Manila

[QUOTE=BrainDrain;1962225]I would be happy to setup a call center business in which my operators churn out a set of monger accounts for each city. This would include:

A clean FB account with 30 women in your chosen RP city.

A matching wechat account.

A matching email and Viber account.

Pre-delivered two weeks of pinay conversation.

The benefit it that when you arrive, you just say, Hi I've arrived and the pinay come to you.

In-app purchase for sorting by boob size, no of kids and fetishes.

BD.[/QUOTE]Throw in airport transfer and sign me up!

[QUOTE=FreebieFan;1962017]Many a guy has fallen under the bus because he also omitted to wipe out his wifi connection history. There are many many ways we can get tripped up. Maybe some one (one of us? Should write a.

" How To monger, for Dummies ".

With the following sections;.

Deleting all history from all devices.

Fake name generator.

Removing hair.

How to get your lies in synch.

How not to let a girl pick you up in airport.

How to successful pretend to significant others that you are in one country when actually in another. Etc.[/QUOTE]1. Use a dedicated smartphone (Buy a 100 buck smaprtphone on AliExpress).

2. That's easy: [URL]http://www.fakenamegenerator.com/[/URL].

3. I like hair, the hairier the merrier.

4. make your lies as close to reality as possible, just change minor details.

5. "surprise" your lady friend: tell her your are arriving Wed morning instead you will be in Manila the day before (when in fact you arrived two days before).

6. Prepaid cards anyone. Many countries will also issue two passports. I swear it's possible. Inquire.

When a guy has to make duplicate accounts for everything in his life to conceal his mongering, it is a good indication that he has lost his way. Mongering is supposed to be fun and uncomplicated. If a guy has to go through great lengths to hide the fact that he has casual sex, it usually means that he got himself tied up in marriage or a long term relationship. I doubt any monger goes through the trouble and expense of flying across the world to Manila just to make Filipinos happy while paying them for the privilege. The Filipinos are busy meeting and fucking local guys and other foreign mongers so there is no need to hide the fact that one is a monger from them. The jealousy thing is all about control and nothing else. They act jealous in an attempt to monopolize the monger's time and money when he is in town. A guy should not have to hide anything unless he is misrepresenting himself as a potential husband in order to get free sex. In that case he is setting himself up for trouble. However, if he is paying for sexual access there is no need for all the cloak and dagger stuff.

In fairness to new mongers in the Philippines, transaction creep can and does happen when girls playing the long game refuse payment and give freebies in an attempt to encourage repeat sessions with the end goal being to lure the monger into an expensive long term relationship. Mongers need to stay focused and remember that they are there to have no-strings-attached sex, enjoy themselves, and relax. They are not there to shoulder the girls' problems, financial obligations, and emotional issues. Mongering and girlfriend / wife hunting should be kept separate as they involve finding and meeting very different kinds of women. When guys stop treating mongering like romantic dating they will find they no longer feel the pressure to convince any girl that she is the only one coming over for a roll between the sheets.

I've been coming to Manila every 3 month in the last 1.5 years. In fact, I'm coming back again next week. Here is the recap of my experience:

- I stopped going to bars years ago and personally consider it a waste of my valuable time in Philippines. By far, the easiest way to pick up chicks for me has been WeChat and Tinder. I do use DIA on occasion but I still find mobile apps the quickest way to source pussy. In WeChat I simply go to "near by" function and start chatting with girls or have girls connect with me. The biggest advantage of WeChat in my opinion is that you only find girls who are actually "near by". These two apps, plus some regulars from previous trips, are more than enough for me to handle anyway.

- I always stay in Gramercy booked with AirBNB and I love it! In fact, I've been staying in the same condo for the last 3 visits and now book it off the platform directly with the host which saves me some cash to put to better use. I've read some bad reviews here about Gramercy security. Never had a problem myself. In fact, tight security is what you want in Manila anyway. They keep girls ID at the front desk, call me when she leaves to confirm. What more could you ask?

- Since I live just 3 hours away, I always book Cebu Pacific overnight flight straight from Shanghai. They often got great discounts which I often check on their site and as soon as I see discounted flight I grab it and start planning my trip. This time, it only cost me about $200 round trip!

- Prices: I have my own standard price list: 2 K for short time, 3 K for overnight. I rarely had to pay more than that and unless I really like the girl.

