[QUOTE=Mangera]I always look at the big picture and try to almost always think with my bigger head, and keep in mind that once these garotas get cash in turn for services, they are not going to turn back, and be little angels. I don't ever want to fall prey to a garota like this one. Its a crazy world out there. Just beware gentlemen, no matter how genuine or sincere they may seem ( there are some academy award winning performances out there ), its all an illusion. By the way, colombian girls are neck in neck with the brasileras on this topic.
My last thought, gentlemen have fun, but always keep rule # 1 in mind when traveling. "Don't fall in love!"
Laters!
P.S. sorry, maybe I should have posted this in the General or Rio board.[/QUOTE]I want you to help me.
I want to know if I am one of those suckers, too.
I met a girl in a webcamsite 8 months ago. She is from Rio de janeiro.
She gave me her emailadress and her phone number.
But I wasnt the only one who got this things from her, other visitors of this site, too.
At first, we met once a week in msn and wrote mails to each other.
Her mails were like: Hi baby, how are you? You miss me? .
As you can see, this was not very personal stuff to read.
This was just a routine mail she wrote to everyone.
After some time she stopped working on this site and went back to her old job. (she worked in boates and strip clubs as, you know what).
We still had contact, but the relation got more intense.
I was so stupid to fall in llove with her, couldn't control my feelings for her.
So, as she realized that I am not just a gringo who wants to meet her and get her into bed the first night, she changed.
She didn't ignore me anymore and she didn't see me just as one of her "friends" from internet.
So we talked now everyday for hours in msn, as well as on the phone.
There were times where she called me, just to hear my voice that she has missed.
3 months ago she told me that she has fallen in love with me too.
I was surprised and happy.
But I didn't feel very comfortable with that situation, this was not the truth that she told me.
I had my doubts.
So last month, sth very important, changed everything.
Her boyfriend from denmark came back after 8 months to live with her. !
He is 39 and she is 21!
Seems to me like a sugardaddy more than a loving partner.
She always told me that she doesnt love him and only stays with him, cause she needs him, financially. (he has a little company)
Without him she would be on the street again, searching for gringos to finance her every day meal.
She always knew that I am a poor student, who even doesnt have money to visit her in Rio.
She never wanted money or any gifts from me, only my company, my presence, she told me.
She loved to talk with me, cause we were some kind of soul connected, she told me. Now we still have contact, in secret.
So wonder after all this time: what does she want from a broke student like I am? She gets money and everything she wants from her sugardaddy.
What the f. She needs me?
What you experienced guys think about my story?
Am I just one of her 100 other msn contacts?
She likes to play with me?
If yes, why she risks her sweet life with her bf?
Her bf knows about me, (we talked on the phone once! ), and he threatened her many times to kick her ass if she continues contact with me.
But she still does. WHY?
Last weeks she bought new cell phone and the first thing she did was telling me her new number.
I am just an adventure for her?
What you think?
Please let me know about your precious opinions.
I really need your help.
Need to know what goes on.
Thanks
Rionewbie
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Greetings,
With all due respect, why did you post this in the [b]PHOTO GALLERY[/b]?
Anyway, moving one report is a 4 step procedure, so it would be easier for me if you would simply re-post this in one of the discussion threads.
In the future, please consider that the [b]PHOTO GALLERY[/b] is for posting [b]PHOTOS[/b], not travel questions, travel advice, etc.
On behalf of your fellow Forum Members, [i]Thank You![/i]
Jackson[/blue]
