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[QUOTE=PhilJoy;3010291]Have to agree Ent.
The bulk of the freelancers (and I don't mean street-walkers) I've sought out in The Phils have been very desirable indeed and it's nearly always a LT agreement.
And they tend to be much better in the sack.
I realize that doing the bar scene is a lot easier and requires less groundwork, but damn you end up paying for it..[/QUOTE]My experience as well. Never much into the bar scene anyway, not overly attracted to those sorts of girls either.
Once you get an on line presence and have several "good" girls in various stages of being brought into your web, it becomes a matter of picking which one you want tonight and which one is available. Then just "money. I found that the girls were better looking, nicer company to be with and better in bed, at least not as mechanical.
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[QUOTE=ATraveler;3009712]Thanks for the moral support, Goferring. Some good advice.
1. Yes, I was too desperate. Someone finally contacted me on Pinalove with only her Whatsapp, which had a picture of her ass. I figured she was working, so I did a quick videocall and she seemed sort of cute and nice. When she got her she must have been ten years older than her pictures, 35 or even 40, and bigger (but not fat). But she was Japanese / Korean / Filipina, and sort of sexy, so I gave her way too much and proceeded to bang her. Now that I got that emergency fuck out of the way I can proceed more slowly.
2. Yep, I'm ten minutes walking to Ayala. I think I prefer IT Park, and will move there next month.
3. Yes, I always ask if they are in the city. Invariably the cute 18,19, 20 year olds are in the provinces. Is there any way to get these cuties into the city to bang them?
4. My date with the 23-year-old Ayala Lacaste store worker was one of those immigrants, from Layte, ancestral home of Angeles City bargirls. But she's a good girl, and her friend, who I of course liked better accompanied us and they spoke Tagalog the whole time. I just kept it light and joked around with them, expecting nothing. She weirdly liked it and wants to go out again. It would be a multi-date process to bang her. Other balls in play are a short 31-year-old teacher with huge susu's in Mactan I have to pay 800 to taxi over here who needs a new laptop. I could probably bang her on the second date, but I feel a weird emotional connection with her. Then I just started the process of planning a date with a cute 25-year-old accountant nearby. These are all good girls I have to go on dates with, and it's hard to juggle the time with multiple girls. I kind of wish I could find girls who would simply come over for fun. The only ones who say they will are province girls, who want me to send 300 for bus fare, which I won't do. So I've given up on asking cute girls I'm interested in for fun straight out, because it just offends them.
5. If I could find a girl who would come over for short-time fun, I would try this. But no luck, besides the emergency fuck, and my standards are higher than that.[/QUOTE]Curious to hear how your search is going as I will be visiting Cebu within the next couple of weeks.
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[QUOTE=PhilJoy;3009906]Hi Guys, I've had numerous messages asking me how the hotel doorman / security guard approach has worked for me.
So I'll share the general approach.
Basically I'm friendly with them the moment I arrive. I slip them small notes a lot of the time.
When I'm on the hunt, I usually just ask if they know any pretty girls and tell them I don't particularly like the bar scene.
In the past they've lined me up with girls and shown me their Facebook for approval in advance.
I say yes, they arrange it, tell me her price and I head to the room.
When the security guy delivers the girl to my room I simply slip him on average 500 pesos in a handshake.
I've never had to negotiate a price with the doorman or security guy. They're getting my tip and I assume a cut of the payment I give the girl.
The most I've ever paid for a girl is 3000 p.
I'd just advise to ask in advance once the deal is done, if it's LT or ST.
I've had one ST in Manila for 3000 p and another overnight stay in Makati for only 2000 p plus an extra tip to the girl.
Hope this assists _ Phil.[/QUOTE]Your system works like a charm as I have done the same. Also, once you get on their Facebook friends list you will get inundated with requests to meet and boom boom.
The negative for me is that the bar scene has deteriorated from what it was in the 80's and barhopping is not as much fun as it used to be. Times change so we need to change with the times.
