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Hallo. Any [URL]seeking.com[/URL] users on this chatt? I have using the site for 3 years and in last year I beieve to be going downhill. Anyone else with similar expereinces? There are very few options and many of the girls are old timers. One suspect is many are on Tinder or other dating apps. I also got the intel that many of girls now post in Singapore because there is more money there and lads are flying girls up for the weekend. Damm rich people.
Any insights to shares? I check Bali and its stunning european girls who thereby charging so much money.
Time to delete app?
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Don't waste my time on seeking, right?
I'll be in Jakarta next wk for the first time. I'm a seasoned monger (USA Mexico Ukraine Asia).
I used SA before. Its expensive. US $130 a month. Sometimes its easy to meet girls but one problem is they message you after wanting to meet up again. I currently don't have a paid subscription so I can only browse and not send / read messages.
There's quite a few good looking Jakarta girls. See attached pics. I'm only going to be in Jakarta for maybe 3 full days before I go to Thailand. I really want to check out Emporium and Classic and give a shot of meeting girls in malls during the day. I feel like that's a better way to spend my time than hooking up with a SA girl (s). What are your thoughts?
Classic and a good threesome
Like I wrongly posted in the general forum, my first day I went to
Emporivm, and had a great experience.
Next day, Friday, I took the 10 minute walk from Redtop hotel to Classic.
Traffic and bad sidewalks not withstanding, it's walkable, but keep your
eyes on the road, not your phone. I'd not want to walk there at night
if it was the first time though, as sidewalks are really bad and you
can step into something bad and hurt yourself.
I was going to post a description
of classic, but then I saw Nuttin Serious's post
(http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?965-Jakarta&p=2757727&viewfull=1#post2757727),
and he says it a lot better than I could, and what he says about the
procedure is still as it is today, so I'll just add a few details about
my experience.
As Nuttin Serious says, there are several mamasans in the room, and each
seems to have her own herd of girls. My first day, Friday, I happened
to only deal with one mamasan, Cha-Cha she told me her name was the
next day, and I kinda liked her. A bit brusque and business-like, but
friendly enough and with some humour. The next day I got to experience
the other mamasans, and they were all annoying, pushy, and had trouble
understanding "no". So I recommend asking for mamasan Cha-Cha if
you want to get a good start.
So on Friday I entered at around 5pm, and the immediate impression,
after last nights evening at Emporivm, was that I was no longer flying
first class. If Emporivm is a luxury train moving at a comfortable
pace, Classic is a low-cost airline getting you to your destinations
more quickly, but also less comfortably. But: there are many more girls
at Classic. Easily 3-4 times as many as at Emporivm.
Mamasan Cha-Cha asked me what kind of girl I wanted, listing some
general terms for me to get the drift (thin, big boobs, no baby, etc.)
Thin and no baby was my answer, and she herded up 6-7 girls, none of
which I like much.
I'd rate the girls in general as something between "high-end" Bangkok
bar-girls, or low-end Bangkok go-go bar girls.
So I told mamasan to show me other girls, and she herded up another
10-12 girls. One quickly stood out to me, and after asking mamasan
to again use the flashlight on her phone so I could see something
in this dark and dingy hall, her light confirmed my choice
and eye contact indicated she was ok about me too.
I told mamasan I was interested in this girl, who turned out to have a
name starting with L. I'd rate her as a weak 8. Mamasan told the girl
something, I guess, "step up to this guy and be friendly". She didn't
speak much English at all, but I could test the waters for a few minutes
while she was standing between my legs.
Being satisfied, I indicated to mamasan I'd like to go with this girl,
and you can read in Nuttin Serious's excellent post how that procedure is.
L and I went down to the rooms, took a shower, and I laid down on the bed.
She started sucking my dick. After she had sucked my dick long enough,
I like the day before pulled her on top of me, but did not enter her
pussy. Instead we just grinded against each other.
Like the day before I was curious about whether condoms would be required
or not. I kept grinding against her, with her on top of me, and my
dick sometimes almost entering, and her moving away when it happened.
After a few more minutes of this, she said "condom", but I told her to
wait, and continued grinding, trying to arouse her a bit too. A few
minutes after that my dick entered her without any objections, and I
also came inside her without any objections.
Unlike the Emporivm girl, who was shocked/surprised when I did that,
and I had to calm her down by telling her I'd had a vasectomy, so not
to worry, the Classic girl did not react, and no explanation was needed.
After finishing, it was obviously time to leave, unlike the Emporivm
girl who seemed to expect that we lay in bed until time was up.
Anyway, service was good, girl was friendly, and I don't know if I got
extra good service or not with the BBFSCIM, but I tipped her 100,000,
which seemed to be enough based on her reaction.
Next day, Saturday, I again went to Classic, arriving there around 17:30.
I was beset on by another mamasan, showing me her herd. There were no-one
amongst her 10-12 girls I was shown that I thought were pretty enough,
so I moved to another area, and another mamasan repeated the procedure
with her herd.
I thought there was here one or two who I might want to bang, if nobody
better, but even they were no more than a weak 7 to me, so I again
moved to another area, which happened to be the area of the mamasan from
yesterday, Cha-Cha. She remembered me, and this time also introduced
herself. She then introduced her herd again, and I noticed L from
yesterday too.
I hadn't planned on taking L again, as I wanted a different girl for
variation, but sad fact is she was the most pretty. She could see I
wasn't planning on taking her, so just smiled and laughed a bit when
mamasan apparently remembered I took her yesterday, and tried to bring
her forward to me, hoping I'd take her again.
