Requoted from Augusat 4, 2007: "When is a Freebie Not Worth It?"
[QUOTE=Bulai69;627990]You are just so charming I can imagine why that women wanted you as a role model! Likewise I can understand why you backed out - but I think this is a situation where Pak Menteng might be prepared to "help out" - getting her another "role model" would de-risk the situation for you I think.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MightySpearsman;627900]
[B]When is a freebie not worth it?[/B]
No, this story is NOT about a woman who weighs over 120 kg. But since there have been several posts recently about finding freebies on AFF, I thought it useful to share this story:
A few weeks ago I was in Kota one weekday on business. Around 4:15 p.m. I walked over to the Transjakarta bus line at Kota to take the bus to Plaza Indonesia.
Walking in front of me to the ticket line and waiting line was an attractive, professionally dressed dark-skinned Indonesian woman in her late 30s, medium build, long black hair, wearing a jacket over a silk shirt buttoned up to her neck, a skirt to just below her knees and work pumps heels (i.e. not the stiletto heels that many hookers wear), but it was obvious that she had great legs and a good figure.
We struck up a conversation while waiting in line, friendly and polite, and I learned that she was a sales manager for a large insurance company, and that she was returning to her office after having met with a client.
Walked onto the bus and sat down towards the front, and to my surprise she sat down next to me and continued to talk, very friendly; she gave me her card and asked me for my cell phone number just before I got off the bus. Five minutes later I received a short sms from her, saying that she enjoyed talking with me and wanted to meet me again for a drink. I replied fine, let me know when you are free. Two days later, she sms'd me again, proposing that we meet at Chili's (Sarinah Plaza) for drinks the following afternoon.
Met up at Chili's at 4 p.m. the next day and, after some small talk about the weather and traffic, she got straight to the point she was married with a nine-year-old son, but that the marriage had collapsed, she and her husband were living together only for the sake of their son, she no longer had sex with her husband, and that she was looking for someone to have fun sex with, namely me. Sounded good to me, and I started to look forward to our first session together.
Then the kicker. After saying lots of nice things about me as a way of explaining why she had picked me for this opportunity, she blurted out I think you're just wonderful. I've already told my nine-year-old son about you and I want you to meet him soon and be a role model for him.
Oops! The last thing I need is to get involved in a potential marriage-wrecking situation, nor do I need or want to be a surrogate father to someone else's kid. Luckily my cell phone beeped a minute later with an sms from a friend, I read it and, pretending that it was from my office, said sorry, I have to get back to my office right away to send a fax to the U.S. before closing time, left money to pay for the drinks and got up and left.
I then sent an sms to her later explaining that I was real busy at work and wouldn't be able to see her anytime soon. She then sent a couple of sms's over the next week saying hello and which I ignored, then I've never heard from her again.[/QUOTE]Normally I would not clog up the board with a quote from August 4, 2007 but after reading the recent posts about older women, I thought I'd re-quote what I wrote back then, plus Bulai69's kind reply to me. I'm pretty sure Menteng did not follow up since he was out of the country at that time, however.