Next time I visit I plan on trip to Subic since there is the beach, Jet-Skis, snorkeling, etc. To fill the time between boom booms.
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[QUOTE=Mahaba;3011992]Your system works like a charm as I have done the same. Also, once you get on their Facebook friends list you will get inundated with requests to meet and boom boom.
The negative for me is that the bar scene has deteriorated from what it was in the 80's and barhopping is not as much fun as it used to be. Times change so we need to change with the times.
Next time I visit I plan on trip to Subic since there is the beach, Jet-Skis, snorkeling, etc. To fill the time between boom booms.[/QUOTE]How do you handle your FB account? How populated is it with travel posts, happy snaps etc? Do you take any precautions to keep it separated from you're home / family account (s)? Do you have very loose privacy setting to allow girls to find you or strict ones to prevent cross contamination?
I tend to stay away from FB as I'm paranoid about one life being connected to the other and friends of friends popping up at very embarrassing times.
Or do you just use the Messenger side of the app?
If you're looking for beaches, have you considered the various options around Cebu?
Sorry about all the questions but I'm not very tech savy
Enjoy. G.
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[QUOTE=Mahaba;3011992]Your system works like a charm as I have done the same. Also, once you get on their Facebook friends list you will get inundated with requests to meet and boom boom.[/QUOTE]Hi Mahaba,
I personally don't get them associated with me on Facebook.
Sure, the hotel guards, security, or front desk staff who line them up, may show me their FB profile.
But I keep all future messaging in WhatsApp or similar.
If that works for you, it's fine.
But over time, the repeated requests end up being more for money rather then having a 'naughty' and with girls you've never met, or are likely to do so.
_Phil.
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Usually after I've met the girl and if the sex was good, I tell her I'll send her the picture we took (I always take one in front of the big mirror at Central Park), and ask for her name in Facebook messenger. She types it in and I send her the pic. Now we're connected but not friends and I can facilitate a future hook up. In the case that you want to be more associated and check out her friends and pics, etc, you might add her as a friend. BUT, you'll want to make sure your account is private, and your friends list is private. Also you'll want to make a list of people to exclude from seeing your posts (if you post, which I don't much), this way you can exclude your Pinays from commenting on stuff that your family and business associates might see. These girls love to post sexy pics and dances on their facebook stories so there is some value in adding them as friends sometimes.
[QUOTE=Goferring;3011996]How do you handle your FB account? How populated is it with travel posts, happy snaps etc? Do you take any precautions to keep it separated from you're home / family account (s)? Do you have very loose privacy setting to allow girls to find you or strict ones to prevent cross contamination?
I tend to stay away from FB as I'm paranoid about one life being connected to the other and friends of friends popping up at very embarrassing times.
Or do you just use the Messenger side of the app?
If you're looking for beaches, have you considered the various options around Cebu?
Sorry about all the questions but I'm not very tech savy
Enjoy. G.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=FuriousGeorge;3012299]Usually after I've met the girl and if the sex was good, I tell her I'll send her the picture we took (I always take one in front of the big mirror at Central Park), and ask for her name in Facebook messenger. She types it in and I send her the pic. Now we're connected but not friends and I can facilitate a future hook up. In the case that you want to be more associated and check out her friends and pics, etc, you might add her as a friend. BUT, you'll want to make sure your account is private, and your friends list is private. Also you'll want to make a list of people to exclude from seeing your posts (if you post, which I don't much), this way you can exclude your Pinays from commenting on stuff that your family and business associates might see. These girls love to post sexy pics and dances on their facebook stories so there is some value in adding them as friends sometimes.[/QUOTE]Thanks George but there is a million ways I could fuck that up with pretty disastrous consequences.
Do you have one FB account or one for play and one for the real world??
Cheers. G.
