Sugar Life

[SpeedoGhost]

Hi guys, although not a fan of on-line mongering have finally taken the plunge with Seeking (obviously not an early adopter). Appreciate a couple of pointers from those who are more familiar with the site, either directly here in the open forum or to my PM:

* Rates when clubbing, usually stick to Dhs500ST or Dhs1,000 to 1,500 all night, less if from York or Ratsky (usually Dhs800 all night). Is this going to work with the Seeking girls? Impression I get is they will be looking for more, in some cases significantly more, especially with western / Russian / Caucasians? Am obviously not going to be paying the ridiculous amounts some posters have reported (eg Dhs5 k) but what is realistic?

* How to raise the payment issue? Have seen posts about potentially getting banned. But many of the website bio's talk about "benefits" and "financial arrangements" so it can't be taboo. Assume best to switch to WhatsApp and if possible talk direct rather than message? And just make an offer (at levels given above?) - phrased as a "gift" - rather than asking what they expect. And if they shut it down immediately, move on?

* I've seen quite a few of the bio photos before on Tinder (especially those of the African beauty queens). They're fakes. I'd hoped Seeking would have been able to filter these out, but how prevalent is bait&switch? I'm guessing its usual on Seeking to meet for a drink or meal first, so if any of the girls offer immediate outcall then likely they're fakes?

Anyone looking at my previous posts should see that I'm not a manger, so appreciate any feedback.

[SuperMan26]

So now I am flaking on many SBs who seem to want a ppm + free meals / drinks at high end places.

As an Arab, preferring Arabs, I have been chatting with a Moroccan SB for quite sometime and we always rescheduled. On that day, I had a casual date planned with one polish SB, we agreed we're just going for drinks to have fun as friends as I didn't like her ppm of 2 k. Just an hour before, the Moroccan SB asks me if I'm free, she asked for 2. 5 k, ridiculous, told her my limit is 1 k but I will do 1. 5 k only for you. Apologized for the polish lady and sent her flowers (don't burn bridges man, 300 AED flower box will ensure you get her hooked next time). Met the Moroccan for drinks at bar near my home, just for a vibe, hygiene, look check. All good, looks better in person, and has many fantasies which I liked. So we're back to my apartment, after playing with her while driving home.

First shot best sloppy BBBJ I had in my life. Spent 3 hours chatting drinking and cuddling at my place. Tried the second one, but damn man, with stress at work I had erection problems. Just another BJ to get me finished. She was not willing to leave and wants to sleep at my home, but I am just not in the mood for that, got work 9 in the morning and also for safety reasons. Ordered her a taxi. It was a great 7 hours with her.

I have another Lebanese SB for Thursday night, but looks I will also flake on her.

[SuperMan26]

Chatting with few SBs at the moment, one Moroccan that I met yesterday, who claimed to be on her period once I did not agree going to GAL in address hotel for drinks.

She didn't want to look awful, so agreed that we go to a bar of my choice, LOL. Went to some nice bar, 2 whiskey shots for me and 2 cheap wine glasses that I selected for her. Total damage 1. 5 HR of my time and 230 dirhams, not bad, haha. I enjoyed my time as I was already drunk and did not have any plans of going out anyway.

Lebanese SB, beautiful, very private and hesitates to share non-disappearing photos. I will meet her later this week.

Few others, I'm just shortlisting, too many choices and I'm distracted.

Dubai is just flooded with hungry SBs that agree to 1-1. 5 K PPM which is OK for me as long as she's clean, nice, and will satisfy my needs.

See you in another report soon! Cheers.

[Mad Hatter]

She selected an extremely overpriced joint, the type that sprinkles salt as a trademark.

If anyone looks to eat at Saltbae, I take that as a red flag. That restaurant is a place for sinfluencers and wannabes. Some of the worst food that only sells because of social media hype. Shows me that the girl has no taste. Any girl who wants to go to Saltbae is a girl I want nothing from.

[Mad Hatter]

I'm recently seeing a lot of SA profiles with this tag line or sometimes in the body of the text asking how one would impress her. Am I missing something here. I am the one going to pay for a date, dinner and for time in the sack and I need to impress you?? Seriously?

Yeah the "Impress Me" shit really annoys me. Like, you are the one interviewing / trying out for this position. I am the one with the money. If anything, you need to impress me.

[Blood Red]

I think he's saying she wants to have dinner at a really expensive place and PPM just for that meet with no time in the bedroom. Which as we all agree is just crazy!! Where do these girls get these ideas?

Well, IF that's the case, then yes, he should walk away as that is indeed nuts. That girl needs her head examined LOL.

[PopamRaj]

I'm recently seeing a lot of SA profiles with this tag line or sometimes in the body of the text asking how one would impress her. Am I missing something here. I am the one going to pay for a date, dinner and for time in the sack and I need to impress you?? Seriously?

[PopamRaj]

Either my reading comprehension skills suck, or you just contradicted yourself.