Anyway, L came up to me and we exchanged hello's. I was a bit unsure
about what to do. Yes, she was the most pretty one, but I didn't want
to take the same p4p girl twice in a row as it's a bit boring for me.
I had been thinking a bit about threesomes earlier today. The mamasans
at Classic are really pushing taking two girls.
I know any lesbian action will be virtually impossible, but even
without that, I imagine a random threesome will for sure involve a lot
of condom changes and tissue wipes for junior, which will of course ruin
the experience, as for many other brothers here, and I will be left with
thinking I should have taken just one girl.
But, being unsure about taking L again, or looking at more girls, I
started talking with her if she had any good friend amongst her group
of girls. After a bit back and forth she understood what I meant, and
pointed at a girl. I was not sure which one she meant as there were
about 15 girls sitting closely together, so she asked her friend to come
up to us. I'd rate her friend as a 6, so told L "no", and she sent her
friend back. I asked L what about girl X, a girl who I liked quite
a bit more. L was not sure who I meant, but mamasan could understand,
and brought the girl up to us.
I asked L, "what about this girl" as X was coming down, but L said she
did not know that girl. L and mamasan exchanged some words, not sure
what. I think I'm a decent judge of communication and body language,
even when I don't understand a word that was said, so when L said it was
up to me while laughing, it did not feel like she was being pressured
to do this by mamasan, but that in truth she did not know this girl
well and it would probably be a bit akward.
My instinct was however that this would then probably end up with a
lot of condom swapping and tissue cleaning between two girls that were
not friends. So I told mamasan to send X back, and again asked
L what other girl she liked. She again pointed to her 6' friend, again
talking with her and her getting up. Her 6' friend was frowning at us
quite a bit, but L indicated she smiles a lot and it was her best friend.
Well, I could not see much smiling, but L insisted the 6 was a happy
girl, so I thought perhaps the 6 is the type of girl who frowns more
than she smiles and laughs, which turned out to be true. In the end I
said to L ok, we go with your friend. I was thinking a good experience
with L and her 6 friend was better than a condom swapping tissue wiping
experience between L and X (who I'd rate slightly below L in looks).
I then paid mamasan just 150,000 more for two girls than for one girl
(total of 500,000, as I've read in other reports). That's really a
bargain compared to Thailand, were two girls are simply the price of one
girl multiplied by two.
In the room, while the other girl was showering and could not see, L
brought up two condoms, showing me we should use them, but I just turned
my head side to side for a no while laughing. She repeated this a few
times and I said no in various semi humorous ways, took the condoms out
of her hand and hid them under the towel.
When her friend came out of the shower L started a conversation with
her friend about this. I of course understood nothing of the words,
but it was pretty clear L was telling her friend I did not want to use
condoms, and her friend being a bit pissed about this, and L convincing
her friend to not use condoms.
I had been trying to get L's friend to warm up a bit up until now, and
pulled her down on the bed next to me, while I pulled L's head down on
my dick. I then started fondling L's friend (lets call her 6), while L
was sucking my dick. After a while I indicated for L and the 6 to swap
positions, which involved a little bit of tissue wiping which I quickly
stopped, pushing my dick into 6's mouth, while fondling L. L and
6 then swapped positions a few times, with me in a laughing way
throwing away any tissue they wanted to wipe junior with when
changing positions.
A bit later I pulled L on top of me and entered her pussy, while I pulled
6 next to me on the bed. After fucking L for a while with her on top
of me, I pulled L of, and entered 6, fucking her. At this point I was a
happy camper, and swapping back and forth between L and 6 was no problem.
I tried to get L to suck my dick after pulling out of 6, but that was
no go unfortunately. Same with pulling out of L and putting my dick in
6's mouth: no go, had to wash in shower first.
But ok, I could at least swap pussys without problems, which was the
most important thing, and enough to make me a happy camper.
In the end I finished in 6, which she was not happy about, and I then had
to explain to them both about the vasectomy. The 6 did not understand
my explanation it seemed, so L then explained it to her in Indonesian.
I was planning on fucking them both again, this time finishing in L.
The girls were ok about this, but I guess old age is starting to catch
up with me, and I would have needed more than the 60 minutes allotted me
for Junior to get ready again.
Anyway, the experience was really good for me, being able to
fuck them both without any condom swapping. I'm pretty sure
this was due to L persuading her friend, so in the end I tipped
L's friend 100,000, and L herself 200,000.
A few hours later I met a girl from online dating at shopping mall, but
she did not want to go to bed with me, so when back I instead went to
Emporivm, where I again fucked the girl from my first night. I had
brought with me some K-Y as I planned to finish in her pussy once,
and then try to do anal with her as an encore, but unfortunately it
seems I'm still struggling to adapt expectations to my new reality.
After finishing in her pussy again, junior did not wake up for a second
session withing the 90 minutes allotted.
Tomorrow/Sunday will be my last day here, as Monday I'm going back to
Bangkok for another month.
I'll probably go to Classic again around 5pm as today. I asked L
if she had other friends, and she said she had four good friends.
I think it will be a bit boring for Junior if I take L three days in
a row, even with a friend, so will probably try to find another girl.
When exiting with L and 6 today, I did notice there were more girls at
18:30 then when I arrived at around 17:30, and I saw some I liked.
For the evening, unless I happen to meet a regular girl via online dating,
I'm not sure if I'll go to Emporivm again, or Classic a second time in
the same day. Or maybe just work.