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[QUOTE=Senser]Hell yeah, this looks good!! This is the the kind of disco I am used to here in europe. Not like Sunflower or NASA with those damn sitting tables covering 80% of the place...

What do you think about the chances to score a pretty NON-pro there? (i'm 22 years old, slim and fit)
Should be difficult since it's impossibe to have a conversation with the music beeing so loud....[/QUOTE]


you will score just about every girl there, but be carefull as some girls just dance leaving their boy friends behind, i being run into quite a lot :) but its all cool..

The youtube video shows some concert in paseo, but when i went it had tables and chair to booze...but the dancing area is big..but it gets soo crowded that you can't move..but squeeze in to pretty girls...:D

Just wondering whats Cebu is like. Is there much to do there beside bone women? What about the touristy things to do there?. I there enough to keep one entertained for a week or so? I've been to Phuket, just wondering about this joint. Is it much liek Phuket?

Thanks

Cebu is not like Phuket unfortunately.

In the city you can visit the famous church St. Nino, and near there is the old fort. Find a girl and go up to the top of the surrounding mountains for a nice view especially at sunset. Also up the mountain is a nice Chinese temple. That will keep you busy for a day or two. There are two large malls: SM and Ayala. Ayayla has some nice restaurants. I like Lemon Grass. Also at Ayayla is Ratsky's a large bar with live bands.

You can get on Ocean Jet, 90min to get to Bohol beaches (Panglao). There are some nice beaches on Cebu Island, but the beaches near Cebu city are not really recommended. There are some nice resorts on Mactan Island, but they tend to be expensive and the beach is artificial.

If you get bored in Cebu, it's fairly simple to go to some nearby spot. I think it cost me only 1500 pesos to go from Cebu to Davao using Cebu Pacific.

X Man

[QUOTE=Born Loser 5]you will score just about every girl there, but be carefull as some girls just dance leaving their boy friends behind, i being run into quite a lot :) but its all cool.[/QUOTE]You better choose your girl carefully because you won't get many chances.

Once you hook up with a girl you will be pretty much their boyfriend. Cebu is small and if you are known as a "Kaba kaba" (in Cebuano) or "Paru Paru ", "Paru-Paro" (in Tagalog), you will have a hard time finding a real girlfriend.

The people who go to Paseo are more of the employees of Call Centers and students. They go in groups and and the tables are all clicks of friends who already know each other. So it is not easy to just walk up to any table and just sit down and try to pick up a girl.

You have a better chance picking up a Freelancer at Sunflower. Be prepared to have to dance.

[QUOTE=Born Loser 5]In Paseo Disco...There are 10's and 100's of girls to go with and some lady boys too :) who seem like perfect stranger as you are too drunk to know who is who :), I was with the group i met on the net, read my report below
[/QUOTE]Thanks Born Loser. Although you didn't actually answer my question regarding how many normal girls you bedded! Don't waste your money on prostitutes man, they're low class, living over there you've got a chance to have many REAL relationships with beautiful young women. Sex with them is vastly more enjoyable than sex with a bar girl who's only thinking of the money.

Good luck bro!

X Man, there's no reason to take my comment to heart so much. My point was that paid sex with prostitutes is the the least desirable kind of sex. Would you not prefer sex with a girl with a pronounced sexual and romantic interest in you to sex with a prostitute who feels no attraction towards you at all? What would most men prefer?

By 'real' relationship I mean a relationship with an element of love, even if the relationship is partly based on financial concerns on the part of the girl. I know that such relationships are possible with bar girls, but, they are generally not the best girls to have such a relationship with.

[QUOTE=WebConexxion]You better choose your girl carefully because you won't get many chances.

Once you hook up with a girl you will be pretty much their boyfriend. Cebu is small and if you are known as a "Kaba kaba" (in Cebuano) or "Paru Paru ", "Paru-Paro" (in Tagalog), you will have a hard time finding a real girlfriend.

The people who go to Paseo are more of the employees of Call Centers and students. They go in groups and and the tables are all clicks of friends who already know each other. So it is not easy to just walk up to any table and just sit down and try to pick up a girl.

