The Cmdr speaks on cellular phone usage
Respectful chicas only pick their phone up when you do or they give you the reason why they need use their phone when they are with you. [B]A chica that does not pay attention to me when they are with me is a red flag[/B].
Individuals who say they need to be on the phone when they are supposed to be spending time with another person are mostly full of themselves:
[I]"trading stocks and all kind of other shit. My phone is my brain." [/I]
[B]My brain is my brain[/B] The stock market is not open 24 hours a day (unless you are doing after market trading) like the crypto market is. When I leave my screens to spend time and money with a chica she better be doing the same (especially if I am paying her). I'm not going excuse social media addiction. I simply will not deal with chicas that have it.
Different strokes for different folks
[QUOTE=ChrisD1680;2924163]It's 2024, they're all social media addicts, everywhere.
Hunting is fun, but there's no guarantees. What's more, who you see is who's there on that day, at that moment.
A lot of the women I deal with don't really go out much. They go to work, then back home. Maybe take the kids out on the weekend. You'd never run into them on a random Tuesday in Blue Mall or on the Malecon. More likely, they are at home in San Cristobal, or San Pedro.
You said it, I'm detailed and analytical. I'm also a picky eater like my kid. They have to look a certain way, otherwise I can't be bothered. Pics are attached. I would never leave it to chance to find chicks like these, who have the temperament I like. I just can't do nagging and drama.
How I roll, on every trip, I know I will have minimum 5-10 of them on deck where I can be like a pig in proverbial shit.
My last trip to SD, I was working one morning, sent a quick text, the chick was in an Uber to me at 9 am. Drains my balls, and back home by 11 am so I could continue my work. Second chica showed up at 1 pm. Dozed off on the bed while I finished up working, then we hit the town for food, and to explore before back to my place later on to finish up the day. Spent maybe 8000 pesos all in that day for some high mileage sex and a drama-free time.
My original post really was in response to a recurring theme on this particular board, where guys keep asking how to play SD as a newbie. They always get told it's better to go to Sosua where there's hoes crawling all over. It's practical advice, but Sosua is also kind of a dump of a town, if we're honest, and from the reports, it seems good service is anything but guaranteed. So there's that trade off.
Just wanted to share my experience and how I have been rolling for the past 10 years, and even as a SD newbie, worked perfectly for me. It's solid for first timers, and for finding good people for repeat trips. One of my ATF is a girl I met in 2015 in Jamaica. College educated, works as an accountant. She handles business for me if / when I ask: will go to the tax office, pick up and drop off documents, deposits money, pays bills. I plan to find a similar one in the DR as well.[/QUOTE]I guess my overall point is if you're a social media guy then yes going that route could work but what I'm saying in certain countries it's not necessary.
You're from Jamaica that's like saying that you must use Social media to meet women in yaad. You could easily meet *under the radar girls* damn near anywhere same in the the DR in fact going the social media route rather than the social route could backfire on someone who could get an experienced chick who knows how to drain money out of foriegners.
So I'd say for the guy who barely has a facebook I'd be careful about them thinking that the chicks that they meet on the internet is *good girls* They might be or they may not.
Hope this helps.
Trip.
The Cmdr agrees with Triple Darkness
[B]Triple Darkness[/B] is a man who spent just over a year racking up a body count in person. Setting up a rappie snappy delivery service in the Dominican Republic. The man had so many referrals coming to him from chicas he simply could not fuck them all. I know of what I speak. That is how I rolled also. I used Tender, Dominican Cupid, day game in malls and on the streets. In fact, in the beginning I missed out on lot of pussy from girls "who had jobs" because my Spanish was lacking. I guess they were "good girls" who did not want to give it up to a one week visitor. LOL!
[QUOTE=TripleDarknes;2924475]I guess my overall point is if you're a social media guy then yes going that route could work but what I'm saying in certain countries it's not necessary.
