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[QUOTE=Igor54;3017571]Can I ask a question,? When you do this, what is your logic? In my opinion, the quality of girls who practise BB, will be greatly lower.[/QUOTE]If you think that, then you do not know people. I would even go as far as to say that "higher quality" (whatever that may be) girls have unprotected sex much more often than lower quality ones. I seriously do not know how you guys come up with these theories. People are people. And people fuck all kinds of ways. The interviews from the Diddy trial and models going to UAE to get shit on by camels should show you that.
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RE: bareback service
These are of course valid questions. Logically you might say: it's more unhygienic and gross. Then again: so is sex in general. Why do some guys love anal (with condom or without)? Where is the logic?
In the end it boils down to innate preference. If you would put me on the spot I'd say it feels „more real". It can change a session from a 6 to an 8 or 9 in my taste. Just like getting anal or CIM can elevate the experience for others. Saying that: in that logic I'm aware of the risks and therefore take all precautions. I'm vaccinated against Hep-be and HPV / Gardasil9 as soon as available for men. Apart from the other measures already mentioned.
In SEA – in my observation – the biggest „risk" and the girls greatest worry is pregnancy. And as public sex education is close to zero. Thanks to powerful Catholic and Muslim priests. Unwanted pregnancies without possibility of abortion is fairly common among working girls. I even make it a point to educate them and explain about pills and injections.
But I digress. Back to topic: was my experience in 2021-23 just representative of Bogota? Is there another approach / area / facility? Should I try Medellin? Or La Paz and Santa Cruz?
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[QUOTE=FutureGuy;3017455]I know it's a somewhat delicate topic. But let's talk about reliable bare back service in Bogota.
Visiting SEA recently, I find it very available in Indonesia and the Philipines. It's not officially advertised, of course. But either it's included, no questions asked (street girls, some girls in brothels). . or a tip of 50%-max. 100% basepay will almost always do the trick in formal brothels.
Last time in Bogota 2 years ago it was a rarity. I managed to have 3 providers in Santa Fe reacting positively to my advances. In casas in Chapinero and attempts via Seeking it didn't work. Therefore: does anyone have a reliable location or method? Simply offering a sizeable tip didn't seem to work. Or am I mishandling the approach? I'm tested for STDs regularly and carried the document back then.
I don't want to start a discussion on the risks. I know, thank you for your concerns. I have a vasectomy. I take PreP during travel. I take preventative anti-biotics every 3 days. I get tested regularly and always end up clean.
If Bogota is just the wrong place. Where else in SA would be better? Medellin? Rio? La Paz?
Any advice is much appreciated.[/QUOTE]You can get it but generally not the first time. I know it sounds a bit stupid but working girls tend to trust more their regular clients and after a while if the think they know or trust their regulars they'd agree to go bare back. Take into account that there is plenty of publicity about the risks. In Bogota the health secretariat goes from brothel to brothel (houses, bars, etc) placing boards and educating the working girls on the risks of unprotected sex. Girls are told they can get cervix cancer due to HPV or HIV that turns into AIDS or everything else they can get. Some girls even get very angry if you ask them for bare back even paying double their fee. Surprisingly most think that unprotected oral sex is fine so most offer it as an extra. Also, there is plenty of news about venezuela having an outbreak of HIV due to lack of condoms, and to make their case they show statistics and analysis, who knows if they are real or just made up by lazy government employees. I think it is much easier to get bare back from a tinder girl than from a pro in SF or in Chapinero, tinder girls do not receive the warnings from the health secretariat and they are mostly not aware of the studies and statistcs.
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[QUOTE=MrEnternational;3017596]If you think that, then you do not know people. I would even go as far as to say that "higher quality" (whatever that may be) girls have unprotected sex much more often than lower quality ones. I seriously do not know how you guys come up with these theories. People are people. And people fuck all kinds of ways. The interviews from the Diddy trial and models going to UAE to get shit on by camels should show you that.[/QUOTE]I am responding to your comment. I am married. Two children. I know what sex is with and without a condom. If you are trying to compare a ($20-$100) prostitute and Diddy trial, I'm afraid you watch too much TV.
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[QUOTE=FutureGuy;3017635]These are of course valid questions. Logically you might say: it's more unhygienic and gross. Then again: so is sex in general. Why do some guys love anal (with condom or without)? Where is the logic?
In the end it boils down to innate preference. If you would put me on the spot I'd say it feels more real". It can change a session from a 6 to an 8 or 9 in my taste. Just like getting anal or CIM can elevate the experience for others. Saying that: in that logic I'm aware of the risks and therefore take all precautions. I'm vaccinated against Hep-be and HPV / Gardasil9 as soon as available for men. Apart from the other measures already mentioned.