There has just been one problem that I still couldn't figure out. Actually, it makes me feel like a moron. Every time after I land in T3 and step out of the terminal I get approached by those expensive taxis that want 1,000 to take me to Makati. I usually take them down to 600 and I know that it shouldn't cost more than 200. Every time I try to find a normal taxi I just can't figure out where the hell they are! I almost walked around the terminal once, went upstairs to arrivals etc. - still couldn't find them. So, I'm hoping that someone here just enlighten me once and for all. Where do I find regular taxis in T3? Also, considering terrible traffic around the airport these days, is Uber still an option from the airport to Makati?

[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;1962733]When a guy has to make duplicate accounts for everything in his life to conceal his mongering, it is a good indication that he has lost his way. [/QUOTE]I agree that being single means no need to explain one's promiscuity. But for safety from exploitation and desparate stalking, a fake or nickname is wise until there's some sort of real relationship beyond the next flight out.

[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;1962733]When a guy has to make duplicate accounts for everything in his life to conceal his mongering, it is a good indication that he has lost his way. Mongering is supposed to be fun and uncomplicated. <SNIP> [/QUOTE]Definitely the best post that CM has contributed in his 1763 previous efforts.

He hits the nail on the head, and struck a definte chord with me.

[QUOTE=Asiansexpat;1962822]There has just been one problem that I still couldn't figure out. Actually, it makes me feel like a moron. Every time after I land in T3 and step out of the terminal I get approached by those expensive taxis that want 1,000 to take me to Makati. I usually take them down to 600 and I know that it shouldn't cost more than 200. Every time I try to find a normal taxi I just can't figure out where the hell they are! I almost walked around the terminal once, went upstairs to arrivals etc. - still couldn't find them. So, I'm hoping that someone here just enlighten me once and for all. Where do I find regular taxis in T3? Also, considering terrible traffic around the airport these days, is Uber still an option from the airport to Makati?[/QUOTE]The white taxis which would be about PHP440 to Makati are across 2 roads as you exit T3 to the right, the hawkers hang around there and try and get you to think they are legit. There is usually a large sign there a well. These cabs have large blue letters / number on and can't be mistaken.

Yellow cabs further down to the right and normally longer queues.

Good round up Asianexpat and good you can get the illegal privateers to PHP 600 as many go for more or don't have the haggling skills.

Uber is used by many (Good Enough a frequent user) and he is very happy with the service and price.

You could also go upstairs to arrivals and outside you see some white normal cabs also.

Pay for Skyway (am sure you do) as this helps the bad traffic especially on Friday nights.

Asiansexpat,

Good report.

As I learned from earlier posts. Coming out of T3 on your right is the Resort World kiosk for free shuttle. The shuttle runs every 30 minutes. I get in line and sometimes the RW person will ask for your name and where you are going. No problem they are just filling out the clipboard. I tell them I am going to the Belmont Hotel, which I believe is the second stop.

The shuttle bus driver will load your bags on to the bus and unload it at your stop. The baggage rack is inside the bus but it is wise to keep an eye on it to make sure it isn't mistaken for someone else's on the first stop.

Get off at the Belmont Hotel and have the security guy hail you a taxi and instruct the taxi to use the meter.

Generally I tip the bus driver 50 pesos as I have one or two heavy bags. Also I tip the security guy 20-50 pesos for hailing a taxi. One time the security guy ran down the block and "hijack" a taxi by jumping in it and rode back. It was around 6:30 pm, hard as heck to get a taxi anywhere in Manila at that time.

[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;1962733]When a guy has to make duplicate accounts for everything in his life to conceal his mongering, it is a good indication that he has lost his way. Mongering is supposed to be fun and uncomplicated.[/QUOTE]Many years ago I might have agreed with you. More recently I see people getting burnt by their Internet activity. An example of this is red sweater man, just some regular fella who became an Internet sensation for a few moments and then he was outed and castigated for some long ago comments; this article explains it all [URL]https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/the-intersect/wp/2016/10/14/ken-bone-was-a-hero-now-ken-bone-is-bad-it-was-his-destiny-as-a-human-meme/[/URL].

Your comments may be cherry picked and often the context is utterly lost to those reading them.

Companies are able to link a person's activities on one website to many other websites. Google builds a history of your browsing habits and this is for sale. Watch youtube videos? That's google too. Probably a lot more. A profile is built. If you registered for all sites using the same email account or linked several gmail / hotmail / yahoo accounts to a single user your Internet history can became known to potential employers, insurers, etc. Many websites allow, and in some cases require, their users logon with their wastebook account credentials. This convenience comes at a cost: your privacy.