Or did she insist on a PPM for just dinner and discussion? If that is the case, then you can clearly tell her to fuck off, but you haven't mentioned such a scenario in your post, unless like I said my reading comprehension skills suck.

I think he's saying she wants to have dinner at a really expensive place and PPM just for that meet with no time in the bedroom. Which as we all agree is just crazy!! Where do these girls get these ideas?

[LocalMode12]

Either my reading comprehension skills suck, or you just contradicted yourself.

I wasn't clear. At the start I told her I wanted a PPM relationship, she said sure, OK. Lets discusses at dinner. I said fine, booked the reservation. Yesterday I asked her if she can host, she said she doesn't do PPM for atleast a month or so, and after multiple dinners to get to know each other. I responded with I'm not on this app for multiple dinner dates, to which she responded her PPM is 7 k. Which is ridiculous. Bullet dodged.

[Blood Red]

Quick question, I recently agreed a dinner date, to see 'if we click, and can discuss further, a mutual benefit relationship' with a 'real estate broker'. She selected an extremely overpriced joint, the type that sprinkles salt as a trademark. Which is fine, I don't mind eating out, provided I get to eat in after, at my place or hers, for an additional agreed donation. (not exceed 1. 5 k PPM).

However she insists it's just dinner, and discussion. I'm not OK with that. What would you suggest.

Note. Europe is far more easier, Dubai SBs seem to live on a different planet.

Either my reading comprehension skills suck, or you just contradicted yourself.

In the first paragraph, you stated that you agreed with her to a dinner date to see if you click and can discuss further a FWB relationship and you both agreed and she selected an overpriced place for dinner which you are also OK with. Then you said she just wants dinner and discussion. Which is the same as what you agreed upon.

LOL. What am I missing her? Sounds like what you should have really agreed upon was a dinner date, discussion and a guarantee from her that whatever way the discussion goes, you'll get to fuck her with a PPM agreement.

Or did she insist on a PPM for just dinner and discussion? If that is the case, then you can clearly tell her to fuck off, but you haven't mentioned such a scenario in your post, unless like I said my reading comprehension skills suck.

[EdAdams]

Walk away! . Simples 😁.

Really? I mean seriously?

I don't understand for the life of me how you can expect to be paid an allowance just for a meeting? Get real! And stop wasting people's time.

Value is given for value received. There is no value exchange in a meet and greet. Hopefully you get a nice meal and enjoyable company, and if you don't have the entitlement mentality, perhaps a nice gift. Allowances don't start until the arrangement is consummated. If you can't understand this reality. Get off the site and go to WhatsYourPrice.com.

I think you're either delusional or in your dreams. But anyway, to each their own! Ping me when you snap out of it or when you wake up and we can take it from there.


IN MY EXPERIENCE - This clearly conveys that you’re not a simp and a no-nonsense SD. Most of them were willing to meet after that message with the exception of obvious time wasters.

[PopamRaj]

Quick question, I recently agreed a dinner date, to see 'if we click, and can discuss further, a mutual benefit relationship' with a 'real estate broker'. She selected an extremely overpriced joint, the type that sprinkles salt as a trademark. Which is fine, I don't mind eating out, provided I get to eat in after, at my place or hers, for an additional agreed donation. (not exceed 1. 5 k PPM).

However she insists it's just dinner, and discussion. I'm not OK with that. What would you suggest.

Note. Europe is far more easier, Dubai SBs seem to live on a different planet.

Walk away! . Simples 😁.

[LocalMode12]

I'm a simple person my friend but Dubai and Pussy are inseparable.

The day this city eradicates Pussy like COVID it's all over my friend.
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Ciao.

Quick question, I recently agreed a dinner date, to see 'if we click, and can discuss further, a mutual benefit relationship' with a 'real estate broker'. She selected an extremely overpriced joint, the type that sprinkles salt as a trademark. Which is fine, I don't mind eating out, provided I get to eat in after, at my place or hers, for an additional agreed donation. (not exceed 1. 5 k PPM).

However she insists it's just dinner, and discussion. I'm not OK with that. What would you suggest.

Note. Europe is far more easier, Dubai SBs seem to live on a different planet.

[Alex7J]

Ha ha ha. You are the king of the hill Alex, it was all quiet on the forum so thought all the SD were hooked with their girls already.

I'm a simple person my friend but Dubai and Pussy are inseparable.

The day this city eradicates Pussy like COVID it's all over my friend.

The fun of this city is the variety after living 8 years here I still feel like a newbie whenever I go to a club.

Went to Capitol a few nights ago there is the Arabic club on the left, Czar Russian club on the right and.

Lebanese Shisha on the rooftop.

It's crazy the amount of girls everywhere.

Sugar Babies every time I log in the app after 3-4 days there are 10-15 new girls.

Crazy it is.

Peace.

Ciao.

[SuperMan26]

Googled "NOBL scam" - strange new one but seems like a paid invite group to some orgy parties via telegram.

Just another agency man, did not try them, but could possibly be african scammers.

Stay safe.