Master class on getting what you want from Thai Girls.
Navigating interactions with Thai working girls in Bangkok can sometimes be a challenge, especially considering the many stories ranging from disengaged attitudes and mechanical experiences to refusals of BBFS and runners or girls asking for money upfront. As a result, it's essential to approach these situations with strategy and awareness to ensure you have a positive experience. Below, I'll share some proven tips that have worked for me over the years. While no method is foolproof, these approaches can significantly improve your chances of achieving a mutually enjoyable encounter. Bangkok is much more different than Pattaya guys.
1. Presentation Matters.
First impressions count. Ditch the ragged look, such as flip-flops, tank tops, and unkempt attire, as they send the wrong signal. Instead, opt for well-fitted clothes, polished shoes, and good grooming. Cleanliness, deodorant, and a touch of cologne can go a long way. Thai women often respect men who look well put-together, successful, and healthy. A polished appearance makes them more comfortable and relaxed, which can lead to a more enjoyable and intimate connection. The girls in Bangkok spend hours getting ready to go to the clubs and often look amazing in their dresses and high heels. Try going to Flamingo in Emquartier or Thonglor Soi 10 and you will know exactly what I mean.
2. Generosity Goes a Long Way.
Being generous doesn't mean being a "Simp. Small, thoughtful gestures—like buying a few drinks or leaving consistent tips—can make a big impact. In Thai culture, maintaining "face" is crucial, and your generosity can help the ladies feel proud in front of their peers. This often translates into better experiences later. This is one of my best strategies. The money I spend depends on the quality of the lady.
For example, once I bought pizzas for the staff at a bar I frequented, and it completely transformed the evening with my chosen companion. On another occasion, a simple dinner at a rooftop bar made my date express her gratitude with a passionate and memorable night. It cost only a few thousand Baht for cocktails and some appetizers. It's not about overspending; it's about showing respect and making them feel valued.
3. Don't Sweat the Small Stuff.
Flexibility is key. Thai women generally dislike overly talkative or detail-oriented men during these encounters. If you relax and go with the flow, many of the specifics—such as certain preferences or restrictions—become less of an issue. A genuine connection often leads to a more organic and enjoyable time. This is one of the key strategies that I use to get BBFS.
4. Respect and Politeness.
A little respect goes a long way. Learn basic Thai phrases, ask about their lives, and treat them courteously. Simple gestures, like opening doors or showing interest in their stories, can deepen their comfort level with you. Remember, these women are individuals with real emotions and lives outside their work sometimes. Approaching them with empathy and kindness will often lead to better outcomes.
5. Lighten the Mood.
While alcohol isn't necessary, getting your companion tipsy can help ease inhibitions and foster a relaxed atmosphere. The goal is not to push boundaries, but to create a comfortable environment where both you and the lady can enjoy themselves without awkwardness.
6. Foreplay is Key.
Many experiences hinge on how you approach intimacy. Taking time to please her, especially through foreplay or other thoughtful gestures, can make all the difference. If she feels cared for and satisfied, she's more likely to reciprocate in kind.
While these methods aren't guaranteed to work for everyone every time, they've proven successful for me throughout my time in Thailand over the past 16 years. A respectful, considerate approach tends to yield the best results. Whether you're on holiday or you are an expat, following these principles can help ensure memorable and enjoyable experiences with the ladies in Bangkok. Again, the er is a huge contrast between mongering in Bangkok and mongering in Pattaya. Pattaya is a tourist beach town. That should be enough right there to enlighten you.
It is not a matter of just requesting permission or paying extra
During my entire life of sexual experiences I have found that a girl either swallows you or she doesn't. It does not matter if it is a transactional encounter or not. It may have something to do with how she feels about you personally.
I am strictly into consensual voluntary sexual activity. I don't even like sexual interactions with girls who are inebriated unless I can't tell.
On [U]Thai Friendly[/U] I tell all the girls that I am interested in: [I]I want to finish in your mouth. You ok?[/I]. The answer I get back 5 out of 10 times is: [I]Yes, I am ok[/I]. Out of those 4 out of five specifically say: [I]yes, but I don't swallow[/I]. Just had one Thai Friendly girl offer to swallow without prompting: 2000 THB and 3000 THB BBFS.
I have a [B]One Dick Policy[/B] that is I only care about my own dick. In the 17 months I have been [I]boots on the ground[/I] in Thailand I have only four girls swallow. Two I asked and the other two just did it. Most when I blow my splooge in their mouth run to the bathroom like it is acid and spit as if their life depended upon it. I keep L mouthwash in my bathroom for them.
Interestingly enough, I have had girls refuse to let me finish in their mouth but were completely comfortable with me finishing in their pussy (BBFSCIP). One even told me that was it was natural and she did not have unnatural sex (CIM).
[QUOTE=ShyBoy143;2969939]Maybe ask and if refused offer some baht? Else, if you're sly, make it inconvenient / undesirable for her to move and no towels / tissues within reach as you CIM, leaving her with only one option.
I don't have much experience, as I usually don't care where my jizz goes as long as I release it in the orifice I fancy that moment.[/QUOTE]
No life history or relationship status needed
[B]For me a prostitute is just a receptacle to receive my splooge[/B] I only need her to give me reasonable access to two out of her three holes (many Thai girls tell me no [I]no ass[/I]) and enough stimulation to get me to finish.
Giving a girl an orgasm has nothing to do with if she is getting paid
[QUOTE=Turgid;2970925]I have no doubt that girls like the 'slam, bam, thank you ma'm' mongers which I am not. I like good service and many girls do not provide this. The SBTYN mongers generally always get the service they want which when a girl seeks to provide me with I call poor service. There are probably some guys who do not know that women enjoy sex as much as men, however, if you are her tenth client of the day then diminishing returns apply and I always factor that in my choice. The SBTYM guys are no doubt squeaky clean and do not indulge in DATY, BBBJ or such activities and probably have no experience of making a working girl orgasm. Believe me I have done that during coitus and otherwise and having banged women now for over half a century I know when a girl is faking it and when she is not and I have had many fakers.
To put it in a nutshell if you are just into SBTYM then you and the girl will always be happy. If you are not you have to be more selective and an expert interviewer. You may not always be successful but the rewards are phenomenal.[/QUOTE]Thank you!
When I write about my working girls having orgasms all I get is a bunch of wankers screaming: [B]You Lie[/B]!
ROTFLMAO!
[U]Example below[/U]
[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2938128]Yeah, bar girls craving an orgasm from a customer.
I get ladies claiming an orgasm after five minutes all the time. All it means is that they want to leave.[/QUOTE]Let me add that I am finding a common thread among my Thai Friendly favorites. I have the best time with the girls that have regular jobs or businesses and only slang that nasty thing part time for extra money. These are the girls that fully expect to be pleased during the act just like a regular sexual encounter.
[B]The Defense Rests[/B]
CIM, COF and CIP are my favorite ways to finish
[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2973834]Most ladies I know go to the bathroom ASAP after the deed, presumably to spit out the cum. There are a few exceptions.[/QUOTE]My experiences mirror yours. I got a 2000 THB quote from a girl off of [U]Thai Friendly[/U] who agreed to swallow as part of the normal services she offered. 3000 for BBFS.
[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2973834]Having said that, I don't having many BJs to completion, they are generally warmups.[/QUOTE]I cover that in the negotiations with my prostitutes. If they won't then I ask for COF. If not, then usually unless the fee is 1000 - 1200 THB for short time, 1 hour 1 shot I don't hire them. There are too many who will let me CIM to bother with those who won't at least let me COF.
I've had girls offer BBFSCIP instead telling me that is natural way of doing things.