Do what you think is best. I always encourage people to maintain strict boundaries between their personal / professional life and their hobbies / interests / politics / kinks, especially if any of those may be controversial.

Stay safe.

I arrived in Manila last Saturday night. Due to the traffic and especially waiting for my luggage for 1 hour or almost it took me until 8 pm I could reach the condo I had rented on AirBNB in Makati. Otherwise very nice condo close to Greenbelt but the cleaning fee 500 pesos for almost nothing, found some hair on the toilet seat and some thrash in some bins. But that is is a small thing but compared to the last condo I rented and the cleaning girl there who I also met the difference was really huge in cleanliness. She always did an awesome job.

I did some posting on the internet that I wanted to go out and see some night life but I arrived so late that I could only reach a girl who promised to be "my wing girl and nothing more". Others who sent me message didn't point this out so maybe more could have been available. But I thought that was ok so I agreed to meet her at Greenbelt. I thought I could always find some girls at the clubs fi I felt like that. Not a bad looking girl at all when she arrived and said she promised herself to sleep alone like she said and I thought she kept that promise although she disappeared later about 4am outside the club after kissing with a cute looking foreigner I think but she came in later and we took separate taxis so I don understand why she left the club with that guy after kissing and walking hand in hand. So the story went like we met at GB and had some drinks on the 3rd floor club and bar combination place where we had some cocktails. I don't remember the name of the place anymore but it was at the back. Then we took taxi to club called Royal I think it was very close to Gramercy and we stayed there until 5 am and I took taxi and went to sleep (alone) at 6 am. Was feeling a bit tired after traveling and Iam not good at picking up girls until I'm very drunk and then at that point it makes no sense anymore to bring back a girl in the room hahaha so it is like a vicious circle for me. Some girls sitting at the bar waiting I asked "how are you" and she replied "fine" and that was it. Maybe that is why my friend in Europe advised me not to ask questions that can be answered with one word and don't leave to a conversation. Yeah, one or two girls the wingwoman introduced to me promised to go with me and even knew exactly where my condo was so I guess they were really professional with many customers.

Then 2nd day I met just one girl 20 yo whom I was with here a few days and also a few days in Puerto Galera. A nice girl, just graduated and decent job and not asking for money BUT. I don't know. Maybe the looks not look enough. So we just had dinner and I didn't want her although she just wanted so see my room and talk about us so nothing happened.

Then after resting one night I met a FilipinoCupid girl for dinner also at GB. We had food then some wine and she thought we are compatible, asked my horoscope etc and started messaging me on the table in FB where she added me and that she loved me and wants be my GF. She said that she had been in FC for four months and only had met a Japanese guy which didn't speak much English and that she had been single for three years after her filipino BF and she had no kids. She said she was 30 so I asked why she had 27 on her profile. She said something she put it wrong and can't change it etc. I said no I'm not disappointed when she asked that (although I might have been a bit since I think about 25-28 would be best for me as I am 39). Then we went to my room. She had previously asked about my plans and I said we could go "see my room" after the dinner and she agreed so I showed green light. She liked Frenck kiss (which I don't) and that we did and finally also game me a BJ and I could almost finish. She also loved her nipples being sucked but the pussy could be seen only the following day, hmmp. Then she left 4 am because she said her work In QC starts about 8 and she needs to go home. She promised that the next night she would take her pants off, just that it was too quick to have sex, she thinks 2nd or 3rd time is ok so she promised the next night.

The next night we saw and had dinner also. I was about to take her to the condo at about 11 when she started crying and she said it was a disgrace for her to come home 5 am the previous night and she was so tired and she had no clothes although the previous night she promised to bring those woth her so she could stay with me. I was quite of angry and she cried a bit. I said I could find other girls who have sex if you keep lying to me. She said she hadn't lied at all just was tired. And how she felt so bad I had said I could find other girls for sex. She said I wanted only sex. I said no I want both love and sex. Then we agreed to meet the next day and I gave her 500 p for taxi.

