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Hello All,

I promised a day-by-day account of my cebu trip June 1st through july 15th and did report days 1 through 9 but then I posted no more. Sorry for breaking that promise but the last 30 days of my trip were spent in a situation in which I never was able to really focus on this web site and make my reports. As soon as I arrived back in the usa I packed my house and moved to another state and then have been setting up a new life till now. I'm now settled in my new home and shall finish this report. I'm sure that no one was holding their breath waiting for the conclusion but I said I'd report, so I shall finish it. I'll keep it short and sweet.

I met my "nice girl" from Leyte in Cebu and had a great make out session with her, got her shirt off and finally a hand job. She is a very clever lass. She is not taking any chances with her virginity with the likes of me until there is a ring involved. We saw each other every sunday until I left Cebu, mostly at restaurants and very little fooling around. This is the risk of chasing "nice girls" in the Philippines. Time can be invested with little return, but I am not complaining cause how can having a girl with model looks in my bed with her shirt off getting a and job be constued as "bad". Its just that I'll have to at least propose marriage to get more and I'm not willing to do that to her. I'll lie to get pussy, but I have a line I wont cross. Telling her I'll marry her and give a ring just to get fucked is just not my style any more. There is just ttoo much other pussy available and I'm not a cruel person.

I spent the next three weeks seeing 2 of the 500 peso pros that a friend turned me onto. They were both very pretty and would do everything I asked of them without hesitation except CIM which was disappointing but I survived.

Also during those 3 weeks I got a call from a girl who got my number from the memory on her cell phone. Apparently one of my little pros borrowed her phone to call me, thus leaving my number in her cell phone. She flirted with me so I got interested and asked to see some pictures on friendster and she gave me the info to see her account. She was 28 and had a kid but she was pretty so I told her to come by my place. She sat down at the table and me at the bed and the tv was on. She asked me if we were going to drink 1st. I thought this a strange idea. If she wanted to go out clubbing she should have said something before hand. She also asked me for cigarettes which I did not have. I gave her 100 peso and told her to go next store to the sari-sari and get her smokes and a beer. She returned 5 minutes later and drank 1/2 a beer and smoked a few cigarettes. It seems like she was stalling which led me to believe she was one of the millions of filipinas who had a kid and now needed to make money with the only asset they have, their ass. Fine with me, drink the beers to get your courage up and get your ass over here. But she finally came and joined me after just a 1/2 beer and we started slowly with some kissing. Her hand started to wander toward my crotch after a while and she asked me if she could touch my dick. Weird question. But i'm not shy so I had my pants off in an instant and she started stroking me while we kissed. Then she announces that she won't go all the way with me and that she has to leave. Wow. I told her that she got me really worked up, at least give me a release. She got on her knees between my leags and proceeded to give me the best blow job I ever had. At least tied for 1st place with the best bj's I ever had. Slow rhythm and steady and tongue action that was perfect. Incredible. I gave her 500 pesos and she left. I got a text the next day from her saying that she could not see me any more until she "solved" her problem". What problem? She needs 2500 pesos to pay her rent. What a shame. I told her thanks but no thanks and put into the category of "devious". By the way, I have no problem giving a girl 2500 for good service but her style turned me off. When I return to Cebu in January, I will see her again and pay her the 2500 that she insists on cause I that bj was that good. But I'll tell her she needs to stay all night to get that money. Knowing her, she will refuse and insist on short time.

After Cebu, I traveled to Subic and Makati. I saw a couple of girls with nothing interesting to report. These were not pros, but who have no problem sleeping with a foreigner who can take them out to a nice restaurant and give them a gift of soap or perfume etc. Both girls were not that pretty but sweet and very ordinary. These girls are very plentiful in the Phils. If you want to go to Cherry Blossoms or Friendster and can accept average looking girls, then you can fuck a lot of them for free or the cost of dinner.

My last 4 days were spent with a pretty little thing who I met online 3 months before my arrival. She made me very happy for my final days. She fucked and sucked like a pro but there was no attitude and actions of a pro. She was very satisfied with the chocolates and t-shirts and lotions/soap I gave her.

So, the final verdict is that trying to get "nice girls" to act like hookers in bed can be good or bad. Its fun and exciting to see how far I can get, but its a lot of work. I am actually leaning toward sticking with the pros. They are less work. The motive for being with me is money and its clear from the start. There's no pretending. Nobody knows what is really in the mind of a "good girl", which makes me have to think too much.

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OK, I've done a lot of "shares" in here, and now I have a burning question. beware it's also posted in the "general" Phils section.

I know this kind of question has been asked in one form or another, but i just feel STUCK and in disbelief that the answer has to be so difficult.

I want to find a girlfriend from Cebu to visit me on a tourist visa. In fact, I may want a second to come along as well.

I usually wind up "dating" bar girls so that I don't have to pay their bar fine.

