[QUOTE=Bkkdog;2175121] I'm a little different than you I think. I don't like to waste time with a lot of back and forth to ruin the mood or chemistry. I kinda know what number most of the ladies will need to do what I want and that's the first and only number I offer.
As for my tip, it was never discussed and I just handed it over for her good service. YMMV of course.[/QUOTE]Oh, not at all. I am very much like you in that way. There is practically no back and forth on those kind of things. If you have read any of my sample "negotiation" exchanges here, they don't even look like what one might consider a negotiation and I only use that word because I am replying to someone else who used it in a post question or because it is the closest word that fits and can be searched for on these sites.
The vast majority of times, unless I have reason to suspect there might be an issue with heavy bush hair a'growin' down there, my "negotiation" with P4P girls in Thailand comes down to a single question. And it isn't even about the kind of true GFE we are alluding to here. It is whether or not the girl will provide a genuine CIM finish to a BBBJ. That's it. If her response is negative, I will not be choosing her. Only if SHE then follows up with a question like, "Why? Don't you like boom-boom?", will I then mention that I do indeed like boom-boom but I will not be able to do it and finish wearing a condom and any other related info. Then it is up to the girl to figure out if she is willing to offer an acceptable solution to this problem or not.
If her response is clearly positive to providing a genuine CIM finish then she is definitely a candidate for me to choose and, like you, nature can and often does take its course in the room and all plans about finishing with a BBBJ+CIM rather than with, say, BBFS/true GFE are gone.
However, having said that, here is where the exception to those vast majority of times comes in; when I am dealing with a venue type for which my positive results for EITHER of those outcomes, BBBJ+CIM or BBFS, have been so horribly and consistently bad I really have no choice but to cover damn near every detail before I am willing to commit even 500 baht to another gamble on it, much less 3,000+ baht.
That is where massage shops like Addict and the others in that area come in. My positive results for getting it my way for a reasonable price is great doing it in the more laid back way you and I prefer for almost every type of venue and meet ups except those kinds of shops. For those kinds of shops, my positive results are virtually non existent after dozens of attempts at being laid back and casual about it.
So when I saw what looked to me like you were reporting having employed a simple upfront "negotiation" for an additional 1,000 baht tip in order to achieve a true GFE with an Addict girl (i. e., "Could I have avoided the tip? Sure of course, but the true GFE experience may not have been delivered."), that gave me a glimmer of hope that such a method might tempt me to give one of those places a try again, for the umpteenth time. LOL.
