Singapore

[DrBickskool]

I will be coming to SG after 3 weeks. I am trying to set up a few DH to meet and have kept my Sunday off especially for that. Also will try the club scenes at Clarquay. Geylang scene is very superficial and whambam for me. Never liked it. And Brix and Ipanema gals are too costly nowadays. Want to explore club and pick up scene. I have stayed at multiple standard hotels in SG and never faced of taking in any gal. Once I took in 4 gals with quite a noise in the hall, but no one ever stopped me. This time I am planning to stay at Holiday Inn, orchard road or Clarquay. So anyone can give me a thumbs up if they have a positive experience.

Please help me with best clubs to explore for pick up game.

Also to advise best area to stay. Near Clarquay or near Orchard road?

Also if any paid DHs are available on weekdays or Saturday. Will be happy if anyone shares. I will be happy to reciprocate.

Will definitely post FR and help will be reciprocated. I am an avid traveler with good experience.

[DrBickskool]

Is 66 chambers adult only event worth going?

I will be in Singapore after 2 weeks. So want to know more about this event and if it's worth to join. My PM is open.

[Expat American]

DHs definitely gravitate towards westerners, just like most Asian women, and largely avoid or are very wary of guys from India and the 'subcontinent.' That's not only what I read here all the time but also what DHs (Filipinos and Indonesians) in Singapore and Hong Kong have told me, along with WLs in Singapore, eg many at Brix. So if you fall into that category, I'm sorry to say you will be against the odds / behind the 8 ball right from the start, IMHO.

That's just not true. Most of the DH are dating Bangla construction workers and you can see pairs of them all around every Sunday.

[TigerMuskie]

Just a heads up, I checked out all Asian providers on Massage Republic. I contacted 4 of the ones I liked through WhatsApp or Telegram. Some of the women were listed as Japanese, Thai or Pinay. Prices listed on the site for 60 minutes was $150-$230 USD. When I asked about their incall location they all gave me the same address of an apartment on River Valley Rd. So I am guessing this is an agency. Has anyone experienced this place?

[DeepThoughts7]

Can I get direct contacts of Singapore girl? I will be staying next 3 days. I visited Geylang and took 3 girls but not satisfied. 30 lor 18 was not allowing Indians and guy was shouting.

Hi, I am sorry to hear about your experience. Unfortunately, this happens in places all over the world (please see my post below) and what Flyboy2000 also mentioned. I wanted to very politely ask what exactly happened when you say "was not allowing Indians and the guy was shouting?" Did the manager just not let you in, or did he explicitly say you cannot enter because you are of a particular background. I take it he shouted at you also?

[ChennaiBoy]

Can I get direct contacts of Singapore girl? I will be staying next 3 days. I visited Geylang and took 3 girls but not satisfied. 30 lor 18 was not allowing Indians and guy was shouting.

[DeepThoughts7]

DHs definitely gravitate towards westerners, just like most Asian women, and largely avoid or are very wary of guys from India and the 'subcontinent.' That's not only what I read here all the time but also what DHs (Filipinos and Indonesians) in Singapore and Hong Kong have told me, along with WLs in Singapore, eg many at Brix. So if you fall into that category, I'm sorry to say you will be against the odds / behind the 8 ball right from the start, IMHO.

Hi, thanks for the feedback again. My last question / point was for a friend. I told him to try his luck and read the forum also to get some necessary background information. If he faces some "selection bias", he should not take it personally, at it is the lady's choice on who she wants to spend her time with. Moreover, you do not want to meet a lady overseas, in a foreign country, and have any type of misunderstanding with her.

Mr. AussieGaigin said it the best, move on to the next one, if not the next one, and so on and so forth, but do not take it personally. I told my friend to be upfront and honest, and if the lady did not like his look on WeChat or DateInAsia, do not expect any response back. He is of Indian descent but was born and raised in America, so he sounds and acts completely like an American. I asked him to post his experiences once his trip is over.

This type of "filtering" happens everywhere. Please look at these sites, one in Montreal, some in London, and the last one on the other side of the globe in Sydney; some of the ladies specifically exclude certain men, or explicitly list as willing to meet men of a certain background. Again it is their choice on who they want to be with and who they are comfortable in meeting. I also heard it happens in Germany with the agencies there. They are just not so blunt on their websites, they just tell you when you call them, or claim the lady is unavailable, or specifically ask for nationality in the booking request form. But then again it is Germany... LOL!

- euphoriagirls.com/models.
- rachaelslondonescorts.co.uk/category/moc-escorts/
- diorescorts.com/categories/moc-escorts
- ginzaclub.com.au/Girls.

QUESTION: You mentioned the providers at Brix are selective. I understand that, as it is a more high end establishment. Would this type of "exclusion" also occur at the bars in Circular Quay and Boat Quay?

This is my last question on this topic as I am simply curious. As mentioned, I am not judging anyone, and am in no way trying to start any type of negative debate.

[RahulSrivas]

Is 66 chambers adult only event worth going?