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[QUOTE=Goferring;3012304]Thanks George but there is a million ways I could fuck that up with pretty disastrous consequences. Do you have one FB account or one for play and one for the real world?? Cheers. G.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=FuriousGeorge;3012299]Usually after I've met the girl and if the sex was good, I tell her I'll send her the picture we took (I always take one in front of the big mirror at Central Park), and ask for her name in Facebook messenger. She types it in and I send her the pic. Now we're connected but not friends and I can facilitate a future hook up. In the case that you want to be more associated and check out her friends and pics, etc, you might add her as a friend. BUT, you'll want to make sure your account is private, and your friends list is private. Also you'll want to make a list of people to exclude from seeing your posts (if you post, which I don't much), this way you can exclude your Pinays from commenting on stuff that your family and business associates might see. These girls love to post sexy pics and dances on their facebook stories so there is some value in adding them as friends sometimes.[/QUOTE]Yes, beware of FB, and my advice is, never hook up with them or become friends on there.
Too much info will show up in all the wrong places, and to so many people who don't need to know what you're up to.
Messenger maybe okay.
WhatsApp is my preferred go-to with all contacts.
Keep in mind, everything you 'punch' into your phone or on social media will leave a trail.
If your privacy is a concern, think twice before you hand out too much info to a potentially one-off fling, that will be in bed the next day with a new customer, as soon as you depart the scene.
Just from experience _ Phil.
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I'm single there wouldn't be huge consequences if something leaked through. All the girls have facebook messenger, and that doesn't link you publicly to them. Just make your facebook private so they can't go there and see your friends and messages. And yes, as mentioned, Whatsapp is a good alternative. Not all the girls have it, but most do.
[QUOTE=Goferring;3012304]Thanks George but there is a million ways I could fuck that up with pretty disastrous consequences.
Do you have one FB account or one for play and one for the real world??
Cheers. G.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=FuriousGeorge;3012438]I'm single there wouldn't be huge consequences if something leaked through. All the girls have facebook messenger, and that doesn't link you publicly to them. Just make your facebook private so they can't go there and see your friends and messages. [/QUOTE]My girlfriend in AC has been on my messenger for years, but is not a facebook friend. I guess my profile must have not been private before because she added my best friend and my brother as friends. No idea if it is even private now. I have nothing to hide, but I do not add women I am currently involved with to my social media.
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[QUOTE=FuriousGeorge;3012438]I'm single there wouldn't be huge consequences if something leaked through. All the girls have facebook messenger, and that doesn't link you publicly to them. Just make your facebook private so they can't go there and see your friends and messages. And yes, as mentioned, Whatsapp is a good alternative. Not all the girls have it, but most do.[/QUOTE]I find WhatsApp is better because it's a unique identifier. I got sick of searching through 97 Mary Jane Sanchez's to find the one that I wanted to beFriend. I can also add details to her name in Contacts to make it easy to remember who is who later: eg Sara Dvo Met WG. Back in town? Just do a search for all the WG's in Dvo.
FB is a double edged sword. Both keeping the girls from finding all my other non mongering contacts and Grandma suddenly getting lots of interesting friend recommendations after I return from a 'golf trip' in Pattaya.
I will admit civilians and part timers are less likely to have WhatsApp installed but all have FB. It helps that FB and Messenger are free data.
Enjoy. G.
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What city in Philippines would be the best for day gaming picking up girls, or picking up girls who are non-pros?
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[QUOTE=Edward5;3012603]What city in Philippines would be the best for day gaming picking up girls, or picking up girls who are non-pros?[/QUOTE]You would get more replies if you posted in Stupid Shit in Philippines forum.
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[QUOTE=Edward5;3012603]What city in Philippines would be the best for day gaming picking up girls, or picking up girls who are non-pros?[/QUOTE]I highly recommend Marawi City.
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[QUOTE=KeenEyeJoe1;3012679]I highly recommend Marawi City.[/QUOTE]Jumpin' Joe!