In SEA in my observation the biggest risk" and the girls greatest worry is pregnancy. And as public sex education is close to zero. Thanks to powerful Catholic and Muslim priests. Unwanted pregnancies without possibility of abortion is fairly common among working girls. I even make it a point to educate them and explain about pills and injections.
But I digress. Back to topic: was my experience in 2021-23 just representative of Bogota? Is there another approach / area / facility? Should I try Medellin? Or La Paz and Santa Cruz?[/QUOTE]I'm not trying to judge or moralize, But in order to raise the pleasure from 6 to 8 and to take such a risk and such headaches for tests, vaccinations, medicines.
In my life, I have professionally dealt with medicines and I can tell you that. If medicines works for one person it does not necessarily mean that it works for another person. Or a test will show you a 100% result. Most likely it will be a 50%-70% probability. Plus to this, people are very much mistaken when they rely on the test. Any test only showing that a person is sick, but this is not a solution to the problem, because the disease may be incurable. For example, a person has back pain, he did a MRI and waits for the result. He hopes that when the result comes, the problem will be solved. So the person receives a test. And what does this change? If the problem cannot be solved? For example, a person har disk herniation. He has to live with it.
I don't want to predict your future I don't have a crystal ball. Imagine, that one day the test will come back positive and what next?. When people first use drugs alcohol no one expects to become a drug addict or an alcoholic but it happens. Or When people get behind the wheel of a car, no one thinks about an accident. As an example, I can tell you a famous case about pharmacology. You can google if you want. One pharmaceutical company invented a drug, spent more than a billion on advertising in Asia. And it turned out that the drug works for Europeans but does not work for Asians, 1 billion was burned.
Try taking two pieces of paper, on one write what pleasure you get and on the other write what risk you take. And before you do this, do some research on what diseases you can get, how curable they are, and how the lives of people who suffer from these diseases change. I have met people in my life, who were sick with AIDS, which they caught by fucking each other in the ass, and in the end they blame not themselves but someone else.
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AW: Re: bareback
Thank you Igor for your concerns. I have 2 MSc and am "in the Game" for a quite a while. I did the math. PreP is really effective, HIV prevalence outside of Africa so low, and HIV transmission rate vaginal to penile is so low, that the chances of getting HIV is astronomically small. Even assuming that I'm that 1 in a million in whom PreP is less than half as effective. I recommend that you have a look at the SEA subforums. Those guys largely prefer BBFS and they actually are far less careful than I am.
Back to topic:
Ryck the Second suggested that doing a repeat visit a particular provider could be a reliable strategy. Also setting up home visits from girls off dating sites should yield better results than Santa Fe. Can someone confirm this interesting bit of information?
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[QUOTE=Igor54;3017850]I am responding to your comment. I am married. Two children.[/QUOTE]It seems you just proved my point.
Married with kids and out fucking hookers, but it seems outlandish to you that a hooker would fuck without a condom just because she is pretty.
Probably seems outlandish to most people that a married guy would be out fucking hookers period. But there you are doing it, just like the pretty hooker is there fucking without a condom. There are also pretty chicks who are hooked on drugs or that steal or kill. People are people no matter how they look.
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[QUOTE=FutureGuy;3017872]Thank you Igor for your concerns. I have 2 MSc and am "in the Game" for a quite a while. I did the math. PreP is really effective, HIV prevalence outside of Africa so low, and HIV transmission rate vaginal to penile is so low, that the chances of getting HIV is astronomically small. Even assuming that I'm that 1 in a million in whom PreP is less than half as effective. I recommend that you have a look at the SEA subforums. Those guys largely prefer BBFS and they actually are far less careful than I am.
Back to topic:
Ryck the Second suggested that doing a repeat visit a particular provider could be a reliable strategy. Also setting up home visits from girls off dating sites should yield better results than Santa Fe. Can someone confirm this interesting bit of information?[/QUOTE]In fact, I wasn't trying to convince you of anything, this is just my opinion, I want to say that for me personally, a condom a must. There are many venereal diseases including prostatitis chlamydia and many other joys. I don't see a huge difference for myself if I fuck someone using a condom or BB. In my opinion, it is difficult to win the lottery, but it is much more likely to catch a problem out of the blue. I'm 65, I still have five active years and I don't see the point in wasting them on treatments. In addition I like to fuck young different girls. I'm not going to look for a pearl that will serve me with something special.
If you have not been in Bogota recently, then do not think that girls here throw themselves on your neck. In order to find a normal quality young girl, you need to spend a lot of time. And if you have some special requests, then this is practically next to zero. Do not listen to the fairy tales that some people tell you here. As I said earlier, I met one man who loved BB (29 year old California). We walked with him around Santa Fe. I saw his girls, who agreed to BB. By my standards, I don't need this for free.
