Manila

[QUOTE=Koliflaver;2209970]Moving to a serviced apartment near Amorsolo street as I have a whole bunch of senior colleagues here at the Pan Pacific, can't ruin my career being seen with a lady. My excuse for moving is that the serviced apartment is closer to work and next 2 nights I have to work till late. Yes its true, I will be working till late at LA Cafe.[/QUOTE]Unless your career involves preaching against the excesses of moral turpitude and demon lust, I cannot imagine why being seen in the company of a nice Filipina young lady would ruin your career. Even then, you can tell your fellow missionaries that you were simply ministering to a Magdalena in the missionary position, and restrained your more wicked instincts to have her ride you like the Great Babylon. LOL!

[QUOTE=Koliflaver;2209970] I told her that under the WTO agreements she can not put up unfair entry barriers to my attempts to export my goods into her. This was followed by discussion on payment terms (advance versus COD) and logistics (sea freight, it was raining and the streets were flooded, or other modes of transport). Finally the parties came to a mutually agreeable agreement of Peso 2000 for 3 hrs plus additional top ups to cover good service.[/QUOTE]You are lucky that negotiations did not lead to ratification of a Trans-Pacific Partnership (TPP), as happened to newcomers to the Southeast Asian markets recently. Otherwise, you may have found that your barriers to entry were circumvented and raw meat products imported into your territory via back channels.

[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;2210730]Unless your career involves preaching against the excesses of moral turpitude and demon lust, I cannot imagine why being seen in the company of a nice Filipina young lady would ruin your career.......![/QUOTE]If you are working on a USAID contract, it is a standard clause that any employee of the contractor who engages in pay for sex can be removed from the project and or the main contract canceled. This does not only apply in the host country but world wide.

I worked in Afghanistan on several USAID contracts and people were fired for having pay for play in Dubai because of this clause. The contractor did not want to risk losing the contract so would always take swift action against anyone that they found out was engaging in p4p.

Hopefully, they apply that policy based on more than just having seen an employee in the company of a nice lady. Koliflaver may be an extremely handsome young man who gets many freebies in Manila. LOL! If he is meeting nice ladies in their late 20's and early 30's from upscale clubs or dating sites, he can actually enjoy non-paid company. The fired-on-sight policy implies that all the women consorting with foreigners are prostitutes. Unless his boss and / or colleagues intercept his lady companions and verify that Koliflaver paid them for fuck, the organization risks firing him based on many assumptions.

It would be interesting to see how HR determines what is paid for fuck activity, as taking a local lady out for dinner and drinks is technically compensation for company and fuck, if the evenings activities progress into the bedroom. Of course, if the policy states that employees are not to fraternize socially with local ladies, then that is a much wider net and Koliflaver may be in jeopardy. In that case, he may want to reconsider his nocturnal trade negotiations while on his junkets to Manila and elsewhere. That is assuming he values his severely sexually constrained career more than his favorite hobby. LOL!

Anyway, that is good information for mongers seeking employment in certain regions specifically for the access to fleshpots. They may want to consider their potential employers' policies on their hobby.

[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;2210730]Unless your career involves preaching against the excesses of moral turpitude and demon lust, I cannot imagine why being seen in the company of a nice Filipina young lady would ruin your career.[/QUOTE]You can even remove that caveat. Many of the Church's finest have preached against sins of the flesh while dabbling themselves only to be protected by their employer when found out. 😁.

[QUOTE=Goferring;2210984]You can even remove that caveat. Many of the Church's finest have preached against sins of the flesh while dabbling themselves only to be protected by their employer when found out. 😁.[/QUOTE]


But only if they are fucking kids.

Seriously there are lots of employers out there that would take a very dim view of anything that openly violated their sense of morality, even if they fantasize about doing it themselves or actually do it themselves.

In this hobby a significant measure of discretion is always necessary, unless you have nothing to lose. I'm retired and single so not as worried as many here should be but even so I am always careful and private about my activities. Two of my closest friends were also mongers for years and all three of us did not realize it for a long time. So far these are just about the only people, other than the ladies of course, outside of a couple of meetings from this and similar forums that know about my hobby.

[QUOTE=KabulGuy;2210991]But only if they are fucking kids.

Seriously there are lots of employers out there that would take a very dim view of anything that openly violated their sense of morality, even if they fantasize about doing it themselves or actually do it themselves.

In this hobby a significant measure of discretion is always necessary, unless you have nothing to lose. I'm retired and single so not as worried as many here should be but even so I am always careful and private about my activities. Two of my closest friends were also mongers for years and all three of us did not realize it for a long time. So far these are just about the only people, other than the ladies of course, outside of a couple of meetings from this and similar forums that know about my hobby.[/QUOTE]Might I add especially if you have female superiors or even female associates. Female assistants can even sabotage your work.

[QUOTE=Dg8787;2210999]Might I add especially if you have female superiors or even female associates. Female assistants can even sabotage your work.[/QUOTE]You are so right there DG. As a good example of never crapping on your own doorstep is a good friend and monger who did just that.

He was getting regularly BBBJ in the office toilets from one of his staff plus more after work. She then boasted to the pinays in the office she was 'special'. My advice to him when he told he had heard the 'chismis' was sack her and pay her off ASAP. His little brain did the thinking (as he said he had spoken to her very harshly on the matter LOL. Likely while have a BBBJ!) and then his wife's PA told him one to terminate the girl or she would divorce him!. There were other conditions as well all of which meant all pinays lost their jobs elsewhere in his business and the mess it created for him was horrible. Even now his wife checks his passport etc.