Lets say a girl worked in a bar and is doing nothing now after quiting (I know....be cynical...ok, she's fucking guys right and left and is for sure a no good lieing ***** that is taking advantage of me (-: )

The fact that she can show no consecutive employment is a strike against her getting a visa. Even if she were working in a bar for 12 straight months, would that help? If she could put on the application she worked at "Papion" and say it is a "restaurant"?

Then she has to have a ton of money in her bank account to get this visa. No, I don't trust her with 1000s, so I don't want to give her access to 1000s of USD in an acct. I could go to Cebu and fly with her or we could fly seperate.

Then....she can stay for, what 60 days MAX with all extensions? 60 is enough, but AT WHAT COST?

Bottom line is I read that one should just FORGET bringing a girl over on a tourist visa from the Philippines. Could it really be that bad?

I own a "LLC" company in the US. Would it be a better route to try to apply for the most limited work visa possible? This company has no employees in usa, just me, and her skills? ....well they are indeed very SPECIALIZED and DIFFICULT TO FIND in the US, but not quite what us imigration has in mind i think.

How the hell do I get her over here? I was looking at these "sugar daddy" websites and all these girls want $5000 to spend a couple days a week with you and also expect to be showered with gifts. I want a live in situation like I can have in the Phils! In a world of outsourcing this should be possible!

I'm relatively young and get girls in the US, but nothing can compare to a Asian live-in girlfriend who is willing to give you a lot of freedom if you are generous to her (RE: more about sex and money then a "real" serious relationship)

Thanks.

Wander Luster, you posted the same thing word for word on the Thailand Forum and elsewhere on the Philippines threads. Are you a masochist?

[QUOTE=David_33]Wander Luster, you posted the same thing word for word on the Thailand Forum and elsewhere on the Philippines threads. Are you a masochist?[/QUOTE]


David,

sorry 'bout that. This was a question that could have gone in any of the 3. I changed each to match the Forum....the Thailand post was very far from word for word. Agreed, though, not the best practice, but when a question must go in front of more eyes, most of whom don't read different forums, this is the only way to go. I figure I've contributed a shit load over the past decade to this and the the World S... G.... that I can be cut a little slack.

Your point is taken...will try to be sure to always warn if something is a cross-post (think i did in at least a couple of these that were put on 3 forums, but not same word for word)

[QUOTE=Wander Luster]OK, I've done a lot of "shares" in here, and now I have a burning question. beware it's also posted in the "general" Phils section.

I know this kind of question has been asked in one form or another, but i just feel STUCK and in disbelief that the answer has to be so difficult.

I want to find a girlfriend from Cebu to visit me on a tourist visa. In fact, I may want a second to come along as well.

I usually wind up "dating" bar girls so that I don't have to pay their bar fine.

Lets say a girl worked in a bar and is doing nothing now after quiting (I know....be cynical...ok, she's fucking guys right and left and is for sure a no good lieing ***** that is taking advantage of me (-: )

The fact that she can show no consecutive employment is a strike against her getting a visa. Even if she were working in a bar for 12 straight months, would that help? If she could put on the application she worked at "Papion" and say it is a "restaurant"?

Then she has to have a ton of money in her bank account to get this visa. No, I don't trust her with 1000s, so I don't want to give her access to 1000s of USD in an acct. I could go to Cebu and fly with her or we could fly seperate.

Then....she can stay for, what 60 days MAX with all extensions? 60 is enough, but AT WHAT COST?

Bottom line is I read that one should just FORGET bringing a girl over on a tourist visa from the Philippines. Could it really be that bad?

I own a "LLC" company in the US. Would it be a better route to try to apply for the most limited work visa possible? This company has no employees in usa, just me, and her skills? ....well they are indeed very SPECIALIZED and DIFFICULT TO FIND in the US, but not quite what us imigration has in mind i think.

How the hell do I get her over here? I was looking at these "sugar daddy" websites and all these girls want $5000 to spend a couple days a week with you and also expect to be showered with gifts. I want a live in situation like I can have in the Phils! In a world of outsourcing this should be possible!

I'm relatively young and get girls in the US, but nothing can compare to a Asian live-in girlfriend who is willing to give you a lot of freedom if you are generous to her (RE: more about sex and money then a "real" serious relationship)

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Sorry but you do not have a "snowballs chance in hell" for getting the girl into the US on a vistors visa. Also, the money you are talking about has to in an Philippine bank account for at least 6 months prior to the application. The only chance you have is to try a fiance visa or marry her first then apply.

[QUOTE=Emale]Sorry but you do not have a "snowballs chance in hell" for getting the girl into the US on a vistors visa. Also, the money you are talking about has to in an Philippine bank account for at least 6 months prior to the application. The only chance you have is to try a fiance visa or marry her first then apply.[/QUOTE]

Yea, I think that is pretty clear now. Hope others that had similar ideas can learn from these posts...not do-able.

Hi,

Apologies for the newby-type question, I am more familiar with the Indonesia and Singapore circuits, so I will be glad to help anyone with that.