Don't take it to heart. It's not my business, what you do. You can do what you want. You're an adult. Take responsibility.
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[QUOTE=FutureGuy;3017872]Thank you Igor for your concerns. I have 2 MSc and am "in the Game" for a quite a while. I did the math. PreP is really effective, HIV prevalence outside of Africa so low, and HIV transmission rate vaginal to penile is so low, that the chances of getting HIV is astronomically small. Even assuming that I'm that 1 in a million in whom PreP is less than half as effective. I recommend that you have a look at the SEA subforums. Those guys largely prefer BBFS and they actually are far less careful than I am.
Back to topic:
Ryck the Second suggested that doing a repeat visit a particular provider could be a reliable strategy. Also setting up home visits from girls off dating sites should yield better results than Santa Fe. Can someone confirm this interesting bit of information?[/QUOTE]LOL. I forgot to say you are trying to get some insurance. No one will tell you anything until you try and find a girl. Just give up your idea of fucking girls only BB. If there is no BB offer, Use a condom until you find someone who suits your needs. One of the easiest ways is to get married.
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[QUOTE=FutureGuy;3017872]
Back to topic:
Ryck the Second suggested that doing a repeat visit a particular provider could be a reliable strategy. Also setting up home visits from girls off dating sites should yield better results than Santa Fe. Can someone confirm this interesting bit of information?[/QUOTE]Rich Cooper of the manosphere has this one nailed. Just like women have a rule about condoms, he met a chick who said that she only had sex after 8 dates. He said he did not play that game and ended up banging her in the bathroom 15 minutes later.
When a woman has genuine burning desire, GBD, for a guy she breaks the rules. That is the question you are really asking, so it varies. It does not have to be desire for you personally but for your money or company / affirmation.
With Santa Fe, the women usually are going to have guys coming and going. You are just a john and nothing special so why should she give you BB? The only time I got BB with a SF girl was after the 3rd time. The reason I did was because unlike all the other women I met on SF I thought she was special. She was hot as fuck, built like a brick shithouse, and gave a great massage. So every time I got into Bogota and needed a rub down after the long plane ride, I would see her.
Unlike with other women, I was not interested in haggling. It was how much do I need to pay you for an hour and not be bugged. It was $25, and I gladly paid it.
Thing is I kind of put this girl on a pedestal in the sense that I would tell her, "Baby, you are always my first stop when I get to Bogota. " So she wants to please me more than with other guys because my praise made her feel good. So with her I think that is what the desire was, a desire to please a regular, decent, appreciative guy who made her feel good.
The best success I had getitng BB in Bogota though was seeking. Guys like to say all the women on there are hookers, and there are no doubt some are, but if they are hookers, then they would be no different than Santa Fe women. IOW, there would always be another john. In reality, if you are making a decent income like six figures or have six figured in the bank, you are in the top 0. 1% of all men in Colombia. Chances are that you are going to be the best financial option for that woman and if the women get that, their desire to please you is really strong as the real goal is some kind of long term deal.
Guys do not have any shame with fucking multiple women but women do with fucking multiple men. Sure, some seeking women do not and fuck solely for $, but if these women were just all about the money, many would not be working regular jobs.
There was a pimp / brothel owner who was on youtube and I foung his story fascinating because he was not like any pimp I had ever heard of. He actually really cared for his girls, and his big rule with women was you could not work more than one year as a hooker if you worked for him. His book is here, and it is a good read. [URL]https://www.amazon.com/dp/B089G8NNLH?ref_=ppx_hzsearch_a_conn_dt_b_pd_1[/URL].
What he experienced was that if a woman is an escort for more than a year it fucks with their head and they are never the same. It is different if the woman is with someone they desire to be around.
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[QUOTE=Elvis2008;3017918]Rich Cooper of the manosphere has this one nailed. Just like women have a rule about condoms, he met a chick who said that she only had sex after 8 dates. He said he did not play that game and ended up banging her in the bathroom 15 minutes later.
When a woman has genuine burning desire, GBD, for a guy she breaks the rules. That is the question you are really asking, so it varies. It does not have to be desire for you personally but for your money or company / affirmation.
With Santa Fe, the women usually are going to have guys coming and going. You are just a john and nothing special so why should she give you BB? The only time I got BB with a SF girl was after the 3rd time. The reason I did was because unlike all the other women I met on SF I thought she was special. She was hot as fuck, built like a brick shithouse, and gave a great massage. So every time I got into Bogota and needed a rub down after the long plane ride, I would see her.