[AussieGaigin]

Hi Mr. Flyboy 2000, thank you again for your insights. You hit a very subtle but important point in your last line. It is my understanding that in Asia the ladies can be extremely judgmental on the gentleman's background. Do you know if the DHs tend to gravitate to men of a certain "background"? I. e. Do they prefer that the guy be of Asian or European descent and tend to avoid other type of gentlemen.

I want to stress I am not trying to start any type of debate or looking down on anyone. Rather, I am just trying to understand the ground realities better. I have read in the KL forum that certain background have a hard time meeting ladies. That is all.

Most of the DHs will be Indonesian or Pinay. I don't think they are too selective when it comes to some quickie sex. If you can't hook up with one, move to the next selection.

[Flyboy 2000]

Hi Mr. Flyboy 2000, thank you again for your insights. You hit a very subtle but important point in your last line. It is my understanding that in Asia the ladies can be extremely judgmental on the gentleman's background. Do you know if the DHs tend to gravitate to men of a certain "background"? I. e. Do they prefer that the guy be of Asian or European descent and tend to avoid other type of gentlemen. I want to stress I am not trying to start any type of debate or looking down on anyone. Rather, I am just trying to understand the ground realities better. I have read in the KL forum that certain background have a hard time meeting ladies. That is all.

DHs definitely gravitate towards westerners, just like most Asian women, and largely avoid or are very wary of guys from India and the 'subcontinent.' That's not only what I read here all the time but also what DHs (Filipinos and Indonesians) in Singapore and Hong Kong have told me, along with WLs in Singapore, eg many at Brix. So if you fall into that category, I'm sorry to say you will be against the odds / behind the 8 ball right from the start, IMHO.

[DeepThoughts7]

So absolutely you can pick up DHs using WeChat, just remember the two golden rules of dating. 1: Be attractive, and 2. Don't be unattractive.

Hi Mr. Flyboy 2000, thank you again for your insights. You hit a very subtle but important point in your last line. It is my understanding that in Asia the ladies can be extremely judgmental on the gentleman's background. Do you know if the DHs tend to gravitate to men of a certain "background"? I. e. Do they prefer that the guy be of Asian or European descent and tend to avoid other type of gentlemen.

I want to stress I am not trying to start any type of debate or looking down on anyone. Rather, I am just trying to understand the ground realities better. I have read in the KL forum that certain background have a hard time meeting ladies. That is all.

[Flyboy 2000]

I also wanted to ask if anyone has had luck recently meeting domestic helper using WeChat or at the malls they hang out on their day off. Mr. Flyboy 2000 has provided some great insights, but I just wanted to kindly please ask if anyone had used it more recently. Thanks.

I've never picked up a DH from a mall, and generally connect with them via Tinder or DateInAsia before my trip so I can build a little rapport, do a video call for fun, work out which ones I want to see and spend time with on my visit. But meeting a DH using WeChat, definitely. 'People Nearby' is your friend.

Picked up one on a Sunday afternoon, she'd just finished catching up with friends at a mall which turned out to be one block from my hotel. We started chatting, it was as always a stinking hot humid day, I suggested we could meet for a cold beer and she could freshen up with a shower in my room. She was up for it, so I ducked down to the 7-11 to grab two bottles of beer and stow them in my hotel room's mini-bar bridge. She came up, we had our beers, she had a quick shower, came back out in the bathrobe and then the fun began. Nice full-on Pinay fun, FS, and then she went home happy. Never asked for money.

Another one was an Indo DH, we connected online and it turned out she worked for a family in a high-rise condo just behind my hotel, literally a five-minute walk away. She arranged to have an evening off, was up for a light supper at the hotel, so we did the 'wine dine and 69' routine. All holes, full-on fun, and again, never asked for money, just enjoyed being treated nicely by a nice guy.

So absolutely you can pick up DHs using WeChat, just remember the two golden rules of dating. 1: Be attractive, and 2. Don't be unattractive.

[Econo Tech]

Hi, I feel this even more. I lived off and on in Singapore during OT's glory day and did absolutely nothing. I even stayed in the area and saw every type of guy leaving with all the various types of ladies, and still did nothing but look and go back to my work.

I used to drink often at the Baliba, as happy hour prices were good.

Only rarely I was tempted to take out, and made sure it's not a drama queen. It worked. For a while.

Avoided the regular hanger ONS.

[Econo Tech]

I am traveling to Singapore on May 2. Need some contacts to meet.

Well, check into the popular spots like Clark Quay, Boat Quay, dress nicely, don't show off, get a drink and smile.

That may work.

Or head to Ipanema at Cecil Street.

Brix at Hyatt (again, presence and conduct matters).

Otherwise, look for this site called Sammy Boy Forum. Loads of agents there, offering all kinds from 250's $ a pop upwards.

Unfortunately it is IP blocked in Singapore.

[DeepThoughts7]

So now that OT is closed where do all the Domestic Helpers go on a Sunday for their off-days to relax?

Hi, I wanted to politely follow up on this question? Any insights would be helpful.

I also wanted to ask if anyone has had luck recently meeting domestic helper using WeChat or at the malls they hang out on their day off. Mr. Flyboy 2000 has provided some great insights, but I just wanted to kindly please ask if anyone had used it more recently. Thanks.