You have a better chance picking up a Freelancer at Sunflower. Be prepared to have to dance.[/QUOTE]

You are right..most of the crowd is very young and always in groups and as i observed in my last report..all the best girls are taken :( by local guys...they too value beauty :D

I wanted to go there again this weekend..but my last weeks groups were hanging around and they wanted me to join them...with those guys and girls..there is no way i could pick up other chicks or even explore...she has already started taking me as her bf and querying about her b'day gift this week :(.mannnnnnnn

[QUOTE=Adventurer5]Thanks Born Loser. Although you didn't actually answer my question regarding how many normal girls you bedded! Don't waste your money on prostitutes man, they're low class, living over there you've got a chance to have many REAL relationships with beautiful young women. Sex with them is vastly more enjoyable than sex with a bar girl who's only thinking of the money.

Good luck bro![/QUOTE]

Im trying to get normal decent girls :)

As you may know, im from India and skin color matters a lot here....there would be exceptions to pick best girls in town, if i had millions, that would balance my skin color .....but i have heard on my face...they don't like Indians..and they call us 5-6...as lot of indians here deal in lending business and have bad reputation of sorts..and its a done thing that we smell a lot to them :)

I have to double up everything in cost and costume to gel in and explain im not like that..

I could only pick up prostitutes or the normal girls that i would not pick up back home too as my gf i could pick them here but with high maintanence

Here its all Americanisation...everyone wants to be western or go to west..

Im hitting girls left and right here, but they give a second thought to it..my only other option not to go to bed single is to pick up the lowest which is available to me...you got it prostitutes :)

If you are white guy...no problemo...you will have no problem picking up normal chicks, the best chicks,centrefolds et all..you name it..

Paseo, sunflower, ayala, sm during day time are the best places to pick up girls..

to make my point..how many koreans, japanese we see picking regular chicks in discos very few..they all are in bars...doubling up prices to get laid :)

there will be calls that..some indians, asian(arabs, singapore, hongkong it all), japanese, koreans are with hot chicks here....it would be equal to as..some white guy got kicked out by a filipina and thats a real exception :D

It will be good i know in some time..i just got to wait...patience is virtue here for me...

Congratulations on your second post Adventurer5. Who is Adventurer1? BTW, how old are you and how many women have you had sex with? How many in PI?

Anyone who disses and entire category of employement is "low class" to me. As for the "sex", most of us on this list have had sex with a variety of women, and I doubt that many would agree with your assesment.

Yes, we have chances to have "REAL relationships" with women. I have / and continue to have "real" relationships in the Philippines as well as my country of residence - which is in the top five of GDP.

Maybe you should expand on the "real relationship" in the Philippines topic, instead of sending out a bunch of negativity. I suspect more than a few people on this list have had some "REAL" relationships with the working woman you describe as "low class". I know I have. I've fallend in love with a few.

Lastly, I'd like you to think about how "REAL relationships" work without money?

I'll apologize in advance for the gross overgeneralization (A5 set the example), but the only difference between a p4p girl and a wife is that one is thinking short term and the other is thinking long term. Both use a vagina to reach their goal.

Think about it.

A man with no dick is unlikely to find a wife -- how many eunichs marry? A "REAL" woman knows that she needs to have children so that her man continues to support her when she's grown old and wrinkled. That's the (marriage) contract between husband and wife.

But if he's and old fart with money, marriage is still possible...funny how that works. So, p4p girl expects compensation for short term vagina rental. Young filipina to one of us older guys may be counting on children, maybe not, but there is support and an inheiritance somewhere along the line.*

Then there is the typical marriage, lifetime vagina usage in return for lifetime financial support of the woman and the children. Oh, surprise, as employment opportunities increase for women, birth rates fall, marriage age gets later, and divorces increase. When women have job opportunities/ money, a penis becomes something other than a retirement package.

Do you think a woman with no vagina could find a man? Well, I guess she could pay for an escort. Does that make him a low-class guy?