Unlike with other women, I was not interested in haggling. It was how much do I need to pay you for an hour and not be bugged. It was $25, and I gladly paid it.[/QUOTE]Everything is written very beautifully, only about burning desires I think it is too much. I know half of the girls in Santa Fe by names and saw their kitties. And I saw what kind of boyfriends they have. If we are talking about physical shape, age and not about money, Most of us here have approximately zero chance of arousing a quality young Colombian woman without using money or attempts to seduce her with marriage and a trip to the States.
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[QUOTE=Elvis2008;3017918] he met a chick who said that she only had sex after 8 dates. [/QUOTE]I would have said, "I'm probably your 9th date today, so lets fuck!
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[QUOTE=HumbleHal;3018134]I would have said, "I'm probably your 9th date today, so lets fuck![/QUOTE]Sometimes it's hard to believe, but I know one prostitute who now owns a brothel. About 5 years ago, I fucked her regulary, when she was in her 20th and in good shape. Now I visit her bussness. A few days ago, she wrote to me that there is a new girl, and highly recommended her. She said that yesterday, she saw 24 clients and no one complained.
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Will be in town Aug 5-10
Haven't visited in about a year, based on reading the last few pages it seems prices have continued to go up. Tantra was only 50 last year and they had a 20 minute option too for less which they liked keeping secret from gringos. A friend told me they have remodeled at least but I'm sure the rooms are still dirty. I only like to visit Bogota with a partner so of anyone wants a wingman hit me up. I'll be in Tantra during the days and probably Troya mainly at night. Has anybody seen a thin mulatta girl at Tantra lately?
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My 2 cents
[QUOTE=FutureGuy;3017635]These are of course valid questions. Logically you might say: it's more unhygienic and gross. Then again: so is sex in general. Why do some guys love anal (with condom or without)? Where is the logic?
In the end it boils down to innate preference. If you would put me on the spot I'd say it feels more real". It can change a session from a 6 to an 8 or 9 in my taste. Just like getting anal or CIM can elevate the experience for others. Saying that: in that logic I'm aware of the risks and therefore take all precautions. I'm vaccinated against Hep-be and HPV / Gardasil9 as soon as available for men. Apart from the other measures already mentioned.
In SEA in my observation the biggest risk" and the girls greatest worry is pregnancy. And as public sex education is close to zero. Thanks to powerful Catholic and Muslim priests. Unwanted pregnancies without possibility of abortion is fairly common among working girls. I even make it a point to educate them and explain about pills and injections.
But I digress. Back to topic: was my experience in 2021-23 just representative of Bogota? Is there another approach / area / facility? Should I try Medellin? Or La Paz and Santa Cruz?[/QUOTE]Bareback is possible even with hardcore pros, but they don't offer it as a service AND the girls who take that risk will be very selective. In order words, if girls naturally like you, you ask 100 of them, or you offer extra money like svc cost is 50 k and you offer 300 k for it then yeah my boy LOL.
To elaborate, so yall know I'm not just speaking crap. I've done it, seen many chomp do it while in Bog and even other parts. But I'm also very selective and it's chance I take IF and ONLY IF I meet a shorty that looks new, shy, really into me, and someone who looks like they want to escape and trying to avoid as many men as possible. I met a chica at Tantra last yr, 19 yrs old, super sweet, brand new in the club and other girls confirmd incl bartender, had her in the club and she offered to spend the night next day, no extra fee, she flirted with the idea of having me as her BF while I'm in town, I compensated what I wanted the following morning but we did make it clear that we hanging as friends. Fuckd few times that night, barebacked.
Also did that few yrs ago in Chapinero area, w a girl right inside the club that was super sweet. Then three yrs later we were still friends, would come to my hotel to fuck when I visit and would be surprised if I hand her cash, and many times I never gave her any. All bareback. In santa Fe, one of the biggest booty girls standing in the street near club Texas. Met her first in a restaurant and flirted with her, then when I saw her standing, we sessioned for 30 minutes w condm. But then she said I should be her BF in playing. So that was my signal to invite her to my spot for GFE time and it happend, full bareback.
Women are women, they are human, hos or not, they can make exception. Obviously it's not something thy're going to plan on doing, or advertise, but if you're the lucky john and you click on the right checkboxes for them you could get it. Meaning, it's very individually based, I cannot refer you and she will do you, this is strictly up to her. No diffrent than she may be fucking a broke boyfriend back home ad it will be bareback. So this all I can. I've also done tht in medellin casas. I don't often have the need for it since I have regular nonpros for that, but sometimes if I find her so fine and my type, I want to go balls deep and get the real thing, fuck I'm giving you a baby (figure of speech). Just be safe.