Need advice in overcoming a spesific problem:
Gentlemen,
I dont live any hard-on problems but mine is coming too quick when having sex with a payed girl from time to time. I dont come so quicklyy with the freebies but when i f*ck with a "working girl", i sometimes get so excited that i am never able to control myself. That makes me feel that i ruin the whole scene both for me and the girl. Definitely not a pleasant feeling.
Ok, I know that this has roots in the depths of my psyche, but the advice i ask is not about some psychotherapy. Do any of you have an idea to overcome this problem or is there a pill to cure it -at least temporarily ? I dont like creaming the willie with some retarder creams or sprays sold in sex shops and what i ask is something other than that.
Thx in advance,
Best,
U.
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here is a technique i sometimes find for having energy orgasms.
1.lay down on a firm surface, hard bed, carpet. bend your knees up.
2.take a few relaxing breaths. empty your mind. let go of tension. let go of ego. settle in.
3.begin to take deeper breaths. inhale through the nose and exhale through the mouth. make it completely "circular" with no pauses between inhales and exhales.
4.rock your pelvis, arching your lower back on the inhale, faltering on the exhale. squeeze the pubococcygeus muscles (the muscles you squeeze to stop the flow of [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord109][CodeWord109][/url]) on the exhale. these squeezes can actually stimulate your sexual centres (clitoris and g-spot for women and penis and prostate for man), while pumping up energy throughout your entire body. in other words, inhale while filling your belly like a balloon, exhale and flatten your back while contracting the pc muscles. repeat continuously. your knees may open and close like butterfly wings. let the breathing and contractions be erotic. surrender to this divine energy. surrender and relaxation are the most important part of the method. you can not suppress this energy. most of the people are suppressing it all the life. now is the time to expand it and release it. many unusual things can happen. you can not be hurt if you surrender to it.. trust this energy, because it is the divine.
5.usualy first few sessions you will learn how to relax and surrender to energy awakened in your body. with more practice you may start to use your mind to begin to pull in energy from the earth/atmosphere into the perineum . build more fire in the sex centre (1st and 2nd chakras). circulate the energy back and forth. when this area is well "lit," go up to the belly area and start circulating from the sex centre to the belly, sex centre to belly (2nd and 3rd chakras)...circulate until the fire is burning stronger.
6.go to the next level - the heart. circulate from belly to heart, belly to heart (3rd and 4th chakras).
7.now try the throat. circulate from heart to throat, heart to throat (4th and 5th chakras). when the energy moves up, you may automatically make some sounds. if not, you can consciously make sounds, as this helps to open the throat for the energy to move up. keep circulating between the heart and throat, until you feel the energy move up to the third eye.
8.circulate the energy from throat to third eye, throat to third eye (5th and 6th chakras)
9.circulate from the third eye to the top of your head (crown chakra). at a certain point it may feel like the energy is shooting out the top of your head and shower around you, you will kick into full body orgasm. go with it. your breathing patterns will change. you may scream, you may "melt," you may laugh hysterically, you may feel your back arch and your fists may clench. with practice you can learn to ride the waves and keep the orgasms going for a very, very long time.
it sounds confusing but it works....