Can you save a monger either?
[QUOTE=Sure Thing; 1486557]These guys are who I call Grand Master Super Captain Save-a-whoe. These guys I believe should never get in to the hobby of mongering because they are such simps they believe that the GFE experience is real love. They probably read these boards too and listen to the homies but still believe that their chica or girl is one of a kind. It's been so many times I have been long stroking brides to be while their man is back home pampering them with WU money. You simps are probably reading right now and thinking not your girl because when I call she always answers. You are right she does, she'll be talking to you while sitting on top of a couple of inches. Guys marriage is a big step (I'm talking to you future Grandmaster Captain Save-a-whoes) why settle down with a woman who has been leasing the ass off at a regular bases? Unless you are staying there in the said country with the girl I would suggest not being the WU fiance. That is just Overtime pay for her trade.
Don't be Grandmaster Super Captain Save-a-whoe.[/QUOTE]I often wonder when I read these kinds of posts whether the guy is really upset with himself because he knows he is forever tainted. Once you go down the monger path, can you ever go back to being a true lover? In my case I think not. I know no matter how much I love a woman, I will still be wanting to make some side trips, and I can't understand why that is such a bad thing. I mean I feel like I can be true to my lover in every way but monogamous sex. But I must say I wouldn't demand total monogamy from her either.
As far as true con artists go, I've met a few, male and female. There is nothing new under the sun. You can read about these kinds of women during WWII who were getting allotment checks from multiple guys straight from the US government. Certainly any guy sending money to women should be very careful about their own motives and be sure about what the woman is doing with it. You always read about the flameouts and disasters, but the successful situations don't make the News at 11.
If you're sending money to a woman to support her family, check out how they are living when you visit. Do the kids have new clothes? Is there a washing machine in the house? Are the kids going to school and studying? Etc. Or is the woman sporting all kinds of flash? Is she wearing expensive clothes and has expensive nails and hair? If you want to be an absentee daddy, then finish your homework.