You're from Jamaica that's like saying that you must use Social media to meet women in yaad. You could easily meet *under the radar girls* damn near anywhere same in the the DR in fact going the social media route rather than the social route could backfire on someone who could get an experienced chick who knows how to drain money out of foriegners.
So I'd say for the guy who barely has a facebook I'd be careful about them thinking that the chicks that they meet on the internet is *good girls* They might be or they may not.
Hope this helps.
Trip.[/QUOTE]I think it will help new people. Guys coming for 4 days to a place are not finding good girls no matter how they find them. Guys coming to the Dominican Republic are finding girls willing to slang that thing to them for a price (stated or unstated upfront). [B] I tire of having people tell me about the country I spent the last 10 years living in[/B]. Yes I've been out of the country for nearly a year. Are they going to tell me that it has changed THAT much. No, societies and cultures change gradually over time.
Guys here on vacation are not getting the top 5% of the girls in the country. Unless they happen to be rich as fuck and have those connections to upper society in the Dominican Republic. Are you dealing with females who are professionals in their country. I do. When I hit the Dominican Republic my social circle consisted of medical students. Yes, roamed the university, had lunch with and partied at night with medical students. Did that make me any better than anyone else? Not in my mind it didn't. But I knew I didn't have any reason to goto Sosua when you have a girl inviting your to suit up to escort her to a military formal where you are meeting her bosses and other high level military officers in the country.
Anyone who knows anything further than "where the hos be at" knows that the Dominican Culture is Dominican Centric. Dominican men are getting all the pussy they want from girls WAY before the "suave" gringos get their hands on them. I made a contact with a Dominican business owner. He ran a store in Zona Colonia and he told me that gringos get left over girls. Girls that have already been ran through and rejected by Dominican men. He explained the attitude that there are girls all over the country turning 18 everyday. Dominican men have an abundance mentality and a "love them, impregnate them and leave them" mentality. Just check out the out of wedlock birthrates in the country. In the upper 5% of society they teach their children to value family and they set their families up to pass on wealth. You don't see that type of behavior from girls at that level.
If you have the ability to speak Spanish and some game, you can meet girls all over the Dominican Republic. Especially as they are out and about doing the activities of daily life that we all do. I am not throwing shade on anyone that likes to use social media to meet girls. I use it also. I reject the idea that gets proffered that "my hos are better than your hos" because I find them on Book of Face. LOL!
[B]If money is involved all you did was find a girl slanging that thing with a different marketing plan[/B]
The Cmdr is not interested in debating anyone about the DR
Anyone who wants to question my CV in the Dominican Republic has any number of people they can ask to see if I am real or not. I'll give you a list if want it.
[QUOTE=TripleDarknes;2924089]I'd say that Chris the is a very analytical and methodical person[/QUOTE]I respect [B]Trip D[/B] so I'll stipulate to his comment and you did not deny it. I will present that you are over analyzing things just a bit.
[QUOTE=ChrisD1680;2924543][b]This is becoming a needless pissing contest[/b] when the original problem remains: guys struggle in Santo Domingo, even though the opportunities are there.[/QUOTE]It has become a pissing contest in your mind only. Please show me where I have said anything that you have written is wrong. You cannot. In fact we have agreed on many other things in previous posts. So your statement confuses me.
[QUOTE=ChrisD1680;2924543]Talking about meeting top 5% chicks from wealthy families is a weird flex on a monger forum.[/QUOTE]The purpose of ISG is to share information on having sex with girls. The idea that you think it is solely a [I]monger forum[/I] and that the information I shared here on ISG was [I]a weird flex[/I] offers more insight into your mind and mentality that anything else. Check out who my reply was to. It was not you. So, what ever impressions you got from my post developed in your own mind. I was not addressing you specifically. Yet you felt the need to call me out. Better take a look in the mirror and figure out what in my post triggered you. I had not intention whatsoever of "goring your ox".
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2924461]Rainy day here in Santo Domingo. My army chick was finally going to take me to that officer's club on base. But I digress.