The next day we went to a dinner and to see a movie at SM Mall. Then had a few cocktails at a bar in Makati. Then again she was going to home for sleep before work. She said she could meet me the next day at 11 or 12 instead of 3 pm today and 7 pm the day before. I was thinking she was lying all the time. I said "I don't think you have a job". She showed me a pic with a logo of a company with her (marketing job she says) and a pic with a computer and a bookshelf behind her (should you believe that). She said she is the manage and can dedice. I asked when you stay with me the night. She asked "When are you leaving". I said "On Tuesday". Then she said ok "Monday". At that point I realised that is her plan, use me until the last night and then disappear with another excuse. She said she does not make excuses. Then she said "ok maybe Friday night" when I asked why not Friday cause last night she said she works Mon to Fri. Now she said her boss asked and she really works Saturday too. I though "Ok, what the fuck, enough of this shit" I will delete her from FB and find some other gilrs (to fuck too). But all in all I only lost a fouple of dinners and drinks and that 480 p dress I bought and 1200 p taxis I paid her for coming to me (for one BJ) her but she already started hinting that she has birthday on December (which might be true, her FB proflile etc but who knows.) Do you think she is a typical Filipino Cupid scammer asking for money or buying things for her? I'm not going to take a risk anymore with her. For her daytime company showing me 2-3 days around 2 k pesos is not too much. I need pussy too.

One reason for not being too fast with her was also that I discovered some red lesions on the tip of my penis 4-5 days ago so I haven't been wanting to have (or have been horny) sex and show them because I don't know what they are. Yes I was in Pattaya last week but to me these symptoms like just red spots and no pain they don't point to an STD. I have herpes so maybe it could be a mild outbreak without blisters? Or some yeast infection from last week? Anyway I took herpes mesication now for a few days and also some yeast cream from Mercury and now one of the spots has disappeared and the other one almost also completely. So maybe it was herpes that I have had from 2010 but it hasnt caused a lot of symptoms so far. Or maybe yeast? Not sure but seems to be going away. I don't think a doctor could help me. This doesn't seem an STD since no pain etc.

But I hope now that I have still 5 days in PH and 5 in Thailand soon can start having and could find sex too. Tired of these scammers. Must not be that hard to find flipina pussy (even for me). Stay safe and hope to see you around here in Manila!

[QUOTE=Pekkakoo;1963084]I need pussy too.[/QUOTE]Magic words: "Sweetheart, I respect your decision. You don't want sex. I'm a guy, and I need sex in my life. Every day. We can be friends until you are ready. If you know a girl who's a better match for me, please introduce her. Bye for now, and get home safely. ".

Then it's back to texting the pool of backups.

[QUOTE=MrWoolyBooly;1963094]Magic words: "Sweetheart, I respect your decision. You don't want sex. I'm a guy, and I need sex in my life. Every day. We can be friends until you are ready. If you know a girl who's a better match for me, please introduce her. Bye for now, and get home safely. ".

Then it's back to texting the pool of backups.[/QUOTE]I have (on occasion) waited until a second date before burying myself into a girl's holiest of holies, but only if she was exceptional. If a girl hasn't put out in two dates, she should immediately be excised from your life. I'm frankly amazed at Pekkaboo's patience but to each his own.

[QUOTE=Dg8787;1962996]Asiansexpat,

Good report.

As I learned from earlier posts. Coming out of T3 on your right is the Resort World kiosk for free shuttle. The shuttle runs every 30 minutes. I get in line and sometimes the RW person will ask for your name and where you are going. No problem they are just filling out the clipboard. I tell them I am going to the Belmont Hotel, which I believe is the second stop.[/QUOTE]Alternative: Notify your hotel in advance that you need pickup. Give them the inbound flight number and terminal number. Yes, it will run you more money (p1000-1500). However, I have been at both T1 and T3 at times when there were no reglar taxis (or too few), or none of those high-priced mini-van / SUV-type taxis. A hotel car means that the car is waiting nearby for me, with no need to give directions to the hotel to a taxi driver.

[QUOTE=WestCoast1;1964291]Alternative: Notify your hotel in advance that you need pickup. Give them the inbound flight number and terminal number. Yes, it will run you more money (p1000-1500). However, I have been at both T1 and T3 at times when there were no reglar taxis (or too few), or none of those high-priced mini-van / SUV-type taxis. A hotel car means that the car is waiting nearby for me, with no need to give directions to the hotel to a taxi driver.[/QUOTE]Great alternative. But most posters don't even want to pay more than 400 to their hotel, if that. There are times you have to take what you can get and pay the price.

[QUOTE=WestCoast1;1964291]Alternative: Notify your hotel in advance that you need pickup. Give them the inbound flight number and terminal number. Yes, it will run you more money (p1000-1500). However, I have been at both T1 and T3 at times when there were no reglar taxis (or too few), or none of those high-priced mini-van / SUV-type taxis. A hotel car means that the car is waiting nearby for me, with no need to give directions to the hotel to a taxi driver.[/QUOTE]20 USD is a good price, save time and trouble. Are you use it before, they will wait you when the fly delayed?