is, would one wish that to be done for himself? One's own sister? Children?

I think one can feel for these individuals and enjoy their company, but it has to be sexless. Just appreciation, admiration and humane love. That is what heals them. But the requirement is to sacrifice one's own sexual urges.

Plenty of girls out there who just want to abuse us to get paid.

The "father complex" idea was invented by one sigmund freud. Mr. Freud's heyday was in the late 1800's. A time in history where the scientific community had very little understanding of the human mind. We no longer live in 1890. Most psychologists who have graduated during the past decade VEHEMENTLY condemn nearly all of the theories presented freud, with the possible exception of defense mechanisms. The idea of "daddy issues" came from an individual who is now recognized as a KNOWN PERVERT! Today we can treat people with cognitive behavioral therapy, and do not rely on retarded concepts such as the oedipus complex.

Tell me something. Let's say that a woman is born to a father who divorced the mom during pregnancy because he found out she was cheating. So the dad raises the girl by himself for the first 8 years, doing an excellent job. The girl is doing very well in school, and shows promising signs of becoming a very productive and capable adult. But then the dad suddenly dies unexpectedly, so she goes to live with her mom. And by now the mom is a crack addict, so the girl is either neglected, abused, or whatever it is you think happens to girls who have daddy issues. If the girl drops out of school and goes to live on the streets, are you all the sudden going to say she has "mommy issues" instead? Get real. Anything can cause childhood trauma; don't blame it solely on fathers who are losers.

**The Cane** · 06-05-25 17:19

Originally Posted by Kazeu [View Original Post]

I'm waiting for seeking to implement mandatory videos like fatalmodel does in Brazil. But I imagine that now with advanced AI, there will some be a way to fake videos of oneself very soon.

That's already happening it's already happening!

**Kazeu** · 06-05-25 17:03

Originally Posted by TheCane [View Original Post]

And what makes you think the women won't lie about their weight like they do about their age, their looks (posting old pics), etc? Sounds like a fatty told you the truth, but you know plenty of others will lie. As far as I see, it's just the same old same old as long as people are being people. Regarding the price, I have that kind of coin and then some. It's not just about the money. It's about the return I'm getting on my money (and my time). Again, acknowledging the States is the only place I ever used Seeking, just too many fakes, flakes, fraudsters, and scammers! And I don't do $500/ pop in the USA with average looking girls either. I'll be sticking exclusively to overseas trips to Brazil, Germany, and other countries. With some of those trips being up to a month at a time. Combining a love of travel with a lust for fucking attractive girls at favorable prices. That's how I do. Look for future field reports.

I'm waiting for seeking to implement mandatory videos like fatalmodel does in Brazil. But I imagine that now with advanced AI, there will some be a way to fake videos of oneself very soon.

**Kazeu** · 06-05-25 16:58

Originally Posted by Desin [View Original Post]

Well, it's abusing another person's developmental trauma, which she is re-enacting again and again. A girl who believes to be fundamentally bad and worthless (for Dad / men) will do things that keep that belief of her self-worth (lesness) alive and well.

Question is, would one wish that to be done for himself? One's own sister? Children?

I think one can feel for these individuals and enjoy their company, but it has to be sexless. Just appreciation, admiration and humane love. That is what heals them. But the requirement is to sacrifice one's own sexual urges.

Plenty of girls out there who just want to abuse us to get paid.

Is it wrong to just say, hey, not my problem. Everyone is abusing everyone else to some degree. Everyone acts in self interest alone. This whole site is about how to "abuse" women. And in turn the women "abuse" us. She's a women with "daddy" issues. We're all men with "sex" issues. Who's abusing who more? Are her daddy issues worse for her than my addiciton to sex is for me? She should have the self awareness not to sell herself for money just as we should have the self awareness that all this empty sex that we buy isn't going to fill the void in our souls. My issues are not her problem, her issues are not mine.

**Desin** · 06-05-25 15:59

Originally Posted by AmericanPi [View Original Post]

Is it wrong that I kind of like it when girls have daddy issues?

Well, it's abusing another person's developmental trauma, which she is re-enacting again and again. A girl who believes to be fundamentally bad and worthless (for Dad / men) will do things that keep that belief of her self-worth (lesness) alive and well.

Question is, would one wish that to be done for himself? One's own sister? Children?

I think one can feel for these individuals and enjoy their company, but it has to be sexless. Just appreciation, admiration and humane love. That is what heals them. But the requirement is to sacrifice one's own sexual urges.

Plenty of girls out there who just want to abuse us to get paid.

**AmericanPi** · 06-05-25 15:17

Anybody know when the price increase is taking effect, or how much it's going to be?