I like to use the girl that does my nails as a prime example. As a matter of fact, I just left her shop. She is a 31 year old Venezuelan and came to this country 5 years ago with nothing. [b]She started off doing nails inside of a barber shop, not fucking foreigners in Boca Chica or Sosua or Punta Cana[/b].
Now she has her own beauty center. Been here only 5 fucking years while chicks been here their whole lives sit inside of their houses talking about they can not find a job. Inside of the beauty center she has a barber shop with 3 EMPTY booths. She told me sorry there is nobody to cut your hair. I hope to have someone next time. The problem is that nobody wants to work, they just want to beg. This came from someone that got it out the mud, not me. But I echo her sentiments. I am probably the laziest mf that I know. But I am not going to be lazy to my own detriment and sit on my ass waiting for someone to give me something.[/QUOTE]Here is a post that shows you the information shared on ISG can be on a higher level. There is not need to reduce it to just being a monger forum except in your own mind.
[QUOTE=ChrisD1680;2924543]Who gets those women in ANY society? Having money isn't enough. You need status, too. [b]Kudos if you can pull it off, but I don't know that anyone here is envious[/b]. I'm not.[/QUOTE]Once again, you are getting too involved in your emotions about the information I shared. I simply described my boots of the ground experiences.
[QUOTE=SubCmdr;2924514]When I hit the Dominican Republic my social circle consisted of medical students. Yes, roamed the university, had lunch with and partied at night with medical students. Did that make me any better than anyone else? Not in my mind it didn't. But I knew I didn't have any reason to goto Sosua when you have a girl inviting your to suit up to escort her to a military formal where you are meeting her bosses and other high level military officers in the country.[/QUOTE]Is this what bothered you so much? I was not sharing to make anyone envious. I was sharing to provide perspective on [B]the real[/B] Dominican Republic.
Those medical students I used to hang with They have all become doctors. One of the is in charge of all my medical treatment when I'm in the Dominican Republic making sure I get the best care from the best facilities in the Dominican Republic by the best doctors she knows. I'm old. I have health problems. That shit is important to me.
[QUOTE=ChrisD1680;2924543]Unless you're fucking virgins, you're getting what some other dude / s had before. Dominican men are knocking up girls well before 18 too, so good luck with that. Why should this matter for our needs?[/QUOTE]Exactly what you are hot under the collar with me for? Once again I was just sharing information. If you did not appreciate the information that I shared please place me on ignore for the future and no fuss, no mess, no problems. I will point out once again that my post was a response to Trip the, sharing of information about the Dominican Republic on a higher level. It is something we do all the time.
No I am not fucking virgins. Look in the mirror [B]ChrisD[/B]. Check yo self. Get a grip. Figure out why my post triggered you so much.
[QUOTE=ChrisD1680;2924543]We already agreed that pussy is never really free. So, they're all slanging it. How, and how much you pay is the only part that's negotiable. I am happy this is how it is.[/QUOTE]We are in agreement. Real talk. Not spreadsheets.
You need to stick with sharing information on your own activities and stop being a critic of the posts of others trying to provide information. In my opinion you are getting caught up in that classic visitor verses expat perspective on the Dominican Republic. I never said anything you wrote was wrong. Can it be possible that we are both right because our experiences are different?
[B]I hope you continue to enjoy the Dominican Republic[/B] Outside of the horrible infrastructure and a non existent work ethic it is a fun place to take a sex vacation or any other type of vacation.
Eyecare and Dental in Santo Domingo
A bit of a departure from the norm here, but has anyone had any experiences or recommendations for getting eyes checked and getting dental work in the DR and Santo Domingo specifically?
Last time there, I stayed in Gazcue and there were all manner of clinics all around the area (eye, dental, cosmetic, radiology, etc). I know it's popular for all the BBL chicks, but wanted to know about stuff like getting teeth done.
I'm headed there in a couple of weeks and have need for a surgical extraction and a deep cleaning. Costs a bundle here where I live. Also wanted to see about getting glasses, too if possible. I've been putting this off for years now at this point.
Any ideas on cost or recommendations for trusted providers?