Well, I know there are some holes in my generalization, please feel free to add your own ideas. I am happily divorced, but still a bit jaded. One guy I met recently had a pretty good counter arguement. He said "affection" and "she takes care of me." Well, I'm not sure what that means. Maybe....good cooking, good relationship, good sex....in some ways I envy him.

To be honest, I'd marry that nympho I met in AC last time, and would even cook for her, if only I could expect she wouldn't be fking anyone she met. It's hard to get the nympho, cook, faithful in one package. After all, she chatted with me for one minute and then sent a text, "I want sex". What a ****, god bless her. When we met at my hotel (in MLA two day later), I suggested we go eat. She wanted to take a shower....we went to eat about five hours later. She proudly says that she "was born horny".



X Man

* When I lived in California, I asked an attractive Filipina, "Are you single?", She answered, "my husband died and I bought a Corvette". Yes, that is a direct quote.

[QUOTE=Adventurer5]Thanks Born Loser. Although you didn't actually answer my question regarding how many normal girls you bedded! Don't waste your money on prostitutes man, they're low class, living over there you've got a chance to have many REAL relationships with beautiful young women. Sex with them is vastly more enjoyable than sex with a bar girl who's only thinking of the money.

Good luck bro![/QUOTE]

HUH!!!!!!!!!!

Don't blame your skin color on your own inborn inepitude. What a twit. One of my favorite lady friends ( a virgin) married an Indian and they started up a business together. SHE seemed very proud and happy.

I suddenly got a very strange message asking me to bless HIS marriage, but I had no idea where it was coming from. (I don't spend all my time in the Philippines with only one gilr--duh).

Shortly after, the the twit started sending me threatening email message -- "she admits she met you at a hotel, what is going on??? I demand to know!". I thought I was being harassed by a lunatic, but I eventually found out the connection with the girl (who had not emailed me in two months). I guess the weirdo message was after he stole into her email account. Well, I have no idea.

I guess his wife told me that she was getting married. I didn't expect someone to ask me permission to get married. Hey, that may be your culture, not mine. Who knows, maybe she played him....telling him that there was another guy proposing marriage. I barely knew her.

I met her in the lobby of a 5-star hotel, and that is as far as I got. Be an obsessive jealous wanker and when your wife gets fed up, leaves you and hooks up with a white guy, you can blame it all on skin color.

white and bald x man who DOES NOT LIVE IN THE WEST / starting to wonder why I'm participating on this (mostly) list of fools.

BTW, one of my best friends in Japan is ethnic Indian, hooked nose, naughy playboy, and he does just fine. Night after night, he does well.

Another friend, American-Japanese who is fluent in Japanese, always says the white boys like me have the advantage. His hot J girlfriend (of five years) dumped him (two years ago) and he still blames it on skin color and still can't get a replacement. DUH.

Can I stop ranting now?

X Man

(oops, I got a tan when I was at the beach. The women are starting to avoid me.)



[QUOTE=Born Loser 5]Im trying to get normal decent girls :)

As you may know, im from India and skin color matters a lot here....there would be exceptions to pick best girls in town, if i had millions, that would balance my skin color .....but i have heard on my face...they don't like Indians..and they call us 5-6...as lot of indians here deal in lending business and have bad reputation of sorts..and its a done thing that we smell a lot to them :)

I have to double up everything in cost and costume to gel in and explain im not like that..

I could only pick up prostitutes or the normal girls that i would not pick up back home too as my gf i could pick them here but with high maintanence

Here its all Americanisation...everyone wants to be western or go to west..

Im hitting girls left and right here, but they give a second thought to it..my only other option not to go to bed single is to pick up the lowest which is available to me...you got it prostitutes :)

If you are white guy...no problemo...you will have no problem picking up normal chicks, the best chicks,centrefolds et all..you name it..