**VanessasClient** · 06-03-25 04:52

Ever since they removed income and assets, far fewer women have been contacting me, despite the number of profile views, jajajaja. Money talks.

**The Cane** · 06-01-25 23:39

Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]

Interesting. I actually find the weight helpful. More for girl weights. I wa browsing and saw an attractive girl. No body shots. Then read her weight was 180-190. Ok time saved! Thank you Seeking!

I don't really have a problem with the pricing. If your going to date girls at $500/ pop in USA who gives a fuck whether it's $110 or $130/ Mon. If you don't have that coin then fish elsewhere.

And what makes you think the women won't lie about their weight like they do about their age, their looks (posting old pics), etc? Sounds like a fatty told you the truth, but you know plenty of others will lie. As far as I see, it's just the same old same old as long as people are being people. Regarding the price, I have that kind of coin and then some. It's not just about the money. It's about the return I'm getting on my money (and my time). Again, acknowledging the States is the only place I ever used Seeking, just too many fakes, flakes, fraudsters, and scammers! And I don't do $500/ pop in the USA with average looking girls either. I'll be sticking exclusively to overseas trips to Brazil, Germany, and other countries. With some of those trips being up to a month at a time. Combining a love of travel with a lust for fucking attractive girls at favorable prices. That's how I do. Look for future field reports.

**Steve 9696** · 06-01-25 23:09

Originally Posted by VanessasClient [View Original Post]

It just happened the other day. Not only did they remove income and assets, but prices are going up as well, as long mandatory weight. They claim that weight can be hidden, but that doesn't stop the female members from putting it into their search criteria. Even if it's not visible on the profile, they can still filter out.

https://blog.seeking.com/why-we-remo...ign=reasonswhy

Interesting. I actually find the weight helpful. More for girl weights. I wa browsing and saw an attractive girl. No body shots. Then read her weight was 180-190. Ok time saved! Thank you Seeking!

I don't really have a problem with the pricing. If your going to date girls at $500/ pop in USA who gives a fuck whether it's $110 or $130/ Mon. If you don't have that coin then fish elsewhere.

**VanessasClient** · 06-01-25 20:32

It just happened the other day. Not only did they remove income and assets, but prices are going up as well, as long mandatory weight. They claim that weight can be hidden, but that doesn't stop the female members from putting it into their search criteria. Even if it's not visible on the profile, they can still filter out.

https://blog.seeking.com/why-we-remo...ign=reasonswhy

**Locamotive** · 05-30-25 16:38

Originally Posted by DwayneJohnson [View Original Post]

https://www.foxnews.com/us/las-vegas...weekend-report

Overpaid and still doesn't get to have sex instead gets robbed. I don't get showing off wealth to paid sex workers.

P.S.: girl in the photo looks below average to me when compared to EU girls hence the use of "overpaid".

$2500. HaHaHaHa. And people wonder why we travel. If I was Elon Musk I'm not paying 2500 for pussy, ID be sick just thinking what I paid.

**DwayneJohnson** · 05-30-25 08:12

https://www.foxnews.com/us/las-vegas...weekend-report

Overpaid and still doesn't get to have sex instead gets robbed. I don't get showing off wealth to paid sex workers.

P.S.: girl in the photo looks below average to me when compared to EU girls hence the use of "overpaid".

**The Cane** · 05-20-25 23:26

Originally Posted by HumbleHal [View Original Post]

Sounds like the 29-year-old Russian adoptee I am now porking. All the Russian girls like to fuck. That is the "need" you are fulfilling as well as paying them off for the fuck.

I have found Russian girls to be really good fucks too. Just not through Seeking LOL. Has me thinking about taking another trip to the UAE. I find them in Germany too, but not in the concentration that exists in the UAE.

**HumbleHal** · 05-20-25 19:47

Originally Posted by ExpatAmerican [View Original Post]

Back many moons ago when SA in the US was full of normal girls rather than pro, I met this mid 20's girl who had serious daddy and other issues. But she was one of the most submissive compliant girls I have ever met. She did everything and anything (lots of hard spanking, slapping, spitting, piss in mouth) and pleasing me was her life's mission. I took her to sex clubs and used her up, down and sideways in pubic and she would still be begging to give me a BJ on the drive home. She was adopted from Russia as a child where apparently her dad tried to burn the house down with her in it (or so she told me) so, yeah damaged goods for sure.
Then she got a "BF" who turned out to be a pimp and he put her on the motel hooking circuit and I saw her ads online. Have no idea where she may be now but probably nowhere good..

Sounds like the 29-year-old Russian adoptee I am now porking. All the Russian girls like to fuck. That is the "need" you are fulfilling as well as paying them off for the fuck.