[QUOTE=Dg8787;2210999]Might I add especially if you have female superiors or even female associates. Female assistants can even sabotage your work.[/QUOTE]I have taken female superiors to Tijuana. I take them to the clubs there. On more than one occasion we have gotten a chick for a 3 some. And one time Tomjackin of the Tijuana forum was in Hong Kong Club on his birthday and he insisted on buying all the drinks and went with us around to other clubs. That night in the trolley on the way back to San Diego people thought that I had drugged her because she was passed out sleep. Even the police came. I said no we just had a long day at work followed by a long evening in Tijuana.

[QUOTE=KabulGuy;2210991]Seriously there are lots of employers out there that would take a very dim view of anything that openly violated their sense of morality, even if they fantasize about doing it themselves or actually do it themselves.[/QUOTE]This is understandable as there are many risks to the expat Boss to be seen as openly supporting an employee's Hobby regardless of if he partakes of not.

Internally, he cannot be seen by his wife or superiors to provide support or shelter to anyone caught. To do so would risk his own position and / or marriage.

Externally, no business unit wants to appear in the press and be seen as morally corrupt. Reputational and contractual damage is just not worth it.

That's why today the Hobby is very widely practiced by resident expat workers but those that are too visible generally find themselves back home fairly quickly.

"Back in the day" it was open and no one cared but that's a whole other post. 😁.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2211030]I have taken female superiors to Tijuana. I take them to the clubs there. On more than one occasion we have gotten a chick for a 3 some. And one time Tomjackin of the Tijuana forum was in Hong Kong Club on his birthday and he insisted on buying all the drinks and went with us around to other clubs. That night in the trolley on the way back to San Diego people thought that I had drugged her because she was passed out sleep. Even the police came. I said no we just had a long day at work followed by a long evening in Tijuana.[/QUOTE]And how have they advanced up the corporate ladder? Maybe fast food superiors couldn't give a damn. Professionals certainly do care about the image they project. Heck, I would never let my staff know that I snuck out for a few hours for some pnp breaks.

[QUOTE=WickedRoger;2211004]You are so right there DG. As a good example of never crapping on your own doorstep is a good friend and monger who did just that[/QUOTE]New guy arrives in town. Big time rig boss on '000's per day contracting rates. He's spent the last 30 years bouncing from shit hole to shit hole all over the world. Cash to burn and worth 8. 7 gazillion dollars.

Soon after a pretty admin clerk is riding the gravy train with pretty dresses and big jewellery. Of course the jungle drums beat and mum gets word.

She's had enough. He's always away so she manages the finances. Everything is transferred into her name and a divorce lawyer to the stars is retained.

He thinks it sucks but he still has day rate cash rolling in so the fun goes on.

Unfortunately the Supply Chain Manager's wife is mum's good friend and provides a good shoulder to cry on. She asks hubby "are all the married guys doing this? "does the company support this?" and finally "lets discuss your golf trips in Thailand".

The next day a HR analysis determines that contract rig bosses are no longer required and can be internally sourced.

Bye bye to our guy but no worries girlie still loves him madly and all will be good, yes?

With no access to cash from home and the mega bucks from work stopped, girlie waits 8 seconds before bolting for the next sucker.

Going from the new high flying big dick in town to no family, no money, no girl friend took about 2 weeks. He was last seen nursing the one beer a night he could afford and complaining to anyone who would listen.

Moral of the story: stay below the radar and never shit in your own back yard.

[QUOTE=Goferring;2211079]New guy arrives in town. Big time rig boss on '000's per day contracting rates. He's spent the last 30 years bouncing from shit hole to shit hole all over the world. Cash to burn and worth 8. 7 gazillion dollars.

Soon after a pretty admin clerk is riding the gravy train with pretty dresses and big jewellery. Of course the jungle drums beat and mum gets word.

She's had enough. He's always away so she manages the finances. Everything is transferred into her name and a divorce lawyer to the stars is retained.

He thinks it sucks but he still has day rate cash rolling in so the fun goes on.

Unfortunately the Supply Chain Manager's wife is mum's good friend and provides a good shoulder to cry on. She asks hubby "are all the married guys doing this? "does the company support this?" and finally "lets discuss your golf trips in Thailand".[/QUOTE]Not uncommon for people to have a brain fade when the cojones take precedence over their brains.

So many expat monger horror stories here! Two common issues arise in most of them. The first issue is that the monger married, handed his balls, and more importantly his finances over to a shrewish wife. In doing so, the monger failed to maintain separate and secret cash reserves out of the reach of his controlling shrew. Hence, he left himself extremely vulnerable to the stiff sanctions of divorce or extortion by threat of divorce actions. LOL!

The second common mistake is that the monger decided to get marvelous BBBJCIM from his employees or coworkers opening himself up to legal liability and worse. There are natural consequences to shitting in one's nest. LOL!

The lesson is never get married, and do not fuck employees and / or coworkers. Keep your favorite hobby and work separate. Office romance and BBBJCIM in the toilet stalls at work may be thrilling but ultimately not worth the cost. LOL!

[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;2211212]The lesson is never get married, and do not fuck employees and / or coworkers. Keep your favorite hobby and work separate. Office romance and BBBJCIM in the toilet stalls at work may be thrilling but ultimately not worth the cost. LOL![/QUOTE]Dude,

Your wasting your time and words! When has a man listened to logic and not his caaaack! The hot piece of ass is too tempting, but we want no other dick in our discovery, so we put a ring on it with the assumption she won't fuck behind our back. Even worse, OMG I can't stop laffing, we assume she won't know when our dick is in another pussy! HAHAHA! Don't we know the entire female race is just waiting for you to spread your DNA! Men are stupid, and these girls know it!