Paseo, sunflower, ayala, sm during day time are the best places to pick up girls..

to make my point..how many koreans, japanese we see picking regular chicks in discos very few..they all are in bars...doubling up prices to get laid :)

there will be calls that..some indians, asian(arabs, singapore, hongkong it all), japanese, koreans are with hot chicks here....it would be equal to as..some white guy got kicked out by a filipina and thats a real exception :D

It will be good i know in some time..i just got to wait...patience is virtue here for me...[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Adventurer5]X Man, there's no reason to take my comment to heart so much. My point was that paid sex with prostitutes is the the least desirable kind of sex. Would you not prefer sex with a girl with a pronounced sexual and romantic interest in you to sex with a prostitute who feels no attraction towards you at all? What would most men prefer?

By 'real' relationship I mean a relationship with an element of love, even if the relationship is partly based on financial concerns on the part of the girl. I know that such relationships are possible with bar girls, but, they are generally not the best girls to have such a relationship with.[/QUOTE]

I would agree with this generally but not with p4p filipinas. It's usually great sex and I like the honest exchange. I don't have to tell them lies and possibly hurt them to get it. All they want is money and not much of it. Besides they leave in the morning. A win/win/win situation for me.

Your comment "paid sex with prostitutes is the the least desirable kind of sex" has me aghast.

I have been fortunate enought in my life to, granted on occasion, find some gals who are stunning, friendly, funny, smart, and actually like their job. This has resulted in the wildest fun sex I have ever had.

When her knees are up around her ears - like a bunny rabbit - and she is slappy the back of your ass screaming for more, I just don see the "I love you honey" coming into play.




[QUOTE=Adventurer5]X Man, there's no reason to take my comment to heart so much. My point was that paid sex with prostitutes is the the least desirable kind of sex. Would you not prefer sex with a girl with a pronounced sexual and romantic interest in you to sex with a prostitute who feels no attraction towards you at all? What would most men prefer?

By 'real' relationship I mean a relationship with an element of love, even if the relationship is partly based on financial concerns on the part of the girl. I know that such relationships are possible with bar girls, but, they are generally not the best girls to have such a relationship with.[/QUOTE]

Thanks Billpsu for a wonderfully vivid and humorous post. Some guys get it and some don't. Love and sex are two different things despite the efforts of women (and religious folk) to convince us that they should always go together.

But, Billpsu, only "on occasion"? I actually had the pleasure of finding three wildcats on my most recent 20 day trip. Yes, this trip was good...very good.

Cebu wildcat attached. This is a girl who make you wonder which will fail first: your heart, your other organ, or the Cialis.

X Man

[QUOTE=Billpsu]Your comment "paid sex with prostitutes is the the least desirable kind of sex" has me aghast.

I have been fortunate enought in my life to, granted on occasion, find some gals who are stunning, friendly, funny, smart, and actually like their job. This has resulted in the wildest fun sex I have ever had.

When her knees are up around her ears - like a bunny rabbit - and she is slappy the back of your ass screaming for more, I just don see the "I love you honey" coming into play.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=X Man]This is a girl who make you wonder which will fail first: your heart, your other organ, or the Cialis.
[/QUOTE]
Man, how do you manage to find these kind of girls??

At the end of my trip I was even happy with 'average sex'. Some of the chicks didn't know how to give bj, some didn't know how to ride...
Sure, the GFE can be nice, but I don't want to play a teacher, I just want to have great and long sex.

I got lucky. This girl was new in the Mango area bars. Maybe she was excited about her new job, or maybe hadn't serviced many white guys. She gave her all.

Ha, ha, "new" sounds appealing doesn't it? I found out later she'd been servicing Filipino guys at a Mactan KTV before she started her new job.

What freaked me out is she grabbed my crank and was pushing it into herself. She wasn't yet wet enough and I there was a lot of resistance. If I had been the one pushing I would have backed out and played a little so that she'd moisten up, or maybe put a little spit on my pecker for lubrication. But she kept pushing until she got it in.

After about the 3rd or 4th round I asked her why she was so sweet to me. Her relply, "because I don't have a boyfriend."

X Man

[QUOTE=Senser]Man, how do you manage to find these kind of girls??

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