I am looking at spending a few days in Cebu. I want to find a hotel if possible by a nice beach (or very close to)so I can enjoy the beach during the day -- and bitches close by during the night. Where do you guys recommend I stay?

I have stayed at Shangri La Mactan before but way above my budget.

I appreciate pointers, thank you in advance.

[QUOTE=Mandiri]I am looking at spending a few days in Cebu. I want to find a hotel if possible by a nice beach (or very close to)so I can enjoy the beach during the day -- and bitches close by during the night. Where do you guys recommend I stay?[/QUOTE]
Hello Mandiri,

Unfortunately, all of the so called "Beach Hotels" are located far from the action. Your looking at up to a 30 minute ride to the clubs in Lapu-Lapu City and up to an hour commute to the midtown area of Cebu City. What you might want to do is find a girl first and then bring her back to the resort for a day or two. Maybe try Tambuli Beach Club West (cheap) or TBC East (cheapest). Either way the beaches on Mactan island are average at best.

Have a good trip!

Mattrick has already given you the bad news. Puerto Galera and Subic Bay are the only places I know where there is ample p4p near the beach.

On Mactan, the Mermaid bar had some really hot p4p, but the prices were high. Has anyone been to King Kong KTV in Lapu Lapu?

Another option is find a lady and then take the Ocean Jet ferry to Panglao/Bohol. There is a beautiful beach there.
[url]http://www.oceanjet.net/[/url]

X Man


[QUOTE=Mandiri]Hi,

Apologies for the newby-type question, I am more familiar with the Indonesia and Singapore circuits, so I will be glad to help anyone with that.

I am looking at spending a few days in Cebu. I want to find a hotel if possible by a nice beach (or very close to)so I can enjoy the beach during the day -- and bitches close by during the night. Where do you guys recommend I stay?

I have stayed at Shangri La Mactan before but way above my budget.

I appreciate pointers, thank you in advance.[/QUOTE]

Thank you guys for the pointers about Cebu beach-bitches packaged deal, I appreciate it. I will report back after I come back from my trip.

Cheers

A tourist visa is basically impossible in the situation you described. However, a Business visa is much more possible, however, the duration of stay will probably be rather limited. (It depends on the purpose of the visit--usually they are approved for the purpose of attending a convention, meeting with suppliers, etc.) So, if your purpose is a live-in partner this might not work. Of course, she can always overstay or enroll in classes and attempt a student visa.

Not sure if that helps any.

[QUOTE=Emale]Sorry but you do not have a "snowballs chance in hell" for getting the girl into the US on a vistors visa. Also, the money you are talking about has to in an Philippine bank account for at least 6 months prior to the application. The only chance you have is to try a fiance visa or marry her first then apply.[/QUOTE]

Hi,
I am continuing to do my research ahead of my few days' trip to Cebu. Where are the good places to meet regular girls (not P4P chicks) during the day time --during night time, this is already well documented in this section.
I am keen on hooking up with a chick I like and spending time with her banging her, visiting places etc if the chemistry is right.
Keen to hear your views as to the best places to meet girls during the day -- I am certainly no mall hunter expert though.

Many thanks in advance,

One idea is to make some introductions online and then meet them upon arrival. Cherry Blossom, Filipina Heart seem to be the most popular. There is a thread here for more specific info about that.

Other than that, if you have a cell phone, make up some cards, give them to ladies. I remember one guy put his number on peso notes, but I thought that was a bit tacky. Sales staff at the malls might be one target, but the opportunities are only limited by your imagination -- and the fact that you have only a "few days".

X Man

[QUOTE=Mandiri]Hi,
I am continuing to do my research ahead of my few days' trip to Cebu. Where are the good places to meet regular girls (not P4P chicks) during the day time --during night time, this is already well documented in this section.
I am keen on hooking up with a chick I like and spending time with her banging her, visiting places etc if the chemistry is right.
Keen to hear your views as to the best places to meet girls during the day -- I am certainly no mall hunter expert though.

Many thanks in advance,[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=X Man]One idea is to make some introductions online and then meet them upon arrival. Cherry Blossom, Filipina Heart seem to be the most popular. There is a thread here for more specific info about that.

Other than that, if you have a cell phone, make up some cards, give them to ladies. I remember one guy put his number on peso notes, but I thought that was a bit tacky. Sales staff at the malls might be one target, but the opportunities are only limited by your imagination -- and the fact that you have only a "few days".

X Man[/QUOTE]
Thanks for the pointers. I am doing your proposed approached using the Date In Asia dating site. My concern with this approach is that I end up meeting up a gal met on-line and I don't like her (because I have not met her face to face before... I guess I can always find an excuse to "dump" her...

It sounds like shopping malls are the best place to hunt during the day in Cebu...I am not really comfy with mall hunting, I guess I will have to step up to the place ...

Will certainly report back after my trip.

i remember i missed an oportunity in manila once when at robinsons ermita buying some briefs and the sales girl went gaga over me. shud of arranged a date then and there.